Ep. 71: Money talk with Natasha and Damian Carrillo.

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Healing Myself

Scott and Shaté Hayes

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We're Scott and Shaté Hayes, and we're on a mission to help our community find freedom from the inside out. So we host conversations about God, therapy, and all the lessons we’ve learned about how to love, trust, forgive, and affirm ourselves first. We used to talk about the hard parts of life. Now, we talk about the healed parts because that’s where true freedom resides. Join us, and you’ll see that when you save yourself first, you transform your life, and you lead the way for those around you to save themselves, too. Get healing tips, tools, and more: ⁠https://healingmyself.co/weeklyword

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Ep. 71: Money talk with Natasha and Damian Carrillo.

Healing Myself

35 minutes 50 seconds

2 years ago

Ep. 71: Money talk with Natasha and Damian Carrillo.

If you caught episode 70, then you know we weren’t sure if we’d be able to make the last five episodes of the year happen because we’ve been through a lot lately, and we wanted a break. Well, we decided to find a way to work smarter instead of giving up. We’ve been blessed to be guests on a number of other podcasts this year, and we’re sharing a few of those episodes and reflections. Up first, is our convo with Natasha and Damian Carrillo of Black and Brown Make Green Podcast. We had an honest money convo, and we can’t wait to share it with you!

WHAT TO LISTEN FOR:

The story of how we met [6:43]

Dating and ghosting… And dating and ghosting
Dating pre and post social media and dating apps

Our history with money [14:48]

Scott’s history with money
How our histories with money affected our marriage
Discussing gender roles in money

Learning to partner as a couple and not roommates [17:44]

Discussing relationships we saw growing up
Learning what each other desired
Seeking help from a financial advisor

Working past differing opinions [20:45]

Navigating childhood and racial traumas
The scarcity mindset
Who is the breadwinner/tackling “traditional gender roles”
Honoring your husband as head of the household

Being self aware [24:44]

Where is this reaction coming from?
Marriage counseling/therapy
Addressing past triggers in marriage
Boundaries and communication

The three things you need to better communicate [31:03]

Understand
Express
Affirm

The biggest lessons we learned [33:58]

Do not be afraid to seek help, even BEFORE things get hard.
Be self aware of your past so that it doesn’t hinder your future.

RESOURCES FROM THIS EPISODE:

Listen to C.R.E.A.M., song by Wu-Tang Clan
Listen to Get Money, song by Junior M.A.F.I.A

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