Ever feel like motherhood has completely taken over your identity? That the constant demands leave you feeling lost, overwhelmed, and even questioning if you made the right choice?
In this incredibly raw and uplifting episode, Maria sits down with Oluwaseun Usidamen, a purpose-driven mum and content creator from Nigeria. Oluwaseun opens up with stunning honesty about her difficult journey into motherhood—battling postpartum depression, fighting against the changes, and struggling to see her child as the blessing she is.
But this is a story of powerful transformation. Oluwaseun shares how she moved from a place of regret and fear to genuinely wanting a second child. She gets real about the intentional work it took, including:
The practical steps she took to overcome negative thoughts and partner with God through her struggles.
How to reframe motherhood not as a limitation, but as an evolution of who you are.
Breaking the cycle of comparison and envy that so many mums face.
Her game-changing approach to a devotional life that doesn't require hours of quiet time you just don't have.
The legacy she's building and how she's intentionally raising her daughter to know God in the everyday.
This conversation is a beacon of hope for any mum who feels like she's drowning in the demands. It’s a powerful reminder that you don't have to stay in a place of overwhelm. You can learn to thrive, walk in your God-given purpose, and find deep, authentic joy in your calling as a mother.
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Listen now and be encouraged to embrace the beautiful, challenging, and purpose-filled journey of motherhood.
What happens when medical science meets faith? In this powerful and deeply personal episode of How Is Motherhood?, I sit down with Dr. Chikondi, an Obstetrician/Gynecologist, for a conversation that every woman needs to hear.
We dive into the raw, unspoken challenges of motherhood: the pressure of C-sections, the anxiety around contraception, and the frustration of feeling like just another number on a chart. Dr. Chikondi gets vulnerably honest about the "helplessness" doctors feel and why the patient-doctor relationship is everything.
This isn't your typical medical interview. We tackle the big questions:
How do you choose the right birth control when planning for a family?
What are the biggest misconceptions women have about their own bodies?
Is it a lack of faith to trust medical advice?
Why is planning the most revolutionary act for your reproductive health?
Dr. Chikondi shares her incredible journey from a six-year-old dreaming of being a doctor to finding her calling in the "happy side of medicine," all while learning to lean on God's wisdom in a field governed by science. This is a must-listen for any woman seeking to navigate her health with grace, intention, and faith.
Tune in for a conversation that will change how you see your body, your doctor, and God's role in your journey through motherhood.
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Ever feel like your closest friendships are fading since motherhood began? I know I do, and you are not alone. On my podcast, This week, I'm tackling a listener's question on financial harmony in marriage with some practical, biblical advice we all need to hear, before I dive deep into what God has been teaching me about His design for community. If you're longing for meaningful connection but don't know where to start, I made this episode for you. Let's learn together how to build lasting legacies of friendship—for us and for our kids.
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Can being a great mother and managing your finances co-exist?
In this episode I talk with Chuma Silutongwe who is the Head Internal Audit, West Africa at Standard Bank Group. We discuss how to manage your finances as a mother.
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In this episode I seat down and talk about my return to work after maternity leave. I discuss how am now in a different head space with my second than when I was with my first.
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In this episode Pastor Chakongela talks about how motherhood for us children of God Is more than diaper changes but a call to raising a godly offspring
🌱 Think of a mother you know who may be feeling overwhelmed, unseen, or isolated.
Imagine how sharing this podcast with her today could bring encouragement, hope, and a reminder that she’s not alone.
🎧 Commit to listening and reflecting on one episode each week.
As you do, write down one takeaway or truth that speaks to your season. When we reach our next milestone, look back at how these insights have supported and shaped your motherhood journey.
🙏🏾 Pray this with us every week:
“God, thank You for the gift of motherhood and the strength You give each day. May this podcast continue to empower, uplift, and connect mothers across the world. Let it be a place of healing, wisdom, and joy. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
In this episode we look at the story of Jabez and how his prayer can help us as mothers to pray for our children and ourselves.
🌱 Think of a mother you know who may be feeling overwhelmed, unseen, or isolated.
