In this episode of The Inclusive Dad podcast, host AAron sits down with sexuality educator Amy Lang to explore how parents can approach conversations about bodies, relationships, and sexuality—especially with neurodivergent children. Amy shares her decades of experience helping families move past discomfort to build openness, safety, and trust. Together, they discuss starting conversations early, navigating puberty, addressing myths about neurodivergence and sexuality, and creating inclusive spaces where children feel respected and understood. This episode is filled with practical tools, honest reflections, and a reminder that inclusion starts at home—with every conversation we’re willing to have.
Key Takeaways:
Early Conversations – Start age-appropriate sex education around age five to establish openness and trust.
Neurodivergent Needs – Tailor communication styles to different learning and sensory needs, not just words.
Parental Influence – Parents are the most influential factor in shaping kids’ healthy sexual development.
Protective Education – Clear, ongoing conversations about bodies and boundaries reduce vulnerability to abuse.
Inclusive Mindset – Assume diversity in gender and sexuality from the start to support every child fully.
Amy’s definition of inclusion:
Inclusion is taking a minute and thinking through "Is what I'm talking about going to work for everybody or do I need to change my approach?."
Amy Lang’s Bio:
Amy Lang, M.A., is a sexuality and parent educator as well as a sexual abuse prevention specialist. She also has a certification in neurodiversity and sexuality and helps parents of neurodivergent kids openly communicate with them about sexuality and relationships. She lives in Seattle, WA, with her first (and favorite) husband, and they’re the proud parents of a delightful, fully launched son. Learn more about her work at BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com and BBKPros.com.
Connect with Amy Lang:
Website: https://birdsandbeesandkids.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/birdsbeeskids/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/birdsbeeskids
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/amylang/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@birdsandbeesandkids
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