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giving (un)bothered
Alana Banks and Jelka Lepever
49 episodes
2 weeks ago
Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.

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Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.

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giving (un)bothered
truth or drink: sapphic age gaps & getting caught having s*x

We’re back with another Truth or Drink, and things got way too real. From sapphic fantasies to virginity stories we probably shouldn’t have shared, this one’s pure chaos in the best way. Grab a drink and dive into the mess of queer dating, lesbian love, and our very own red flag behaviour 🌶️


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships #wlw #lesbianpodcast #sapphic


LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, queer dating mistakes, WLW relationship advice, I kissed a girl, IKAG, jojo siwa, gillian anderson, scream, dating red flags, intimacy, age gap relationships 




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2 weeks ago
36 minutes 40 seconds

giving (un)bothered
gold star lesbians, baby gays & heartbreak advice

We’re answering your questions about gold star lesbians, baby gays, and queer heartbreak. Real listener confessions, breakup advice, and chaotic first-date stories: unfiltered and very gay. 🌈💔


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠

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4 weeks ago
42 minutes 22 seconds

giving (un)bothered
lesbian hot takes : why do lesbians sleep with their friends?

We’re back, season 2 of giving (un)bothered is here! 🎉 And we’re starting off strong with lesbian hot takes: all the unfiltered, spicy opinions you’ve been thinking (but maybe not saying out loud).

From controversial takes on queer dating to the unspoken truths about lesbian friendships and community dynamics, we’re laying it all on the table.


💌 Don’t forget to subscribe and drop your hottest take in the comments 


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships

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1 month ago
25 minutes 54 seconds

giving (un)bothered
sapphic red flags : how to get over your first crush

Your first lesbian crush? Been there. Obsessed? Absolutely. Over it? …Eventually. In this episode, we dive deep into the sapphic red flags you should run from (👀), the ones we controversially find kinda hot (don’t judge us), and the emotional chaos of getting over your first lesbian crush. 


From the seductive mystery of a girl who lovebombs just enough to keep you hooked, to the heartbreak of someone who wants girlfriend treatment but won’t commit — we’ve seen it all. We’re unpacking the most common red flags in queer dating, like hot-and-cold texting, exes who never fully exit the chat, and intense jealousy disguised as passion. And yes, we also admit the red flags that, controversially, we still find kind of hot (hello, “healthy” possessiveness 👀).


Whether you’re spiraling over a situationship, confused by your crush’s mixed signals, or trying to heal after your first real queer heartbreak, this episode is your survival guide to lesbian relationships, emotional growth, and choosing peace over chaos (eventually).


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships



LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, WLW dating advice, sapphic stories, dating stories, how to get over your crush


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3 months ago
44 minutes 34 seconds

giving (un)bothered
let’s get naked: sexting, strapping & bedroom icks

In this unfiltered and hilarious episode, we’re getting real about what happens behind closed doors. From sexting fails to our biggest bedroom icks, nothing is off-limits. We dive into the juicy debate: fingering, scissoring or strapping – which one hits the spot? 👀 Plus, we’re talking threesomes, swinging, and what turns us on vs. what sends us running.


Whether you're queer, curious, or just here for the chaotic honesty, this episode is your go-to for sex-positive, queer-centered conversations.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships


LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, WLW dating advice, sapphic stories, dating stories


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3 months ago
25 minutes 45 seconds

giving (un)bothered
navigating long distance relationships (with Kelsey & Becky)

In this episode, we dive deep into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships. We’re joined by Kelsey and Becky, a couple who fell in love 5,000 miles apart after matching on Hinge — and yes, there was a ghosting plot twist 👀

From navigating a transatlantic relationship (UK to LA) to their first in-person meeting, we unpack how they’re making long-distance love work. We talk conflict resolution, healthy communication in long-distance relationships, building trust across time zones, and the realities no one warns you about.

Whether you're in a long-distance relationship, thinking about starting one, or just love a good modern-day love story, this episode is full of honest insights, relationship advice, and a real look at what it takes to stay connected when you're worlds apart.


Find Kelsey & Becky on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@kelseyandbecky
  • Tiktok: ⁠@kelseyandbecky
  • Youtube: ⁠@kelseyandbecky


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships


LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, WLW dating advice, sapphic stories, dating stories, jojo siwa, chappell roan 


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4 months ago
1 hour 21 minutes 3 seconds

giving (un)bothered
we got ghosted by the same girl?! WLW dating horror stories (with Amy Pozzilli)

This week, we're joined by our friend Amy to talk all things heartbreak, healing, and sapphic dating chaos. Amy shares how she rebuilt her confidence, stepped back into dating, and how it felt getting ghosted by the same girl as co-host Alana 👀💔 We unpack red flags, WLW dating patterns, navigating trust after betrayal, and what healing really looks like.

We also dive into spiritual healing after a breakup and the surprising ways energy work, intuition, and astrology can support healing.

