In this episode Joy & James take a look at the ways we accept things as "facts of life" when we have really experienced small traumas. The episode covers ways trauma affects your healthy connecting in relationships and what we can do to get that safety back.

Join Joy & James as they interview Jelani The Muse; one of Houston's most electric entrepreneurs, as she takes us on an exploration of her personal growth journey in a one of a kind business model, open love style and spiritual awakening.    To follow Jelani and grab even more inspiration on your own path to loving yourself and freely loving whomever you fancy, follow her @jelani_themuse

Joy B and James B have a discussion on the different ways violence shows up in our relationships, the power dynamics you might experience and how to make it less likely for one to get caught up feeling stuck. 

In this NYE episode, Joy B. & James B. share some insights on how to honor your future self, support what she needs to glow the way your goddess will glow, when you align with what you truly need, when you realize that you are limitless and you are fearless in the pursuit of real and steady love.    Don't forget to share and help some other goddesses get on their glow in 2021.   Follow on instagram @glowyourgoddess for more inspiration on glowing up and follow @allgoddess_nogames for dating, love and matchmaking support with Joy B. 

Joy & James share from their experience how to really leave a lasting impression on first dates and raise your chances at giving the most authentic and magical impression of you. Joy will leave you with some concrete tools on how to make these first moves gracefully.   If you need goddess date coaching, you're ready to glow up in your relationships, meet with the matchmaker! Check out www.glowyourgoddess.com/matchmaking   Interested in being considered for membership to our database for Goddesses and Goddess Getters, tell me about yourself here: https://glow-your-goddess-coaching-matchmaking.smartmatchapp.com/client/submissionform/12/

Joy & James interview Yvonne, Pleasure Coach, about the work she does to connect people to their bodies, their real desires and ultimate self love. Goddess, you will walk away feeling a bit more empowered to cultivate that glow on your own....or with a partner! Follow Yvonne @pleasureseeker_yvonne on IG to start that journey of unboxing all the parts of you that you may have been ignoring.    For direct questions about her work, you can email her at Pleasure_Coach_Yvonne@gmail.com

James and Joy explore the relationship between a narcissist and co-dependent personality. They also add insight into a common pitfall of these relationships; Gaslighting.    https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/here-there-and-everywhere/201701/11-warning-signs-gaslighting

In this episode, James & Joy Interview Chi, Love Genie & Matchmaker, who is the founder of N.Y.A. Love & Dating Services. Listen as we dive in deep with this expert about what it takes to bravely move through the dating world and how she helps those serious about love find it in themselves and in their future partners.    You have questions for Chi Love? You can DM her on instagram @nyalovebychi or email at funandlovewithchi@gmail.com

Joy and James bust up some dating myths that have been long overdue to be debunked and moved out of the way for your glow up in dating. 

In this episode, James & Joy talk about the final kind of communication they want to cover as important in healthy connected relationships. Joy & James will share some examples and even role plays so you leave understanding when you may not be meeting the mark for healthy communication in your relationship.

Joy & James continue to share the importance to communication in relationships and dive deep into helping you understand the pitfalls of not having direct communication in your relationship and what it looks like when you're doing it right. 

Goddesses, in this episode, Joy & James will discuss what active listening is in healthy relationships, why it's important and keys signs you may be lacking in your active listening skills. 

In this episode, James & Joy are excited to interview Renelle Nelson, LMFT, CST, IRC, and get her expert wisdom on how to tap into our sexual power, embrace intimacy and not be afraid of deep connection in your relationships.  Some suggested reading from our guest: Reclaiming Your Sexual Self https://www.amazon.com/Reclaiming-Your-Sexual-Self-Desire/dp/0471274275 The Power of Vulnerability https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/23500254-the-power-of-vulnerability Becoming Cliterate https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Cliterate-Orgasm-Equality-Matters/dp/0062484389   Want more nuggets from Renelle? Follow her on instagram @noixsextherapist Thinking about glowing up in this area, maybe after an affair or sexual concerns? Consult with Renelle. See her @affairaftercare and @kaleidoscope on instagram to get started.  

