Have you ever deleted a dating app in frustration? Or stopped yourself from following up after being left “on read”? Quitting too soon only leads to settling—or staying single. The solution is resilience. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals how grit and tenacity can help you land more dates, build confidence, and find the relationship you want. Love or loneliness—the deciding factor is resilience.

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Approaching women as a shy, introverted guy can feel terrifying. But that shyness is actually your hidden advantage. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals 5 powerful shifts to help introverts confidently meet women in real life. You’ll also discover his go-to icebreaker that almost always works.

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If you struggle on the apps, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the big mistake that costs you matches and dates—and how to fix it. Plus, Connell shares his best Hinge prompt ever. Then he unveils the 3 must-have prompts every profile needs to FINALLY make online-dating work for you.

Highlights of this Episode:

01:00: Online Dating is NOT Dating—Here’s What It Is

03:01: The Real Reason You Struggle to Get Quality Matches

05:18: What Don Draper Knows about the Dating Apps

07:42: Connell’s #1 Hinge Prompt—and Why It Works

18:47: The 3 Prompts You Need on Your Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile

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You know what sucks? (Besides every Kid Rock song.) When a woman you’re texting leaves you on read—and you have no idea why. In the finale of dating coach Connell Barrett’s “Textual Healing” series, you’ll learn the 5 hidden texting mistakes that turn women off. And you’ll get 5 advanced moves to become a texting ninja. Plus, Connell reads a message thread from his own phone to show you how to text your way to a first date.

You’re About to Learn:

03:44: The #1 Texting Mistake that Kills Attraction

13:08: The Texting Cadence that Prevents Canceled Dates

17:33: Why Being Mysterious Is a Dating Dead End

22:23: The “Resurrection Text” that Brings Dead Matches Back to Life

26:58: The Flirty Way to Confirm Dates by Text

35:49: How “Callback Humor” Builds Chemistry and Connection

45:21: Connell Breaks Down His Own Text Thread

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Ever wonder why you feel insecure around women? In a raw interview, thought leader and podcaster Frank Rich (“The Super Human Life”) joins dating coach Connell Barrett to reveal the hidden culprit that may be hurting your confidence: porn addiction. Rich opens up about his own battle, and explains how watching too much porn leads to objectifying women and kills dating motivation. He also shares his 5-step roadmap to freedom, so you can live and love authentically—without porn or shame.

02:44: Why Porn Addiction is Not What You Think

11:46: How Porn Replaces Real Romantic Connection

15:59: Frank’s Raw Story: From Shame to Redemption

24:40: The Hotel Incident that Changed Everything

29:25: Why Facing Consequences Is the Key to Defeating Porn Addiction

41:35: The 5-Step Roadmap for Rebuilding 

48:08: The Subtle Tells Women Pick Up On within Minutes

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CHECK OUT HIS INSTAGRAM:@‌CoachFrankRich

JOIN FRANK RICH’S COMMUNITY:Visit http://Skool.com/rebootyourlife for his community helping men quit porn and rebuild their lives

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Do women on the apps rarely reply to you? Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his “Back to the Future” opener—the playful icebreaker that’s helped clients spark conversations, set up dates, and find girlfriends. He gives you the exact words to send so you can stop getting ghosted and start connecting. “This is the best opener I’ve come up with in my 20 years of studying online dating,” Connell says. Steal it today—your future girlfriend will thank you.

Episode Highlights:

01:28: How Connell Created the “Back to the Future” Opener—His Best Ever

04:51: What to Write, Word for Word

11:10: Do This to Make the Exchange Ever Flirtier

15:35: How to Lock in the Date, with ZERO Chance of Flaking

23:45: How Shane Used the Opener to Meet His New Girlfriend

27:51: The Secret Behind Why the “Back to the Future” Opener Works

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Tired of getting ghosted? Do your texting conversations die faster than a fruit fly? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his 10 Texting Commandments—his tested rules to get women texting you back and saying yes to dates. Yea, thou SHALT obey these holy rules, and ye shall soon get ye some dates!