Imagine how sharing this podcast with her today could bring encouragement, hope, and a reminder that she’s not alone.
🎧 Commit to listening and reflecting on one episode each week.
As you do, write down one takeaway or truth that speaks to your season. When we reach our next milestone, look back at how these insights have supported and shaped your motherhood journey.
🙏🏾 Pray this with us every week:
“God, thank You for the gift of motherhood and the strength You give each day. May this podcast continue to empower, uplift, and connect mothers across the world. Let it be a place of healing, wisdom, and joy. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”
In this heartfelt episode of How Is Motherhood?, we sit down with Hanna from Good Day Moms to unpack the messy, beautiful journey of parenting through tantrums, emotional overwhelm, and spiritual growth. As a mom of three (ages 8, 6, and 4), Hanna shares her raw "aha moments"—like the time she realised her frustration wasn’t about her toddler’s defiance but about her own need to respond with Christ-like patience.
We dive into:
The cycle of guilt vs. conviction—how to course-correct after losing your temper (without dwelling in shame).
Gentle parenting vs. assertive boundaries—why Hanna is stepping away from "gentle parenting" to find balance.
Fruits of the Spirit in the trenches—how outbursts of wrath reveal where we really need the Holy Spirit.
Prayer for busy moms—why Hanna prays best in a loud spin class (and how micro-moments with God transform her day).
The lies of social media motherhood—why she didn’t feel "instant love" after her first birth (and why that’s normal).
Whether you’re in the toddler tantrum phase or navigating big emotions with older kids, this conversation is a reminder: motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up, leaning on grace, and letting God refine you through the chaos.
Listen now—and know you’re not alone.
in this episode , Tariro shares her unfiltered journey through motherhood—from a traumatic preeclampsia battle and emergency C-section (delivering her 1.1kg son) to navigating grief as a widow and long-distance parent.
She opens up about:
The shock of motherhood vs. societal expectations
Miracles in the mess: Her son’s survival and finding joy in hardship
Letting go: Sending her child abroad for his well-being
Faith as her anchor through loss and loneliness
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What does it truly mean to become a mother? In this powerful episode of How is Motherhood?, I sit down with Mama Sithole—a mother of three and a pillar of wisdom—to explore the unvarnished realities of parenting. From the life-changing moment she first held her daughter to the cultural clashes of raising kids abroad, Mama Sithole holds nothing back.
The Hidden Meaning of "Congratulations": Why childbirth made her see motherhood—and her own mom—in a whole new light.
Breastfeeding Battle Scars: The blistering pain no one warns you about (and why "just push through" isn’t always the answer).
Motherhood Across Continents: The heartache of leaving a child behind to migrate—and the cultural tightrope of parenting in the UK.
Prayer as a Lifeline: How faith pulled her through sleepless nights, colic, and teenage rebellion.
With equal parts humor and heartbreak, Mama Sitole’s journey reminds us that motherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about showing up, even when you’re exhausted, unsure, or bleeding (literally).
For every mom who’s ever felt alone in the struggle: Press play. You’ll laugh, cry, and feel seen.
Dr. Emanuella, an OB-GYN resident, for an honest conversation about women’s health—from painful periods and fibroids to fertility struggles and childbirth realities. They tackle misconceptions, share warning signs women shouldn’t ignore, and discuss how faith and medicine can work together. Whether you're a mom, mom-to-be, or prioritizing your health, this episode offers practical wisdom and encouragement.
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Motherhood is meant to be enjoyed. It’s not supposed to feel like a constant burden.
Before you tap out, listen in. This episode features real conversations with mothers who are making intentional choices to find joy—even in the chaos. They’re embracing the beauty in the journey, and you can too.
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In this episode, we have a heartfelt conversation about what it really means to parent with vision. We talk about the importance of paying attention — not just accepting what professionals or culture say, but noticing the little things our children are showing us every day.
We share honest stories about the times we got it wrong — when exhaustion or assumptions clouded our awareness — and how parenting often invites us to slow down, listen again, and learn. Grace for ourselves and each other is a big part of the journey.
