“But what about socialization?”
If you’ve ever mentioned homeschooling to someone, you’ve probably been hit with this question before — and maybe even found yourself wondering the same.
In today’s episode, we’re unpacking the real story behind socialization:
• Why the school system isn’t the gold standard for social growth
• How homeschoolers actually thrive socially in real-world environments
• And what you can do to raise confident, emotionally intelligent kids — without sending them to school
Mama, you can homeschool without sacrificing your child’s social development. In fact, with the right mindset and intentional parenting, you can do even better.
If today’s episode gave you clarity and confidence — and you want support to homeschool your little ones in a way that nurtures both their Deen and dunya…
👉🏽 Explore my mentorship programs where I help Muslim moms like you parent with purpose, teach Islam at home, and raise thriving children in a calm, connected home.
Let’s raise a generation of resilient, heart-centered Muslims — starting at home.
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Welcome to Jannah Beneath Her Feet — a podcast for Muslim mothers who want to lay strong foundations of Islamic tarbiyah for their young children, right from the start. Hosted by Sana, this space is dedicated to supporting you through the ups and downs of motherhood with heart-centered conversations and real tools.
In this episode, Sana is joined by Marwa Abdussalam — a psychologist, parenting coach, and toddler mom — who has walked the same path many mothers are on. Known for her expertise in taming tantrums and emotional development, Marwa opens up about her personal journey through toddlerhood, the struggles she faced, and the strategies that helped her stay grounded and connected.
From understanding the “why” behind tantrums to building consistent routines and prioritizing self-care, this conversation is full of insights to help you navigate the toddler years with more calm and confidence.
Connect with Marwa:
📲 Instagram: [@marwa_parentingcoach]
📞 WhatsApp: [+91 9633424150]
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🎙️ Episode 34: Discipline Doesn’t Mean Punishment — Let’s Relearn It Through the Prophetic Lens
Do you flinch when you hear the word “discipline”?
You’re not alone. Many of us grew up with fear-based discipline — yelling, threats, punishments — all in the name of “teaching us a lesson.”
So it’s no surprise that the word discipline feels heavy… even shameful.
But what if I told you that real discipline in Islam isn’t about punishments at all?
🌿 In this episode, we dive deep into the true, Prophetic meaning of discipline — through one of the most powerful stories in the Seerah: when a Bedouin urinated in the masjid of the Prophet ﷺ.
Instead of reacting with anger or shame, the Prophet ﷺ modeled something radically different.
And through that story, we explore:
- Why most of us parent on autopilot from fear, not faith.
- The difference between punishment and problem-solving.
- How to gently lead your child through defiance and big emotions.
- What your child is really learning from your response — beyond words.
💡 Whether your child talks back, ignores you, or keeps repeating the same mistake — this episode will help you reframe those moments through the lens of mercy and learning, not control.
✨ Ready to Parent with Prophetic Wisdom?
If today’s message hit home — and you’re ready to stop reacting from anger and start responding from love and clarity — I invite you into my private mentorship.
This is for the mother who is:
- Tired of guilt and yelling
- Longing for connection and calm
- Ready to raise her children and herself with ihsaan
This is not a parenting course. It’s a sacred, 1:1 transformational space where we unpack your triggers, rebuild your tools, and root your parenting in love, mercy, and tarbiyah.
📩 DM me on Instagram [@toddlertarbiyah] or apply from the link above to explore if it’s the right fit for you.
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It feels so good to be back behind the mic! After a whirlwind of Eid, moving homes, and adjusting to the Saudi summer rhythm (where bedtime is closer to midnight!), I’m finally back—and today’s episode is a deep one.
In this episode, we’re talking about something that has the power to change how you see every parenting challenge:
👉🏽 The Inner Child.
-What the inner child really is (and how she shows up in motherhood)?
-How past wounds can hijack your present-day parenting?
-Why you yell, threaten, or shut down even when you know better?
-How to break the autopilot loop and parent with awareness instead of reactivity?
💡 I’ll walk you through a powerful story that so many mothers relate to—and give you the very first step to shifting from triggered reactions to intentional, conscious parenting.
Because here's the truth:
You’re not failing.
You’re healing.
And healing is where true Tarbiyah begins.
