Theo A. Cope holds his MA and Ph.D. in Psychology. He is a certified Family Consultant and a Positive Psychotherapist (PPT) with certification granted by the World Association of Positive Psychotherapy in Wiesbaden, Germany. PPT is a trans-cultural and cross-cultural therapeutic method, which began in 1968 by Dr. Nossrat Peseschkian. Dr. Cope is also a Certified Stress Surfing trainer, a modality created by Dr. Ivan Kirillov and based on PPT.
Dr. Cope works with individuals, couples, and families. He has worked with these psychological realities: depression, anxiety, eating disorders, self-harm, sex and alcohol addictions, stress, cultural adjustments, bipolar disorder, ADHD, as well as relationship challenges and skill enhancements, among others.
To learn more about Dr. Cope or purchase his book, check out the links below.
https://calm-international.com/
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/19227565-fear-of-jung
Today's episode was recorded in September, shortly after the Suicide Awareness Panel. Mark Allan Karanja Ngina is a writer, blogger, podcaster, and journalist. He is the creator of the Piquing Duck blog, which focuses on The Far East Queer Perspective. He is one of the leaders of the Queer community here in Beijing, China.
You can find his blog at piquingduck.com. Make sure to follow him on Instagram @piquingduck on Twitter @spacedisruptor.
Today I talked with Megan. Megan co-founded Project A as a way to use her experiences to help people heal from traumatic experiences. Today Megan and I discussed the impact of violence, how it can look different than people think, and many other topics.
It's time for Season 3!!!
Here are three phrases that are making communication with ourselves and each other more difficult.
3. Selfish/Self-Centered 1:18
2. I'm the only one... 9:08
1. Who am I too/Who is she too... 20:35
In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, I interviewed Rachel George. An expat therapist here in Beijing, China. She is the owner of Heart in Mind Coaching.
Originally from Houston, Texas, Rachel George is a therapist and life coach. Although fairly new to the expat life, she has found China to be that place where her heart truly feels at home. A firm believer in speaking her truth, no matter if her voice shakes, Rachel is committed to working with others to not only find their passions but live and relish in them fully. A lover of all things carbs, she spends her days empowering students to realize their limitless potential in her role as a school counselor, and her nights silently planning to change the world, one heart at time.
This week, we are going to discuss Week 1 of the Women’s History Month Calendar. This calendar is a bit different from last months. I added a category and removed one. This month, I want to focus on showing appreciation to others as well as education.
Time Stamps
Day 1: Rest and Recharge: 1:00
Day 2: Write yourself a Love Letter: 2:01
Day 3: Start A Convo: Body Image: 5:35
Day 4: Frida Kahlo: 21:20
Day 5: Portrait of Lady on Fire: 24:18
In this episode, I discuss the topics from the fourth and fifth weeks of the calendar. We talked about movies, books, black codes, and discrimination. And I give my final thoughts on how I feel the calendar went. I hope you enjoy the show.
Time Stamps
Week 4
Day 20: Black Codes: 0:55
Day 21: Alice Coachman: 4:13
Day 22: The Ways of White Folks by Langston Hughes: 6:16
https://www.britannica.com/biography/Langston-Hughes
https://www.poetryfoundation.org/poets/langston-hughes
https://poets.org/poet/langston-hughes
https://www.amazon.com/Ways-White-Folks-Stories-Classics/dp/0679728171
Day 23: How Gender and Race discrimination are different: 8:06
Day 24: Rest and Recharge: 18:35
Day 25: Missouri Compromise: 21:10
Day 26: Love and Basketball: 22:43
Week 5
Day 27: Henrietta Lacks: 26:51
Day 28: Spoken Word: 30:25
In this episode, I discuss the topics from the third week of the calendar. We talked about movies, books, reconstruction, and cultural appropriation. I hope you enjoy the show.
Time Stamps
Day 13: Cultural Appropriation: 0:45
Day 14: Take a Social Media Break: 13:16
Day 15: Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates: 13:56
Day 16: Benjamin Davis Sr.: 21:58
Day 17: Reconstruction: 24:06
Day 18: Selma: 28:40
Day 19: Black Hosted: 40:11
In this episode, I discuss the topics from the second week of the calendar. We talked about movies, books, supreme court cases, and microaggressions. I hope you enjoy the show.
Time Stamps
Day 1: Waiting to Exhale: 0:45
Day 2: Gwendolyn Brooks: 3:30
Day 3: "The Other Black Girl" by Zakiya Dalila Harris: 5:17
Day 4: What are microaggressions: 8:07
Day 5: Self Care 27:13
Day 6: Loving vs. Virginia: 28:18
Day 7: When the Levees Broke by Spike Lee: 34:15
In this episode, I discuss the topics from the first week of the calendar. When I was deciding what books, movies, and people to list for the month, I wanted to focus on how black people see the world. I wanted to show that we aren’t monoliths. That while some of our experiences are shared, some are different, so I wanted to paint the picture of educated, informed, and successful people. Often when we see movies that win Oscars or get the most screen time, they’re about the struggle of people within the community that paints our lives as one way. This then impacts the way we are seen globally because those movies become what people who may never meet black Americans reference when they think of us. The number of people I have met that have told me that Gone with the Wind is their favorite movie and that they don’t understand why black people are complaining about slavery because the characters in the movie are happy is entirely too high for my comfort level. No, it’s not black America’s job to go out and correct these misconceptions, but we can offer an assist by highlighting movies, books, and people that better explain our situation in its totality. That focuses on our accomplishments as well as the struggles. In all things, balance.