The 10 Texting Commandments:

04:00: Thou Shalt Give Authentic Value

07:15: Thou Shalt Not Over-Read the Texting Tea Leaves

15:51: Thou Shalt Follow the ‘Three Times Rule’

12:49: Thou Shalt Not Fear the Double-Text

22:45: Thou Shalt Change Her Mood, Not Her Mind

26:12: Thou Shalt Text Her Leading Up to the First Date

31:40: Thou Shalt Lower the Bar for How Good Your Texts Must Be

34:08: Thou Shalt Ask Her Good Questions

37:26: Thou Shalt Use Photos, Videos and Voice Notes

40:35: Thou Shalt Ask Her Out

43:02: Bonus Commandment! Thou Shalt Text Her the Day After a Date

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Have you ever settled for a woman who wasn’t what you were looking for, but you felt she was the best you could do? Licensed therapist and author Jason VanRuler reveals how hidden childhood wounds quietly shape your dating choices—and how to finally heal and move forward. You’ll learn why men settle, how to escape a “shadow” love life, and get a plan to help you finally find the relationship you really want.

Episode Highlights:

07:12: The Panic Attack Connell Once Had about Dating and What it Reveals

14:45: The Psychology Behind Settling in Love and Life

25:45: How to Stop Living a “Shadow Life”

28:54: How to Enjoy the Process of Dating

36:16: The “Business Partner Test” to Know if She’s the One

38:58: Where Introverted Men Should Go to Meet Quality Women

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http://JasonVR.com

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Available on Amazon

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IS RIGHT FOR YOU:
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You may not know it, but you are kinky… and so is your next date! That’s right—a whopping 95 percent of singles are kinky, according to certified sexologist Amanda Dames, who joins dating coach Connell Barrett in a juicy episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend.” Dames, host of the Kink Consultant Podcast, will teach you how to have hot, fun, shame-free sex, even if you’re sexually inexperienced.

Episode Highlights Include:

02:23: From Wall Street to Dominatrix—Amanda’s Wild Origin Story

06:14: The Truth About Sexual Shame (and How to Finally Get Past It)

16:47: Amanda’s Foolproof Foreplay Rules Every Man Should Know

26:55: How to Bring Up Kink on Dates Without Killing the Vibe

30:21: Why Some Women Want to Be “Choked” and How to Do It Safely

41:21: Why 95 Percent of Us Are Kinky

44:55: The Kinky Dating App You MUST Try

FOLLOW AMANDA ON INSTAGRAM FOR DAILY KINK TIPS:
@‌The_KinkConsultant

GET AMANDA’S FREE KINK WORKSHEET:
AmandaDames.com

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Do you struggle with texting women? Do you feel like you’re always one boring message away from getting ghosted? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his powerful new texting framework to make your messages magnetic: “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger.” You’ll learn how to confidently flirt over text so you get a lot more dates. Plus, you’ll hear how one woman went from rejecting Connell to asking HIM out—just from a short text exchange.

Episode Highlights Include:

01:15: Connell Sings! (Be Very Afraid)

02:35: The “Play, Play, Play, Pull the Trigger” Texting Framework Explained

03:45: First She Rejected Connell, Then She Chased HIM for a Date

11:19: What Most Guys Get Wrong About Texting (and How to Fix It)

17:13: Yes, Good Texting is Learnable—Here’s Why

21:57: Connell Walks You Through a Flirty Text Exchange that Led to a Date


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Are you unsure how to talk to women—on the apps or in real life? Tired of being seen as “just a friend”? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you his secret weapon: Man-to-Woman Communication. You’re about to learn his turbo-charged flirting method. You’re about to know exactly what to say to spark real chemistry with women, from the dating apps to first dates to approaching with charm.

Episode Highlights Include:

07:45: How to Finally Escape the Friend Zone

16:15: The Secret to Sparking Romantic Attraction (It’s Not What You Think)

25:30: How to Lead with Charm and Class—without Coming Off Controlling

34:20: Say This to Make Her Swoon on First Dates

42:30: How to Ignite Sexual Tension Using Only Your Eyes


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Struggling on the apps? It’s not you—it’s your boring bio. In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his new client, Clint, take his profile from generic to magnetic. You’ll learn how to write an irresistible bio in just 3 lines, add charming humor that women love, and finally land matches and dates.

Episode Highlights:

04:15: Why Your Dating Bio Doesn’t Work and How to Fix It

12:58: The 3-Line Bio Formula to Get Her Swiping Right

33:00: The Power Question to Put on Your Profile Today

47:10: The Funny ‘DILF’ Prompt that Gets Single Dads Dates

54:15: How to Ask for Her Number

1:04:41: Do This to Never Run Out of Things to Say

1:08:47: The Smooth Way to Land the Second Date (Without Asking!)