In this episode, James & Joy interview a special guest. She's a solopenuer, Goddess & fashion designer. She is Derrica Lyons, living in South Florida, from way of the Bahamas. Join while Derrica shares her wisdom on how she overcame any doubt from self, others or the world while staying on her own path to the glow up she loves living.  To follow Derrica's fashions, find her on instagram @iamderricalyons & @ankarajunkie Derrica's latest design creations can be found on www.derricalyons.com

In this episode, Joy & James explain what is to be alone and how this bridges to lonely. Feelings you may be experiencing while feeling disconnected by human connection will be explored and even normalized so you know you are not alone in your desire for meaningful relationships. Don't leave without some tools to get you back to a healthy mindset and feeling empowered to reconnect again.  Stay up to take with inspiration offered by Glow Your Goddess and get connected on instagram @glowyourgoddess. Want some direct guidance on your glow up journey? Check out Glowyourgoddess.com and see how we can do this together!    

In this week's episode we will dig into the similarities of the chemical addiction cycle that occurs and the addiction to a person and/or relationship. James and I both respond to a listeners question around his concern about his ability to trust himself now, due to his feeling he may be addicted to his ex. Goddess, it's good to know the difference between a soul mate and a soul sucking connection. Let's dig into what that might look like for you and how to get untangled from a toxic relationship that is not serving you in glowing your goddess.    Resource: Lisa Knudson Psychotherapy-Addictive Relationship Checklist https://lisaknudsonpsychotherapy.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/Addictive-Relationship-Checklist.pdf

In this episode, we'll explore the reality of how your friends could be showing up for you, could be keeping you stuck in a space on your journey that no longer serves you or could propelling you the way a healthy support system should.  Want more Glow Your Goddess guidance? Check out the new book: https://www.amazon.com/Why-Wont-Call-Empowering-Relationships-ebook/dp/B086J9J5ZL/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=why+won%27t+he+call&qid=1586994073&sr=8-1 The book launch is right around the corner where we'll discuss how the book is going to help you glow your goddess, you'll have an opportunity to hear from other expert goddesses (@kebamusic & @sara.evolve) who help women glow up all day every day and you'll have a chance of a whole bunch of give aways (signed copies of the book, goddess swag, etc)! RSVP to attend on 4/20 here: https://facebook.com/events/s/book-launch-party-why-wont-he-/490122418536976/?ti=icl

Goddess, in this episode we will talk about the primary attachment styles that show up in our intimate relationships. Don't know what that is or what yours is? Well you will before this episode is over! We're giving you just one more tool for you to glow up your self discovery game and glow in your relationships.  As a resource to give you more guidance around managing your attachment style, check out: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Factually-Attachment-Dating-Easier-ebook/dp/B07R583698/ref=sr_1_6?keywords=love+factually&qid=1585699583&sr=8-6 Love Factually is an amazing source for those dating and she has some tried and true tips to get you over any fears of intimacy.  AND... I'm also bringing you my own guidance to glow with my recently published goddess guide, Why Won't He Call?: Empowering You to Glow Your Goddess in Relationships.  In these pages are some serious gems that I've witnessed being utilized by so many woman, who have finally started to show up in the world the way their inner goddess has always wanted them to. Pre-sale has started for the Kindle Edition! Check it out here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B086J9J5ZL/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=why+wont+he+call&qid=1585501775&sr=8-1 Until next time, keep it moving and glow girl. Glow.    Original Glow Your Goddess Music Credit: Keba Music  

In this episode Joy & James discuss how to glow your goddess in your relationship, for the sake of your relationship and as a result of your sacred space of your relationship. We must pour into our connections with others so that when needed, we can tap into the love between two souls that need a safe haven from the rest of the madness that we face daily. Below you'll find an article supporting the importance of making your relationship sacred: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-attraction-doctor/201903/is-your-relationship-sacred-why-it-might-matter?amp Yet again, we're lucky enough to share in some more Keba Music to inspire us in how we glow! She's expressing her hearts muses on her sacred relationship, through her original song "Somebody" Take a listen! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYY7C9p-upE&feature=youtu.be  

In this episode we are exploring what is "Love Bombing," who does it, how do they do it and why. After that listen up as we discuss the insanity of falling in love, the good, the bad and the ugly. Can a goddess glow in all of this? Absolutely.  Inquiring minds would like to know. Was your first falling in love experience something you regret or something you cherish? Drop a yes or no in the comments! Speaking of being all in love, don't miss our favorite goddess, Keba's new song "Pillow Talk," where you get that whole fresh love vibe coming through your speakers. Love the beat, love the voice, the lyrics, love her!  https://youtu.be/i4eWvxNPNrE And as promised, here's the link for the Wall Street Journal article outlining what the actual experience of falling of love is in our brain. https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB117131067930406235 Look out for our next episode, March 15th, where we'll be recording from the other sunny spot outside of Florida....California :)