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Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships.
From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all.
If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!
What Makes an Avoidant Man Feel Safe Enough to Stay
I Wish You Knew
1 hour 6 minutes 39 seconds
4 months ago
What Makes an Avoidant Man Feel Safe Enough to Stay
What does it take for an Avoidant Man to finally feel safe enough to stay in love?
In this episode, Kimmi returns to share his journey from emotional shutdown to engagement. Once known as “Kimmi the Avoidant,” he opens up about what helped him finally connect, feel secure, and build lasting love.
Topics Covered: 👉 How avoidant attachment distorts emotional connection👉 Why emotional safety—not pressure—creates commitment👉 The surprising impact of oxytocin, magnesium, and sleep👉 How routines and rituals help avoidant men feel secure👉 The “emotional baby” stage and how to move through it👉 Avoidant men’s biggest fear: dying alone and unremembered👉 How to spot emotional bids and respond like a secure partner👉 The CEO analogy for leading your relationship well👉 How to continuously grow closer in long-term love
If you enjoyed watching this episode, you might love 'Why She Doesn’t Want You (Even If She Loves You) '. Watch here: https://youtu.be/aUMUEbwcVuo
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I Wish You Knew
Join the duo, Andrey Korikov, and Adam Lane Smith The Attachment Specialist, as they cut through the noise with bold, unfiltered discussions on love, connection, and relationships.
From questions about love, psychology, and relationships to discussing the latest shifts in the culture and media, they’ll cover it all.
If you’re ready for a podcast that’s as insightful and real as it gets—buckle up and get ready to rethink everything you thought you knew about relationships!