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Social media is ruining your love life. You watch tons of dating advice, but you still struggle with women, right? You’ve fallen into the Content Trap—trying to remember so many tips that you overthink every move. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals why consuming too much TikTok or YouTube content kills your confidence. And his ‘80/20 Rule’ will help unlock your most fun, flirty, authentic self—without trying hard. Because women like you for YOU, not your “game.” Period.

You’re About to Learn:

01:07: Why Brett’s Try-Hard First Dates Lead to Rejection

07:11: Why Treating Women Like “Results” Kills Connection

10:14: The Cringe Date that Taught Connell a Priceless Lesson

18:31: How the ‘80/20’ Rule Gets You Out of Your Head and Into Her Heart

26:29: The Three P’s to Unlock Great First Dates

27:50: Stop Consuming Content—Do THIS Instead


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Ever wonder, “Am I enough to find love?” Harvard-educated physician Ali Binazir has a hopeful answer! The man behind the “Trillion Sided Dice” theory of existence (seriously, it’ll break your brain) shares his own dating journey—still a virgin at 23—and the breakthroughs that changed everything. Plus, Binazir, co-author of the bestselling book “The 5 Hidden Love Questions,” explains why approach anxiety is hardwired into your brain, how to flip limiting beliefs, and reveals his charisma formula to help you become more magnetic.

You’re About to Learn:

01:14: The Trillion-Sided Dice Theory: Why Your Existence Is Literally a Miracle

06:22: How Gratitude Can Destroy Your Fear of Dating Rejection

13:23: The 5 Hidden Love Questions that Sabotage Your Romantic Life

20:31: The Science Behind Your Fear of Approaching—and How to Start Meeting Women

27:59: How Dr. Ali Went from a Virgin at Age 23 to Dating Success

41:58: The Neuroscience of Happiness: Why Being Happy Attracts Love

56:07: The 30-Second Charisma Formula to Create Attraction

LEARN MORE ABOUT DR. ALI BINAZIR: http://TaoOfDating.com and http://HappinessEngineering.com

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FREE TRAINING:Get Dr. Ali’s “Super Charisma: How to Be a Transformative Speaker” course free at http://TaoOfDating.com

TO TAKE DR. ALI’s ‘TUNE UP YOUR LIFE’ COURSE: Email him at DrAliB@TaoOfDating.com or DrAli@HappinessEngineering.com

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND: Datingtransformation.com

Why do some men effortlessly attract women while guys like you get overlooked? It comes down to mastering the 7 Dating Superpowers. Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the 7 super attractors that make women think, “Wow, he’s different from other guys!” Whether you want to confidently approach, take your texting skills to new levels, or have great first dates, this encore episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend” will help you transform your love life.

Here are the 7 Dating Superpowers You’re About to Learn:

9:43: Fearless Approaching so You Can Start Conversations with Women Anywhere

15:07: Effortless Flirting so You Can Be Charming and Attractive

21:15: Magnetic Charisma so Women Feel Drawn to Your Authentic Self

34:14: Unshakable Confidence so “Rejection” Can’t Hurt You

40:03: Top-Tier Texting so You’ll Go from “Unread” to Setting Up Dates

51:33: Vibe Mastery so Your Dates Are Flirty and Sexy

59:48: Decisive Leadership so Women Trust You and See You as Boyfriend Material

Discover your dating superpower and become irresistible—as your most authentic self (no creepy pickup moves needed!)


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Isn’t it frustrating to achieve career success yet struggle with women? Dating coach Connell Barrett calls this the “Professional Man’s Dating Paradox.” Simply put, the communication skills that help you excel at work can actually hurt your love life. Renowned matchmaker Lisa Goodman, of Selective Search, is here to help. Goodman reveals why your career strengths can be dating weaknesses—and shares proven strategies to turn boardroom skills into romantic confidence. Get ready to succeed not just at work, but in dating too!

You’re About to Learn:

07:33: Why You Should Pick Up the Phone Instead of Texting

10:31: The Right Way to Talk to Women on First Dates

21:31: How to Tell if Your Date is Going Well (It’s All in Her Eyes)

34:00: The Truth About First Kisses (When and How to Go for It)

40:10: Why Women Want You to Approach Them (Straight from a Female Expert)


LEARN MORE ABOUT LISA GOODMAN AND SELECTIVE SEARCH MATCHMAKING:
http://www.selectivesearch.com

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http://www.datingtransformation.com

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Email Connell: Connell@datingtransformation.com

The difference between finding love or staying stuck can come down to small but pivotal moments of truth. Like when a conversation with a woman is going well, but you play it safe and don’t go for her number. Or when fear stops you from going for the first kiss on a date. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals 7 make-or-break dating moments that determine whether you get the girl… or stay frustrated. Handle these turning points right, and you’ll be closer to the dream relationship you want.

