In today's episode, we’re diving into a big conversation around one of the most common traps we see in nutrition and fitness: copy-paste culture.You know the drill: asking for someone else’s calories, macros, or exact plan hoping...

In today’s episode, Dal Sekhon joins us to unpack the decades-long journey she’s taken from yo-yo dieting and extreme restriction to sustainable fat loss, cultural food freedom, strength training, and self-trust. Dal shares how losing 120 pounds was just one part of the transformation, and how much more meaningful the internal shifts were.A major shift came when she gave herself permission to include her cultural Indian food in a way that supported both satisfaction and her goals. In this episode, she opens up about how she let go of timelines, made peace with food, and redefined success far beyond the number on the scale. We dive into the mindset work, the cultural expectations, the diet myths she had to unlearn, and how she finally reclaimed her own voice and agency in the process.We talk about the guilt, the pressure, the milestones missed due to obsession with the scale, and how she's redefined what success actually looks like.“So many of my memories aren’t of the event… I just remember the number on the scale. That’s not how life should be.”- Dal Sekhon“Work within the parameters of your life.”- Dal SekhonThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* How Dal transitioned from Weight Watchers and extreme restriction to a more sustainable, nutrient-rich way of eating* Why “satisfaction is a strategy” became a game-changing mindset shift—and what that looks like in daily life* The meaning behind the mantra: “Work within the parameters of your life”* The emotional and physical costs of following diet rules that ignore cultural food preferences and personal satisfaction* How Dal dealt with intense cultural pressure around body image, food, and the infamous “what will people think?”* Why true behavior change means letting go of timelines and learning how to be patient with yourself* How learning to say “no” at family gatherings was actually a form of deep self-respect and progress* The real power of doing it for you—not your kids, not the scale, not external validationConnect with Dal Sekhon, Nutrition Coaching by Dal:* Nutrition Coaching by Dal on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/nutritioncoachingbydal/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/).

In today's episode, we’re answering more listener questions! We tackle your biggest questions about plant-based protein, pre-workout fueling, and easy, realistic lunches that don’t involve planning every last bite. Whether you're a vegetarian trying to build muscle or someone wondering if you HAVE TO eat before exercise, this conversation is full of judgment-free, real-life strategies.Whether you’re early in your fat loss journey or deep into the trenches, this episode is a must-listen. As always, the conversation covers more than just macros - it dives into the mindset shifts that create sustainable change. No guilt. No shame. Just real talk about what your body is trying to tell you."You were in maintenance… but with a deficit mindset. That’s a whole different ballgame.”- Amy Rudolph“Fasting is fine physiologically. It's just a way to control calories like anything else. What it can do to the mental side is where it really screws people up.”- Iris Deadlifts“If your partner is complaining that you never want to have sex anymore, that might be a clue that you’ve been dieting too long.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Why staying in a deficit too long can impact your mental health and quality of life, even if your metabolism is fine* Signs of diet fatigue* How vegetarian and plant-based clients can hit protein goals* Why the “bare minimum” for protein is personal* Why aiming for better, not barely, matters more* Protein-first meal building makes hitting macros more manageable for all dietary patterns* Is fasted training harmful to women?* The real issue with skipping food: what happens mentally and behaviorally* How to simplify lunch* “Better living through frozen food and chemicals”Connect with Us:* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)* Maintenance Masterclass Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/141991652/maintenance-101-what-why-how-when/)* Plant Based Eating with Samara (https://blubrry.com/1471014/132545190/enhancing-your-diet-with-plant-based-proteins-and-mindful-eating-with-samara-toby/)* Protein & Fiber Masterclass Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/141513337/protein-fiber-the-magic-macronutrients/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!

