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In/Fertility In The City
Infertility In The City
53 episodes
16 hours ago
In/Fertility in the City is a podcast dedicated to exploring the complex relationship between in/fertility and work and how to manage this effectively.

It is hosted by Natalie Sutherland and Somaya Ouazzani (and Emma Menzies for Seasons 1-3), who have had to navigate their own fertility challenges alongside professional life, and are united in their passion for ensuring that better quality information and support is made available to others doing the same.

Together they interview incredible guests, from a variety of industries, who generously share powerful stories and valuable insights into in/fertility at work issues.

Their moving and thought-provoking discussions are intended to break the silence around this taboo topic, and inspire new attitudes and behaviours that will improve and normalise the management of fertility challenges in professional contexts.

If you’re a professional managing in/fertility, baby loss, fertility treatment or other paths to parenthood, or you have an interest in understanding and supporting those who are, then this is a ‘must listen’ for you.

TRIGGER WARNING: This podcast deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

You can also engage with your hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:



  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on LinkedIn ( www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity ), Instagram ( https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity ), or X ( https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity ).


Music created by Jon Nicoll.
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In/Fertility in the City is a podcast dedicated to exploring the complex relationship between in/fertility and work and how to manage this effectively.

It is hosted by Natalie Sutherland and Somaya Ouazzani (and Emma Menzies for Seasons 1-3), who have had to navigate their own fertility challenges alongside professional life, and are united in their passion for ensuring that better quality information and support is made available to others doing the same.

Together they interview incredible guests, from a variety of industries, who generously share powerful stories and valuable insights into in/fertility at work issues.

Their moving and thought-provoking discussions are intended to break the silence around this taboo topic, and inspire new attitudes and behaviours that will improve and normalise the management of fertility challenges in professional contexts.

If you’re a professional managing in/fertility, baby loss, fertility treatment or other paths to parenthood, or you have an interest in understanding and supporting those who are, then this is a ‘must listen’ for you.

TRIGGER WARNING: This podcast deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

You can also engage with your hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:



  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on LinkedIn ( www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity ), Instagram ( https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity ), or X ( https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity ).


Music created by Jon Nicoll.
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Episodes (20/53)
In/Fertility In The City
Trauma, Support and the Stories We Tell — with Dr Ippokratis Sarris
To open Season 6, Natalie and Somaya sit down with Dr Ippokratis Sarris - to explore one of the most complex questions in fertility: How does a high-pressure professional life intersect with treatment outcomes and emotional wellbeing?

Together, they unpack: 🔹 High-Pressure Careers & Fertility
  • Whether demanding jobs really impact IVF success.
  • How partner schedules and “just one day” can sometimes matter medically.
  • The shift since COVID: remote work reducing secrecy, stress, and logistical chaos.
🔹 Personality, Pace & Priorities
  • Why some people work through infusions or scans — and when it’s personality, not necessity.
  • Why “try to relax” is unhelpful and unsupported by data.
  • The importance of fitting life around fertility, not forcing treatment into burnout-level schedules.
🔹 The Emotional Toll — on Patients and Clinicians Dr Sarris shares the cases that stay with him:
  • The “1 in 300” miracle cycles.
  • The heartbreak of late losses after everything seemed perfect.
  • Why clinicians, despite training, feel deeply — and why language matters more than many realise.
🔹 “Unexplained Infertility” — A Term Dr SarrisHe “hHates”
  • Why there is always a reason, even if medicine can’t identify it yet.
  • The emerging science of single-gene variants, early embryonic loss and egg/sperm interactions.
  • Why most fertility medicine remains surprisingly crude compared to the biological complexity it tries to treat.
🔹 Statistics, Probabilities & the Danger of Language
  • Why 5% sounds hopeless but “1 in 20” feels achievable.
  • Why percentages work for populations, not individuals.
  • How careless language (“aim for mediocrity”) can stay with patients for years.
  • Why his approach is: give honest numbers, never dismiss hope, support the patient’s decision 100%.
🔹 Social Media & Fertility Misinformation Dr Sarris discusses his research analysing 939 fertility posts during Infertility Awareness Week:
  • Only 2 posts met criteria for accuracy, credibility and readability.
  • Why social platforms drown out trusted medical sources.
  • How influencer culture affects patient expectations — and sometimes treatment decisions.
  • Why he now spends more time debunking advice than giving it.
🧬 NEW: Fertility Fun Fact of the Day In this episode’s fun fact:
  • Your DNA would stretch 74 billion kilometres if unwound.
  • You share 60% of your DNA with bananas.
    Biology is wild — and sometimes hilarious.

