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How Married Are You?
Glen & Yvette Henry
252 episodes
6 days ago
You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.
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You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.
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How Married Are You?
He's a Decade Older Than Me but Hear Me Out! HMAY Ep. 251

A 26‑year‑old listener feels sparks 🔥 with a 35‑year‑old pastor, but her dad and step‑mom insist, “He’s too old!” Now she’s weighing wisdom, faith ✝️, and a widening generation gap 🕰️. Can she trust her own maturity—and God’s timing—over her family’s fears?


We talk:

🙏🏾 Why shared faith, values, and life vision matter more than the number on a birth certificate

🚩 How repeating “much younger” partners can hint at deeper immaturity or control issues

📝 Using premarital coaching and mentors to see compatibility with clear eyes—not just butterflie

👨‍👩‍👧 Balancing family concerns with wisdom from couples who live the kind of marriage you want

🌱 Spotting true maturity through character and growth, not calendar years


Ever crossed a 10‑year age gap? ⏳ What convinced you it could work—or that it couldn’t? Episode 251 is live—tap in and share your story in the comments!


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41 minutes 24 seconds

How Married Are You?
My Girlfriend’s Holding Us Down. Am I Holding Her Back? #HMAY Ep. 250

What do you do when you realize nobody’s coming to save you? 🧠💔📉


In this episode, we hear from a 24-year-old man who's been in a relationship for almost a decade—but feels like he’s barely shown up for any of it.


He moved across the country to be with the love of his life. She’s held down the bills, the home, and the hope. And while he battles depression, anxiety, and a lack of discipline, he's asking the hard questions: How do I stop drowning in self-pity? How do I become the man she deserves… and the man I want to be.


Glen and Yvette dig deep on this one.


We talk:

  • Why nobody’s coming to save you—and why that’s actually freeing
  • What it means to father yourself first
  • How to stop “trying” and start planning
  • Building discipline when you’ve never been modeled it
  • And why love isn’t a crutch—it’s a call to rise.


If you’ve ever felt stuck in your own life—or like you’re falling behind the partner who believes in you—this one’s for you.


Episode 250 is live. Tap in and tell us:What helped you take control when you finally got tired of waiting? 👇🏾

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2 weeks ago
47 minutes 22 seconds

How Married Are You?
My Sister's Boo'd Up and I'm Grieving Alone #HMAY Ep. 249

What do you do when the glue of your family is gone—and everything starts to come undone? 🕊💔


In this episode, we hear from a listener grieving the loss of her mother… while also navigating a painful shift in her relationship with her sister.


They’ve survived so much together—abusive relationships, single motherhood, and even the loss of their fiancés just weeks apart. But now, in the wake of their mother’s death, grief is exposing the cracks: an imbalance in caregiving, a new boyfriend causing tension, and a fear that their bond may not survive this chapter.


Yvette and Glen hold space—and offer clarity.


We talk:


  • What is codependency—and does it apply here?
  • When you’re the “strong one” and it’s quietly breaking you
  • The hard (but freeing) truth about defining relationships with family
  • How grief can also be an identity reckoninAnd why it's okay to find “family” outside your family


If you’ve ever lost someone and felt like you were losing more than one person in the process—this one’s for you.


Episode 249 is live. Tap in, breathe deep, and tell us:What boundaries have helped you stay grounded during a season of loss? 👇🏾

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3 weeks ago
43 minutes 21 seconds

How Married Are You?
My Mom and Stepdad Are Suddenly Polyamorous #HMAY Ep. 248

When your parents’ lifestyle makes you uncomfortable—what do you do? 🤯


In Episode 248, we read an email from a woman trying to navigate a very complicated family dynamic. After growing up loosely Christian, she’s now leaning more into her faith—but her mom and stepdad have recently entered a polyamorous relationship and moved a third partner into the family home… a woman who also happens to work with her dad. 😳


She’s feeling overwhelmed, grossed out, and unsure how to handle visits or conversations without compromising her values or cutting ties completely.


So what does it mean to respond in a godly way—without enabling what you don’t agree with?


We talk about:

  • Why you don’t need to know every messy detail 🧼
  • How to love people where they are, not where you wish they’d be ❤️
  • And the real freedom that comes from accepting you can’t change anyone but yourself 🙏🏾


Tap in for a raw, real convo—and then join us in the comments:

How do you set boundaries without being harsh or judgmental?


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3 weeks ago
44 minutes 26 seconds

How Married Are You?
How Do I End This Creative Dry Spell? #HMAY Ep. 247

What do you do when the creativity dries up? 🎤📱💭


In this episode, we hear from a female rapper who’s feeling stuck. She went from writing multiple songs a week… to barely one every few weeks.


