Conflict are inevitable in relationships. I think of them as a necessary evil. We may not like them, but they provide a better understanding of each other as well as ourselves. Conflicts can reveal hidden trauma and pain that trigger us.
The Bible says in Amos 3:3 that two people cannot walk together without agreeing on a direction. Some times, we need to disagree to agree on a destination, and how we intend to arrive there safely. It’s not so much about the disagreements, but how they are resolved and how both parties proceed moving forward. It’s not always about trouble free journeys, but safe landing.
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Are you constantly saying ‘yes’ when you really mean ‘no’? Do you feel guilty setting boundaries? In this episode, I dive deep into the heart of people-pleasing—where it comes from, why it’s exhausting, and how to break free while still being kind and Christlike. It’s time to stop living for approval and start living in your purpose. Tune in, take notes, and let’s grow together!
Building a sustainable marriage isn’t just about finding love, it’s also about nurturing it every day. In this episode, I talk about the key elements that will help your relationships last, from communication and trust to the little things that keep the spark alive. I also share valuable tips from a perspective of the love of God on how to centre love in purpose and growth.
The best time to prepare for marriage is BEFORE you get married. The second best time is now. So whether you're married or single, this episode is packed with insights to help you build something meaningful and lasting.
Tune in for practical advice, spiritual wisdom, and more! ✨
Cheers to kingdom relationships and marriages 🥂😌
Valentine's Day often focuses on roses, chocolates, and grand gestures, but as Christians, we know that true love goes far beyond that.
Secular love can be fleeting, selfish, and conditional, focused on feelings and temporary moments. But God's love is something deeper, unwavering, and eternal. It’s unconditional, sacrificial, and rooted in Christ. It’s the love that calls us to serve, forgive, and cherish one another through all seasons of life.
This Valentine’s, let’s remember the ultimate expression of love which is Jesus’ sacrifice for us. Let’s celebrate not just romantic love, but the love we are called to share with everyone, reflecting His love in all we do.
It’s my birthday in a few days, and I wanted to share some things about myself. In this episode, I answer 25 personal questions about myself, my marriage, and my podcast.
Whether you're a longtime listener or a new one, this episode will give you the inside gist into who I am and what I do as a relationship counsellor.
Are you truly ready for a relationship, or are there signs you are overlooking? In this video, I discuss key signs that you might not yet be prepared for a relationship. From emotional baggage to personal growth, I explore the important factors determining whether you are ready for a relationship.
Whether you're recovering from a past relationship or still focusing on yourself, recognising these signs can help you make more meaningful choices when it comes to love. Watch now and find out if it's time or pause and work on yourself before getting into a new romantic relationship.
Are you stepping into a new relationship this year or looking to strengthen the bond in your existing one? In this episode, we dive into the heart of godly connections, sharing practical steps for embracing new beginnings with purpose, faith, and love. Whether you’re seeking a fresh start in your love life or refining your approach to a current relationship, this conversation will inspire you to build on a foundation rooted in Christ. Start your journey toward healthier, stronger relationships today! 💕✨”
Christmas is here! But amidst the lights, gifts, and festivities, have you ever paused to ask yourself, What is the real essence of Christmas?
In this heartwarming episode, Suess dives deep into the true meaning of the season—a celebration that goes far beyond the decorations and holiday traditions. Christmas is about Christ, the Savior born to bring hope, love, and redemption to a broken world.
Join me as we reflect on:
🌟 Why Christ is central to the Christmas story
🌟 How to embrace the season with gratitude and faith
🌟 Practical ways to shift the focus from materialism to the gospel of God's Love
Whether you’re gathered with loved ones or spending the holidays quietly, this episode will encourage you to find peace and joy in the greatest gift of all—Jesus. Let’s remember the incredible love that came down at Christmas and allow that love to guide our hearts, actions, and relationships this season.
Take a moment to reflect, refocus, and celebrate Christmas with fresh eyes!
Watch the episode, SUBSCRIBE for more uplifting content, and share this message of hope and joy with someone who needs it.
Are you navigating the ups and downs of relationships and need clear, honest answers to your burning questions? In this episode, I’m tackling the most common *Relationship FAQs*—from communication struggles and conflict resolution to building trust and maintaining boundaries.
Whether you’re single, dating, or already in a committed relationship, this episode has something for you! I break down practical advice, sprinkle in personal insights, and share tips rooted in wisdom and experience to help you build stronger, healthier connections.
Some questions we’ll explore:
✅ Is it right to have sex during fasting?
✅ How do I handle my in-laws interference?
✅ Should I forgive a cheating partner
✅ I found out my partner is gay after marriage, what should I do?
Watch now, hit that SUBSCRIBE button, and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it!
In this week’s episode, we dive deep into Call It Karma and explore the key lessons it teaches about relationships. From love and relationship values to friendships, betrayal, domestic violence and personal growth, we break it all down!
If you haven’t seen this movie, please do so you can relate the review to the characters and get the full experience.
Tune in to hear our thoughts, and don't forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more insightful reviews.
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Are you tired of focusing on all the red flags in relationships? Let’s flip the script and talk about what actually works! In this episode, I'm diving deep into green flags—those telltale signs that you’re in a healthy, loving, and God-honoring relationship.