About King’s Fertility (Sponsor) One of London’s most respected IVF clinics, working with King’s College Hospital and King’s College London. King’s Fertility offers NHS and private patients world-leading research, advanced treatment, and compassionate care.

Learn more at kingsfertility.co.uk You can access the research article #Misinformation: The perils of using social media for medical advice regarding infertility https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/epdf/10.1080/14647273.2025.2506787?needAccess=true  
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17 hours ago
51 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
The Lister Fertility Clinic: What's Behind Almost 40 Years of Success?
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this enlightening episode of In/Fertility in the City, we sit down with James Nicopoullos, Clinical Director at the Lister Fertility Clinic, and Fran Garrigan, Fertility Matron, to discuss the intricacies of fertility treatment. Discover the history and ethos of the Lister Fertility Clinic, renowned for its transparency and patient-centred approach.

Explore the challenges and triumphs of fertility treatment, the importance of mental health, and the groundbreaking advancements in reproductive medicine, including the UK's first womb transplant. Whether you're a busy professional or someone navigating the complex world of fertility, this episode is packed with insights and support. Join us as we delve into the world of fertility with two leading experts.  

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GUEST INFORMATION

James Nicopoullos, Medical Director, Lister Fertility Clinic As Medical Director at Lister Fertility Clinic:

James Nicopoullos, has spent years guiding individuals and couples through what can often feel like a complex and emotional process, with warmth and compassion. Beyond his medical expertise, James is known for leading his approachable and reassuring clinic in Chelsea, making sure each patient feels heard and understood.

At Lister Fertility Clinic, James and his team are dedicated to providing not just the highest quality of care, but also a safe space where patients feel empowered to make the right choices for their own journey. Whether you’re just beginning to explore fertility options or have faced challenges along the way, the team are there to walk alongside you with expert care, empathy, and support.      

Fran Garrigan, Fertility Matron at Lister Fertility Clinic:

Fran joined Lister Fertility Clinic in 2010 as a Staff Nurse, quickly discovering a passion for the field that has shaped her career ever since. Now the Matron of the clinic, she leads a team of 35, managing care for over 3,000 IVF cycles each year. Known for her compassion and dedication, Fran takes pride in supporting patients through the highs and lows of their fertility journeys, ensuring they feel cared for every step of the way.

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CONNECT WITH US You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website

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11 months ago
40 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Navigating a Molar Pregnancy
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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Our guest this time is Bethan Carr, a senior associate solicitor, who bravely shares her personal journey through a molar pregnancy. Despite her professional knowledge in family law and surrogacy, Bethan was unprepared for the emotional and physical challenges of this rare condition.

Join us as she recounts the shock of her diagnosis, the arduous process of medical management, and the road to recovery, offering invaluable insights and support to others facing similar struggles. 

This episode is a testament to resilience, the importance of supportive workplaces, and the complexities of navigating infertility.

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GUEST INFORMATION 

Bethan Carr is a Senior Associate in the Family Law department at Penningtons Manches Cooper. She was listed as a Leading Associate in the the Legal 500 2025 and as an "Associate to Watch" in the Chambers and Partners 2025 rankings. 

Bethan advises on all areas of private family law, with a particular specialism in domestic and international surrogacy arrangements. She frequently advises intended parents on their legal status following a surrogacy journey and assists them with securing legal parenthood for their child. 

On her instagram account @thesurrogacysolicitor she posts about surrogacy and fertility law in an attempt to raise awareness and make information more accessible for intended parents and surrogates.



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CONNECT WITH US

You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website
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11 months ago
39 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
A Paediatrician's Perspective on Losing a Child in Pregnancy and Later Life
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss and of losing an older child.

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Joining us for this insightful and heartfelt episode is Dr. Kiran Rahim, a paediatrician and mother to three children (the eldest of whom tragically died earlier this year), shares her personal journey through motherhood and miscarriage with honesty and vulnerability. 

Dr. Rahim candidly discusses the devastating loss of her eldest child, the challenges of balancing a demanding medical career with family life, her experiences with infertility, and the societal pressures faced by women, particularly those from BAME.

We explore the impact of workplace culture on fertility and the importance of self-advocacy in the medical profession. Dr. Rahim's story is one of resilience, compassion and hope, offering valuable insights into the complexities of women's health, the hierarchy of grief, and the need for systemic change.

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GUEST INFORMATION

Dr Kiran Rahim is a NHS doctor specialising in baby child and adolescent health. She has worked across numerous London hospitals and uses her experience as a mother to three children to work in harmony with her patients and their families. Dr Kiran is a passion advocate for child health, health promotion in global majority communities and supporting women and girls in pursuing higher education and leadership roles.