In today’s episode, we’re joined by longtime listener Amy McCall Carlin! She’s an introverted music teacher, podcast host, and self-guided fitness enthusiast, who shares her refreshingly honest journey toward food freedom, strength, and sustainable habits.Amy never had a formal coach, yet through listening, learning, and trying things out bit by bit, she completely transformed her approach to nutrition, movement, and mindset. Her story proves that you don’t need perfection or a personal trainer to make a meaningful, long-lasting change.Amy walks us through her early experiences with cardio and fad fitness DVDs, her gradual shift toward evidence-based nutrition and strength training, and the game-changing mindset shifts that helped her break free from diet culture. From recovering smarter after an ankle injury to navigating teacher life with prepped meals and kid’s meals at Chipotle, Amy embodies the idea that consistency, curiosity, and compassion are the keys to real progress.“Getting away from the deadline has been huge for me. Establishing the habit until it becomes something you don’t even think about anymore has been very freeing.”- Amy McCall Carlin“I used to eat until I couldn’t breathe. And it was miserable. But I’m not tempted to do that anymore because I’ve changed how I eat during the day.”- Amy McCall CarlinThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Why Amy chose to start strength training, and how it helped her avoid another broken ankle* The difference between cardio burnout and functional strength* How skipping breakfast can fuel a late-night pantry raid (and what to do instead)* Amy’s simple but powerful strategy for building habits that stick* Why eating “boring” meals can actually be a secret to success* How she made the shift from a night owl to a morning exerciser without hating it* The power of being willing to try and giving up the "all-or-nothing" approach* What it could look like to balance eating out frequently while honoring your goalsConnect with Amy McCall Carlin:* Amy McCall Carlin on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/mccallgirl)* Just an Introvert Podcast (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/just-an-introvert/id1733792886)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and

In today's episode, we dig into the real talk around eating out: how often, how much, and whether it’s sabotaging your goals. We’ll challenge you to stop hiding behind “this is just what we do,” and share personal stories, practical strategies, and the mindset shifts required to strike the balance between real life and real progress. From budgeting and convenience to cravings and connection, this conversation covers the full plate.If you’ve ever wondered whether dining out is slowing your progress, or how to make it work FOR you instead of against you, this one’s packed with smart swaps, tough love, and supportive tips.“Plan. Do not wing it. It never ends well.”- Amy Rudolph“Frustration happens when expectations and actions don’t align.”- Iris Deadlifts“If you’re doing so much outside of your house that you cannot prepare food at home five out of seven days of the week, you’re doing too much.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* How Meri enjoys a weekly solo dinner without derailing fat loss* The hidden calorie costs of eating out, even with “healthy” and “mindful” orders* Why restaurant food tastes so good (spoiler: butter. So much butter)* Ways to recreate your favorite takeout meals at home* The real financial impact of restaurant dining per serving* Why eating out once a week isn’t “special”* Smart restaurant strategies like pre-logging, oil estimates, and portion hacks* Mindset shifts to help you stop using food as the centerpiece of every event Connect with Us:* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)* Mindful Eating Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/133562191/qa-mindful-eating-serving-sizes-building-muscle-with-bodyweight-exercises/)* Coach John Noel (https://www.instagram.com/coachjohnnoel/)* Zach Coen (https://www.instagram.com/zachcoen/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/).

In today’s episode, we welcome back Susan Niebergall - someone who has deeply shaped our journeys and brought us all together in the first place! In this raw and wide-ranging conversation, Susan shares what it’s been like to transform her life in her fifties and sixties, how strength training prepared her for a wildly successful hip replacement recovery, and the mindset shifts that come with aging. From fad diets and Jenny Craig trays to postmenopausal HRT and machine-based workouts, we cover the full spectrum of what it means to show up for yourself—no matter your age.You’ll hear how Susan dismantled decades of diet culture, built confidence through lifting, and discovered how "doing less" in the gym could still mean making huge progress.Whether you're navigating perimenopause, post-menopause, or just trying to get up off the couch and move, Susan’s lived experience offers both inspiration and practical wisdom. She’s not just preaching it - she’s walking the walk, lifting the weight, and paving the way for women who want to feel powerful in their 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond.“I’m worth having a good life where I’m not in pain, where I can sleep, where I feel good.”- Susan Niebergall“If I can do this, then other women can too. It’s not too late to do it, which most women think it is.”- Susan NiebergallThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* How Susan lost ~30 pounds in her 50s without obsessing over weight* Why prehab (before surgery) can be a total game-changer* The mindset shift from “how much weight can I lift?” to “how well can I move?”* What it’s like to start HRT at 65—and the hoops women face to get there* Why joint pain and fatigue might not be “just aging” after all* Letting go of pressure, perfection, and back squats (yes, even if you could)* Why "just walk for five minutes" is revolutionary (yes, really)* The emotional shift from “all or nothing” to “I can do something today”* Why strength training is still the most functional thing you can doConnect with Susan Niebergall:* Susan Niebergall Fitness on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/susanniebergallfitness/)* Susan Niebergall Fitness Youtube (https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCzMgJLbITYjJnd3Q6buGGmw)* Join Syatt Fitness Inner Circle (https://www.syattfitness.com/join-my-inner-circle/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/),

