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I Saw Him First
Anjy
86 episodes
4 hours ago
This is a British Podcast about Dating, Relationships & Self Development 💞 Follow I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST if this sounds like something you'd be into! #ukpodcast #datingpodcast #datingadvice #datingtips #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #selfdevelopment Find Me Everywhere - linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast
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This is a British Podcast about Dating, Relationships & Self Development 💞 Follow I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST if this sounds like something you'd be into! #ukpodcast #datingpodcast #datingadvice #datingtips #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #selfdevelopment Find Me Everywhere - linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast
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I Saw Him First
EP.85 Taylor Swift is engaged - but why are we all so happy for her?

Taylor Swift is finally engaged, and the internet lost its mind. But why do engagements, weddings, and “being chosen” hit us so hard?In this video, I break down the cultural obsession with love stories, why engagement posts dominate Instagram, how society glamorizes weddings over marriage, and why Taylor Swift’s engagement feels like a collective win for her fans and beyond.This isn’t just about Taylor Swift — it’s about us, our craving for love, validation, and the fairytale ending.💍 Let’s talk about why engagements are the ultimate internet currency.If you enjoy this video, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more cultural deep dives.#TaylorSwift #TaylorSwiftEngaged #traviskelce #traviskelceandtaylorswift #EngagementCulture #CelebrityEngagement #TaylorSwiftNews #Swifties #WeddingCulture #PopCultureAnalysis

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2 months ago
17 minutes 46 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.84 Why I talk to men about money on the first date (and why you should too)

Would you ask about saving and investing on a first date? I do, and here’s why.In this video, I share my experience telling my co-workers about my first-date money question, why I think the saying “money doesn’t make you happy” is flawed, and how talking about finances early can actually save you a lot of heartache later.

I dive into:- Why conversations about saving, investing, and financial goals matter in relationships.- The things money really buys you (beyond just “stuff”).- Why you shouldn’t feel guilty for being ambitious or caring about financial stability.- My thoughts on the stock market and real estate investing as tools for freedom.

Here's Ali Abdaal's video which I discussed here 📹 - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LLdtdiJu7DE

👉 Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this resonates. Your support helps me grow this channel and keep sharing real talk like this.

🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!

FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contactfor business inquiries, please email: ThinkAnjy@gmail.com

#datingconfessions #firstdates #moneymindset #investingtips #financialfreedom #datingadvice #moneytalks #wealthbuilding #datingstandards #ambitiouswomen

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3 months ago
26 minutes 11 seconds

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EP.83 You don't have to be perfect to be loved

You don’t need to be perfect to be loved... seriously.

In this video, I’m sharing something deeply personal. How I used to obsess over every little flaw, always trying to be “put together” and “attractive” ... until I started liking someone who didn’t fit any of my old ideas of “perfection.” That experience completely changed the way I saw love, dating, and most importantly, myself.

From K-dramas to real-life crushes, I realised something... maybe it’s not about being flawless. Maybe the quirks, the messy bits, the clumsy parts — are exactly what make us magnetic.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re not pretty enough, successful enough, or perfect enough to find love… this one’s for you.👉

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share if this resonates. Your support helps me grow this channel and keep sharing real talk like this.

🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!

FIND ME HERE 🎤

📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1

Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy

✉Contact for business inquiries, please email: ThinkAnjy@gmail.com

#selfloveandhealing #datingadvice #datingpodcast #beyourself #realtalk #youareenough #perfectionism #moderndating #flawsandall #imperfectlyperfect

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3 months ago
21 minutes 57 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.82 Why Women Don't Want The Nice Guys

Modern dating is a mess, and if you’ve ever felt like all the good men are gone, you’re not alone. In this brutally honest podcast episode, I dive deep into the real struggles of dating in 2025, from the death of genuine connection to the overwhelming pressure of dating apps and situationships.Why is it so hard to find a nice guy who’s actually emotionally available and attractive? Why do so many of us feel like we’re constantly told to settle for less than we desire? Is dating even worth it anymore?If you're tired of scrolling, swiping, and endlessly hoping for someone decent to come along, this episode is for you.I discussed:- Why modern dating feels so hopeless- How the standards have shifted- The rarity of truly good men- How to date without feeling burnt outWhether you're single, dating, or just over it — this is your safe space. Raw, real, and unfiltered.🧠 Share your experience in the comments — do you agree that dating has gotten worse?🫶 Subscribe for more honest conversations about dating, love, and self-worth.🎧 Also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and wherever you get your pods!FIND ME HERE 🎤📹YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1Tiktok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy✉Contactfor business inquiries, please email: ThinkAnjy@gmail.com#NiceGuys #DatingPodcast #Singles #DatingIn2025 #WhereAreTheGoodMen #SingleLife #DatingStruggles #ToxicDatingCulture #NiceGuysFinishLast #Situationships #HonestConversations #SlimPickins

