This week's guest is sexual anthropologist and author of the new memoir 177 Lovers and Counting: My Life as a Sex Researcher, Dr. Leanna Wolfe.
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This week's guest is Leslie Draffin, psychedelic guide, somatic womb healer, transformational
coach & speaker as we discuss sexuality, trauma, and healing through the power of psychedelics.
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This week's guest is Bari Beckett, the creative and the author behind the new erotica book, Big Love, which proves you are never too old for love and sex.
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This week’s guest is author, business coach and shamanic practitioner, Dale Allen-Rowse. We discuss his experience being diagnosed with Dystonia, dating with disabilities, flying to another state for a hookup, and so much more!
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This week’s guest is Natalie Katona, host of the To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before podcast. We discuss dating while podcasting, feeling secure in relationships, rejection sensitivity, and so much more!
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This week's guest deviant is Legal Madame and Courtesan, s*x work advocate and educator, Olivia LaRue! We discuss her background as "The Wild West MILF, " the legality of s*x work, and she shares a riotously funny Mrs. Robinson-esque tale!
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Happy Valentine’s Day, deviants! In this special episode Demi talks to celebrity gay matchmakers, Daniel Cooley and Anthony Canapi about what a matchmaker does, what makes a good dating profile, turning matchmaking into a business, the future of dating, and of course Daniel and Anthony share some dating horror stories!
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Timestamps:
0:00 Welcome
5:00 What does a matchmaker do?
12:30 What makes a good dating profile?
15:30 Advocacy community organization
19:50 Matchmaking into a business
27:45 Psychology of matchmaking
31:20 How does matchmaking work?
37:49 The future of dating
45:50 Foria Ad
46:51 Daniel’s Dating Horror Story
50:44 Anthony’s Dating Horror Story
58:40 Red Flags
#matchmaking #dating #lgbtq
In this episode Demi talks to kinky wellness coach, Dana Shergill. We discuss her love of “playing rough,” how BDSM is “playing rough,” common misconceptions of BDSM, basics of BDSM, owning your consent, what “aftercare” is in BDSM, we answer a Reddit question about how kink can go wrong, and Dana shares the story of the time she held a man and let him cry.
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Timestamps:
0:00 Welcome
3:59 BDSM is “playing rough”
9:35 Common misconceptions of BDSM
12:44 Basics of BDSM
20:40 Owning your consent
24:40 What is “aftercare” in BDSM?
27:35 Answering a Reddit question about BDSM
33:00 Holding a man and letting him cry in bed
37:25 Red Flags
#bdsm #kink #wellness
In this episode Demi talks to author of the book Twisted Love, Robert Bigaouette. Twisted Love is a story about a bizarre love triangle revolving around obsession. We discuss how he got started in writing, being a victim of obsession himself, having to file an Order of Protection, taking his personal experiences to write Twisted Love, psychology of an obsessed person, what defines an obsession, the signs of being obsessive, and so much more! Plus he shares the story of the time he was a victim of obsession. Buy Twisted Love: https://www.blueeyedsquirrelentertainment.com/ _____________________________________________________________________ Social Media: https://linktr.ee/demitriwylde Blog: www.DemitriWylde.com Patreon: Patreon.com/DemitriWylde _____________________________________________________________________ Sponsors: Foria Wellness: https://get.aspr.app/SHFMn Use code: "DEMITRI" at checkout for 20% off! PodMatch: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/demitriwylde _____________________________________________________________________ Timestamps: 0:00 You control your own reboot 6:00 A victim of obsession 08:30 Order of Protection 11:15 Taking personal experiences to write 13:20 Psychology of an obsessed person 17:20 What defines an obsession? 20:20 Signs of being obsessive 22:13 Robert’s obsession story 31:15 Red flags #obsession #relationships #dating
In this weeks episode Demi talks to entrepreneur and intimacy expert Susan Bratton. We discuss communication skills in bed, male and female sexual responses, expanded orgasm meditation, the OneTaste sex cult, sexual biohacking, sex toy show & tell, and she tells a horror story about the time she got bedbugs at an orgy! Follow Susan: @susanbratton Website: https://susanbratton.com/ Better Lover: https://betterlover.com/ _____________________________________________________________________ Social Media: https://linktr.ee/demitriwylde Blog: www.DemitriWylde.com Patreon: Patreon.com/DemitriWylde _____________________________________________________________________ Sponsors: Foria Wellness: https://get.aspr.app/SHFMn Use code: "DEMITRI" at checkout for 20% off! PodMatch: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/demitriwylde _____________________________________________________________________ Timestamps: 0:00 Ads/Intro 6:20 Communication skills in bed 12:53 Male vs. female s*xual responses 16:50 Expanded orgasm technique & OneTaste 20:20 S*xual biohacking & play toy show & tell 40:30 Susan’s bedbug horror story 48:13 Red flags #intimacy #sexuality #comedy
In this episode Demi talks to author, licensed mental health counselor, and love and relationship coach, Riana Milne. We discuss how childhood traumas affect our relationships, common childhood traumas, common dating patters that emerge from traumas, cultural differences in choosing partners, plus she shares her own trauma story that catapulted her to success.