In today’s episode, we’re breaking down one of the most overcomplicated - and misunderstood - ideas in nutrition and fitness: reverse dieting and the transition to maintenance. If you’ve ever wondered when to raise your calories, how to navigate the fear of weight gain, or whether you need to track during maintenance, this episode clears the confusion with real talk and real strategies.We explain why eating more doesn’t mean automatic fat gain, and give you a blueprint for approaching maintenance and muscle-building with confidence. From learning to trust your hunger to lifting heavier with purpose, we’re helping you drop the rules and start building the skill set that keeps you consistent, flexible, and thriving."Tracking is merely data and awareness. Look at what you're consuming, how is it working for you, and what if any tweaks do you need to make.”- Amy Rudolph“Our track involves not tracking sometimes... being okay with a messy day where things don't go to plan and we're just pivoting all over the place.”- Iris Deadlifts“If you’ve never done maintenance before, tracking it can be the most powerful thing you do - to finally understand what enough actually looks like.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Why traditional reverse dieting is unnecessary (and kind of torturous)* The real reason people fear maintenance - and how to face it* Why you might feel hungrier in maintenance, and what to do about it* How tracking calories during maintenance can un-traumatize your food relationship* When to tweak your calorie deficit (hint: it’s probably not yet)* The simplest way to calculate your fat loss calories without overthinking it* Why “muscle confusion” is a myth and progressive overload wins every time* How to tell if it’s time to change your workout plan - or just your mindset Connect with Us:* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)* Maintenance Masterclass Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/141991652/maintenance-101-what-why-how-when/)* Simplify Calorie Tracking Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/134763313/how-to-simplify-calorie-tracking/)* Together We Are Stronger Community: Group Support and Training with Team BFF (https://join.bethferacofitness.com/together-we-are-stronger)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO) |

In today’s episode, Dr. Allan Bacon joins us for an unfiltered and evidence-based dive into the confusing (and very often manipulative) world of health and fitness content on major podcasts and social media.We get real about why misinformation spreads so easily, how podcast hosts become accomplices to pseudoscience, and the responsibility we all have to demand better sources and explanations.We also unpack hot-button issues around menopause, cortisol, and hormone replacement therapy - with an emphasis on autonomy, nuance, and critical thinking. Dr. Bacon calls out and corrects the fear-mongering tactics used to prey on women, especially around menopause and midlife changes, and shares what the actual research says.If you’ve ever felt confused, discouraged, or duped by conflicting health advice—this conversation is for you.“Being duped is not a character flaw. It just means you were trying to take care of yourself with the best information you had at the time.”- Dr. Allan Bacon“You are part of the problem - and that’s good news. Because it means you’re also part of the solution.”- Dr. Allan BaconThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Viral podcast content often thrives on sensationalism, not accuracy* How algorithms reward controversy* Hosts of large podcasts have a responsibility to vet and challenge misinformation, not just give it a platform* It's OK to change your mind as science evolves; that’s how credible professionals grow* Why the SWAN study is important, empowering, and widely misrepresented* The facts about cortisol and its role in the human body* How misleading "cycle syncing" advice rob women of autonomy, training consistency, and progress* Why women don't need separate training rules* Empathy and accountability aren’t mutually exclusive, you can validate someone’s struggle and hold them to a higher standard* Why anti-man rhetoric in the menopause space harms women, shuts out allies and stifles productive, evidence-based dialogueConnect with Dr. Allan Bacon:* Dr. Allan Bacon on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/drallanbacon)* https://mauiathletics.com (https://mauiathletics.com)* Maui Athletics Blog (https://mauiathletics.com/blog/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and

