Give It To Me Bi is a podcast that amplifies the voices and experiences of the bi+ community. Hosted by Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer, this podcast dives deep into the unique challenges, joys, and nuances of bisexuality and bi+ identities in today's world. Each episode offers thought-provoking discussions, personal stories, and expert insights, all with the goal of fostering understanding, inclusivity, and celebration of the bi+ spectrum.
Whether you identify as bisexual, pansexual, fluid, or any other non-monosexual identity, or you're an ally looking to learn more, Give It To Me Bi is your space to feel seen, heard, and empowered. Expect a mix of candid conversations, historical context, and topical discussions that connect bi+ experiences to the broader LGBTQ+ movement.
Join us every week as we explore what it means to live authentically in a world that often misunderstands or overlooks bisexuality. Subscribe now to become part of a community that’s all about visibility, inclusion, and celebrating the full spectrum of bi+ identities.
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Give It To Me Bi is a podcast that amplifies the voices and experiences of the bi+ community. Hosted by Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer, this podcast dives deep into the unique challenges, joys, and nuances of bisexuality and bi+ identities in today's world. Each episode offers thought-provoking discussions, personal stories, and expert insights, all with the goal of fostering understanding, inclusivity, and celebration of the bi+ spectrum.
Whether you identify as bisexual, pansexual, fluid, or any other non-monosexual identity, or you're an ally looking to learn more, Give It To Me Bi is your space to feel seen, heard, and empowered. Expect a mix of candid conversations, historical context, and topical discussions that connect bi+ experiences to the broader LGBTQ+ movement.
Join us every week as we explore what it means to live authentically in a world that often misunderstands or overlooks bisexuality. Subscribe now to become part of a community that’s all about visibility, inclusion, and celebrating the full spectrum of bi+ identities.
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In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, Chad and Steve tackle the intersections of bisexuality and physical health, unpacking the unique disparities Bi+ folks face in health systems, studies, and lived experience. From breaking down minority stress and the AIB (Attraction, Identity, Behaviour) model to candid chats about disability, health journeys, and everything in between—this episode is a blend of research-backed insight and heartfelt personal stories. PLUS, a major announcement: the very first Give It To Me Bi Live Show is happening this June for Pride Month at Qtopia Sydney—and you're invited.
🗓️ Mon 2 June 2025 | Get Tickets
Join us for Give It To Me Bi: LIVE!, our first-ever live show and a powerful all-star Bi+ panel.
👉 How to Support Someone Who Has Recently Come Out as Bisexual
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Bisexual people face some of the worst mental health outcomes in the LGBTQIA+ community, but why isn’t this crisis talked about more? For this episode of our Bi+ Health Awareness Month series, we sit down with Bailey Merlin, board member of the Bisexual Resource Center, co-host of Bisexual Killjoy, and researcher at Harvard Medical School tackling bi+ mental health and erasure.
Bailey breaks down the structural barriers bi+ people face in healthcare, the importance of finding community, and how activism itself can be a powerful tool for improving mental well-being. Plus, we chat about the Bi+ Book Gang, funding struggles for bi+ advocacy, and the power of storytelling in making change.
🌈 Why the bi+ mental health crisis is worse than you think
📢 How to advocate for yourself in healthcare settings
📝 The role of research in addressing health inequities
🤝 How community and activism improve bi+ well-being
🎙 Inside the Bisexual Resource Center & Bi+ Book Gang
Whether you’re looking for mental health resources, advocacy insights, or just some bi+ solidarity, this episode is for you.
📚 Bisexual Resource Center – Mental health resources, advocacy, and community events
📊 Bi+ Health Awareness Month – Learn more & spread awareness
📖 Bi+ Book Gang – A writers’ space for bi+ creatives
🎙 Bisexual Killjoy Podcast – Hosted by Bailey Merlin & Jase Peeples
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We’re kicking off Bi Health Awareness Month 2025 by diving straight into Sexual Health and HIV—two areas where bi+ folks often face unique challenges and misinformation. This episode covers everything from safer sex strategies and HIV prevention to the tricky conversations we have (or don’t have) with healthcare providers about being bi+.
Chad and Steve share personal stories, discuss the stigma that keeps so many of us from getting tested or disclosing our identities at the clinic, and unpack how better resources can lead to better outcomes. Whether you’ve ever felt ignored in a “gay-only” health setting or worried your doctor wouldn’t “get it,” this conversation is for you.
And don’t worry—we’ll also point you to some awesome resources from the Bisexual Resource Center and beyond, so you can walk away feeling more informed and empowered than ever.
Remember, knowledge is power—especially when it comes to looking after yourself and your community. Stay safe, stay curious!
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Sport is supposed to bring people together—but for many bisexual athletes and fans, it has often been a hostile or invisible space. Whether it’s growing up in locker rooms where being queer felt unsafe or seeing top athletes afraid to come out, bi+ people face unique challenges in the world of sports.
