In this episode of Having a Pulse, Zandile explores the power of words. The ones we speak over ourselves and the names we answer to. This conversation dives into how identity is shaped not just by what we believe, but by what we declare. Who are you calling yourself when no one is watching? And what would happen if you started speaking from the version of you thats already whole?

In this episode of Having a Pulse, Zandile Melissa explores how to find your spark and reignite your passion for life.Inspired by Disney's Soul and grounded in real-life reflection, this conversation helps you reconnect with what truly makes you come alive. Learn how to live with meaning, align with your calling, and start walking in purpose again.

I this episode, l dive into the big questions: Who am l and What am l here for. This episode does not answer the questions, but it is an introduction to the upcoming conversations that we will have. l hope that this episode prepares you for what is to come.

Thank you for listening.

This episode is me just saying my thoughts . It can be helpful to anyone who is trying to figure out their lives .

I published it so l don’t lose it ❤️

In this episode, we dive into the topic of being the best versions of ourselves. We look into how choices play a role in creating or destroying the lives we see and have as well as those that we desire. This week we dive into the mysteries of alternative universes and what God says about the best versions of ourselves.

In this episode, we get into the famous saying "Protect your peace". Everyone is talking about it, in this episode the host gets into how we can protect our peace, respect ourselves, and know that boundaries are biblical. We dive deep into having boundaries and letting go of the people that do not serve us anymore.

In this episode we get into how we can use self love to be the main character in yours story . We look into how God's love can be used as a mirror so we can love ourselves more .Knowing God's love will help us be the main character in our lives , make us the best versions of our selves . With a step by step process we will get there .

In this episode we talk about why we go back to the Ex ? , Why do we always hold on to the past and the bad habits that we so desperately want to change . The episode further help us understand why we seek comfort and being scared of the next steps in life rather we stick to that we already even thought it does not serve us anymore . There is no need to go back because starting over is ok .

In this episode we tie our 2025 series . We look into procrastination and its impact on our lives . We further look into how to take action and achieve our goals without waiting for something or time to pass .

We read from :

-Ecclesiastes 9v10

-Proverbs 6v6-11 &20v4

-Philippians 4v13

-Proverb 29V18

In this episode , we discuss the common feeling of fear . The fear of failure. This episode focuses on re-shaping and re-designing our minds so that we do not be afraid to take bold steps and decisions in the new year . God encourages us through the journey of the father of faith , fear , failure and disappointment come hand in hand .

In this episode, the host dives into how we can use self love as the foundation for a successful 2025 . She digs deep into what God says about love and how we can use it to be the reason for being the best versions of ourselves .

In this episode we talk about what to do when our plans fail .

This is a part 2 of the dealing with feelings of the past . In this episode we go into what God wants for us as his people. How we can try not to dwell on the mistakes and go back to God when the mistakes happen .

In this episode l go deep into how the lack of self love and boundaries can lead us to spaces that can alter who we are and move us away from God . Remember Genesis 1 v 1 and 26 .

In this episode l dive into something that is against our nature . Understanding that we are not perfect, we can be selfish, we can have pride and jealousy. We need to know where it comes from and how to move and grow so we do not hurt people along the way .

In this episode l dive into one of the greatest gifts that God gave us . The death of his only son Jesus, to die for our sins ,so we could be forgiven. I get into the challenges of forgiveness and ways in which we can forgive others and ourselves.

The bible helps us through this in the following verses:

Matthew 6v 9-14

Ephesians 1v7

Luke 6v37

1 John 1 v 9

Matthew 18 v21-22

In this episode, l talk about the frustrating feeling of being stuck and how we can change our mindset and be still instead . We look at how God encourages us to be still in times that feel like we are stuck .

Bible verses read and stories referred to :

Psalm 100 v 4

Psalm 46 v10

Luke 5v 16

Luke 10:39

Philippians 4v6-7

On this episode we dive into letting go of the past and embracing the new. The challenges and the steps to take to be able to embrace the new. The host refers to the Israelites and their experiences so that we learn from them. Their journey helps us understand God’s intentions for our lives and moving to the new place with healed wounds.