She’s working in a beige windowless room, caring for a loved one recovering from a stroke, and feeling creatively drained—while also lowkey addicted to her phone.


She’s asking for help. For hope. For a spark. 🔥


Glen—our resident rapper—takes the lead on this one.

We talk:

  • Writing what’s real—even when what’s real is sad
  • Creating without the pressure to post
    Why your gift deserves discipline
  • And how phone addiction might be robbing you of the output you’re made for
  • If you’ve ever felt the well run dry, or you’ve doubted your voice as a creative—this one’s for you.


Episode 247 is live. Tap in, get encouraged, and drop a comment below:

What helps YOU keep creating when you’re in a dry season? 👇🏾


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1 month ago
38 minutes 44 seconds

How Married Are You?
I'm Not Supposed to Know Her Business but I Want to Help #HMAY Ep. 246

This week, we’re responding to two emails—both full of tension, questions, and heart.


First up:

A man writes in, self-conscious about being seen as a “toxic male.” 😓

He wants to correct things in his relationship—like how the house is cleaned—but he’s struggling with how to say it and whether he even should.

He’s worried about being part of the problem…

But is he overthinking society’s expectations and missing what’s actually going on in his own relationship?


Then we hear from a woman with a difficult dilemma:She overheard something serious about her friend’s marriage—infidelity. 💔

The friend knows what’s happening in her marriage, but she hasn’t shared it directly.So now, the question is:Do you bring it up? Or do you stay quiet and show support another way?


Glen and Yvette weigh in on why some people stay silent about their pain, and how to be a safe, steady friend—even when you know something you weren’t meant to hear. 🧏🏾‍♀️


Episode 246 is now live—watch and join us in the comments:What would you do if you knew something about your friend’s marriage…but they didn’t tell you themselves? 👇🏾


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1 month ago
49 minutes 55 seconds

How Married Are You?
I Can't Be Myself Around My Wife #HMAY Ep. 245

What do you do when your marriage feels like your biggest regret? 😔


This week, we hear from a husband who’s at his breaking point.
He says he can’t be himself around his wife.
He loves her, but he doesn’t like her—and after years of deception, emotional distance, and barely any intimacy, he’s not sure there’s anything left to fight for.


She's told some big time lies about about finances and debt.

They have major differences in parenting styles.

They’ve had sex a handful of times in five years.

They've tried counseling, but she barely shows up to the process.

Now he’s wondering: Is she just waiting on me to walk away?


In this episode:

💔 We reflect on the difficulty of marriage

🙅🏾‍♀️ Yvette shares moments when she was ready to walk away

🧩 We talk about what to do when the going gets tough

🙏🏾 Plus, a call to prayer when your home feels like it’s falling apart


This one’s honest, painful, and powerful for anyone navigating relationship regret, communication issues, or spiritual disconnection in marriage.


Watch now and join the conversation in the comments:

Have you ever felt like giving up on your relationship?

What helped you hold on—or helped you let go? 👇🏾

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1 month ago
48 minutes 35 seconds

How Married Are You?
Her Family Has Internalized Racism Issues and I Want No Part of It #HMAY Ep. 244

What if your family background feels like something you’ve had to escape—like you came from bad cloth—and now you’re trying to build a life from something new? 🧵


That’s the story behind this week’s email—from a man who cut ties with his manipulative, chaotic family and is now dating a woman whose family seems to have it all together.


Respectable. Traditional. “Good cloth.”


But the longer he’s around them, the more he notices the snags.


Microaggressions. Anti-Black comments. Quiet superiority.


Now he’s asking:

How do I protect my future family from this too?


In this episode:

✂️ Glenn opens up about drawing hard lines with his own family

💬 Yvette reflects on coming from a “cleaner cloth”—and what still gets revealed over time

🛑 We talk about boundaries, bias, and how to protect the culture of your home

📍Plus, advice for having real conversations with your partner’s family—even if you’re not married yet


This one is vulnerable, honest, and deeply relevant if you’re thinking about what you want to pass on… and what has to stop with you.


Watch now and join us in the comments:

Where have you had to draw the line with family?

And what do you want to protect your kids from—no matter who it comes from? 👇🏾


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1 month ago
38 minutes 13 seconds

How Married Are You?
My Husband Refuses to Brush His Teeth! #HMAY Ep. 239

“My man only brushes his teeth once a week… and still wanna kiss me in the mouth?!” 😩🪥


This listener wrote in with a situation that had us both shook—and honestly?

Sis, you’re not asking for too much.


She’s pregnant 🤰🏾, in PJs most days, not feeling her cutest—and her husband is still calling her beautiful and trying to love on her real close.