Dr Kiran is also a keen humanitarian worker and is the co-medical director of the international children's charity, Children Not Numbers, a role she values greatly and relates to advocating for children and child health on a global scale.  Together we can improve the lives of children and women all over the world. We need only need try.

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CONNECT WITH US 

You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website
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11 months ago
59 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Fertility and the Immune System
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this episode we are joined by Dr. George Ndukwe, a leading IVF specialist with nearly four decades of experience. Dr. Ndukwe shares his insights on the complexities of recurrent IVF failure and the role of immune tolerance in successful pregnancies.

Dive into the discussion on the importance of embryo chromosomal normality, immune components, and the holistic approach to fertility treatments. Discover why early and comprehensive investigations are crucial and how stress management can significantly impact treatment outcomes.

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GUEST INFORMATION

Dr George Ndukwe is one of the most experienced IVF specialist in the UK with over 38 years’ experience. He was the Medical Director at NURTURE (Nottingham University IVF Clinic) from 1997-2000 and Medical Director at CARE (Centre for Assisted Reproduction) Nottingham from 2000 - 2011. He was the Founding Medical Director at the Zita West IVF clinic from 2011 – 2022 where he pioneered the holistic approach to IVF with excellent results.

His specialism is recurrent IVF failure/miscarriage and he has run one of the largest recurrent IVF failure programmes in Europe over the past 21 years. He has been involved and continues to be involved in several research efforts developing new immunological investigations and successful treatment modalities for recurrent IVF failure/miscarriage with international collaborators in the USA, especially Rosalind Franklin University of Medicine and Science Chicago.

He is a world acknowledged expert in Reproductive Immunology, and is a Fellow of the American Society for Reproductive Immunology (ASRI) and a member of its Clinical Immunology Board. He has delivered lectures all over the world on the investigation and treatment of recurrent IVF failure/miscarriage. He is currently the Associate Medical Director of the Harley Street Fertility Clinic, London.

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CONNECT WITH US 

You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website
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11 months ago
46 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Finding Peace at the End of an Unsuccessful IVF Journey
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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Join us for a heartfelt conversation with Sarah Elmer, a transformational life coach and yoga teacher, as she shares her personal journey with infertility and the impact of unsuccessful IVF treatments. Discover how Sarah found peace and purpose through her experiences and now supports others facing similar challenges. This episode delves into the emotional complexities of infertility and being childless not by choice and offers insights into healing and acceptance.  

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GUEST INFORMATION:

Sarah Elmer is a mentor, transformational life coach, and yoga teacher who is passionate about supporting those who have experienced infertility and unsuccessful IVF treatment.  

Sarah is the founder of Elm and Bloom, offering life coaching and support to those who have reached the end of their IVF and infertility journey, either without the success they were hoping for, or who feel they need help to process & recover from what can be a challenging experience.  

Having spent many years working in the heritage industry Sarah has found her experiences of infertility led her to explore new avenues in her life. A desire to provide the support that she felt was lacking when she experienced her infertility journey propelled Sarah forwards learning new skills to support her work.  She has carefully woven these to create services to help others move forwards beyond their infertility and to thrive in life.    

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CONNECT WITH US 

You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website

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12 months ago
33 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
What to Consider When Considering IVF Aboad
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this episode we welcome Emma Haslam, founder of Your IVF Abroad, the UK's only fully independent reproductive agency.

Emma shares her personal journey through infertility, leading to the creation of her agency, which has assisted hundreds of families in navigating fertility treatments across Europe.

Discover the challenges, emotional rollercoasters, and the hope that comes with exploring IVF options abroad.

Emma discusses the pros and cons of seeking treatment overseas, the financial implications, and the importance of making informed decisions.

Join us for an inspiring conversation filled with insights and practical advice for anyone considering fertility treatment. 

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GUEST INFORMATION

Emma Haslam is an advocate, speaker, campaigner, podcast host and writer for the infertility community. 

As the founder of Your IVF abroad, the only reproductive agency in the UK that is 100% independent and takes no commission from clinics, Emma is working hard to make access to fertility testing and treatment globally more inclusive, affordable, accessible, transparent and supported.

With clients globally from countries including UK, America and Canada, Emma has helped 100s of people around the world to navigate fertility treatment in Europe, make informed decisions that are right for them and to start and grow their families.