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Timestamps:
0:00 You control your own reboot
6:10 How childhood traumas influence our dating lives
8:30 13 common childhood traumas
17:10 Common patterns in relationships with trauma
23:01 How to choose differently & cultural differences
25:09 Riana’s trauma story
34:43 Red Flags
Welcome to season 5, deviants! This season kicks off with p*rn addiction recovery specialist and CEO of Elevated Recovery, J.K. Emezi. We discuss why he prefers "reboot" to "recovery," challenges with 12 step programs, the cognitive science behind p*rn addiction, p*rn as intimacy replacement, and he shares a terrifying story of a hookup that may have been a violent setup.
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Timestamps:
0:00 You control your own reboot
6:17 Why “reboot?”
12:00 The cycle of addiction
20:00 Incel culture and the s*xual marketplace
31:56 Dating tips for men
38:28 Email: Chivalry is dead
41:36 J.K.’s Hookup Horror Story
51:52 Red Flags
Another bonus episode, deviants! This episode I talk to author Heather Claus. We discuss being a pioneer of the internet, being "heteroflexible," joining the carnival as a teenager, alternative and k!nky lifestyles, surviving emotional abuse, setting proper boundaries, and so much more! She also shares the story of a date that narrowly ended in a horrifying way, if it weren't for a lucky intervention. Find Heather: @curiouser https://my.curiouser.life/ https://www.facebook.com/heatherclaus https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAKfRtjIDzVqOz8OxJKsnhA Socials: https://linktr.ee/hookuphorrorstories Share your stories: https://forms.gle/QCgnnQsQE2n8rDQeAA Support: https://patreon.com/demitriwylde PodMatch affiliate: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/demitriwylde Theme song is by Byte Story. All music is copyright free courtesy of Pixabay.com and Bensound.com. All sound effects and clips are used for entertainment, education, and/or satirical purposes only. Wylde Heart Media, LLC #podcast #dating #relationships
In a special bonus episode of Hookup Horror Stories, I am joined by dating coach Krista Melanson! We discuss previously working at a p*rn shop, the conection between food and s*x, the evolution of the adult industry, watching the original Pam & Tommy video, dating with yoour kids' approval, the benefits of having a dating coach, and she tells the story of a time a date told her he was willing to do anything for love.... ANYTHING. Find Krista https://krista-marie.com/ https://www.facebook.com/kristadating Socials: https://linktr.ee/hookuphorrorstories Share your stories: https://forms.gle/QCgnnQsQE2n8rDQeAA Support: https://patreon.com/demitriwylde PodMatch affiliate: https://www.joinpodmatch.com/demitriwylde Theme song is by Byte Story. All music is copyright free courtesy of Pixabay.com and Bensound.com. All sound effects and clips are used for entertainment, education, and/or satirical purposes only. Wylde Heart Media, LLC #podcast #datingpodcast #comedypodcast
It's spooky season, deviants, so this week I am joined by true crime author and novelist, Ryan Winter. We discuss being "New Orleans Mother Goose," his books "Ravish" and "Wake the Devil," living and dating in New Orleans, the queer history of the French Quarter, writing horror and true crime, "The Axe Man" of New Orleans, plus so much more! Plus he shares the story of a time he wound up being the only normie at a vampire party.
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In the season 4 finale, this week I have a double interview with co-authors of the book "Street Smart Safety for Women" Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach. We discuss the helping role Joy played in the 2017 mass shooting at Fort Lauderdale airport, Laura's history as a survivor of domestic violence and her "aha" moment and how it changed her life, and dating red flags. Plus Joy and Laura share their best street smart safety tips!
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This week I sat down with men's dating coach Melanie Curtin! She and I discussed sex abuse in the Jewish community, survivor resilience, why representation matters, "Nice Guys" versus "Bad Guys," plus so much more. Plus she shares the story of a time a time for her when a hookup didn't go quite as well as planned, and why women feel that men are "owed" sexual gratification.
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This week I'm joined by the host of The Ghost Podcast: Rosemary! We discuss how dating apps date your brain, swipe culture, how app culture changed dating relationships, avoidant attachment, and so much more. Plus she shares a personal ghosting story.
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This week I'm joined by my friend actor and model Davi Stefond! We discuss his model/actor trajectory, dating in LA, hookup culture and dating mentality, and we play an XXX rated game! Plus he shares a story of a hookup that had 2 more guests than was mentioned.
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This week I'm joined by actor, singer, and author of the book Cancer, Musical Theatre & Other Chronic Illnesses Edward Miskie! We discussed, being outed, his love of musical theater, being the survivor of a rare form of Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma, sex and cancer, and so much more! Plus he tells the story of a hookup with a guy who had nosaphilia: a fetish for people who are terminally ill.
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https://www.amazon.com/Cancer-Musical-Theatre-Chronic-Illnesses/dp/B0BGYYWST4
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