The only problem? His breath is breathin’. 💨👃🏽


She’s brought it up, but he says brushing isn’t his focus right now. He’s thinking about bills, baby prep, and just trying to make it through.

But affection without hygiene? That’s a tough love language to translate.


In Episode 239, we talk about:

🗣️ When the “little things” feel big

🧼 Why personal care isn’t shallow—it’s sacred

💞 How to hold space for your spouse and still speak your trut

😤 Navigating love when the vibes ain't vibin'


🎥 Watch the full episode to hear our take—and why we think she’s more than fair for bringing it up.


Comment below:What’s one “small” thing in your relationship that turned into a BIG conversation?


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2 months ago
41 minutes 12 seconds

How Married Are You?
How Do I Convince Him to Go to Therapy? #HMAY Ep. 243

This week’s email hits deep. A wife writes in, asking for advice on how to encourage her husband to go to therapy to address childhood trauma. But he’s resistant—and it’s not just personal… it’s cultural. 🌍🧠


Glen & Yvette open up about the stigma around therapy in Caribbean communities and how that resistance can impact marriages, healing, and connection. 🇯🇲💬


They also get real about their own journey with therapy—what helped, what hurt, and how they’ve learned to show up for each other while doing the work.


If you’ve ever wrestled with therapy, felt stuck trying to support a partner, or wondered how your upbringing shapes your healing process—this one’s for you.


Tap in, listen close, and join the conversation. 👂🏾💭

Drop your thoughts in the comments:

Have you or your spouse ever resisted therapy? What helped shift the perspective?


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2 months ago
37 minutes 27 seconds

How Married Are You?
My Sister Got Violent & I'm Just Supposed To Get Over it?! #HMAY Ep. 242

Sisters. Podcasts. Beef. And… a flying water bottle?! 🥴💥


This week, we’re diving into a wild email from a listener caught in some serious sister drama. Two sisters started a podcast together, but when one decided she was done, things got messy.

👉🏾 One sister wanted control.

👉🏾 The other was tired of being told what to do.

👉🏾 Then came the accusations—flaky, bossy, better-than-you vibes.

👉🏾 And yes, a water bottle got thrown (missed, but still…).


Now, the sister writing in wants to make things right, but everyone else seems ready to just move on like it didn't happen. So what do you do when the people you love don’t wanna deal with the real issues?


Tap in to hear our take, and let us know what you’d do in her shoes.


🎧 Watch Episode 242 now.

📝 Drop a comment with your thoughts.


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2 months ago
38 minutes 32 seconds

How Married Are You?
Are All These Men Trash...Or Is There More To The Story? #HMAY Ep. 241

Are all the husbands out here flopping… or are we just not hearing the whole story? 🤔💭


In this episode, we read another email from a wife who’s had it. Her man’s doing the bare minimum, communication is a mess, and she’s at her breaking point. But after reading a bunch of emails like this lately, we had to pause and ask: Is it really always the man? Or are we missing something?


We talk about how easy it is to misjudge a whole situation when you’ve only got one side, and we get real about some of our own relationship moments where both people thought they were right—but nobody was actually hearing each other.


Tap in for the conversation, stay for the callout—we need more men to speak up and share their side. ✍🏽👂🏾


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2 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes 14 seconds

How Married Are You?
Life on the Farm Wasn’t What We Expected #HMAY Ep. 240

Sometimes you gotta move to find your peace. 🏡✨


Last year? Whew. It was a whole lot.

We moved out to the farm thinking it was gonna be this beautiful new chapter for our family… and listen — some of it was. 🌻 But some of it? Straight up survival mode. 💀Fast forward to now — we’re in Fallbrook.

And it finally feels like home. 🖤🌴

We’re breathing different. Living different. Smiling different.

God really knows how to set you up when you trust Him with the whole story. 🙏🏾


Thanks for rocking with us through all the ups and downs.

This next chapter? We ready. 🏁


Drop a comment and tell us — what’s a season you thought would go one way but ended up growing you in a way you never expected? We’d love to hear your story. 🖤


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2 months ago
52 minutes 56 seconds

How Married Are You?
I Probably Shouldn't Have Married Him…Now What? #HMAY Ep. 238

He gave up his best friend for love… but was it worth it? 💍💔And what do you do when marriage hits hard just four months in? 😬


In this episode, we’re diving into two real-life relationship updates that had us both nodding... and hollering. 😭😂


First up: remember the fiancé who asked her man to choose between her and his female best friend? 👀 Well—he called back with an update.Spoiler: there's a wedding date on the books 💒... but was the friendship loss worth it?


Then, we hear from a newlywed who’s four months into marriage and struggling.They did all the prep—counseling, mentorship, community—but real life ain’t reading like the workbook. 📖💥Now she’s wondering: did I marry the wrong man? Or is this just part of the process?