Emma's blog:yourivfabroad.co.uk/blog Podcast: yourivfabroad.co.uk/podcast
Website: yourivfabroad.co.uk
Connect with Emma on Instagram www.instagram.com/yourivfabroad
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/emma-haslam-560962252/ 

Free: Short guide to the process of having fertility treatment in Europe:  https://www.yourivfabroad.co.uk/step-by-step-guide-to-having-fertility-treatment-in-europe

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CONNECT WITH US You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website
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1 year ago
39 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Do HR Professionals Who Experience Their Own Fertility Struggles Know How to Help Others More?
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this compelling episode we’re joined by Shrara McCue from Chicago to explore her profound fertility journey. She shares her experiences navigating the challenges of hyperemesis gravidarum, early ovarian failure, and the emotional rollercoaster of IVF.

She also sheds light on the stark realities of fertility treatment and parental leave in the United States, especially from her perspective as a seasoned HR professional. Join us for an eye-opening discussion on the personal and professional impacts of infertility, the importance of empathy, and the pressing need for better support systems in the workplace.  

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GUEST INFORMATION:

Shrara McCue is a mother to 2 young boys and has been an HR professional for just over 18 years. She has operated at the Director level the last few years with a large team that she has managed while at the same time supporting the entire organisation and its executive team by acting as a thought partner to the C-Suite. Supporting senior leaders in national and global environments has been both a demanding and rewarding job.

After conceiving naturally early on in her marriage, Shrara suffered a non-viable pregnancy and went through pregnancy loss at 16 weeks. Shrara would later deal with secondary infertility and was diagnosed with early ovarian failure. While all of this was going on, she found herself immersing herself in her career as a way of dealing with her infertility issues. Perhaps the most challenging aspect of her role was meeting with employees who were welcoming babies. Shrara found this extremely difficult as she had to balance her emotional and personal situation while maintaining a professional demeanor in the workplace. Shrara decided to put some of that energy instead into advocating for enhanced coverage for infertility treatments to be covered by employers as part of insurance plans and increasing paid time off for new parents as part of paternal leave. Shrara was fortunately able to eventually conceive through IVF.  

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CONNECT WITH US 

You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website
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1 year ago
36 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
How Fertility-Specialist Psychotherapy Can Help With Your Fertility Journey
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this insightful episode we’re joined by Alejandra Lozada Andrade, a psychotherapist and the founder of Fertility Support, the UK's only psychotherapy practice focused exclusively on fertility and gynaecological issues.

Alejandra shares her journey in establishing this unique practice, the services offered, and the pressing need for emotional support in fertility journeys. We delve into the common mental health challenges faced by individuals and couples, such as anxiety, depression, and trauma, and explore how psychotherapy can provide critical support.

Alejandra also discusses the stigma surrounding fertility mental health, the complex relationship between stress and fertility, and how psychotherapy can aid those dealing with baby loss and termination.

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GUEST INFORMATION

Alejandra Lozada Andrade  

BSc (Hons), PGDip and MA in Psychotherapy and Counselling, MBACP, BICA, BMS, and BFS registered

Founder of Fertility Support 

Area of interest: Fertility, antenatal, and gynaecological issues Alejandra is a full-time integrative psychotherapist with experience in relational psychoanalysis. She has experience working with clients facing pregnancy loss, high-risk pregnancies, ectopic pregnancies, molar pregnancies, endometriosis, PCOS, adenomyosis, birth trauma, and TMR, among other difficulties. She also supports clients going through a difficult fertility journey and those assessing options such IVF, surrogacy, donors or adoption. She also works with clients exploring a “child-free” or ”child-less” lifestyle or considering a termination.

Alejandra understands how hard it can be to take the first step to start therapy, but she also knows how rewarding and liberating this process can be. She believes that we grow and develop in connection with others and that the crucible for change lies within the therapeutic relationship. To look at ourselves from another person’s perspective enables us to see ourselves in ways that we have not seen ourselves before. A new, compassionate perspective can be transformational.

Alejandra completed her undergraduate studies at Oxford and Georgetown Universities and graduated with honours. She then received a Master’s degree in Integrative Counselling and Psychotherapy from Regent’s University. She gained experience working at Help Counselling, West London Centre for Counselling, City Pregnancy Counselling and Psychotherapy, and Addiction Therapy.

Further, her experience includes working internationally for over 20 years with executives navigating professional change and/or challenging work situations. In that capacity, Alejandra was quoted by international publications such as Fortune Magazine, the Wall Street Journal, the Los Angeles Times, among other publications. Alejandra recognises the demands of corporate life and the implications it can have on personal well-being.

Alejandra is frequently invited to participate in podcasts, retreats and presentations on fertility mental health. She is passionate about raising awareness about this topic and further the research on the relationship between fertility and gynaecology, and mental health.

