Are you feeling weighed down by negative energy in your life? It might be time to let go of your circle and make space for new, uplifting connections! In this empowering video, we explore the signs that indicate it’s time to step away from relationships that no longer serve your growth and happiness. We’ll inspire you to embrace the freedom that comes with shedding old ties and stepping into your true potential. Discover how letting go can open doors to new friendships, opportunities, and a more fulfilling life. Remember, every ending is just the beginning of something beautiful!
00:00 you’re DONE being let down
00:22 maybe you need a new circle
01:00 our first instincts are to protect
02:01 be OK with leaving
02:17 the fear of letting go
04:22 have you ever?
05:08 Make or Break podcast
05:38 it’s not always obvious
05:55 choose your battles
07:01 the odds of having mature conversation
07:30 give them less access
08:12 it’s VERY scary to do this
09:03 but it’s also LIBERATING
09:52 free coaching
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Are you wondering if it’s too late to win back the love of your life after infidelity? While the journey of healing can be challenging, it’s never too late to take steps toward redemption and reconnecting with your partner. This uplifting video, will guide you through three simple yet powerful steps to rebuild trust and repair the love you once shared. We’ll explore the importance of open communication, genuine remorse, and consistent actions that demonstrate your commitment to change. The best time to act is as close to the infidelity as possible, ideally within the first year. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn how you can turn regret into resolve and create a brighter future together!
00:00 this isn’t for everyone
00:43 step 1
04:16 step 2
07:23 list of how to access damage done
07:38 my question for you is. . .
09:01 final step
14:25 here’s how I can help
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In this transformative video, we delve deep into the hidden traumas that can sabotage our love lives, uncovering the subtle ways past experiences shape our relationships today. We'll explore some of the profound impact of unhealed wounds on our ability to connect, trust, and love fully. Remember, healing is not just a destination but a beautiful journey that can lead to extraordinary transformations in our hearts and relationships.
00:00 intro
00:18 hidden way #1
02:13 hidden way #2
03:47 share with me
04:18 hidden way #3
05:29 hidden way #4
07:51 test to see if you’re allowing trauma to ruin your love life
08:58 book your first session with me for free
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MAKE OR BREAK PODCAST:
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COACHING FOR WOMEN:
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In today’s video, we discuss the transformative concept of reclaiming your power by shifting away from blame. When we blame others for our circumstances, we unwittingly hand over our agency to heal and grow. By taking responsibility for our own healing journey, we unlock the incredible strength within us to overcome challenges and create lasting change. It's time to stop blaming and start becoming the author of your own story.
And remind yourself of your innate ability to transform your life when you shift from blame to empowerment and the incredible potential that lies within you.
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Timestamps:
00:00 focus on yourself
00:36 free resources
01:22 stop blaming others
02:12 difference between avoiding and preventing conflict/challenges
03:22 you have 2 alternatives
03:57 take accountability
05:16 here’s what happens
06:36 consequences
07:36 the moment you do this
08:12 Gisèle Pélicot’s story
08:59 blame is irrelevant
09:55 your story changes when you take control
11:03 is your past living rent free?
11:27 do the math
12:21 boundaries vs barriers
13:08 my next video
13:25 more resources
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I’m Mel, here to show you how to prioritize creating authentic connections so you can experience your ideal dating & relationship lifestyle.
I want you to enjoy dating and experiencing healthy relationships more, without needing to spend years in a trauma bond.
This channel provides weekly content on online dating, forming healthy attachments, effective communication, dating advice for women and men respectively, and really anything that involves establishing healthy, long term commitment with confidence.
You can dive deeper into leveling up your dating & relationship skills by visiting the links below.
Welcome to the community 🖤
⸻
FREE ONLINE DATING COURSE Learn to navigate online dating like a PRO:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/online-dating-atmospherics-module-1-only
MAKE OR BREAK PODCAST:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/be-guest-star-s-on-my-podcast-show
COACHING FOR WOMEN:
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#ReclaimYourPower #HealYourself #StopBlaming #TakeResponsibility #EmpowerYourself #PersonalGrowth #InnerStrength #HealingJourney #SelfAwareness #TransformYourLife #OwnYourStory #MindsetShift #RiseAbove #PositiveChange #SelfEmpowerment #EmotionalFreedom #BreakTheCycle #InnerPeace #SelfDiscovery #BeYourOwnHero #PowerWithin #ChooseGrowth #SelfBelief #Accountability #PathToHealing
In today’s video I wanted us to delve into the nuanced differences between therapy and coaching, helping you discern which path aligns with your unique needs and aspirations. Let’s also discuss vital distinctions between mental and emotional health, empowering you to nurture both aspects of your well-being holistically.