✨ Ready to go deeper?
If this episode hit home—and you’re ready to finally understand and transform your parenting triggers—then my private mentorship is for you.
It’s a 1:1 sacred container for Muslim mothers who want to:
- Heal their inner child
- Break generational patterns
- Discipline with compassion
- Parent in alignment with Prophetic wisdom and psychology
🎯 This is a 4-figure investment. It’s deep work. But if you’re ready… I’ll walk with you every step of the way.
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In this episode, we dive deep into the struggle of balancing work, homeschooling, and home responsibilities—while feeling mentally absent from our children's lives. As moms, we often juggle multiple roles, but how can we truly be present with our kids, even amidst the never-ending to-do lists?
I share how I started working from home to be more present with my children, only to find myself physically there but emotionally and mentally distracted. Learn how to shift from feeling overwhelmed and disconnected to feeling truly fulfilled in both your work and your motherhood.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
☘️The importance of communicating your work and intentions with your children.
☘️How to allocate quality time each day with your kids to strengthen your bond.
☘️Why quality time matters more than quantity when connecting with your children.
☘️A sneak peek into how I incorporate Game Schooling Thursdays to blend play and learning.
If you’re a mom balancing home and business and looking for ways to homeschool while nurturing deep connection with your children, this episode is for you!
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Do you need certifications to become a coach? How did I transition from engineering to Islamic parenting mentorship? What did I study? I get these questions all the time in my DMs, so in this episode, I’m sitting down with a cup of tea to chat about my journey!
I’m sharing not just how I became a coach but why—because that’s the heart of my story.
In This Episode, You’ll Hear:
✨My background in engineering and why I chose to be a homemaker
✨How my journey into motherhood led me to Islamic parenting education
✨The struggles that pushed me to keep learning—meltdowns, sibling conflict, and time management
✨How I started coaching moms (without certifications!) and built Holistic Tarbiyah Academy (HTA)
✨The reality of starting a coaching business—no “quick money,” but deep fulfillment
✨Why passion and commitment to serving the Ummah matter more than credentials
Coaching has been a journey of learning, serving, and growing, and after 3+ years, HTA continues to fill up every batch, Alhamdulillah!
But balancing a coaching business and motherhood isn’t always easy. If you’re a mom building a business while raising young kids and want to thrive in both, my private mentorship Lead with Love is for you.
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Let’s connect again next Friday, InshaAllah! 💛
As parents, we encourage our children to make dua when they wish for something. But what happens when their heartfelt prayers aren’t answered right away? How do we nurture their faith and help them understand that Allah’s timing is always perfect?
In today’s storytime episode, we’ll dive into a heartwarming tale that teaches patience, trust, and the beauty of dua.
Tune in for an engaging and faith-filled discussion that will leave both you and your children inspired! 🌟🎙️
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How often do we put our dreams and well-being on hold, thinking we’ll have time “later”?
In this episode, we dive into the sacrifice mindset that keeps us waiting for the perfect moment. Let’s shift our perspective and explore how to make space for personal growth and self-care, even in the midst of life’s busyness. It’s time to prioritize yourself, starting now, InshaAllah!
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In today’s world, many mothers are raising their children far from the support of extended family. With the “village” we once relied on becoming a distant memory, are we unintentionally making our parenting journey harder by clinging to traditional practices that no longer serve us?
In this episode, we’ll explore how to let go of outdated parenting patterns, embrace modern approaches, and create rules that make life easier for us as mothers.
Join me as we navigate the challenges of motherhood in today’s fast-paced world and discover ways to parent with more ease, confidence, and joy.
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Salaams! Welcome to another episode of Jannah beneath Her feet.
Today it’s gonna be chill-chat between two mom friends on nurturing a healthy marriage whilst homeschooling little kids.
Grab your chai/coffee, get comfortable, cuz it’s gonna be a long one!
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Are you caught in the cycle of homeschool consumerism—buying every shiny resource you find and justifying it because it’s for the kids? In this episode, we dive deep into the pitfalls of overbuying homeschool materials and how it can lead to more overwhelm than solutions.