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3 months ago
28 minutes 49 seconds

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EP.81 My Deepest Relationship Fears

Are you afraid of love? Scared to open your heart because it feels like true love might not last? In this deeply personal video, I share my fears about relationships and why I’ve been single for over two years. From the fear of waking up to a partner who no longer loves me to the anxiety of being stuck in an unhappy relationship with kids, I open up about the emotional struggles that have shaped my love life. But I’m trying to think positively—holding on to the hope that the universe will show me true, lasting love. If you’ve ever felt scared of falling in love, worried about heartbreak, or wondered if lasting love is even real, this video is for you. Let’s navigate these emotions together and inspire each other to believe in love again. 🔔 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more honest, relatable content like this! Hiya, I'm Anjy. My goal is to inspire curiosity and elevate the quality of our lives beyond manifestations and self affirmations. I intend to challenge 'popular beliefs' through thought-provoking discussions and provide practical insights grounded in NEUROSCIENCE and PSYCHOLOGY. FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 TikTok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy

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10 months ago
22 minutes 32 seconds

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EP.80 Dating Advice 101: Red Flags, Green Flags & All You Need to Know (For Teens & Young Women)

Let’s have a heart-to-heart, girls. Let's get into the girl chat! 💕 Whether you're a teenager navigating your first crush or a young woman figuring out modern dating, this video is packed with real, relatable, and empowering advice. From decoding lies from boys, to setting boundaries and figuring out who you are, I’m here to help you navigate the sometimes messy but exciting world of dating 🌸✨

Grab a cup of tea (and your favorite snack), get comfy, and join me as we chat about everything from red flags 🚩 to knowing your worth and not settling for boys you're not attracted to.

This is the dating advice every young woman needs to hear! 💌💖 Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more girl talk and advice on life, love, and leveling up!

👉 Let me know in the comments: What’s the best (or worst) dating advice you’ve ever received?

Hiya, I'm Anjy. My goal is to inspire curiosity and elevate the quality of our lives beyond manifestations and self affirmations. I intend to challenge 'popular beliefs' through thought-provoking discussions and provide practical insights grounded in NEUROSCIENCE and PSYCHOLOGY.

FIND ME HERE 🎤📹

YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1

TikTok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy


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11 months ago
41 minutes 19 seconds

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EP.79 The unexpected connection between Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's new album

Navigating Insecurities in Relationships | Love Is Blind UK & Sabrina Carpenter's New Album.

In this episode of the podcast, we dive deep into the first and latest season of Love Is Blind UK, focusing on the emotional journey of two standout characters - Catherine & Freddie. We explore how insecurities can impact relationships, using the case of Catherine who loses her chance with a great guy due to self-doubt, lack of trust and past relationship trauma. We discuss how past experiences with toxic relationships can make it difficult to trust new, potentially healthy ones.

Connecting these themes to Sabrina Carpenter's new album - Short n' Sweet, we highlight three songs that perfectly relate to what we see a lot on Love is Blind, and capture the struggles many women face when it comes to love and trust. We also talk about how we, as women, often doubt when things seem too good to be true, and why it's crucial to work on our insecurities before entering a new relationship.

Ultimately, I want to remind everyone that we're all human, we're all doing our best, and it's okay to feel vulnerable.If you've ever questioned your self-worth in a relationship or wondered how to overcome past hurts to embrace a better future, this episode is for you. Join us as we find solace in shared experiences and learn to navigate the complexities of love with a bit more compassion for ourselves and eachother.