Alejandra is a flexible practitioner and can work with clients in-person or virtually and in English or Spanish.

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CONNECT WITH US 

You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: Show more...
1 year ago
42 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Living With MRKH
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this compelling episode, we chat with Betty Mukherjee, a former contestant on the BBC's "Race Across the World," as she shares her personal journey with MRKH syndrome. Diagnosed at 16, Betty opens up about the challenges and triumphs of living with this rare disorder that affects the female reproductive system.

From the initial diagnosis to the emotional and physical hurdles, Betty's story is one of resilience and hope. Join us as we delve into the intricacies of MRKH, the importance of awareness, and the impact of women's health on personal identity.

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GUEST INFORMATION

Betty rose into the public-eye after her appearance on the BBC’s hit show Race Across the World, where she courageously shared her personal journey with MRKH (Mayer-Rokitansky-Küster-Hauser syndrome).

Her openness about this life-altering condition has resonated with thousands of women worldwide, earning her widespread praise for her advocacy and education on MRKH, fertility and mental health and wellbeing. Since completing the show, Betty has become a sought-after speaker, participating in panel discussions for notable organisations like ASOS, SKY, and NHS Scotland.

Her work centres on raising awareness around women’s health, particularly the challenges faced by those with mental health and fertility difficulties. Beyond her advocacy, Betty’s vibrant social media presence reflects her zest for life. She shares content on health and fitness, travel, and food, encouraging her followers to embrace life fully with positivity and resilience.

With her growing platform and authentic voice, Betty continues to inspire, educate, and engage a diverse and devoted audience.

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CONNECT WITH US You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website
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1 year ago
30 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Male Stoicism in the Face of Loss
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In the premiere episode of season five we welcome Joe Ailion, an associate solicitor at Brabners in Manchester, who opens up about his personal journey through miscarriage and the emotional landscape of fertility challenges.

Joe shares the poignant story of how he and his wife navigated the grief of a miscarriage, the societal perceptions of fertility as a women's issue, and the profound impact it had on their lives. This episode sheds light on the male perspective of miscarriage, highlighting the importance of acknowledging grief and the need for open conversations.

Join us for a heartfelt discussion that aims to normalise male feelings towards miscarriage and support those on similar journeys.

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GUEST BIO

Joe Ailion is an Associate solicitor at Brabners. He handles all aspects of family law, including disputes regarding children, fertility law, parentage disputes, divorce and associated financial matters.

Joe is also a member of the Wellbeing Committee for Resolution – the representative body of family lawyers in England & Wales. 

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CONNECT WITH US You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 5 SPONSOR: 

The Lister Fertility Clinic. Visit the website
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1 year ago
40 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
In/Fertility in the City 4: Live from Norton Rose Fulbright
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this powerful episode, we delve into the complexities of fertility struggles in the professional world. Hosted by Natalie Sutherland & Somaya Ouazzani, this panel discussion, held at the London offices of law firm Norton Rose Fulbright, brings together experts and personal stories to illuminate the challenges faced by individuals undergoing fertility treatments.

From the emotional toll to workplace dynamics, our speakers share their journeys and insights, aiming to destigmatise the conversation around infertility. Learn how organisations can better support their employees through inclusive policies and empathetic leadership.  

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CONNECT WITH US 

You can engage with the hosts and the growing In/Fertility in the City community by:
  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
  • website: www.infertilityinthecity.com
  • following us on: LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/infertilityinthecity
    Instagram: https://instagram.com/infertilityinthecity
    X / Twitter: https://twitter.com/InFertilityCity
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SEASON 4 SPONSOR: 

Apricity https://www.apricityfertility.com/uk
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1 year ago
1 hour 29 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
How to Survive Infertility and Work
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In the final episode of season four, we’re joined by Sophie Docherty, a midwife sonographer with over 10 years’ experience and mum of two, who shares her personal journey through fertility issues.

Sophie, the sister of our episode five guest Amy Simpson (founder of The MBB Method), opens up about her experiences with early menopause, IVF, and ultimately conceiving naturally. We delve into the emotional and professional challenges she faced, the impact of her sister's holistic approach, and the importance of mindset in overcoming fertility struggles.

Join us for an insightful and heartfelt conversation that sheds light on the complexities of fertility and the strength required to navigate it.

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1 year ago
36 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
The Complexities of Forming a Family: Is it harder for same sex female couples?
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this episode, we have an enlightening conversation with Jaime Gher, a reproductive justice lawyer who has dedicated over 20 years to advancing reproductive rights and justice. Jaime shares her personal journey through both biomedical and social infertility, including the challenges she faced in creating her family using assisted reproductive technologies.  

