Are you having the sex you really want — or the sex you think you’re supposed to want? In this episode of Hearts Wine from Hearts Distractions, we strip away the societal “shoulds” and unspoken bedroom rules to uncover the truth about what truly excites us. From the pressure to perform to the myths that media, culture, and even family have passed down, we’re getting real about how expectations shape our intimate lives.

This is your safe space to laugh, learn, and challenge everything you thought you knew about your own desires. We’ll explore:

• Why "normal" sex might not actually work for you (and that's okay).
• How cultural, religious, and generational norms shape our sexual expectations.
• What happens when couples fake satisfaction for the sake of harmony.
• How to ask for what you really want - without shame, guilt, or awkwardness.
• Real stories from couples who ditched the "script" and reignited their passion.

Whether you’re dating, engaged, married, or somewhere in-between, this is the conversation that could change how you see intimacy forever.

Expect raw honesty, expert insights from Marriage & Family Therapy research, a few laughs, and maybe even a blush or two.

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