In today's episode, we dive into the fundamentals of fat loss. We explain the difference between fat loss and weight loss, we break down why fad diets “work,” explain what research has shown to be necessary for fat loss, and teach you how to find the ballpark estimation of your calorie deficit, protein, and fiber goals. We discuss what it means to “eat more and lose weight,” and debunk a few weight loss myths floating around the internet.We share some practical methods to manage hunger while in a fat loss phase / calorie deficit, and discuss how to pick a goal weight.Tune in to hear practical advise and insights (professional and personal) that will help you navigate the Wild West of diets, and achieve your fat loss goals sustainably, and, dare we say, enjoyably.“Stop freaking out over a couple of weeks or even a month, you just have to stick to your guns and trust that what you're doing is where you need to be, and stop second guessing yourself.”- Amy Rudolph“For all of the tips and tricks we have, a lot of the time the decision is just gonna be: I’m not gonna eat something. You can't really get around that.”- Iris Deadlifts“‘No’ has become a bad word, and it’s not.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Understanding the difference between fat loss and weight loss* What is essential for fat loss, regardless of dietary approach* Why many fad diets “work” (until they don’t)* The importance of viewing the long term trends instead of daily fluctuations* Some practical methods to manage hunger in a calorie deficit* How to choose a goal weight* How can you “eat more and lose weight?”Connect with Iris, Meri, and Amy:* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO) | GooglePlay (https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5ibHVicnJ5LmNvbS9mZWVkcy8xNDcxMDE0LnhtbA) | iHeartRadio (https://www.iheart.com/podcast/269-tater-talks-two-bitches-ta-106185864/)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/),

In today’s episode, coach and friend Kim Schlag joins us for a raw, relatable, and inspiring conversation about midlife, motherhood, and making space for yourself. Kim shares her journey from struggling with obesity in her thirties to becoming a strength coach who helps women in midlife feel strong and confident in their skin. We talk about what it really means to practice self-care - not just when life is smooth, but especially when it’s not.From perimenopause and divorce to building a business and rediscovering identity after motherhood, Kim walks us through her personal evolution and the actionable tools she now uses with clients every day. You’ll hear how Kim created her “Minimum Standard of Care” to stay grounded during the most challenging chapters of her life and why confidence isn’t about never having negative thoughts - it’s about knowing how to keep showing up anyway.This episode is full of tangible mindset shifts, actionable takeaways, and a reminder that you don’t have to be perfect to be powerful. If you’ve ever wondered how to keep going when everything feels hard, this one’s for you.If you’ve ever felt like you were failing just because you’re not perfect, this episode is for you.“You can see things I don’t like and still move on with your day - and not let it dictate how you eat, move, or live.”- Kim Schlag“Our kids need to see us taking care of our self and putting ourselves at the top of our priority list.”- Kim SchlagThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Kim’s unexpected path from theater kid to midlife fitness coach* The truth about body image - even at “peak” strength or fitness* How to create your own Minimum Standard of Care for tough seasons* Why behavior change is about practice, not perfection* The real meaning of self-efficacy (and how to build it)* Reclaiming identity after kids leave home or relationships end* How to drop the guilt and start prioritizing yourself without apology* Ways to add joy, fun, or coziness into your workouts and food choicesConnect with Kim Schlag:* Kim Schlag Fitness on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/kimschlagfitness/)* www.kimschlagfitness.com (https://www.kimschlagfitness.com)* Fitness Simplified Podcast (https://www.kimschlagfitness.com/podcasts/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)