From her work at the United Nations to opening her own private practice in California, Jaime's story is one of resilience and advocacy. Join us as we delve into her experiences and the broader implications for reproductive rights worldwide.  

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Jaime Gher is a reproductive justice lawyer fighting for the human rights of women, gender-diverse individuals, and marginalized and criminalized populations worldwide. Jaime has worked to advance reproductive rights and justice for over twenty years at the global and regional levels, working within law firms, the United Nations, within international and national NGOs and as an independent consultant.

During that time she also faced both biomedical and social infertility. She was eventually able to have three children with the support of assisted reproductive technologies and donors, but the process was not easy. If face had to leave her job at the United Nations and relocate from Europe to her home state of California to access ART services because at the time, many European countries did not permit lesbians to undergo IVF and/or permit gamete donation. She also faced discrimination in terms of insurance coverage for IVF.  

These experiences of family building left an impression on Jaime as a legal professional and a mom. Then, in 2022, when the US Supreme Court overturned Roe v. Wade, the constitutional decision that recognized a federal right to abortion, Jaime decided to direct her litigation and advocacy back to the USA. She was committed to challenging draconian criminal abortion bans, prenatal personhood initiatives, and legal threats to assisted reproduction and surrogacy.

In addition to consulting with civil and human rights organizations, she started her own private practice—Family-Advocates— to support individuals and couples seeking to create their families with the assistance of ART and surrogacy. In addition to providing coaching and support for individuals and couples facing infertility, she also provides legal services around family formation, including drafting and negotiating donor and surrogacy contracts, and to secure legal parentage through pre- and post-birth orders, adoption and stepparent adoption.

Through her practice, Jaime wants to humanize fertility treatment and to advocate for greater accessibility for all people to build their families in this way. In addition to Jaime’s private practice, she works as a Senior Legal Advisor with the Global Justice Center to support national-level strategy development and advocacy to promote safe abortion access for all people. She also works as a Senior Program Manager in the Disability and Sexuality program at CREA (a global-south-based feminist organization). There she supports the conceptualization and visioning of the organization’s strategic role at the intersections of disability, sexuality and gender.

 Jaime has also worked as a Senior Legal Advisor and Strategic Litigation Specialist with Amnesty International, Human Rights Advisor and Programme Officer with the World Health Organization and UNAIDS, and a Global Advocacy Fellow with the Center for Reproductive Rights. In those roles, she has undertaken international litigation and advocacy before the United Nations and regional human rights bodies and supported national-level advocacy with partner organizations worldwide.

Jaime holds an LL.M. in international law and gender from American...
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1 year ago
34 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Surviving Stillbirth
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this episode of In/Fertility in the City, we’re joined by Dr. Anita Raja, a respected GP, broadcaster, and campaigner for well-being within the BAME communities.  

She shares her deeply personal fertility journey, discussing her struggles with uterine fibroids, endometriosis, and multiple miscarriages and opens up about the cultural pressures she faced, the emotional toll of her experiences, and the challenges of advocating for herself as both a doctor and a patient.

This episode offers a raw and compassionate look at the complexities of infertility, the importance of self-advocacy, and the intersectionality of cultural and medical challenges.

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Dr Anita Raja (MRCGP, DFSRH, LOC SDI) is a General Practitioner in Birmingham, West Midlands.  She is a practising GP, broadcaster and campaigner for wellbeing, especially within the Black, Asian and minority ethnic (BAME) communities. 

She is a leading health expert and has been featured in various health and lifestyle magazines like Stylist UK, Glamour magazine, Strong Women UK.  Her opinion on key issues surrounding the health care system have been endorsed and valued by leading electronic media channels.  She has been a TV Presenter for a 1 hour live show “Let’s Talk” on British Muslim TV. 

She is a regular health expert on BBC Morning Live, BBC Breakfast Show, Good Morning Britain ITV, Jeremy Vine, Talk TV, GB News and British Muslim TV.

Website - https://dranitaraja.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/dranitaraja/?hl=en

X - https://twitter.com/dranitaraja

LinkedIn - https://uk.linkedin.com/in/anita-raja-1314731b7  

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1 year ago
31 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Fertility Challenges and the Hierarchy of Grief
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this episode we welcome Danusia Malina-Derben, a mother of ten, founder and CEO of DMD Global, and author of "Noise" and "Spunk" manifestos. Danusia shares her incredible journey of balancing a demanding academic career with motherhood, including her surprising early pregnancies, her secretive start in academia, and her work with the BBC.