#LoveIsBlindUK #SabrinaCarpenter #ShortnSweet #SabrinaCarpenterNewAlbum #RelationshipAdvice #insecurities #loveandtrust #relationshippodcast


Hiya, I'm Anjy. My goal is to inspire curiosity and elevate the quality of our lives beyond manifestations and self affirmations. I intend to challenge 'popular beliefs' through thought-provoking discussions and provide practical insights grounded in NEUROSCIENCE and PSYCHOLOGY.


FIND ME HERE 🎤📹

YouTube Channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy?sub_confirmation=1

TikTok - tiktok.com/@ThinkingoutloudwithAnjy


Join Our Community: Subscribe to my channel for more videos on self-improvement, happiness, and personal growth!

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1 year ago
29 minutes 17 seconds

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EP.78 Love Island 2024: Your ULTIMATE Cast Breakdown! 🎬 | First Looks & Predictions

LOVE ISLAND IS HEREEEE! In this podcast, we're diving deep into the latest Love Island season with a comprehensive cast breakdown. From the hottest new islanders to the juiciest fights and gossip, I've got all the deets you need to stay in the loop. Whether you're a die-hard fan or just tuning in, this breakdown will give you all the insights into this summer's Love Island UK cast members and predictions for this season's drama, romance, celebrity appearances and much more. 👥 Meet the Cast: - Get to know the islanders: names, backgrounds, accents, and first impressions. - Early favourites and potential troublemakers. 💬 Hot Takes and Predictions: - Who's likely to couple up? - Potential love triangles and rivalries. 🔥 Drama Alerts: - Love island bombshells - Unexpected twists and what we can expect in the coming episodes. I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire you to never feel bad for doing what's truly best for you. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You can have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== Listen to on the Go: I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST is also available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, etc. THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #LoveIsland #LoveIsland2024 #DatingPodcast #LoveIslandUK #RealityTV #LoveIslandCast #Islanders #LoveIslandDrama #LoveIslandRecap #LoveIslandFans #RealityTVPodcast #datingshow #realitytvshows #realitytvstars #JoeyEssex #datingpsychology #podcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingproblems #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: Love Island Season 11, Love Island UK, Love Island series 11, Love Island review, Love Island recap, Love Island cast, reality TV, relationships, drama, romance, must-watch, couples, plot twist, Love Island exclusive)

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1 year ago
1 hour 5 minutes 24 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.77 The Psychology of Mate Poaching - The Rizz, The Cheats & The Extroverts
Let's get into the intriguing world of dating psychology as we explore why extroverts are more prone to mate poaching and infidelity. Are extroverted individuals really more likely to cheat? What makes them successful at "rizz" and attracting partners? Does that mean people dating introverts are safe? In this episode, we break down a fascinating psychology study that sheds light on these behaviors. I discuss: - The prevalence of mate poaching today. - How extroverts use their charisma and social skills to attract their friends' partners. - Whether or not all extroverts will cheat on you TIMESTAMP00:00 Dump your man if he's an extrovert 01:31 Mate Poaching03:40 Shocking Statistics on the success rate of mate poaching05:36 What does extroversion have to do with cheating?07:26 My plot twist on the study results09:46 Interesting studies and breaking world records I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #matepoaching #datingpsychology #cheaters #extroverts #personalitytypes #introvertvsextrovert #dating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingbehaviours #singlemen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #isawhimfirstpodcast #chriswilliamson #modernwisdom #jordanpeterson #tamkaur #courtneyryan #caseyzander
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1 year ago
11 minutes 37 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.76 A message to the SINGLE and LONELY people...

Feeling lonely and tired of being single? You CAN be single and happy! This video is a must-watch for anyone struggling with solitude, self doubt, sadness, and yearning for a deeper connection. What if I told you that there are several benefits to being single? What if I said that single people may actually be happier than people in relationships? Discover empowering insights and practical tips to transform your mindset and embrace this phase of your life with confidence. Don't let loneliness hold you back—watch now and start your journey towards a fulfilling, happy single life! I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #singlewomen #singleandhappy #howtobehappyalone #overcomeloneliness #singlelife #personalgrowth #girltalk #girlchat #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #highvaluemen #independentwomen #lonelywomen #onlinedating #toxicrelationships #datingproblems #relationshipproblems #datingadviceforwomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #beinghappysingle #matthewhussey #modernwisdom #motivationalvideo #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: how to be happy single, 3 things that make single people happier than people in relationships, the benefits of being single, the desire for companionship, relationships and marriage, dating, relationships, responsibilities of marriage and kids, advice for single men and women, loneliness in your single era)