You’re About to Learn:

05:35: The Secret Weapon to Approach Any Woman You Want

10:28: How to Walk Away with Her Phone Number, Not Regrets

14:15: The First Kiss Secret You MUST Know

21:48: The “Three Times” Texting Rule that Gets Women Messaging You Back

27:54: How to Handle Last-Minute Cancellations without Looking Desperate

30:48: The Right Way to Pass “Tests” Without Losing Sight of Your Authentic Self

35:22: How to Ask Her to Be Your Girlfriend—Without Making It Weird


FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING CAN HELP YOU ATTRACT YOUR DREAM GIRLFRIEND:
http://www.datingtransformation.com


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Connell@datingtransformation.com

Are you unsure what to do in bed—and worried you won’t please her the first time you’re intimate? Sex coach Kirsten Trammell, host of “The Naked Connection” podcast, shares insider secrets on how to rock a woman’s world. If you’re inexperienced sexually—or even a virgin—don’t worry. Kirsten’s tested, practical sex tips will help make you confident in the bedroom, so you can give that special woman an unforgettable, connected sexual experience.

What You’ll Learn:

07:00: The Mindset That Makes Sex Connected and Unforgettable

10:30: Should You Tell Her You’re a Virgin? The Surprising Truth!

22:12: How to Make Her Feel Sexy and Safe

27:52: The ‘Bullseye Method’ that Instantly Improves Foreplay

33:53: Consent Is Sexy: How to Ask the Right Way

39:25: What to Say During Sex to Turn Her On

55:52: She Asked You To ‘Choke’ Her in Bed? Here’s What It Really Means

Listen now and discover how emotional nakedness leads to incredible physical connection!

TO WORK WITH KIRSTEN TRAMMELL:
http://www.thenakedconnection.com

FOLLOW KIRSTEN ON INSTAGRAM:
@‌nakedconnection

FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO FIND OUT IF DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU:
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Want to approach women IRL—but you freeze up or overthink it? Connell Barrett, bestselling author and top dating coach, helps shy men meet wonderful women without pickup lines or weird tricks. In this episode, hear how guys like you overcame anxiety, walked up to women in bars, bookstores and gyms, and sparked real-life romance.

You’re About to Learn:

02:42: How Short, Shy Ken Scored His First Kiss Ever—with a Tall, Stylish Blonde

16:03: What Ash Said to the Cutest Girl at the Bar to Make Her Swoon

24:30: The Bold Coaching Move that Shattered Edward’s Social Anxiety and Led to a Date

35:12: Raj’s Charming Bookstore Chat that Made Emily say, “You Made My Day!”

43:17: Jared the Navy Captain’s Breakthrough that Crushed His Approach Fear for Good

Approaching isn’t something to fear—it’s your fastest path to romance and love!


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Struggling in your love life? Low on dates and confidence? Twenty years ago, Connell Barrett was in your shoes. So he began a journey to fix his dating problems. To mark his 20th year in the dating trenches, Connell kicks off a new series. In this premiere episode, he reveals 20 powerful, practical tips straight from his #1 Amazon bestseller “Dating Sucks but You Don’t.” Here’s the good news: You don’t have to spend years swiping, approaching and dating. You can start to transform your love life today—and meet your dream girlfriend in 20 weeks instead of 20 years!

What You’ll Learn:

5:20: Why Being Radically Authentic is Your Secret Weapon

9:00: Myth-buster: Your Looks Don’t Matter to Women—This Does

10:58: The Bulletproof Dating App Opener that Gets Replies

16:09: The Secret to Flirting that Changes Everything

20:15: How to Smoothly Go for the First Kiss

30:43: The 15-Minute Morning Routine that Builds True Confidence

35:52: How to Make Her See You as Her Dream Boyfriend

37:32: Getting Consent Can Turn Her On (Yes, Really!)

44:10: The NEW Way to Text Women: A Simple Framework

Listen now and start your own dating transformation—without waiting two decades!

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EMAIL CONNELL FOR A FREE COPY OF HIS NO. 1 AMAZON BESTSELLING BOOK, "DATING SUCKS BUT YOU DON'T":Connell@datingtransformation.com