She also discusses the emotional and physical challenges of reversing a sterilisation, experiencing a stillbirth, and later conceiving triplets through IUI. This episode delves into the intricacies of organisational behaviour, the societal expectations of women in the workplace, and the personal grief and resilience that comes with infertility and loss.  

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Danusia Malina-Derben is a mother of ten children, and still her own woman. From teen mother to tenured Organisational Behavior and Development academic, on to award-winning, internationally published leadership expert. Danusia traded academia in for boardrooms where she, and her team, consult on peak performance and strategic leadership in senior teams. She can be found in the corridors of power of global brands you’re banking with, and buying from.  These include Microsoft, Mars, Sainsbury's, ICBC Standard Bank, Coca-Cola, Bristol Myers-Squibb, Deloitte, and The Home Office. . 

Beyond the boardroom she is a regular contributor on future C-level business changes/trends, cultivating women's leadership and age old debates about women's careers and family. Danusia is a rousing and sought-after keynote speaker, and frequent expert commentator featured most recently in The Guardian, The Times, Observer, and Metro. 

Danusia hosts top-rated podcast Parents Who Think (formerly School for Mothers + School for Fathers podcasts). In 2021 her book on motherhood identity “NOISE: A Manifesto Modernising Motherhood” (Triumph Press) received praise and recognition from The Sunday Times to Metro, Psychologies to the Guardian. Her next book “SPUNK: A Manifesto Modernising Fatherhood” (2022) on fatherhood identity was described by The Metro as provocative and compelling. She lives in Somerset with her family, and their mini-dachshund, Dickie Van der Sausage. You can visit her online and find her most active on her Substack.

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1 year ago
43 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Does the NHS have a fertility at work problem?
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this episode Natalie and Somaya are joined by Jemma Shanley, a paediatric doctor who shares her tumultuous journey through fertility challenges while balancing a demanding medical career. From initial naivety about conceiving to enduring multiple miscarriages, IVF treatments, and the emotional toll of working in paediatrics, Jemma opens up about her struggles and triumphs.

Her story is one of resilience, self-discovery, and advocacy for better support systems in the workplace for those facing similar challenges. Jemma discusses the importance of mental health, the need for compassionate policies, and her efforts to create a guide for medical professionals navigating fertility issues.  

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Jemma Shanley is a paediatric doctor. She is married to a paediatric emergency medicine consultant, and they share a 3 and a half year old gorgeous tornado!  Jemma is from Ireland but studied medicine and trained as doctor in the UK.

At 18, Jemma studied pharmacy and obtained a Masters degree, after which she came to London to undertake her postgrad in clinical pharmacy at Guys and St Thomas Hospital. Jemma worked as a clinical pharmacist for 5yrs before she started graduate entry medicine at the University of Bristol. 

Jemma is now 38 and both her and her husband have spent the last five years trying to start and grow their family, largely during her time as a paediatric/neonatal doctor. Jemma has experienced being a paediatric doctor whilst not trying to conceive, whilst struggling to conceive, while miscarrying, whilst carrying a baby to term, returning from maternity leave, continuing to miscarry/struggle to conceive and most recently whilst undergoing IVF.     

As a result of her lived experiences within a medical speciality that is considered family centered, Jemma set about developing a guide for doctors and their partners experiencing pregnancy/baby loss along with fertility/infertility issues in the workplace. 

A group of doctors from both paediatrics and obstetric and gynaecology kindly contributed to the guide, all of whom have lived experiences of fertility issues. 

Jemma's aim for this guide is to help advocate for all doctors in medicine experiencing fertility issues, to help start supportive kind conversations and to help educate managers, to help those who can’t find their voice through shared stories and examples of good practice.

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1 year ago
48 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
The Mind/Body Connection on a Fertility Journey
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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 In this episode of In/Fertility in the City we’re joined by Amy Simpson, the founder of the Mind Body Belief Method, to discuss the transformative power of emotional and physical preparation in the fertility journey.

Amy shares her personal connection to the struggle through her sister's story, the success of unconventional methods, and the importance of addressing the emotional toll of infertility. Hear how shifting focus from what's not working to fostering a fertile mindset can make all the difference.

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Amy Simpson is an expert in fertility and founder of the Mind Body Baby Method. 

With a pioneering approach that focuses on the powerful mind-body connection, Amy empowers women to overcome the challenges of infertility and embrace their journey to motherhood with confidence and ease.

Through personalised coaching and support, she guides her clients on a transformative path, helping them to navigate the emotional and physical aspects of fertility with compassion and understanding.

The Mind Body Baby Method inspires hope and empowers women to realize their dreams of becoming mothers.