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1 year ago
21 minutes 13 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.75 Married for 30+ Years - The Secrets to HAPPILY EVER AFTER

Unlock the Secrets to a Lasting Relationship: 5 Tips from a Couple Together for 30+ Years. Looking for the key to long-lasting love? In this exclusive, I discuss my interaction with a a couple who've been together for over three decades, to uncover their secrets to relationship success. They shared their invaluable insights, packed with wisdom that can transform your love life. Don't miss out on this intimate conversation about love, commitment, and the secrets to lasting happiness. Subscribe for more relationship tips, share your thoughts in the comments below, and hit the like button if you found this video valuable! #RelationshipGoals #LoveTips #LongLastingLove #RelationshipAdvice #30YearsTogether #CoupleGoals #LoveAndHappiness #RelationshipSecrets #HealthyRelationships #LoveAndCommitment I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for what they want, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre... you CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #datinginyour20s #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #datingsecrets #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #datingstorytime #datingstories #younglove #togetherforever #seriousrelationship #longtermrelationships #longdistancerelationship #marriagesuccess #successstories #happycouple #isawhimfirstpodcast

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1 year ago
15 minutes 2 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.74 STORYTIME: Unbelievable Bumble Date Disaster!

In this juicy storytime, I spill the tea on my disastrous Bumble rendezvous. From being 30 minutes late to tipsiness and corkiness.. this date took an unexpected turn! Get ready for laughs, cringes, and learn a lesson or two about online dating. Hit that play button now and let's get into the drama! #BumbleDate #DatingDisaster #storytime I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #datingapps #onlinedating #datinginyour20s #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicmen #datingappdisaster #datingbehaviours #singlewomen #datingin2024 #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #datingstorytime #bumbledatefail #datingstories #bumbledatedisaster #datingstorytime #datinghorrorstories #isawhimfirstpodcast #everythingwrongwithonlinedating

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1 year ago
10 minutes 37 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.73 Love is Blind Season 6 RECAP: The Good, The Bad & The Megan Fox Look Alike

Let's get into the latest season of Love is Blind with this no-nonsense recap! The lies from Jimmy, the betrayal from Jeramey, the insecurities from Chelsea and AD, the toxic behaviour from Trevor, the cheating scare from Clay, the proclaimed Megan Fox look-alikeness from Chelsea, the cheeky epi pen comment from Jessica, the Sarah-Ann drama, the girl's girl comment from Laura, the Amy & Johnny love story, the reunion.. and much more :) I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #LoveIsBlind #loveisblindseason6 #loveisblindSeason6Recap #MeganFoxLookAlike #datingshow #blinddate #realitytv #realitytvshows #realitytvstars #loveisblindcast #datingpsychology #highvaluemen #insecurities #onlinedating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingproblems #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: Love is Blind Season 6, Love is Blind recap, Megan Fox look alike, Love is Blind review, reality TV, Netflix, relationships, drama, romance, blindfolded love, must-watch, couples, plot twist, love is blind reunion, love is blind exclusive)

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1 year ago
40 minutes

I Saw Him First
EP.72 Exposing our Unhinged Dating Habits

EVERYTHING WRONG WITH MODERN DATING.

Unfiltered and absolutely unginged podcast today about the toxic realities of modern dating! From swiping patterns on dating apps to dating trends, dating psychology, hypergamy, looks maxxing, and all the other challenges of today's modern dating landscape. I also spoke about the impact of hookup culture on commitment. So whether you're navigating the dating scene yourself or simply curious about the trends shaping modern relationships, this podcast episode offers valuable insights and thought-provoking analysis. ENJOY :))))))) TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Everything wrong with modern dating 00:33 Intro 00:47 No. 1 - False Perception of our attractiveness 06:30 No. 2 - Delusion 11:14 No. 3 - Hypergamy and the education gender gap 13:54 No. 4 - Maxmizers 16:21 No. 5 - Commitment issues & hookup culture I SAW HIM FIRST: A DATING PODCAST WITH SOMEWHAT UNPOPULAR OPINIONS😉 Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 Tiktok - https://www.tiktok.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?_t=8itkTzzKyYa&_r=1 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/isawhimfirstpodcast?igsh=ODA1NTc5OTg5Nw== THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe 🥰 #hypergamy #datingapps #datingpsychology #highvaluemen #onlinedating #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #toxicrelationships #datingup #datingapps #datingbehaviours #datingadviceforwomen #singlewomen #datingin2024 #datingadvice #ukpodcast #moderndating #modernrelationships #relationshipadvice #datingtips #isawhimfirstpodcast #chriswilliamson #modernwisdom #jordanpeterson #tamkaur #courtneyryan #caseyzander #everythingwrongwith