We’re sharing the truth about what Year One really felt like for us, what kept us going, and how to know when it’s time to press in—or possibly peace out.


Tune in for the real, the raw, and the reminders that choosing love takes work... but you’re not alone.


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3 months ago
1 hour 2 minutes 45 seconds

How Married Are You?
He Planned on Letting Her Find Out at His Funeral! #HMAY Ep. 237

What do you do when God is the one exposing the truth in your marriage? 😳💔


In Episode 237, we’re diving into one of the wildest calls we’ve received yet. A woman finds out her husband has a hidden child, a secret past, and no desire to tell the truth—so God starts revealing it in her dreams. 👀


We talk trust, spiritual red flags, emotional safety, and the power of redemption—even when it feels impossible. Plus, what do you do when you’re still in love with someone from your past? Whew. Let’s talk about it.


🎧 Tap in for real stories, real faith, and real conversations that just might hit you right where you are.


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3 months ago
43 minutes 9 seconds

How Married Are You?
I’m Tired of Having to be the Bigger Person #HMAY Ep. 236

Feeling like you’re always the bigger person in your relationship? The optimist, the problem solver, the one carrying all the weight? 😮‍💨


In this episode, we’re talking about how to handle that dynamic—how to keep going without burning out, set boundaries without resentment, and create balance in your relationship. Because love shouldn’t feel one-sided.


Tap in and let’s talk about it. 💬


Ever felt like you’re carrying more of the relationship? Drop a 🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏾‍♂️ in the comments!


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3 months ago
31 minutes 23 seconds

How Married Are You?
Is He Marriage Material? #HMAY Ep. 235

Is he marriage material? 💍


In today’s episode, we tackle the question of whether emotional connection is enough to build a future. Her man is her best friend, they vibe as artists, but he’s a hermit who won’t make an effort for her social life, family, or future plans. 🧐

Yvette and Glen break down what she should be asking herself and him—and share how misalignment showed up in their own relationship.


🎤 How do you know when your partner isn’t on the same page?

🎤 What questions should you ask to understand if they’re ready for marriage?


Watch the full episode and drop your thoughts in the comments! ⬇️


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3 months ago
54 minutes 52 seconds

How Married Are You?
The Cheeks Gotta Get Clapped #HMAY Ep. 234

Worried your wedding night might be whack? 😩


One listener wrote in with a big concern—she’s marrying a virgin and is nervous about what that means for their intimacy. So we’re diving ALL the way in on what it really looks like to navigate intimacy when experience levels don’t match.


Yvette shares what it was like being a virgin bride—not just the emotions, but the mechanics (or lack thereof 😭). We get real about our awkward first night, our struggles with incompatibility, and how we finally figured it out. Because let’s be real… being “experienced” doesn’t mean anything if you’re still learning a brand-new person.


This episode is raw, honest, and full of the convos we wish we had before marriage. Tap in now! ⬇️


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4 months ago
54 minutes 49 seconds

How Married Are You?
Somebody is Gonna Have to Submit #HMAY Ep. 233

In this episode, we’re diving into the real-life dilemmas y’all are facing—like when to make sacrifices for your partner, how to balance your career with your relationship, and when to put dreams on hold (or go for it all). 💭💍


Some of the questions we’re tackling:

“Should I give up my grad school dreams for my partner?” 🤔

“Can you really have a career and a successful marriage without losing yourself?” 💼💖

“How do you know when it’s time to sacrifice for love, or go after what you want?”


We’re keeping it 100 about relationships, career goals, and those hard decisions. Drop your thoughts below and let’s talk about how you handle love and dreams. 💬


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4 months ago
1 hour 3 minutes 29 seconds

How Married Are You?
The Hardest Audience Questions We've Ever Answered 😮‍💨💭 #HMAY Ep. 232

What do you do when trust is broken, expectations aren’t met, and life just keeps piling on—loss, grief, addiction, betrayal, finances, job stress—like, can we catch a break?! 😩💸


We’re getting real in this episode:

💭 When is it time to walk away—from a marriage, a career, or any situation that is no longer honoring or beneficial?

💭 What does leadership & responsibility really look like when the pressure is on?Marriage, career, LIFE—sometimes it’s too much. 😮‍💨💭


If you’ve ever felt stuck, overwhelmed, or just straight-up lost on what to do next, this one’s for you.


🎧 Listen in now & let’s figure this out together! ⬇️


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4 months ago
47 minutes 31 seconds

How Married Are You?
You may know Glen from Beleaf in Fatherhood where he gives a real life perspective of life as a stay at home parent. This podcast is an extension of his youtube series, where he & Yvette sit down on a weekly basis to share their parenting and marriage experiences as a unit.