Send us a text This week I’m rejoined by @TaylorElajas and Shayna from @SafeandSecurepod to continue our conversation from part 1. In this episode we briefly talk about how I ended up with a man who wanted to be with two women at the same time, the 90 day rule in dating and I’d body count still matters. Taylor shares his top 5 things he wants in a woman, why he doesn’t date older women, and what he really thinks about body count. If a woman has a certain number or higher,...

Send us a text This week I'm joined by content creator and consultant @TaylorElajas and co-host of @SafeandSecurepod Shayna, to talk all things surrounding the male and female dynamic in dating and relationships. We touch on women dating men with potential versus dating the finish product, if a relationship can survive without intimacy, and so much more. We also discuss if flirting while in a relationship is considered cheating and if the same rules applies to both men and wome...

Send us a text This week I'm joined by artist EaziMoney @Bigbagbluehundreds to discuss all things from vulnerability and emotionality in Caribbean men to his creative process and remaining grounded as a creative, to secrecy and privacy in relationships and navigating social media, and so much more. Follow Zee on IG at @toptier_zee Subscribe to the YouTube channel at as we are rebuilding that platform from scratch again. https://youtube.com/@HonestlyThoPod?si=-VAJ1ZkzcElIyeQJ

Send us a text Happy Women's History Month! This week I'm joined by attorney and owner of SL Nelson Law Firm, Stephanie Lynette Nelson to talk all things from the law and how people tell on themselves through social media to owning her own firm, dating as a successful woman, and so much more. We talk about her journey from being a prosecutor and how she would advocate for black plaintiffs, to transitioning to being a defense attorney and opening her own practice, in addition to some of the c...

Send us a text This week I'm joined by Kenya also known as Vain to discuss all things from women lying to each and not holding each other accountable to being misguided in the world and the social media illusion. We also discuss transitioning from being married to re-entering the dating world, and what that was like for Kenya after being married throughout her 20s, what she has learned while being married, and so much more. Would you date a man who had nothing to offer? Kenya drops gems and...

Send us a text This week I deep dive into a couple different topics such as women doing solo Valentine's Day photoshoots and wanting to know the purpose of these shoots. Why are single women doing these photoshoots to post to their Instagram feeds on Valentine's Day? Am I the only person who thought Kendrick Lamar's halftime performance wasn't entertaining? I give me opinion on his performance and why I was not impressed despite getting his message and seeing his vision. Is 50 Cent to...

Send us a text This week I’m joined by Danny and Toya, a couple who have been together for 8 years and have not been married yet. We explore the question of whether or not women who do not want to do “wifey duties” before getting married are doing themselves a disservice, or setting standards for themselves. We discuss the pressures Danny and Toya face from friends and family on when they’re getting married and how they navigate that while keeping their relationship strong. Follow Zee on IG ...

Send us a text In this solo episode, I pose the question of whose responsibility is it to teach a man how to be romantic? Is it something he should just know, or is it his partner's responsibility to teach him what romance means to her? I also speak about being in my villain era and what that looks like for me and those around me, not wanting to be around people who are who not committed to doing the work to better themselves. I close out the episode with the realization that "I am not a high...

Send us a text This week I’m joined by Jeff Blue, co-owner of TrapHaus, the newest black owned fitness studio in New York City. We speak about his fitness journey and breaking the stereotype of Pilates being a “white woman” thing. Jeff shares how he got into Pilates and reformer training, and what inspired him to open up his own weight training and reformer studio on the Lower East Side of NYC. We discuss his thoughts on women who go the surgical route instead of working out, dating so...

Send us a text This week I'm joined by my favorite guest, The Smart Guy to talk all things from knowing your purpose in life and remaining grounded in that purpose, the importance of being intentional, how to validate yourself, healing your inner child, and so much more. Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 00:24-01:03 Smart and Zee give each other their flowers 01:04-01:18 Topics to be discussed 01:19- 06:50 Fast 5: would you rather? 06:51- 08:11 Are they flirting? 08:12-08:42 What is...

Send us a text This week, I’m joined by the hosts of ​⁠ @PutTheCheeseonTheCracker show, Moosie and Donna Da Don Dada from Black Ink Crew. We talk everything from men needing to fear losing their woman in order to treat her right, the myth or truth about men liking mean women, what constitutes as a good woman or a good man, and so much more. Moosie and Donna speak about the meaning behind their new show’s name, social media dos and don’ts when in a relationship, and having to choose be...

Send us a text This week I'm joined by returned guest JodyPhro, host of the podcast "Her Nut Matters" to talk all things from the "4B Movement" which is a cultural movement from South Asia where women are saying no to children, heterosexual marriage, dating men, and sex. Are they hurting themselves or doing something that will benefit them in the future? I asked Jody if she could see herself participating in this movement. Jody has rebranded and launched a new podcast titled "Her Nut Matters...

Send us a text Happy New Year everyone! While last year was "ghetto" for many, It's important to find gratitude in the small things. I kick off this episode with three things I am grateful for from 2024, and three things I am looking forward to in this new year. Ladies, can you be with a man who is bisexual or have had sexual experiences with other men in the past? Is there a difference between being bi-phobic and having a preference? Personally, there's already enough competition amon...

Send us a text On this week’s solo episode, I share some stories on the importance of being nurtured as a parent, having a village, and treating other children the way you would like others to treat your own. Sometimes as parents things get hard and having anyone whether a stranger or someone you know extend grace to you can make a big impact. I also discuss the importance of being vocal about your wants and needs in your relationship or while dating to avoid building resentment. With ...

Send us a text This week I’m joined by dominant Sir Leezus to talk all things from kinks and fetishes to dom/sub dynamics, poly relationships, and so much more. Sir Leezus shares how he got his name, how he got into BDSM, and the different dynamics in that culture. During the Fast 5 of would you rather, he reveals probably one of the most trifling things a person could do while having sex 😭 We also discuss how he makes his long distance poly relationship work for him and his two partners, unb...

Send us a text This week I'm joined by my friend and self taught designer Jessie Rhea to discuss all things from her new collection, navigating letting go of people and friendships that no longer serve you, dating in NYC versus dating in California, and the lost art form of synergy between the masculine and feminine. Jessie describes her design process and challenging herself to learn to make new pieces of clothing and not sticking to what she’s comfortable with. We also speak about h...

Send us a text This week is another solo episode where Zee shares recaps her birthday trip, the underwhelming gift she received, and unpacks what she’s been watching on TV. As Tia Mowry’s divorce has been in the limelight, I pose the question of “is it possible to be a good man but not a good husband?” Also, should Tia have explored more in her younger years before settling down with Cory? Let me know your thoughts in the comments. As Tia realizes the dating pool is toxic and not many ...

Send us a text Follow Zee on IG at @toptier_zee Subscribe to the YouTube channel at as we are rebuilding that platform from scratch again. https://youtube.com/@HonestlyThoPod?si=-VAJ1ZkzcElIyeQJ

Send us a text Follow Zee on IG at @toptier_zee Subscribe to the YouTube channel at as we are rebuilding that platform from scratch again. https://youtube.com/@HonestlyThoPod?si=-VAJ1ZkzcElIyeQJ

Send us a text This week I’m joined by multi hyphenate and creative Taylor Elajas to discuss all things from growing up in a two parent household, to his non negotiable of dating a woman with a male best friend, to his food reviews, and so much more. Taylor shares how growing up with both parents who are still married has shaped him as a man, and also some of his views on relationships. He has been in more relationships than he had been single, so I explored why that is, and why he was...