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1 year ago
20 minutes 46 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.71 Most Men Are Ugly

Modern dating really is the survival of the fittest! Today's podcast is a thought-provoking discussion about our swiping patterns on dating apps as women, compared to men. This was inspired by a Reddit post about beauty standards and societal perception of the regular everyday man on the physical attractiveness scale. Has online dating really become so superficial and heavily skewed towards the higher percentile of attractive men - aka "High Value Men"? Are most men really ugly? #highvaluemen #hypergamy #askreddit #redditstories #onlinedating #mostmenareugly #datingapps #relationshippodcast #girlchat #highstandards #dating #datingup #moderndating #podcastondating #datingpodcast #DatingLife #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #genuineconnection #truelove #lovelife #superficiallove #looksmatter #looksmaxing #survivalofthefittest #unrealisticexpectations #unpopularopinions #ukpodcast #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: a reddit post about whether or not most men are ugly, why women think this way, the men that women find the most attractive, hypergamy, high value men, the education gender gap, dating in 2024, swiping on the top 15% of men on dating apps)

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1 year ago
10 minutes 16 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.70 When Did Love Become So UNCOOL? | Modern Dating & Hookup Culture

Let's talk about the complexities of modern dating. In a world where casual relationships and hookup culture is quickly becoming the norm, it has become so uncool to admit that you want a genuine connection. When did wanting to be loved become so uncool? Perhaps this is perceived as being synonymous with desperately longing for love and affection? In this candid episode, I recap a recent encounter during a house party and share my thoughts on the state of modern dating in 2024. From dating apps to "Love is Blind" Season 6! No spoiler :) But it's not all doom and gloom! Loneliness is a normal emotion. What's important is keeping your standards high while navigating the dating scene. Remember, wanting that passionate, crazy kind of love is NOT uncool! TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 relatable AF? 00:48 podcast intro 00:59 let's talk about it 01:19 casual sex and hookup culture 02:22 girl chat - house party recap 03:55 desperate for love vs wanting a true connection 07:00 love is blind Season 6 08:42 the state of modern dating 11:25 loneliness is just like every other emotion 12:52 keeping your standards high 14:18 wanting to be loved is not uncool 16:22 i want that passionate crazy kinda love #moderndating #hookupculture #loveisblindseason6 #loveisblind #casualsex #girlchat #onlinedating #datingin2024 #datingapps #casualdating #datingtomarry #highstandards #loneliness #datinginyour20s #datingintheuk #Relationships #dating #ModernRelationships #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #ukpodcast #ukdatingpodcast #solopodcast #DatingJourney #relationshipadvice #DatingLife #SingleLife #singleladies #SelfReflection #SelfImprovement #DatingAdvice #Introspection #EmotionalGrowth #SelfEmpowerment #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: Dating Life, why is it so uncool to want love? dating in your 20s, love is blind season 6, online dating, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you should stop dating for fun, casual sex, Life Choices, Self Awareness, Love Yourself, Personal Journey, casual dating, Relationship Goals, Self Improvement, hookup culture, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Life Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Inner Peace, Personal Development, Growth Mindset, dating with standards)