We also explore how parenting isn't a solo mission: it takes teamwork. We talk about the beauty of co-parenting when both partners are willing, the silent sacrifices good fathers often make, and the strength it takes to build a family culture where everyone feels seen and supported.
This conversation is a real reminder that parenting with vision isn’t about perfection — it’s about humility, growth, and staying open to learning along the wa
In this vulnerable and wisdom-filled episode of How is Motherhood, I sit down with Pastor Debbie Banda — founder of Enrich Women’s Ministry, entrepreneur, speaker, author, and mother of three. We dive into the raw realities of becoming a mom, the pressure of perfection, and the shock of motherhood, even after years of working in professional care.
Pastor Debbie shares her deeply personal journey of fear and growth, from being scared to bathe her newborn to learning to live in the moment with confidence and grace. Together, we unpack the silent struggles of breastfeeding, the unspoken weight of comparison, and the unexpected gaps between expectation and reality — especially as shaped by our culture, community, and social media.
This episode is a gentle reminder that every motherhood journey is different, and that real strength often looks like asking for help, embracing the mess, and releasing the myth of the “perfect mother.” Whether you're a new mom, a seasoned parent, or somewhere in between, this conversation will leave you encouraged, seen, and reminded that you’re not alone.
Grab a cup of tea and join us as we keep it honest, heartfelt, and real.
In this honest and heartfelt episode, we unpack the idea of “helping” in the home and challenge the mindset that assigns chores to one gender. Through real stories and wisdom shared from lived experience, we explore how shared responsibility, honouring one another, and subtle communication can transform the atmosphere in a marriage.
From practical tips on how to “sell the product” without nagging, to how to affirm efforts without reinforcing stereotypes (“Wow, the house looks nice” vs “Thanks for doing the dishes”), we look at the small shifts that make a big difference.
You’ll hear why ignoring what’s not done perfectly can sometimes be a strength, how to stay in unity even when tasks fall short, and why involving your husband early in parenting is a game-changer. If you’ve ever felt frustrated, overworked, or under-appreciated in your role at home—this episode is for you.
What happens when motherhood feels more like survival than serenity? In this vulnerable and powerful episode, we sit down with a mother who opens up about the emotional weight of parenting—from battling self-doubt and burnout to learning how to ask for help and embrace grace.
She shares how her children became her mirror, her ministry, and sometimes her greatest challenge. With honesty that cuts deep, she talks about moments of crying out for support, the struggle of showing up when you're running on empty, and the power of having a village.
"You’re human. Stop expecting miracles."
"Am I the worst mum in the world?"
"My children are my first ministry."
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As a mom, have you ever felt like setting firm standards might push your child away? Society often makes it seem like discipline and connection can’t coexist—but what if that’s not true?
In this episode, Pastor Mary shares how her mother balanced discipline with love, using scripture as her guide. She reveals why she tells her own children, "I discipline you because I love you," and how she enforces rules while keeping an open heart.
How do you stay firm yet loving? Where do you draw the line? And how can you parent with both authority and grace?
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In this episode of How is Motherhood, I sit down with the wonderful Ebele 'Ebee' Bright—writer, singer, and founder of Announce World. We dive into the importance of creating a safe space for our children, where they feel secure enough to open up, confide in us, and embrace mistakes as part of their growth. Ebele shares her insights on building resilience in our little ones, helping them navigate life's challenges with confidence. This is a heartfelt conversation about the power of love, trust, and the role we play in shaping our children's emotional well-being.
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Motherhood isn’t just picture-perfect moments and matching PJs—it’s raw, real, and sometimes overwhelming. In this episode of How is Motherhood, I sit down with Rita Chidinma, the face behind Young Nigerian Mom, to unpack the unspoken sides of motherhood.
Rita shares how she went from a carefree young woman to a mother of three in rapid succession, navigating the chaos, the expectations, and the reality that no one warned her about. We talk about why many mothers struggle to admit the hard parts, the pressure to say “I’m fine,” and how we can create spaces where moms feel safe to share their truths.
If you’ve ever wondered why your motherhood journey doesn’t look like what you see online, this episode is for you.