I hope this video inspires and helps guide you towards a life of balance, fulfillment, and self-healing.
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Timestamps:
00:00 you may not need a therapist
00:22 orientation
01:10 let’s define healing
02:59 self-healing
03:52 difference between therapy and coaching. Which is right for you?
04:59 please don’t rely on medication alone
07:28 difference between mental and emotional health
10:04 your emotional and mental health are inseparable
10:35 be active in your overall healthcare planning
11:55 benefits of healing
14:10 when is your healing complete
15:11 now it’s time to decide what’s right for you
15:45 use these resources to help you
16:08 ask questions
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I’m Mel, here to show you how to prioritize creating authentic connections so you can experience your ideal dating & relationship lifestyle.
I want you to enjoy dating and experiencing healthy relationships more, without needing to spend years in a trauma bond.
This channel provides weekly content on online dating, forming healthy attachments, effective communication, dating advice for women and men respectively, and really anything that involves establishing healthy, long term commitment with confidence.
You can dive deeper into leveling up your dating & relationship skills by visiting the links below.
Welcome to the community 🖤
⸻
FREE ONLINE DATING COURSE Learn to navigate online dating like a PRO:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/online-dating-atmospherics-module-1-only
Coaching for women:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/
Coaching for men:
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Today, let’s get into the complexities of rejection for men in my latest video, "10 Ways Rejection Hits Men Differently and Why Masculinity Isn't Real."
Men have a unique emotional landscape to navigate when faced with rejection, so we’re going to unravel societal expectations and challenge the very concept of masculinity.
This video aims to inspire men to embrace vulnerability as a strength, redefine their self-worth beyond traditional labels, and foster a deeper understanding of themselves. Leggo
00:00 if you’re a man
00:32 reason #1
01:37 reason #2
02:42 reason #3
03:24 reason #4
05:15 reason #5
06:41 reason #6
07:11 reason #7
08:36 reason #8
09:57 reason #9
11:06 reason #10
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I’m Mel, here to show you how to prioritize creating authentic connections so you can experience your ideal dating & relationship lifestyle.
I want you to enjoy dating and experiencing healthy relationships more, without needing to spend years in a trauma bond.
This channel provides weekly content on online dating, forming healthy attachments, effective communication, dating advice for women and men respectively, and really anything that involves establishing healthy, long term commitment with confidence.
You can dive deeper into leveling up your dating & relationship skills by visiting the links below.
Welcome to the community 🖤
FREE ONLINE DATING COURSE Learn to navigate online dating like a PRO:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/online-dating-atmospherics-module-1-only
Coaching for women:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/
Coaching for men:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/7f72ac8f-86a8-423c-8a63-b391fa08ceb4
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#StrengthInSensitivity #AuthenticSelf #MenSupportingMen #EmotionalGrowth #BreakTheStigma #ResilienceJourney #TransformativeHealing #datingcoachformen
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🌟 Understanding the 3 Stages of Relationships 🌟
Have you ever found yourself caught in the whirlwind of emotions, feeling like you fall in love too quickly or easily? You're not alone, and this video is here to guide you through understanding the dynamics of love and attachment.
We’ll delve into the three crucial stages of relationships, helping you differentiate between mere attachment and true connection. Through consistency, depth, and shared effort, you can cultivate a quality connection that enriches your journey of love.
Join me in navigating these stages, empowering you to form relationships that truly resonate. 💖✨
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 if you fall in love too quickly, this is for you
00:20 the reason you fall in love so easily
00:41 let’s start with connection
01:16 how an attachment forms
01:42 where we confuse attachment for love
01:55 quality connections
02:17 low quality connections
02:43 FREE 10 dating vetting questions for quality
03:18 what is love?
04:32 that is NOT love
04:50 attachments do NOT require love
05:22 watch my previous rejection video
05:41 remember how we defined love
06:08 steal my understanding relationship dynamics course
06:25 you definitely need to watch this!