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1 year ago
18 minutes 6 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.69 Stop dating the "good guys" - you're SETTLING
Society loves to tell women that as long as he's a "good guy," nothing else matters. But is that true, or are you really just settling for less than you deserve in a relationship? In this thought-provoking podcast, I delve deep into the pervasive myth of dating the so-called "good guys" and why it may not always lead to happy ending you may have pictured!Contrary to popular beliefs, being with a good guy does not mean that you're with the right guy, and caring about seemingly superficial things like height, physical attraction and social status (AKA high value men), does not make you TOO PICKY. So I hope this video inspires you to break free from societal norms and find genuine connection, longevity, and complete satisfaction in your love life. P.S. This dating advice is not just for single women. People in relationships can benefit from this, and hopefully, it changes the way you approach dating and relationships forever. TIMESTAMPS: 00:00 Good guys can be hot too 00:30 Welcome back to my podcast 00:46 Can women have it all? 01:18 You don't have to settle 01:53 The best or worst decision of your life 02:42 Do you have unrealistic expectations? 03:05 Things you should value in a relationship 04:06 Dating storytime 05:13 What you shouldn't compromise on 06:44 Societal expectations to settle for "nice guys" 08:06 Walking away from a good man 09:53 "stop being too picky" 10:40 wait, you deserve to be with the right person 12:42 why you should never settle for the wrong relationship #bestdatingadvice #dontsettleforless #datingpodcast #girlchat #highstandards #SelfReflection #Relationships #dating #goodguys #niceguys #datingup #ModernRelationships #podcastondating #datingadviceforwomen #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #DatingLife #SingleLife #DatingAdvice #relationships #settling #datinggoodguys #relationshipsatisfaction #genuineconnection #ltruelove #lovelife #expertinsights #unpopularopinions #relationshipfulfillment #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: society telling women to settle, why dating good guys alone is not enough, dating in your 20s, dating life, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you want the best for yourself, never settling in dating, Life Choices, Self Awareness, Relationship advice, Self Improvement, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Emotional Growth, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Self Realization, Dating Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Personal Development, dating with standards, high standard, hypergamy, societal norms in dating, dating expectations)
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1 year ago
13 minutes 41 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.68 Why I Stopped Dating at 25
Curious about why someone would put the brakes on dating in their 20s? Should you stop dating too? Will I really never date again? Whether you're navigating your own dating journey or simply intrigued by the idea of taking a break from the dating scene, this video is for you! In this candid storytime, I delve into the personal journey that led me to make the decision to stop dating at 25. From the multiple failed relationship to unmet expectations, being told you have standards that are too high, self-discovery, self doubt, and then living the lonely single life.. I share all the raw and honest reasons behind my choice. Join me as I explore the complexities of modern relationships in 2024.#moderndating #highstandards #SelfReflection #Relationships #dating #hypergamy #datingup #ModernRelationships #datingpodcast #relationshippodcast #PersonalGrowth #SelfLove #DatingJourney #SelfDiscovery #relationshipadvice #BreakFromDating #DatingLife #SingleLife #SelfReflection #SelfAwareness #PersonalJourney #EmotionalWellness #SelfImprovement #DatingAdvice #LifeDecisions #Introspection #EmotionalGrowth #SelfEmpowerment #SelfDiscoveryJourney #isawhimfirstpodcast Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & self-developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 My Second Youtube channel - https://www.youtube.com/@ThinkingOutLoudWithAnjy ?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. (This video is about: DatingLife, why i stopped dating, dating in your 20s, dating in the UK, Relationships, Single woman, Single Life, Self Reflection, why you should stop dating, Mindfulness, Life Choices, Self Awareness, SelfCare, Love Yourself, Personal Journey, Emotional Wellness, Relationship Goals, Self Improvement, Millennial Life, Dating Advice, Life Decisions, Single Living, Introspection, Emotional Growth, Self Empowerment, Self Discovery Journey, Self Realization, Self Love Journey, Finding Yourself, Life Lessons Learned, Healthy Relationships, Inner Peace, Personal Development, Growth Mindset, dating with standards, high standards. )
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1 year ago
13 minutes 29 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.67 When To End A Relationship | Valentine's Day Special (breakup advice)
So it's VALENTINE'S DAY! 🎉 But for some people, it may be the end of their relationships 🥲 Well, I'm back with some actionable relationship advice for you! By the end of this video, you'll certainly get some clarity about whether or not to end your relationship. Are you at a crossroads in your relationship? Wondering if it’s time to say goodbye to the love of your life? Unsure about where it all went wrong? Should I stay or should I go? In this Valentine’s Day special, I give some tangible advice on how to know when it's time to break up with your partner. Is your relationship over? Or does it deserve a second chance? Well, watch to find out! Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British podcast about dating, relationships & Self-Developement. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them in every situation. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, share, comment, and subscribe. #ValentinesDay #breakupadvice #breakuptips #whentoendarelationship #Breakups #relationshipadvice #LoveAndHeartbreak #MovingOn #breakingupwithyourboyfriend #EndingARelationship #BreakupTipsforwomen #ValentinesDaySpecial #relationshipissues #datingadvice #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: When to end a relationship, Valentine's Day special, Relationship advice, Love advice, Signs of a failing relationship, Ending a relationship with grace, Moving on after a breakup, Healthy relationships, Relationship tips, Heartbreak recovery, Relationship Advice, dating advice, Valentine’s Day, Breakup Tips, Love and Heartbreak, Emotional Healing, Moving On, Self-Discovery, Ending a Relationship, ending a relationship, when to Breakup, Relationship ending advice, Breakup advice, Relationship red flags, Knowing when to break up, Letting go of a relationship, Coping with heartbreak, Relationship closure, Moving forward after a breakup, Relationship support, Healing after a breakup, Ending a relationship with someone you still love)
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1 year ago
10 minutes 13 seconds

