In this episode, I speak with George van Houtem, a negotiation expert and author of multiple books, including The Dirty Tricks of Negotiation and The Psychology of Negotiation. In our conversation, we explore the art of negotiation, discussing practical techniques, their effects on people, and how to recognize and handle manipulative tactics (or “dirty tricks”) effectively. George reveals why successful negotiation is not simply about compromise but about genuinely understanding the other party’s motivations, collaborating with them, and working towards deals that work for everyone. By listening to this episode, you’ll gain practical insights to enhance your own negotiation skills, so that you can work towards creating true win-win outcomes. Thank you for listening.   EPISODE LINKS: Buy The Dirty Tricks of Negotiating Buy The Psychology of Negotiation   By using these links, we earn commission from qualifying purchases.   SHOW LINKS: Support the Show   Watch on YouTube Listen on Apple Podcast Listen on Spotify   Follow on X Follow on Instagram Follow on LinkedIn   GEORGE VAN HOUTEM LINKS: George van Houtem on LinkedIn   OUTLINE: 00:00 Introduction 02:28 Why Should People Learn To Negotiate? 03:22 When is Something a Negotiation? 07:28 Techniques To Understand The Other Party 10:52 Common Misconceptions About Negotiation 13:26 Compromise vs. Collaboration 16:23 Navigating Conflict in Negotiations 19:05 Handling Stubborn Negotiators & Power Dynamics 23:42 Knowing When to Walk Away 25:32 When Does a Negotiation Actually Start? 29:30 How Can Silence Be Deployed? 32:13 Avoiding the Trap of Too Much Talking 36:04 Ethical Lines: Real Negotiation vs. Dirty Tricks 38:52 Recognizing Manipulation 40:12 Closing Thoughts & Outro   CONTACT LINKS: Click here to come on the podcast, share feedback, ask a question, or reach out for any other reason.