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Navigating heartbreak can feel like one of the toughest challenges, especially when it comes from someone you trusted deeply. In this insightful video, we explore why break-up rejection hits so hard and how you can transform this painful experience into an opportunity for personal growth. Discover how to master rejection, understand its true meaning, and why it might not be as personal as it seems.
Through this journey, you’ll learn strategies to potentially remain friends with your ex, harnessing rejection to your advantage. Perfectly timed with Valentine's Day, this video invites you to dive deep into the heart of rejection, offering hope and guidance to those struggling with its sting.
Join me as I unpack the emotional layers of rejection, whether in romantic relationships, friendships, or familial bonds. This video will enlighten you on how to face rejection head-on, understand your fears, and emerge stronger. Ready to transform your heartbreak into a stepping stone for a brighter future? Watch now and find the strength to rise above, embracing the next chapter of your life with confidence!
TIME STAMPS:
0:00 intro
CHAPTER 1
00:54 what rejection REALLY means
CHAPTER 2
02:54 story time
05:42 it doesn’t matter how nice or good they are
06:14 the key to saving your friendship after breakup
08:39 why they’re always going to reject you
09:42 the definition of emotional unavailable
10:03 emotionally unavailable people are seeking love too. watch out/ proceed at your own risk
11:12 they will always blame you for not giving them relationship benefits for free
13:02 good people/intentions can still do damage in relationships
14:23 shifting from chemistry to compatibility
CHAPTER 3
15:55 how I got over fear of rejection (taking back control)
18:20 self-work is necessary to regulate your experiences
20:09 the worst mistake we make in our love lives
21:20 the difference between boundaries vs. barriers
22:01 if you’re still carrying emotional baggage
22:19 here’s a helpful exercise
CHAPTER 4
23:55 the reason heartbreak rejection is so CRUSHING
25:00 most of us default to blaming ourselves. here’s why
26:22 if you’ve found yourself repeating these patterns after you experience rejection here’s what to do (understanding your relationship dynamics)
28:08 prompts for when you experience another painful rejection (save this video!)
31:00 if you’re someone who SUPPRESSES your emotions & needs in a relationship
32:17 how we get stuck dating toxic, insecure partners
33:38 self-reflections
34:55 building up your confidence
36:15 realizing the ways you’ve been rejecting yourself first
38:27 this is a game CHANGER
38:58 understanding your ex
40:37 stop taking rejection as an assault & be thankful you’re not wasting your time
41:39 stop being an insecure dater
42:31 difference between connection, attachment, & love (video card)
42:33 self-love is the best love
43:00 grab your FREE copy of 10 ESSENTIAL DATING QUESTIONS for online dating BEFORE you get off the app
43:22 future upcoming video for women dealing with rejection
43:36 future upcoming video for men dealing with rejection
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Did you know over half of us feel stuck on the wrong side of dating?
Hi! I'm Mel Williams,
Welcome to all things self-healing, secure dating, & healthy, FUN relationships! I'm excited to share with you a how simple, liberating, and FUN your dating experiences and relationships can be through my Secure Dating Academy.
If you’re interested in:
- Mastering your dating, relationship, and marriage experiences
- Creating safety and FUN in your love life
- Improving your confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship and communication skills
- Making more progress and spending less time/money in therapy
- Transitioning from the wrong side of love to experiencing more of the RIGHT kind of dream love that you fantasize about
Then you're in the right place for authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables you to create a SECURE dating & relationship love pattern but also feel confident and in control of your own happiness.
Connect with me
IG: @HealingIsSexy
Energetics of Love course:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/energetics-of-love
Did you know over half of us feel stuck on the wrong side of dating?
Hi! I'm Mel Williams,
Welcome to all things self-healing, secure dating, & healthy, FUN relationships! I'm excited to share with you a how simple, liberating, and FUN your dating experiences and relationships can be through my Secure Dating Academy.
If you’re interested in:
- Mastering your dating, relationship, and marriage experiences
- Creating safety and FUN in your love life
- Improving your confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship and communication skills
- Making more progress and spending less time/money in therapy
- Transitioning from the wrong side of love to experiencing more of the RIGHT kind of dream love that you fantasize about
Then you're in the right place for authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables you to create a SECURE dating & relationship love pattern but also feel confident and in control of your own happiness.
Connect with me
IG: @HealingIsSexy
Energetics of Love course:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/energetics-of-love
Did you know over half of us feel stuck on the wrong side of dating?
