Why does it seem like Black women are the only women that are ever given advice to take what they can get. It is apparent that all other women are urged to get married, have high standards, and live softly! Dai and Li talk a little bit today about how mediocre advice is exhausting black women, and that we want people to know, kin or not, we will not allow that to be pushed on us anymore. Instead of pushing mediocrity on us, champion excellence to those around us! Thanks in advance.