We are taking a huge leap and relocating our family all while trying to buy a house in one of the worst housing markets in the country. But, more importantly, we are celebrating 14 years of marriage- lessons & takeaways. We talk sex, we talk divorce, we talk about how we have changed. And we get a bit cheesy, too.
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If you have ever wanted more in your sexual relationship OR you have found yourself being the person unable to give more... this episode is a moment for you to not feel alone. We break down our most recent fight and how we don't have any guilt in what we individually desire while struggling that those two things don't meet.
Fear in the bedroom can be a roadblock to having great sex. Today, Wes and Tera break down their 5 top fears and process them together. It is insightful the types of fears that Tera realized first compared to Wes... and it wasn't at all what she expected. Today is definitely funny, easy to listen to, and relatable... but it isn't for small humans.
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We are one week and it is easy to feel our momentum ball starting to grow smaller. Today, we talk about keeping the momentum going and how to start it back when we lose it.
In this episode we talk about how we're setting up goals and resolutions for the new year! Rather than just saying somethings we want to be better at or do in the new year, we talk about who we want to become in life and how we can use the new year to fuel these goals.
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The best way to end a year is to look back to both learn lessons & feel gratitude. You have to see where you have been so you can learn where you are going. Today's episode is personal, but there are a lot of lessons in it from financial vulnerability to our biggest marriage wins. We share mistakes and triumphs. We also show how to categorize your year to gain the best understanding of yourself.
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Does your partner ever get mad just because you are mad? But you weren't even mad at them to begin with? Well, we struggle with that quite a lot around here. Today, we not so gracefully break down an argument we had just this past weekend. This is a real and honest play by play conversation between Wes and I, but at the end of it, we come to a nice resolution that if we can finally get into regular practice will change SO much about how we fight... and maybe how you do, too.
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Even in the most wonderful marriages, there is no such thing as a "perfect" partner. There are always little things that we do as individuals that make the other person feel a tiny bit of rage inside. Today, we are sharing our pet peeves and showing no relationship is perfect.
Why do we talk about sex all the time? What is the big deal? Well, we all talk about it, even when we are avoiding the subject it is literally all around us. We want to change the narrative. We want to be in control of how that narrative affects us mentally. So, today we share why that matters and how bringing it up in the light actually opens us up to more freedom.
The wedding night was less than spectacular, and it set the tone for the next 12 years of our marriage. All of the fun stuff had been removed and now we were just getting it done. Today, we dive into mindsets, fears, and what held us back for so many years. THEN, we dive into what has pushed us forward into what we experience today. I will definitely have a vulnerability hangover after this one 😅.
Do you ever feel insecure when you enter a room filled with adults? I suddenly resort back to my 8 year old self of feeling awkward on the playground. Only now, I am 35 with 4 kids hanging from the monkey bars. I genuinely believed that friendships would get easier but in reality they just get more difficult to navigate. Today, we dissect why they are hard and what we can do to gain new ones.