I know, this one's going long. Add to that, we're getting into some pretty heavy stuff.
Tammy Jordan was introduced to me through the She Built This network group (Thank you Emily & Erin). I indicated that I was interested in recording a conversation with someone qualified to discuss narcissism and narcissistic personality traits as well as the challenges that come with caring for someone with these characteristics. The request was kind of out of the blue but the response was quick and enthusiastic. Tammy has written a book describing her own experiences both as a child and residual affects as she is herself now a mom.
She readily attributes much of her own growth to various authors; all of the pertinent links are below. Included is a link to the video version of the recording. I will say that as I edited the episode I saw a lot of discomfort in my own reactions. That is not to say to I regret having had the conversation, not at all. But if you want to see me squirm...
There will be another conversation in a couple of weeks with Sonya Lyn following up and taking a look at the individuals who see themselves drawn towards those who exhibit hurtful behavior. It's also kind a of tough episode, but hopeful. I'd like to consider having a round-table discussion with a small group and someone like Tammy or Sonya to field questions. It's clear there are a number of people impacted.
Thank you Tammy. Thank you all who responded to my request. Enjoy.
Video version of our conversation
Tammy's book: Returning to Whole (free first chapter)
Purchase Returning to Whole through Amazon
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.
Waking the Tiger by Peter Levine
Tammy's headshot was created by Alexandra Chan