Time Stamps
Day 1: "How We Fight For Our Lives" by Saeed Jones: 2:35
Day 2: Plessy Vs. Ferguson: 5:00
Day 3: How to be an Ally: 13:08
Tip 1- Know your privilege: 17:30
Tip 2- Actively Listen: 17: 44
Tip 3- Speak up not over: 19:02
Tip 4- Let us speak: 20:00
Tip 5- Apologize when you mess up: 21:00
Tip 6- Ally is a verb: 21:30
Tip 7- Respect Safe Spaces: 26: 15
Tip 8- Remember issues are always present: 27:45
How to ask Questions: 29:18
Day 4: Know your boundaries: 33: *Check the episode "What Boundaries"
Day 5: Emmett Till: 34:50
It's Black History Month!!! This week I give you a rundown of what to expect this upcoming month. The calendar will cover important people, historical events, difficult conversations, self-care tips, Black directed movies, and events hosted by Black expats in Beijing. I also explain why Black History is American history, and what my goals are for this month.
Time Stamp
What to expect this month: 0:50
Why Black History Month: 7:39
In today's episode, we discuss the main types of boundaries. The importance of knowing where your boundaries fall. And why it is so important to know what your boundaries are.
https://open.spotify.com/episode/70sr4kEZHofYGPQi5iYkct?si=DbyV8bTORGuMfFSK5S7_Hw
Time Stamps
Property Boundaries- 3:48
Time Boundary- 5:20
Personal Boundaries- 6:45
Degrees of boundaries- 21:44
Unpopular Opinion- 25:05
Why boundaries are important- 27:20
Caveat- 29:03
Rejection- 30:53
In this episode, I talk about the ups and downs of this year. My accomplishments and my failings. I also talk about my plans for the upcoming year, and projects I have in the works.
I had the privilege of interviewing my new friend Cam. He is an American who is currently living and working in Harbin, China. He has a new business called Cammymade where he bakes up confectionary masterpieces. But today's conversation wasn't just for those with a sweet tooth. Today we talked about life in China, what brought him here, and some of the lessons he's learned along the way. I hope you enjoy the episode.
To learn more about Cam and Cammymade reach out to him on Wechat or Instagram: @Camstun187
Today I was lucky enough to be able to interview Shamim Zakaria an Indian reporter at China's state newswire Xinhua News Agency.
He answers questions on several topics: the differences between reporting in China and other countries, stories that deeply influenced him, and debunked some common misconceptions about reporting in China.
Check out Shamim's website: www.shamimzakaria.com to follow his work and see his perspective of life here and abroad. Look out for his upcoming Vlog China Quest!
https://open.spotify.com/show/4RS90iADQQNY3VQ522oyun
In this episode, I talk about how I feel about people’s responses to “The Closer.” It is my opinion that people who are upset with the special didn’t like the special don’t like Chappelle in general.
I talk about how people have missed the point of the special because he was trying to explain racism through the lens of several different movements. I also discuss how I feel about Daphne Dorman’s story, and why it shouldn’t be ignored.
*This episode does contain explicit content and is not suitable for children. Listener discretion advised.
Time codes:
Part 1: 1:40
Part 2: 19:11
https://anchor.fm/tatiana-mclaurin/episodes/The-Closer-Aftermath-e19t2t4
Additional Resources:
https://www.npr.org/2021/10/05/1043435919/dave-chappelle-new-netflix-special-the-closer-review
What is self-care? In this episode, I explain what self-care is using Very Well Mind’s 5 categories of Self-care and give my top 10 self-care tips. Self-care gets a bad rep because it’s constantly tied to consumerism and indulgences. Many people view self-care as a luxury they and afford to ignore. While others see it as an excuse to do whatever makes them feel good in the moment. But neither of those is actual self-care. Self-care is about making sure that you take care of yourself mind, body, and soul. Tune in and learn the different categories of self-care and the tips to use to keep yourself sane.
https://anchor.fm/tatiana-mclaurin/episodes/Self-Care-e1982p2
Time codes:
5 categories: 9:30
Top 10 tips: 19:43
Bonus tip: 43:08
Additional Resources:
https://www.verywellmind.com/self-care-strategies-overall-stress-reduction-3144729
The More of Less Definitive Guide to Self-Care by Anna Borges: https://read.amazon.cn/kp/embed?asin=B07NMPL56D&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_JBAXV2H3H9XMGZH5M490
Coping Skills: Tools & Techniques for Every Stressful Situation by Faith G. Harper PhD
https://www.amazon.com/Coping-Skills-audiobook/dp/B07RF88XSY/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=coping+skills+by+faith+harper&qid=1635144981&sr=8-1
Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristin Neff
In honor of the 20th anniversary of September 11th. I have decided to provide a few perspectives of that day and its aftermath. In this episode, you will hear a foreign perspective, mine, and someone who was there.
Gabriele: 00:53
Tatiana: 13:05
James: 26:17