In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their evolving relationship with kink, not as experts or full-time fetish freaks, but as a couple learning to be more curious, more communicative, and way less judgmental.

We explore how getting older has made us more open to trying things we once avoided, and how shame can sneak into the bedroom even in the most loving relationships. From sploshing and age play to sounding and voyeurism, we talk about what used to freak us out—and what we’re now learning to approach with curiosity instead of fear.

Plus: our favorite game “Guess That Kink!”, and by the end, we put Koaty through the ultimate test… just how open-minded is he really?

It’s not about being kinky. It’s about being open.


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