Why do “nice guys” get friend-zoned while jerks get the girl? In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes the “Nice Guy” myth, settles the debate over who should pay on a first date, and shares the time he flew cross-country to surprise a woman he’d never met—with an unexpected “gift.” You will laugh. You will cringe. Listen now!

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Do you fear that approaching women might get you labeled a creep—or even socially shunned? Connell’s client Ajay once felt that way. Drowning in toxic Reddit advice, Ajay believed that women didn’t want to meet good guys like him. In this episode of ‘How to Get a Girlfriend,” he tells Connell how he went from feeling terrified to approach women to confidently meeting cool, cute girls. It turns out, women actually LIKE good guys.

Highlights of this Episode:

01:45: Ajay’s Greatest Fear that Kept Him from Approaching Women

07:54: How He Met 6 Women in One Day—and Transformed His Confidence

13:15: The Instant Kiss that Led to Ajay’s Spiritual Breakthrough

22:29: The Biggest Reddit Lie About Approaching… Exposed!

28:08: “Get off Reddit!” Ajay’s Unfiltered Advice to Escape Toxic Masculinity


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Do you see women you’d love to talk to in real life but you freeze up? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals how to flip the “Authenticity Switch” and go from anxiousness to confidently approaching women—without any cheesy pickup lines. Four powerful shifts will help you meet women in a charming way. Plus, Connell gives you 4 practical approach missions to start meeting women today.

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Robbie, 26, is a shy software engineer who had never approached a woman in a bar—until one Friday night when dating coach Connell Barrett taught him the Hero Approach. It’s a bold move you make to start a night that unlocks authentic confidence. Three hours later, Robbie had collected 5 phone numbers. “I’m in god mode,” he said at one point. In this episode, you’ll learn how to use the Hero Approach to fearlessly meet women anywhere!

Highlights of this Episode:

04:47: Meet Robbie, Who Battled Approach Anxiety and Self-Doubt

07:10: The Hero Approach: The Game-Changing Move to Unlock Confidence

09:35: “Approach Her or I’ll Put You in a Headlock”—Coach Connell Gets Tough

12:00: Robbie Reaches “God Mode” and Gets 5 Phone Numbers

15:03: Three Approaching Myths Destroyed

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Struggling to get matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? It’s not your looks, and it’s not the dating apps. It’s your profile. Small but costly mistakes make women swipe left. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five proven “Match Magnet” fixes you can apply today—using the photos you already have. No photo shoot, no stress. Just make 5 simple upgrades to turn your profile into match-generating machine.

Episode Highlights:

04:30: Match Magnet #1: Be Hilarious, Not Handsome

10:04: Match Magnet #2: Entice Her with a Good Travel Shot

12:31: Match Magnet #3: Replace Red Flags with Green Flags

16:30: Match Magnet #4: Get Down & Flirty

21:31: Match Magnet #5: Tug at Her Heartstrings

BOOK A FREE CONSULT WITH CONNELL TO SEE IF 1-1 DATING COACHING IS RIGHT FOR YOU: http://www.DatingTransformation.com

Online dating is tough for most men. But when you’re a single dad, it’s hard to find the energy and motivation. In this live coaching session, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client Zach—a single dad re-entering the dating world—improve both his online dating profile and his mindset. Don’t miss Zach’s breakthrough moment (at the 42-minute mark) when he realizes the real reason he’s not meeting the kinds of women he’s into. Listen now!

Episode Highlights:

13:36: The Funny ‘DILF’ Prompt that Gets Women Laughing and Writing You Back

26:02: How to Navigate Your Busy Schedule and Still Get Dates

43:10: Zach’s “Aha!” Moment: “This is Why I Haven’t Had more Dates!”

59:25: Zach Unlocks the Power of Fearless Flirting

1:08:09: The Secret to Motivation, Action… and a Date by this Weekend

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More live coaching! Join dating coach and bestselling author (“Dating Sucks but You Don’t”) Connell Barrett as he helps his client Evan break through a big roadblock: getting ghosted after first dates. Connell reveals the 5 Flirting Escalators—the crucial steps Evan was missing. Get ready to stop hearing “I’m not feeling a connection” and start hearing “When are we going out again?” Listen now.