In today's episode, we’re diving into one of the most misunderstood concepts in the health and fitness world: what it really means to have a healthy relationship with food. This isn’t just about ditching the “good food vs. bad food” mindset - it’s about what happens when real life hits: travel, birthdays, brunches, and baseball games. If you’ve ever spiraled into a shame-fueled overindulgence after a cupcake or felt like every meal out needed to be “worth it,” or even felt like you can’t enjoy food in unexpected situations where you can’t really track it… this episode is for you.We’re unpacking how your background shapes your current habits, why food freedom doesn’t mean food free-for-all, and how to start making choices that actually support your goals and your peace of mind. From the clean plate club to the “special occasion” myth to tracking without losing your mind, this is the real, messy, totally doable work of food freedom."What’s not being managed is going to repeat itself.”- Amy Rudolph“Food freedom is not just doing whatever and hoping for the best - it’s making the smartest choice for you in the moment that aligns with how you want to feel.”- Iris Deadlifts“If you want a peaceful relationship with food, it will cost you something - but it’s worth every second.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Why most "special occasions" are just normal life (and why that matters)* What food freedom actually looks like in action* How scarcity mindset leads to overeating (and what to do instead)* Why “getting back on track tomorrow” might be the red flag you’re missing* The difference between restriction and restraint (and why one is essential)* How tracking can help or hurt your mindfulness around food* Learning to recognize fullness cues—and what to do when you blow past them* Why this work is hard at first, but so, so worth it if you stick with it Connect with Us:* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)* Mindful Eating Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/133562191/qa-mindful-eating-serving-sizes-building-muscle-with-bodyweight-exercises/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/),

In today’s episode, Chris McMahon joins us! He shares his journey from being diagnosed with type 1 diabetes at age 10 to coaching hundreds of clients through sustainable behavior change - while raising a family and working toward becoming a registered dietitian.This conversation digs into the truth about blood sugar, why no one is actually addicted to cookies, and how to stop chasing extremes and start building the messy, human middle. We also unpack the emotional side of food, the limits of macros alone, and how to finally build consistency by making space for being a real, imperfect person.What’s really behind that “I know what to do, I’m just not doing it” feeling? What if you’re not broken—just stuck in old coping patterns? What stories are you still carrying about your body? What if you stopped trying to be a robot—and let yourself be a human? And what if the real win is showing up when it’s not convenient?If you’ve ever felt like you were failing just because you’re not perfect, this episode is for you.“You never are the finished product. You're a work in progress the entire time until your last breath here on Earth. The only way you fuck any of this up is if you just quit.”- Chris McMahon“You are the one who gets to choose what you do.You just have to look and actually schedule it.”- Chris McMahonThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Chris’s personal journey with type 1 diabetes and how it shaped his coaching philosophy* Why insulin spikes are normal - and not something to fear or obsess over* How stress, not just sugar, can cause blood sugar to rise* What real food addiction looks like (and why it’s not about cookies)* The emotional layer behind bingeing, overeating, and numbing through food* Why mindset, values, and emotional safety matter more than perfect calorie tracking* Why not every coach is good at every thing (and why it should be that way)* The one piece of homework Chris assigns to almost every client - and why it worksConnect with Chris McMahon:* Chris McMahon on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/coach.chrismcmahon/)* Chris McMahon Website - Lose Fat. Get Strong. Drink Coffee. (https://chris-mcmahon.com)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and

In today's episode, we chat all about navigating the busy summer season filled with vacations, grad parties, and spontaneous weekends away while keeping our goals on track. We share our insights on how to stay focused and resilient, even when life gets a bit chaotic. We walk you through a flexible mindset and a few go-to plans for eating events, parties, vacations, and those unexpected curveballs that summer often throws our way, as well as a “Vacation Re-Entry Plan” into your fitness and nutrition routine.We discuss planning for those tricky moments when our usual routines are disrupted and how to be proactive rather than reactive with our nutrition. We challenge you to rethink your relationship with summer, discuss how you might lessen some food noise, and explain how “best yeses” can help you remain aligned with your goals during busy, food-heavy times of year.Tune in and get ready to tackle summer with confidence and clarity, ensuring you enjoy every moment without losing sight of your goals!“It's easy to stay on track when everything is going smoothly. But it's the tough days where preparation really counts.”- Amy Rudolph"Confidence comes from doing something you think is uncomfortable over and over again and realizing it wasn't that bad in the first place."- Iris Deadlifts"Your vacation is not the five days leading up to it and the five days after.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* How to develop Plans A, B, and C for life’s curveballs* What are “best yeses” and how to embrace flexibility* How a Vacation Re-Entry Plan can help you get back on track with food and exercise* How to navigate social events and stay on track* How to give yourself a break and enjoy life without guilt* 3 actions strategies to avoid floundering during summer chaosConnect with Iris, Meri, and Amy:* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and