Learn how to break free from this trap with three simple steps:
✔️ Create a home-education plan that aligns with your goals for each child
✔️ Set a realistic homeschool budget to avoid unnecessary spending
✔️ Understand your child’s unique learning style to choose resources wisely
Plus, we explore an Islamic perspective on intentional spending and how modeling balanced habits can shape our children’s values for life. Homeschooling is about so much more than academics—it’s about being intentional in how we teach and live.
🎙 Ready to homeschool smarter, not harder? Tune in now and let’s simplify this journey together, InshaAllah!
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Ever feel like your kids have a built-in "do the opposite" button? You’re not alone!
In this episode, we dive into the all-too-relatable parenting struggle of saying "Don’t touch that!" only to watch your little one immediately do it. I’ve been there, on repeat, until I discovered a simple, game-changing strategy that transformed my approach. If you’re ready to learn more strategies like this, check out my 6-month Holistic Tarbiyah Academy, now open for enrollment.
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In this episode, we dive into the all-too-familiar burnout that comes from giving everything to our families. Drawing on Islamic teachings, we’ll explore why caring for yourself isn’t selfish—it’s necessary for balance.
Discover simple self-care tips and hear the inspiring story of a mom who transformed her life and parenting by prioritizing herself alongside her family. Let’s reflect and grow together.
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In this heartfelt episode, I share our family’s recent move from Singapore to Saudi Arabia and the lessons it brought on detachment, trust in Allah, and embracing life’s transitions. From the chaos of relocating with three kids to finding peace in the reminder that this world is not our forever home, we reflect on the Prophet’s (SAW) words: "Be in this world as though you were a stranger or traveller."
Tune in for insights on navigating change, giving yourself grace during tough times, and trusting Allah’s perfect plan. Don’t forget to leave a review and share your thoughts—I'd love to hear how this resonates with you!
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In this episode, we explore the dynamics of sibling rivalry and how to transform it into a strong, loving bond. We share the inspiring story of Aysha, a working mom who turned constant sibling bickering into a peaceful and nurturing relationship through intentional parenting and strategies from Holistic Tarbiyah Academy. Learn how changes in mindset, consistent responses, and mindful communication can make a difference in handling sibling conflicts. Tune in for practical tips and insights to foster empathy, understanding, and cooperation among your children.
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In this episode, we dive into the growing concern of TV time addiction and how the effects of video games and cartoons are shockingly similar to those of addictive substances on the brain. We’ll explore why screens are so addictive, how they impact children’s development and emotional well-being, and most importantly, actionable steps to help your kids break free from screen addiction. Tune in for tips on setting boundaries, choosing better content, and encouraging independent play. If you're ready to reclaim your child’s childhood, this episode is for you!
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In today’s episode, we’re talking about the effects of fear-based discipline and how it impacts our children’s emotional well-being and attachment to us. While fear may get immediate results, is it worth it in the long run? We’ll explore the importance of disciplining with love and compassion, inspired by the example of our Prophet Muhammad (SAW).
Plus, learn how to reset parenting habits rooted in harshness and adopt an approach that nurtures connection and respect. Tune in for practical advice and timeless wisdom from Islamic Tarbiyah.
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Ever had one of those mornings where everything feels off before the day even starts?
In today’s episode, I’m sharing how to reset after a sleepless night with your little one, missing Fajr, and waking up overwhelmed with tasks. Join me as I break down practical steps to reclaim your day with grace, prayer, and simple planning. You’ve got this, mama! Tune in for some encouragement and tips to move forward even when it feels like the day is slipping away.
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We are often told to Connect more than correcting our children. We also know that correcting our children for every other act of theirs can affect their confidence and also how comfortable they feel in our presence. But of course, there are situations where we need to correct and teach our children the right Adab and Akhlaaq. It’s a quintessential aspect of Tarbiyah. In today’s episode, we’re diving into a powerful lesson from the life of our beloved Prophet Muhammad (SAW) on how to correct mistakes with wisdom and compassion.
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When I started this coaching business, I had already learnt to tame my triggers and parent with patience. But, as my social media following increased and more clients came into my programs, as my business flourished by the grace of Allah, I began to become more stressed and impatient with my children
Clearly….. THIS wasnt right! While I was preaching about kindness and mercy in our dealings with our children, why was I not able to fully practice it with my own children at home.?
A vulnerable discussion for today, but a much needed one!
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