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Insecurities don’t have to crush your confidence and hurt your dating life. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett takes on a listener’s raw question about penis size and enlargement surgery. Plus, Connell shares the right (and wrong) way to use A.I. in your online-dating strategy. And he reveals the right way to text women between dates.

You’re About to Learn:

01:39: Will $16,000 Penis Enlargement Surgery Fix a Man’s Dating Confidence?

14:55: A Simple Sex Tip to Make You Feel 2 Inches Bigger

16:51: The Right vs. Wrong Way to Use ChatGPT in Online Dating

29:10: This is How Often You Should Text Her Between Dates

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Do you want to confidently meet attractive women you see in bars, cafes or the gym… but you’re afraid you’ll seem creepy? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett has good news: Woman WANT you to approach—if you do it the right way. Your fear of approaching is about to end! Plus, Connell reveals exactly what to say to break the ice and what NOT to say.


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Awkward silences, small talk that goes nowhere, the dreaded “I’m just not feeling” text. Bad dates suck! In this live-coaching episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett helps his client Matthew go from the nice, lonely guy who runs out of things to say to a magnetic flirt who women cannot resist. Discover the 3 flirting moves that Matthew is using to create playful, authentic chemistry on dates. Listen now!

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Want to know what NOT to do on a date? Dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares five cringe-worthy dating disasters. From the investment banker whose cocaine dealer made a surprise appearance, to Connell’s double-decker bus ride straight to the Friend Zone, these cautionary tales will help you avoid becoming her next dating nightmare.

Highlights—Err, Lowlights?—of this Episode:

05:34: MURDER, SHE WATCHED: Maybe Don’t Show Her Your Student Film Where You “Kill” Someone

12:03: BUS RIDE TO THE FRIEND ZONE: Why Grand Gestures Just Don’t Work

20:54: AREOLA GRANDE: Because There’s No Good Time to Ask Her Nipple Size

25:50: FIRST DATE, LAST RITES: “Here Are Pics from My Grandma’s Funeral. So How About a Second Date?”

31:25: COKE-BLOCKED! Meet the Banker Who Brought His Coke Dealer as a Plus-One


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Have you ever deleted a dating app in frustration? Or stopped yourself from following up after being left “on read”? Quitting too soon only leads to settling—or staying single. The solution is resilience. In this episode, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals how grit and tenacity can help you land more dates, build confidence, and find the relationship you want. Love or loneliness—the deciding factor is resilience.

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Approaching women as a shy, introverted guy can feel terrifying. But that shyness is actually your hidden advantage. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals 5 powerful shifts to help introverts confidently meet women in real life. You’ll also discover his go-to icebreaker that almost always works.

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If you struggle on the apps, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals the big mistake that costs you matches and dates—and how to fix it. Plus, Connell shares his best Hinge prompt ever. Then he unveils the 3 must-have prompts every profile needs to FINALLY make online-dating work for you.

Highlights of this Episode:

01:00: Online Dating is NOT Dating—Here’s What It Is

03:01: The Real Reason You Struggle to Get Quality Matches

05:18: What Don Draper Knows about the Dating Apps

07:42: Connell’s #1 Hinge Prompt—and Why It Works

18:47: The 3 Prompts You Need on Your Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile

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You know what sucks? (Besides every Kid Rock song.) When a woman you’re texting leaves you on read—and you have no idea why. In the finale of dating coach Connell Barrett’s “Textual Healing” series, you’ll learn the 5 hidden texting mistakes that turn women off. And you’ll get 5 advanced moves to become a texting ninja. Plus, Connell reads a message thread from his own phone to show you how to text your way to a first date.

You’re About to Learn:

03:44: The #1 Texting Mistake that Kills Attraction

13:08: The Texting Cadence that Prevents Canceled Dates

17:33: Why Being Mysterious Is a Dating Dead End

22:23: The “Resurrection Text” that Brings Dead Matches Back to Life

26:58: The Flirty Way to Confirm Dates by Text

35:49: How “Callback Humor” Builds Chemistry and Connection

45:21: Connell Breaks Down His Own Text Thread

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Ever wonder why you feel insecure around women? In a raw interview, thought leader and podcaster Frank Rich (“The Super Human Life”) joins dating coach Connell Barrett to reveal the hidden culprit that may be hurting your confidence: porn addiction. Rich opens up about his own battle, and explains how watching too much porn leads to objectifying women and kills dating motivation. He also shares his 5-step roadmap to freedom, so you can live and love authentically—without porn or shame.