Hi! I'm Mel Williams,
Welcome to all things self-healing, secure dating, & healthy, FUN relationships! I'm excited to share with you a how simple, liberating, and FUN your dating experiences and relationships can be through my Secure Dating Academy.
If you’re interested in:
- Mastering your dating, relationship, and marriage experiences
- Creating safety and FUN in your love life
- Improving your confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship and communication skills
- Making more progress and spending less time/money in therapy
- Transitioning from the wrong side of love to experiencing more of the RIGHT kind of dream love that you fantasize about
Then you're in the right place for authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables you to create a SECURE dating & relationship love pattern but also feel confident and in control of your own happiness.
Connect with me
IG: @HealingIsSexy
Energetics of Love course:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/energetics-of-love
Secure Dating Academy: https://healingissexylife.weebly.com/academy.html
Did you know over half of us feel stuck on the wrong side of dating?
Hi! I'm Mel Williams,
Welcome to all things self-healing, secure dating, & healthy, FUN relationships! I'm excited to share with you a how simple, liberating, and FUN your dating experiences and relationships can be through my Secure Dating Academy.
If you’re interested in:
- Mastering your dating, relationship, and marriage experiences
- Creating safety and FUN in your love life
- Improving your confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship and communication skills
- Making more progress and spending less time/money in therapy
- Transitioning from the wrong side of love to experiencing more of the RIGHT kind of dream love that you fantasize about
Then you're in the right place for authentic, insightful, and practical advice that not only enables you to create a SECURE dating & relationship love pattern but also feel confident and in control of your own happiness.
Connect with me
IG: @HealingIsSexy
Energetics of Love course:
https://www.healingissexylife.com/energetics-of-love
Secure Dating Academy: https://healingissexylife.weebly.com/academy.html
Are you wondering how to ACTUALLY prepare for dating? Whether you're new to the dating world or looking to improve your approach, this video will guide you through the essential steps for preparing mentally, emotionally, and practically for successful dating. We'll cover everything from building dating confidence to developing a healthy mindset for relationships. Learn the dating tips and self-improvement strategies that will help you get ready for a meaningful connection.
In this video, we'll dive into how to prepare for dating, dating advice for beginners, and practical steps for improving your dating life. Whether you're preparing for online dating or looking for relationship readiness tips, this video will give you the tools you need to date successfully. From boosting your confidence to establishing healthy dating habits, you'll find all the information you need to feel prepared and confident as you start your dating journey.
Here's what preparing for dating is not 👇🏾
1️⃣ A checklist of what you want/need in a wife or husband
2️⃣ Your checklist of having things like a house, car, & financial stability
If your definition of date prep consists of those 2 things or if you’ve never even had the thought to be prepared for dating this video is for you. It’s also for those of you who are done wasting time with the wrong person in the wrong relationship going nowhere.
Dating does not have to be something you fear or even complicated. I’ll show you a the simple way with proven strategies.
Access my Date Prep Mastery Blueprint now:
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Here’s what I mean by having a plan for your dating & relationship experiences 💞
I’m SUPER excited for the upcoming year and all the fun things planned to help you add more certainty and FUN to your love life experiences.
See you inside 🥂
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Are you a mature dater or just someone who keeps racking up a lot of bad dating experiences?
Theres a difference!
❌ More time/years spent dating
❌ More people you date/been in relationships with
❌ More bad experiences you survived
Doesn’t equate to mature dating.
In fact the more time you spend dating from a place of survival, coping, and tolerance the more you’re increasing your chances of not experiencing healthy and fun in your love life.
Right now you can access the 9 Focus areas of a mature dater inside my Dating Preparation Mastery Blueprint using the link in my bio for just $37.
Here’s to better love life experiences and more mature daters 🥂
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My signature Dating Preparation Blueprint is one of the 5 Master Dating & Relationships blueprints included in my ALMA for men and ALDA for women courses.
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When you're DONE settling in your love life, then you're ready to hear what I have to say.
Join my waitlist for my Self Mastery Foundations course using: https://healingissexylife.weebly.com/join-mailing-list.html
Dating Isn’t Overrated. We’ve Been Conditioned to Do It In Unhealthy Ways
It’s time to learn new ways to engage in this space.
LINK: https://www.healingissexylife.com/47e29d07-d73b-405e-9988-431c2276c685
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