Whether you've been ghosted, cheated on, or you're trying to date again after heartbreak—this one's for you.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships


LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, WLW dating advice, psychic reading


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4 months ago
58 minutes 33 seconds

giving (un)bothered
building a happy queer marriage (with Megan Elliott-Hewson)

In this episode, we sit down with queer writer, artist, and pottery studio owner Megan Elliott-Hewson to dive into the beauty and complexity of queer marriage, building a life in creative partnership, and the unfiltered truth about writing queer fiction.


👉 We talk:

💍 The honest reality of queer marriage

🖋️ Writing queer novels in a straight-centered industry

🫖 Creating safe, soft spaces through queer pottery classes

💬 Finding love, art, and community as a queer woman



Find Megan Elliott-Hewson on: 

  • Instagram: @meganelliotthewson
  • Clay wild studio Instagram: @claywildstudio


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships #queermarriage



LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, WLW dating advice


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4 months ago
37 minutes 40 seconds

giving (un)bothered
Hinge's love expert Moe Ari Brown on queer dating trends, label fatigue & identity pressure

In this episode, we’re joined by Moe Ari Brown (they / him) —Hinge’s Love & Connection Expert and a licensed therapist—to dive deep into the complexities of queer dating in 2025.

We talk about everything from label fatigue to performance pressure on dating apps, and what Hinge has learned about how LGBTQ+ people swipe, flirt, and connect differently than straight users.

Moe shares insights on:

  • How queer users are moving away from traditional identity labels
  • What it means to perform queerness on apps, often without realising it
  • Why the pressure to be “dateable” can lead to self-erasure
  • What underrated green flags to look for in queer dating
  • How non-binary and gender-expansive users navigate a still-binary app culture


We also ask Moe for practical advice on building a more authentic dating profile, understanding identity ambiguity, and flirting past stereotypes like “soft masc” and “femme top.”


Read Hinge’s 2025 LGBTQIA+ D.A.T.E report (love beyonds labels): https://hinge.co/newsroom/2025-LGBTQ-Report


Find Moe Ari Brown on: 

  • Instagram: @loveoutproud
  • Tiktok: @loveoutproud



Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships



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4 months ago
1 hour 7 minutes 20 seconds

giving (un)bothered
truth or drink: rebounds, exes & kinks

Being queer in your 20s means dating drama, messy breakups, and a few…questionable choices. This week, we play truth or drink and confess it all—from kinks to the ex we’re still not over.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships



LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, getting over your ex, WLW dating advice


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4 months ago
33 minutes 38 seconds

giving (un)bothered
anxious vs avoidant attachment: how to become secure

Let’s talk about it: why do anxious girlies keep falling for avoidant people?

In this episode, we get personal about our own experiences dating avoidant partners while navigating anxious attachment. From spiraling over mixed signals to learning how to show up more securely, we’re unpacking what it really feels like to be in these dynamics — and how we’re slowly breaking the pattern.

If you’ve ever felt clingy, overthought a text for hours, or kept giving chances to someone who couldn’t meet you emotionally — you’re not alone.

🎧 Topics we touch on:

  • anxious vs avoidant attachment
  • dating while anxiously attached
  • our personal journey toward becoming secure


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships



LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy, attachment styles, avoidant attachment, anxious attachment, secure attachment, dating avoidant, emotionally unavailable partner, how to become securely attached, attachment styles in relationships, emotionally unavailable, attachment style healing, why I chase people who don’t want me, why she’s distant in a relationship, why she pulls away


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5 months ago
39 minutes 40 seconds

giving (un)bothered
WLW intimacy Q&A: debunking myths & inclusive sex ed

We're talking all things WLW sex in this weeks unfiltered episode!

We answer YOUR most asked questions:

- Is scissoring actually a thing?

- How do WLW deal with long hair during sex?

- What's a myth vs fact when it comes to lesbian intimacy?

Plus, we dive into the serious gaps in sex education when it comes to queer relationships, and how growing up without proper info left many of us confused and googling things we shouldn’t have had to.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships


LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic relationships, sapphic intimacy 


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5 months ago
39 minutes 20 seconds

giving (un)bothered
I’m best friends with my ex-girlfriend (with Abisha)

In this episode, we’re joined by queer model, actor, writer and artist Abisha for a candid and inspiring conversation. She opens up about being best friends with her ex-girlfriend—and how her current girlfriend has become part of the friendship too. We talk about meeting her girlfriend online during the pandemic, their bold U-Haul love story, and what it’s really like navigating relationships with openness and emotional maturity. Abisha also shares what inspired her to write an LGBTQ+ children’s book, the importance of representation in queer literature and she gets real about the challenges and lessons that come with dating someone in the public eye.


Find Abisha on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@abisha
  • Tiktok: ⁠@abishaofficial


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbtq #lgbt #lgbtpodcast #podcasts #relationships #intimacy #datingpodcast #dating #datingandrelationships


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5 months ago
48 minutes 21 seconds

giving (un)bothered
sapphic dating mistakes

Sapphic dating is a wild ride and we’ve made every mistake in the book. In this episode, we roast ourselves and unpack the biggest sapphic dating mistakes we’ve made so you don’t have to. From emotionally investing before even meeting IRL, to losing ourselves in situationships with women who never even knew our last names — we’ve been there, done that, and are finally learning our lessons.