In today’s episode, we sit down with coach, mom, and cycle-breaker Carmie Hawkins to talk about what it really means and takes to raise your standards - whether you’re navigating parenthood, cultural expectations, or your own self-sabotaging patterns.Carmie shares her raw, honest journey to reclaiming her life and rewriting the blueprint she’s passing on to her daughters. This is a conversation about agency, boundaries, and the power of small, consistent actions, especially when you and no one else believes in you yet.We also explore what happens when you stop asking for permission and start asking better questions. How do I want to feel five years from now? What do I want my kids to remember about me? Am I actually too busy - or just unwilling to change?If you’re tired of starting over, waiting for the “perfect” moment, or measuring your worth in misery, Carmie offers the truth bombs you didn’t know you needed. If you’ve ever felt stuck, overlooked, or like you should have figured it out by now, this episode is your permission slip to begin again—with intention.“Being a sacrificial lamb for your family is not a flex.”- Carmie Hawkins“You are allowed to want more—and you are worthy of doing the work to get it.”- Carmie HawkinsThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Why chasing thinness led Carmie to rock bottom - and how she climbed out* The lies moms are sold about selflessness, sacrifice, and what it means to be “good”* How boundaries with family helped Carmie parent differently and break generational cycles* What “delayed gratification” really looks like in health, fitness, and life* Why data tracking - not dieting - is the starting point for real change* The power of manipulating your schedule like a science experiment* How to spot the difference between an excuse and a priority mismatch* Why “boring basics” still move the needle the mostConnect with Carmie Hawkins:* Carmie Hawk on Instagram (@carmhawk_getsfit) (https://www.instagram.com/carmhawk_getsfit/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/).

In today's episode, we break down everything you need to know about navigating gym spaces with confidence. Beyond etiquette, we dive into the common fears people have about stepping into a gym, the mental roadblocks that keep people stuck, and why most gym-goers aren’t paying nearly as much attention to you as you think. We also discuss the importance of having a plan, why filming your workouts can be a game-changer, and how to handle unsolicited advice with grace and confidence.This is your ultimate guide to making the gym a more welcoming and effective space for everyone. If you've ever hesitated before walking through those gym doors, this episode is for you."You don’t have to talk to everyone at the gym - it’s okay to just go in, do your thing, and leave.”- Amy Rudolph“If you know why you're doing what you're doing, it's easier to have the confidence to say, 'I'm good, thanks.’”- Iris Deadlifts“We assume problems are going to happen more than they actually do - don’t let your perception color your experience.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* The basics of Gym Etiquette and some unspoken rules* Sharing equipment: How to ask, when to wait* What if the machine I need is taken?* How long can I sit at a station?* How many pairs of dumbbells can I take at one time?* The right way to approach someone if you need to work in on a machine* How to handle unsolicited advice (it happens less often than you think!)* The difference between gym confidence and gym arrogance* Why following a plan reduces gym anxiety and helps you move with purposeConnect with Us:* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)* Team BFF Group Coaching & Programming (https://join.bethferacofitness.com/portal?fbclid=IwAR3Ld68UqXCis42kUBhNKcEHhUMVfTxEWY1dRxzJfJK2cx_j3cYmkAmxYVQ)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/).