02:44: Why Porn Addiction is Not What You Think

11:46: How Porn Replaces Real Romantic Connection

15:59: Frank’s Raw Story: From Shame to Redemption

24:40: The Hotel Incident that Changed Everything

29:25: Why Facing Consequences Is the Key to Defeating Porn Addiction

41:35: The 5-Step Roadmap for Rebuilding 

48:08: The Subtle Tells Women Pick Up On within Minutes

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Do women on the apps rarely reply to you? Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals his “Back to the Future” opener—the playful icebreaker that’s helped clients spark conversations, set up dates, and find girlfriends. He gives you the exact words to send so you can stop getting ghosted and start connecting. “This is the best opener I’ve come up with in my 20 years of studying online dating,” Connell says. Steal it today—your future girlfriend will thank you.

Episode Highlights:

01:28: How Connell Created the “Back to the Future” Opener—His Best Ever

04:51: What to Write, Word for Word

11:10: Do This to Make the Exchange Ever Flirtier

15:35: How to Lock in the Date, with ZERO Chance of Flaking

23:45: How Shane Used the Opener to Meet His New Girlfriend

27:51: The Secret Behind Why the “Back to the Future” Opener Works

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Tired of getting ghosted? Do your texting conversations die faster than a fruit fly? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares his 10 Texting Commandments—his tested rules to get women texting you back and saying yes to dates. Yea, thou SHALT obey these holy rules, and ye shall soon get ye some dates!

The 10 Texting Commandments:

04:00: Thou Shalt Give Authentic Value

07:15: Thou Shalt Not Over-Read the Texting Tea Leaves

15:51: Thou Shalt Follow the ‘Three Times Rule’

12:49: Thou Shalt Not Fear the Double-Text

22:45: Thou Shalt Change Her Mood, Not Her Mind

26:12: Thou Shalt Text Her Leading Up to the First Date

31:40: Thou Shalt Lower the Bar for How Good Your Texts Must Be

34:08: Thou Shalt Ask Her Good Questions

37:26: Thou Shalt Use Photos, Videos and Voice Notes

40:35: Thou Shalt Ask Her Out

43:02: Bonus Commandment! Thou Shalt Text Her the Day After a Date

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Have you ever settled for a woman who wasn’t what you were looking for, but you felt she was the best you could do? Licensed therapist and author Jason VanRuler reveals how hidden childhood wounds quietly shape your dating choices—and how to finally heal and move forward. You’ll learn why men settle, how to escape a “shadow” love life, and get a plan to help you finally find the relationship you really want.

Episode Highlights:

07:12: The Panic Attack Connell Once Had about Dating and What it Reveals

14:45: The Psychology Behind Settling in Love and Life

25:45: How to Stop Living a “Shadow Life”

28:54: How to Enjoy the Process of Dating

36:16: The “Business Partner Test” to Know if She’s the One

38:58: Where Introverted Men Should Go to Meet Quality Women

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You may not know it, but you are kinky… and so is your next date! That’s right—a whopping 95 percent of singles are kinky, according to certified sexologist Amanda Dames, who joins dating coach Connell Barrett in a juicy episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend.” Dames, host of the Kink Consultant Podcast, will teach you how to have hot, fun, shame-free sex, even if you’re sexually inexperienced.

Episode Highlights Include:

02:23: From Wall Street to Dominatrix—Amanda’s Wild Origin Story

06:14: The Truth About Sexual Shame (and How to Finally Get Past It)

16:47: Amanda’s Foolproof Foreplay Rules Every Man Should Know

26:55: How to Bring Up Kink on Dates Without Killing the Vibe

30:21: Why Some Women Want to Be “Choked” and How to Do It Safely

41:21: Why 95 Percent of Us Are Kinky

44:55: The Kinky Dating App You MUST Try

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@‌The_KinkConsultant

GET AMANDA’S FREE KINK WORKSHEET:
AmandaDames.com

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