Listen for relatable queer dating confessions, spicy mistakes, and the growth we’ve finally found on the other side.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


#lgbt #lgbtqia #lesbianpodcast #wlw #lgbtpodcast #datingpodcast #relationships #datingandrelationships


LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, queer dating mistakes, lesbian situationships


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5 months ago
35 minutes 9 seconds

giving (un)bothered
how to tell if you’re into women (Q&A)

In this episode, we’re getting into the messy, relatable realities of queer dating and identity from unpacking internalised homophobia to dealing with rejection in queer dating, we explore how to tell if you're genuinely into women or just curious. Plus: how the hell do you define the line between friendship and flirting between girls? 👀

Whether you're newly out, questioning your sexuality, or deep in the sapphic trenches, this one’s for you.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠


LGBTQ podcast, queer podcast, dating podcast, lesbian podcast, WLW podcast, queer dating advice, lesbian love signals, WLW relationship advice, signs a woman is interested in you romantically, why do i keep questioning my sexuality, WLW relationships, queer dating, sapphic love, navigating rejection


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6 months ago
37 minutes 25 seconds

giving (un)bothered
sapphic breakups : how to heal from a heartbreak

Breakups are hard—but sapphic breakups? They hit different. In this episode, we dive deep into the emotional rollercoaster of ending a queer relationship. Whether you’re healing from your first lesbian breakup or navigating the messy end of a WLW situationship, we’ve got you. Expect raw advice, personal stories, and healing tips to help you move on (without texting her at 2AM).

If you’ve ever Googled “how to get over a lesbian breakup” or “why do queer breakups hurt so much?”—this episode is for you.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠



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6 months ago
37 minutes 23 seconds

giving (un)bothered
kicked out of Uber for being gay (with Aaron & Ryan)

We sit down with married queer couple Aaron and Ryan to talk about being kicked out of an Uber for being gay during Sydney Pride. We dive into the realities of LGBTQ+ discrimination, traveling while queer, and how to maintain healthy communication in relationships and marriages.

From navigating homophobia while traveling to sharing tips on building strong partnerships, this episode is packed with personal stories, laughs, and important conversations about why Pride still matters in 2025. Whether you're part of the LGBTQ+ community or an ally, this episode gives unfiltered insight into the challenges and joys of queer love and life.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠



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6 months ago
35 minutes 5 seconds

giving (un)bothered
how to date women : sapphic edition

In this episode, we’re spilling the tea on all things dating — the good, the awkward, and the (un)bothered. From decoding body language and making eye contact to navigating first date etiquette (who gets there first?!), we’re covering it all.


We talk about: 

- How to flirt like a pro

- Who makes the first move — and why it doesn’t matter

- How to communicate your intentions without freaking out

- Why being your full self is the ultimate green flag

- The art of NOT trauma dumping on the first date

- How to avoid getting friend-zoned (unless that’s the vibe)

- Ditching gender roles in queer relationships

Plus, a Q&A with listener-submitted sapphic dating questions!


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠



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6 months ago
43 minutes 26 seconds

giving (un)bothered
being queer is woke? (with Aaron & Ryan)

This week, we’re joined by the iconic Australian duo Aaron and Ryan with powerful, heartfelt, and hilarious stories to share. 

In Part 1 of this deep and chaotic two-part episode, we talk about:

  • Their personal coming out stories
  • What it’s like growing up queer in Australia
  • The complicated relationship between religion and LGBTQ+ identity
  • Dealing with homophobia and finding chosen family
  • The importance of queer representation


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠



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7 months ago
50 minutes 33 seconds

giving (un)bothered
let’s get naked :
U-Hauling, role-play & cheating

In this unfiltered episode, we're talking cheating, U-Hauling, and role-play - aka the chaotic trifecta of queer dating. Through “Would You Rather” questions and relatable scenarios, we unpack it all: What to do if your partner’s kissing style isn’t it? Thoughts on role-play and strap-ons. Is cheating always a dealbreaker? And yes… how fast is too fast to U-Haul? Whether you're deep in your situationship or just here for the tea, this episode is full of laughs, honesty, and queer chaos.


Find us on: 

  • Instagram: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Tiktok: ⁠@giving.unbothered⁠
  • Youtube: ⁠@givingunbothered⁠



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7 months ago
33 minutes 33 seconds

giving (un)bothered
Two (un)bothered best friends navigating LGBTQ+ dating, friendships, and adulting in your 20s. Tune in for candid, unfiltered conversations on dating disasters, relationship advice, the ups and downs of friendships, and the rollercoaster of adulting. Whether you're single, in a relationship, or figuring it all out, join us each week for hilarious stories, relatable struggles, and the chaos of life in your 20s. Get ready for the real, messy, and entertaining moments that make adulting way more fun.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.