Dr. Krystle Zuniga, PhD, RD, CSO, LD, is a board-certified specialist in oncology nutrition with over 14 years of experience encompassing research, higher education, and clinical practice. As the owner of Cancer Nutrition HQ, she is dedicated to providing evidence-based nutritional support to cancer survivors, aiming to enhance their health and quality of life.In today’s episode, we sit down with Dr. Krystle to bust myths and break down what the science actually says about cancer prevention, survivorship, and the power (and limits) of nutrition. From supplement risks to the misunderstood role of sugar, Dr. Krystle explains the nuance often lost in sensational headlines and social media soundbites. We also explore how movement, muscle, sleep, stress, and even connection with others tie into cancer risk and recovery - zooming out from individual nutrients to look at health through a truly holistic lens. Dr. Krystle offers compassionate clarity in a sea of misinformation, arming listeners with tools to support themselves or loved ones without fear-based messaging or false hope.If you’ve ever wondered about alcohol, processed meats, or whether “sugar feeds cancer,” this conversation is a must-listen.“If you respect the power of nutrition, you also respect what it can’t do on its own.”- Dr. Krystle Zuniga, PHD RD CSO“We can't reduce risk to zero - but the good news is, the basics go a long way - not just for cancer, but for lifelong health.”- Dr. Krystle Zuniga, PHD RD CSOThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* The difference between cancer prevention and cancer risk reduction - and why that language matters* Why cancer isn’t a monolith, and it must be discussed accordingly* Why the recommendation to avoid supplements for cancer prevention is based on actual trials* How resistance training and muscle mass affect immune function and treatment outcomes* The problem with “sugar feeds cancer” and how that message can backfire dangerously* What “processed” really means and how not all processed foods are created equal* How alcohol affects hormone metabolism, especially in relation to breast cancer* The importance of rest, recovery, stress management, and social connection for whole-body health* Why food isn’t medicine—and why that doesn’t mean nutrition doesn’t matter* Lifestyle habits to reduce the risk of developing cancerConnect with Dr. Krystle Zuniga:* Cancer Nutrition HQ Website (https://cancernutritionhq.com)* Dr. Krystle Zuniga @cancernutritionhq on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/cancernutritionhq/?hl=en)* Plant Based Proteins with Samara @nomeatmacros (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heres-the-deal-fitness-nutrition-mindset-for-people/id1660618985?i=1000656885462)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) |

In today's episode, we’re switching things up with an "Overrated/Underrated" style breakdown of popular fitness, nutrition, and mindset trends. From mini cuts to cold plunges to those supplements that claim to help with alcohol cravings, we’re giving you our honest, unfiltered takes (as ever) - with plenty of laughs and truth bombs along the way.Whether you’re curious about rucking, spin classes, or InBody scans, we’re cutting through the noise to help you make informed choices that actually serve your goals. We dive into what’s truly helpful and what might be a shiny distraction, and this episode will help you separate fact from fluff."There are no metabolism boosters except for eating your protein and lifting your weights.”- Amy Rudolph“There’s no prize for trying to figure this stuff out alone - community support is always more powerful than any supplement.”- Iris Deadlifts“Just because it’s a prettier prison doesn’t mean it’s not a prison.”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* Why mini cuts are often misunderstood and misused (and who they’re actually for)* The truth about cold plunges and whether they really boost fat loss or mental toughness* A look at supplements marketed for alcohol reduction and what to consider instead* Why InBody scans might do more harm than good to your motivation and mindset* The pros and cons of rucking and who it might (or might not) benefit* Spin classes - great cardio or overhyped for muscle building?* Vegan muscle building: can it be done, and is it superior?* When supersets are helpful - and when they might be getting in the way of real progressConnect with Us:* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)* Enhancing Your Diet with Plant-Based Proteins & Mindful Eating with @nomeatmacros (https://blubrry.com/1471014/132545190/enhancing-your-diet-with-plant-based-proteins-and-mindful-eating-with-samara-toby/)* Net Carbs, Creatine Gummies & Vibration Plates: Sorting the HypeThanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/), and