Website: https://www.amysimpson.co.uk/

X - https://twitter.com/mindbodybabyamy?lang=en

 LinkedIn - https://uk.linkedin.com/in/amysimpsonuk

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ASMindBodyBaby/?locale=en_GB

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1 year ago
37 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Solo Motherhood By Choice
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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In this episode of In/Fertility in the City we're joined by the inspiring Claire Burton, a family lawyer who shares her journey from confronting unexpected jealousy at a friend's pregnancy to embracing solo parenthood, navigating the complex world of sperm donation, and defying medical odds.

Along the way, Claire and her team have switched firms and she discusses how openness about her journey was important to ensure the move was to a place where this would be supported. With candid insights into the practicalities of sperm donation and the support systems that have made her dream possible, this episode is a beacon of hope and encouragement for anyone considering solo motherhood.

Discover how Claire's unapologetic approach and meticulous planning led to her pregnancy success at 43, and what her future holds as she prepares for the joys and challenges of raising a child on her own terms.  

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Claire has been a practicing family solicitor for almost 15 years.  Claire specialises in private law children cases, particularly those where there are allegations of domestic and/or substance abuse.  Claire is highly recommended by clients and directories with her being described as simply brilliant, a hero, legal lioness and a truly wonderful human. 

Very active in her local legal community, Claire has represented family lawyers across the Thames Valley through her work with the Thames Valley Family Lawyers’ Society for which she is currently the Treasurer and Vice Chair.   

In her personal life, Claire began her fertility journey in earnest in 2021.  She was diagnosed with PCOS in her twenties and knew, therefore, she was likely to need some medical support to fall pregnant.  Alongside that potential medical challenge, was the prospect of doing this as a solo mum.  

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1 year ago
42 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
Let's Talk About Male Broodiness
TRIGGER WARNING: This episode deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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This episode of "In/Fertility in the City" brings the spotlight onto an often-overlooked struggle: male involuntary childlessness. Dr. Robin Hadley, author and founder member of the campaign group Ageing without Children, joins us to speak candidly about his personal battle with wanting to be a dad and the complex emotions surrounding male childlessness. Discover the societal barriers that prevent men from expressing their paternal instincts and why it's crucial to change the narrative. --

Robin is a leading expert on the psychological and sociological impact of male childlessness across the life course. He has written several invited academic pieces and contributed blogs and podcasts to infertility and involuntary childless support groups. He is a founder member of the campaign group Ageing Without Children.  

Robin is from Old Trafford, Manchester (UK). He comes from a large working-class family and left school with few qualifications. His previous careers include counsellor, deputy technical manager, scientific photographer, and kitchen assistant. In his 40s Robin switched careers and trained as a counsellor. Robin’s training as a counsellor and his own experience of desperately wanting to be a dad led him to research the desire for fatherhood for his self-funded MA (2008, The University of Manchester) and MSc (2009, The University of Manchester) and involuntarily childless older men for his PhD (2015, Keele).

His book ‘How is a man supposed to be a man? Male childlessness a Life Course Disrupted’ has received critical acclaimed.

He can be contacted at his Manchester Metropolitan University email: r.hadley@mmu.ac.uk   or via any of the following: 

Website: https://www.robinhadley.co.uk/  
Twitter: https://twitter.com@robinhadley1   
 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drrobin-a-hadley/  
Google Scholar: http://bit.ly/2BPRZtw  
Academia.edu: https://independent.academia.edu/DrRobinHadley  
ResearchGate (RG): https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Robin-Hadley

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1 year ago
34 minutes

In/Fertility In The City
In/Fertility in the City is a podcast dedicated to exploring the complex relationship between in/fertility and work and how to manage this effectively.

It is hosted by Natalie Sutherland and Somaya Ouazzani (and Emma Menzies for Seasons 1-3), who have had to navigate their own fertility challenges alongside professional life, and are united in their passion for ensuring that better quality information and support is made available to others doing the same.

Together they interview incredible guests, from a variety of industries, who generously share powerful stories and valuable insights into in/fertility at work issues.

Their moving and thought-provoking discussions are intended to break the silence around this taboo topic, and inspire new attitudes and behaviours that will improve and normalise the management of fertility challenges in professional contexts.

If you’re a professional managing in/fertility, baby loss, fertility treatment or other paths to parenthood, or you have an interest in understanding and supporting those who are, then this is a ‘must listen’ for you.

TRIGGER WARNING: This podcast deals with discussions of in/fertility and/or baby loss.

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  • emailing us: info@infertilityinthecity.com
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Music created by Jon Nicoll.