I Saw Him First
EP.66 Why You Should PITY the Rich | Hedonic Adaptation Explained
Have you ever wondered why we DON'T feel bad for rich people? This is a very intriguing episode of my podcast where I delve into the paradoxical concept of empathy towards the rich and powerful people of the world. I explained the psychological phenomenon known as Hedonic Adaptation (Hedonic Happiness or the Hedonic Treadmill) and its profound implications on our perceptions of wealth and happiness. Contrary to conventional and popular beliefs, I explore the thought provoking reason why it's not valid to dismiss the feelings of those who seemingly have it all, but rather see them for what they really are.. HUMAN. Through a compelling exploration of positive psychology, this podcast is meant to challenge existing narratives, offer a fresh perspective on the emotional experiences of the wealthy, and reshape your understanding of wealth, happiness, and emotional wellbeing. Hi, I'm Anjy :) This is a British Podcast about Dating & Relationships, Self Development, Psychology & Neuroscience, Self Love and Happiness. I believe I can inspire people to get up when they feel down, go for opportunities they don't feel qualified for, and never feel bad for doing what's truly best for them. No, you don't have to settle for mediocre. You CAN have the BEST of the BEST of EVERYTHING! 💞 SUBSCRIBE if this sounds like something you'd be into! FIND ME HERE 🎤📹 Youtube - https://www.youtube.com/@isawhimfirstpodcast?sub_confirmation=1 THANK YOU FOR WATCHING! Don't forget to like, comment, subscribe, and share with someone 🥰 #hedonicadaptation #psychologyofmoney #moneyandhappiness #contentment #lifesatisfaction #hedonism #richpeoplehabits #wealthypeople #beingrich #ukpodcast #doesmoneybuyhappiness #wellbeing #incomeandwellbeing #moneyvshappiness #psychologystudies #psychologyfacts #richpeoplelifestyle #selfimprovement #selfdevelopment #sciencebacked #selfdevelopmentpodcast #psychologypodcast #psychologyvideos #neurosciencenuggets #chriswilliamson #jordanpeterson #drjoedispenza #isawhimfirstpodcast (This video is about: money, money and happiness, psychology of money, can money buy happiness, does money buy happiness, rich people, contentment, financial freedom, affluence, kim kardashian, wealth, wealthy people, hedonism, Hedonic Adaptation, Hedonic treadmill, happiness adaptation, money vs happiness, income, high income, earning a lot of money, making money, income and wellbeing, psychology studies, psychology research, psychology facts, psychology of rich people, rich people habits, wealthy people behaviour, self improvement, self development, science backed, self development podcast, psychology podcast, psychology videos, neuroscience nuggets, self improvement podcast, the psychology of money and happiness, psychology secrets, the neuroscience of money and happiness, how to be happy, are rich people happy).
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1 year ago
13 minutes 12 seconds

I Saw Him First
This is a British Podcast about Dating, Relationships & Self Development 💞 Follow I SAW HIM FIRST PODCAST if this sounds like something you'd be into! #ukpodcast #datingpodcast #datingadvice #datingtips #relationshippodcast #relationshipadvice #selfdevelopment Find Me Everywhere - linktr.ee/isawhimfirstpodcast