In today’s episode, Pelvic Floor Specialist and PT Veronica Lane joins us to break down why pelvic floor dysfunction symptoms like incontinence are common but NOT NORMAL. If you are a human, you have a pelvic floor, and this episode is for you.From understanding the anatomy of the pelvic floor to practical techniques for improving function, Veronica shares invaluable insights to help you regain control and confidence. We dive into the myths surrounding pelvic health, why Kegels aren’t always the answer (and are often done wrong), and the surprising connection between breathing and bladder control. Whether you've experienced leakage, frequent bathroom trips, menopause or postpartum challenges, this conversation is packed with actionable advice to support your pelvic health at any stage of life.Tune in to learn how small changes in your daily habits can lead to big improvements in pelvic health. Don’t settle for discomfort—there are solutions! “So many women just accept, ‘this is my fate, I’m getting older,’ but that’s not true. You can take control of your pelvic health and improve your quality of life.”- Veronica Lane, Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist“The pelvic floor is the foundation of your core - if it’s not functioning well, it can lead to a ripple effect of issues throughout your body.”- Veronica Lane, Pelvic Floor Physical TherapistThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* What the pelvic floor is and why it matters for your overall health* The common but overlooked symptoms of pelvic floor dysfunction* Why frequent bathroom trips may be a sign of a bigger issue* How breathing patterns affect your pelvic floor function* The truth about Kegels and why they’re not always the best solution* How to retrain your bladder and reduce urgency and leakage* Why “power peeing” and “just in case urinating” cause more harm than good* The connection between stress, muscle tension, and pelvic floor dysfunction* Why proper toilet posture can improve both bladder and bowel health* How other countries prioritize pelvic floor therapy postpartum - and why you should tooConnect with Veronica Lane:* Veronica Lane on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/wellbodypt2/)* Veronica Lane’s Practice: Well Body PT 2 (https://wellbodypt2.com/?v=dc91aeca51b5)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/), Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/),

Ever been confused by net carbs on food labels? Wondering if creatine gummies are worth the hype? Or maybe you’ve seen vibration plates making a comeback and thought, do those actually do anything? In this episode, we’re breaking down some of the latest fitness and nutrition buzzwords floating around the internet, drawing on Amy’s experience and expertise as a certified lymphedema therapist.From misleading marketing claims to sneaky calorie counts, we’ll help you cut through the noise and focus on what actually matters. We also discuss a few common tracking pitfalls, like whether you should adjust your calories when draining ground beef, and the small changes that can make a big impact on your health.Listen in and get the straight facts - because the best results come from what works, not what's trending.“I have yet to meet someone who did the work and regretted it.”- Amy Rudolph“Nobody skips the hard part. You just get better at doing it, better at handling it, better at proving to yourself that you can.”- Iris Deadlifts“If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is…”- MeriThis week on Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck:* The truth about net carbs and how food labels can be misleading* Why creatine gummies might not be the best way to supplement* Do vibration plates actually help with fat loss or muscle activation?* The impact of marketing hype on fitness and nutrition choices* Should you adjust calorie counts when draining or rinsing meat?* Simple tracking tips that make food logging easier and less overwhelming* Why real movement (like strength training and walking) always wins over gimmicks* A simple challenge to help you incorporate more movement into your weekConnect with Us:* Meri on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/therealliftedlife/)* Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/)* Amy Rudolph on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/amyrudolph832fitness/)* Creatine Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/135800060/fitness-myths-fruit-protein-limits-creatine-more/)* Protein & Fiber Episode (https://blubrry.com/1471014/141513337/protein-fiber-the-magic-macronutrients/)* How to Simplify Calorie Tracking (https://blubrry.com/1471014/134763313/how-to-simplify-calorie-tracking/)Thanks for tuning in to this week’s episode of Here’s the Deal: Fitness, Nutrition, and Mindset for People Who Don’t Want Life to Suck, where we challenge the common understanding of what it means and what it takes to be fit and healthy! If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-bitches-talk-fitness/id1660618985) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5BZ47e46cLrUlUBUY636fO)Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media and tag us!Join Iris Deadlifts on Instagram (https://www.instagram.com/irisdeadlifts/),

In today’s episode, we welcome back Barbie Boules, RDN. Also known as The Cognition Dietitian, Barbie specializes in women’s brain and metabolic health, and today she’s here to shed light on who these drugs are designed for, the potential benefits, ...