Whether you’re dating, courting, or just dreaming of your future partner, recognizing the good stuff is just as important as spotting the bad. Healthy communication? ✅ Emotional safety? ✅ Mutual respect? ✅ Yep, we’re covering it all!
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
Red flags get all the attention, but green flags are what keep a relationship thriving. Don’t miss this chance to reset your standards as we prepare for the new year, and find the joy of recognizing God’s design for love and partnership.
Ready to start looking for the right things? Hit PLAY now! And don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT, and SUBSCRIBE for more life-changing conversations on relationships, faith, and growth.
Let’s Chat! What’s the biggest green flag you’ve noticed in a relationship? Drop your thoughts in the comments—I’d love to hear your stories!
Share this video with your friends, your group chat, and anyone who’s looking for some clarity in their love life!
What do men really want in their relationships? 🤔 In this episode, we dive deep into the heart of the matter with my special guest KeleChukwu, a Christian creative and entrepreneur, who understands the nuances of love, respect, and emotional connection.
We also explore key points like emotional support, communication, trust, and how faith plays a role in building a strong, God-centered partnership.Whether you are single, dating, or married, this episode is packed with valuable insights to help you better understand the men in your life.
Tune in for an honest, practical, and inspiring conversation that is sure to improve the quality of your relationships.
Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more content that helps you navigate relationships with wisdom and grace!
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Cheers to kingdom relationships and marriages
Breakups are tough, but healing is possible—and you don’t have to go through it alone. In this episode, I sit down with Faith, an incredible abuse-related trauma therapist to discuss how to navigate heartbreak from a biblical perspective. From letting go of pain to embracing God’s promises for your future, we’re diving into the steps to move forward with hope and purpose.
Whether you’re dealing with the aftermath of a breakup or supporting someone who is, this conversation is packed with wisdom, practical advice, and a lot of encouragement.
Remember: Healing isn’t just about getting over the pain; it’s about growing through it. So grab your favorite blanket, your Bible and journal, and let’s walk this journey of restoration together! 💞
Welcome to the first episode of our movie review series! In this episode, K.C and I explore the relationships in Diane Russet's Love Notes. This film takes us on a beautiful journey of friendships, the ups and downs of love and marriage.
In Love Notes, we meet characters like Maris, Tami, Kenny and Ose who have a strong and close-knit relationship, living through relatable struggles and heartwarming moments. From the charming romance to the deeper themes of forgiveness and secrecy, this movie has something for everyone.
Join us as we explore the relationships, boundaries in the friendships and mental health issues in this movie.
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In this episode, I dive deep into the heart of what women truly need in a relationship. From leadership and kindness to spiritual connection and trust, I explore the key elements that make a relationship fulfilling for women.
Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this conversation offers valuable insights for both women and men seeking to build healthy, God-centered relationships.
Tune in as I discuss:
• The importance of patience and kindness
• How spiritual alignment strengthens a relationship
• The role of communication and vulnerability
• What women desire in terms of love, respect, and partnership
• Biblical principles for creating lasting and fulfilling relationships
If you’re looking to understand your partner or yourself better, this episode is filled with practical advice and encouraging wisdom from a Christian perspective.
Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more relationship insights!
In this episode, I sit down with Boluwarin, a Christian husband and dad, to explore a topic that often sparks conversation and controversy: submission vs. servitude in marriage. What does the Bible truly say about submission, and how is it different from servitude? Together, we break down the biblical meaning of submission within marriage, focusing on mutual respect, love, and leadership as modeled by Christ.
We discuss:
• The role of submission for both husbands and wives.
• How biblical submission honors equality, not control.
• Practical ways couples can implement servant leadership and mutual submission in their marriages.
• Misconceptions about submission in Christian relationships.
This episode is packed with insights for Christian couples who want to build strong, healthy, God-centered marriages. Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this conversation will help you understand the balance of love and leadership from a biblical perspective.
Don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more episodes on faith, relationships, and the love of God 💞
In this powerful episode, I sit down with a courageous young woman who bravely shares her journey through an abusive marriage that ultimately led to divorce. Her story is one of resilience, strength, and the difficult decision to walk away from a toxic relationship.
Through her candid and heartfelt account, she opens up about the warning signs she overlooked, the fear and shame that kept her silent, and the pivotal moment when she realized she deserved better. This episode serves as a beacon of hope for anyone who feels trapped in an unhealthy relationship, reminding them that they are not alone and that there is life, love, and happiness on the other side of abuse.
We discuss the importance of self-worth, the courage it takes to leave, and the wisdom needed to make choices that prioritize safety and well-being. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that empowers listeners to trust their instincts, seek help, and never be afraid to choose themselves first.
We all make mistakes in dating, but the key is learning from them! In this video, I’m sharing the biggest dating mistakes I made during my 20s and how they shaped my approach to love and relationships today. Whether you’re in your 20s or beyond, you’ll find valuable insights that can help you avoid the same shege 😩😩.
From settling for less to ignoring red flags, I’ve been through it all. I’ll open up about how I misjudged people, handled my heart poorly, and put too much emphasis on feelings. If you’re struggling with dating or looking to improve your relationship choices, this video is for you.
By sharing my experiences, I hope to inspire you to reflect on your own dating patterns and grow from them. Let’s talk about how we can all avoid these common mistakes and start making healthier, more conscious choices in love.