So today, we’re tackling bi+ representation in sport—the triumphs, struggles, and moments of erasure that define the experience of bisexual athletes at every level.
Plus, we break down Jeff Molina’s forced coming out in the UFC, the biphobia in the AFL and other mainstream leagues, and the inclusive spaces that are changing the game for bi+ athletes.
Whether you’re a die-hard sports fan, a casual spectator, or just someone looking for representation, this episode is for you.
The BISHH Study! Closes this week!!
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Musical theatre has a reputation for being super queer-friendly—but does that just mean “gay-friendly,” while bi+ folks get sidelined? From Rocky Horror winks to a Cabaret nudge, bisexuality in theatre is often a punchline, a trope, or completely erased. Maybe this time, the bisexuals should take center stage.
Plus, we celebrate our 20th episode milestone (!!!), talk about Chad’s new role in local LGBTQ+ advocacy, and Steve’s starring moment in an HIV well-being campaign.
Whether you’re a theatre nerd, a casual musical lover, or just here for the campy chaos, this episode is for you.
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Ever noticed how women’s bisexuality in pop music is either fetishised into a sexy gimmick, while bi men seem to vanish altogether? In this episode, we dive into queerbaiting, erasure, and whether the industry is genuinely celebrating bisexual identities—or just cashing in on them.
🎤 How does the music industry shape bisexual representation?
🎶 Are recording artists amplifying visibility or being controlled by industry expectations?
📢 Does queerbaiting exist in music, or is it just repackaged biphobia?
We also discuss bisexual empowerment in music, the songs that have helped us feel seen, and the unique experience of swapping pronouns in lyrics—whether to hide or flaunt bisexual identity. Plus, we break down the 2025 Grammys, possibly the queerest Grammys to date, and what it says about representation right now.
Whether you’re a karaoke professional, a music lover, or just here for the Gaga worship, this one’s for you.
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From bisexual tropes that refuse to die to the characters that shaped how we see ourselves, this episode is a deep dive into how Hollywood portrays bisexuality—for better or worse.
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Plus, we unpack the GLAAD Media Report and the ongoing underrepresentation of bisexuality on screen, discuss how bi tropes have personally shaped our own experiences, and revisit the Hays Code—the old Hollywood censorship rules that forced bisexuality into subtext, villainy, or outright invisibility.
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Whether you’re a film buff or just a casual viewer, this one is a must-listen.
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In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we’re diving into the intersection of confidence, self-esteem, and activism—reminding you that the personal is always political. 🌈 Whether you’re faking it ’til you make it or embracing who you are unapologetically, this episode is all about reclaiming your power and finding hope, even when the world feels overwhelming.
We explore how to build confidence from the ground up, why grace and self-compassion are key to growth, and how identity shifts can help you become the person you’ve always wanted to be. 💪 Along the way, we tackle feelings of hopelessness with practical strategies for local action, showing how small steps can lead to massive change.
Highlights include:
✨ Building confidence through “faking it,” trusting the process, and letting go of others’ opinions
❤️ Practicing grace: self-compassion, celebrating wins, and embracing your mistakes
💡 Shifting your focus from results to identity: How to align your habits and goals with who you want to be
🌟 Fighting for hope: Why local action matters and how to make an impact
We’ll also share practical ways to get involved in your community—from joining local boards and advocacy groups to participating in public hearings. The next four years might feel daunting, but disengaging isn’t the answer. Together, we’ll discuss how to reclaim your voice, your power, and your hope.
This is an empowering episode for anyone looking to rebuild confidence, take action, and find strength in community. 💥
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📖 How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual: A guide for friends, family, and partners.
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New year, new you! Chad and Steve dive into everything you need to know to make 2025 your best bisexual year yet. From setting resolutions to embracing authenticity, this episode is packed with stories, practical tips, and some bi+ banter.
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Plus, we share personal stories, community highlights, and the moments that are making us laugh, cry, and cheer as we step into the new year.
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In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we tackle the nuanced experiences of bisexual people in same-gender relationships. Have you ever felt "not straight enough to be bi"? For many bi+ individuals, being in a queer-presenting or same-gender relationship often leads to being mistaken as gay or lesbian, resulting in unique challenges and privileges.
We unpack what it means to navigate the world as a bi person in a same-gender relationship, the dynamics of "gay-passing" privilege, and how these intersections shape identity, community, and visibility. We also explore how to embrace your bisexuality fully, foster meaningful connections, and address feelings of imposter syndrome within the LGBTQIA+ community.
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Plus, we dive into listener questions and comments, including a video submission on why it's important to clarify "gay-passing" relationships, and explore how to find pride in your unique place in the queer spectrum.
This is a can't-miss episode for anyone navigating identity, visibility, and community as a bisexual person in same-gender relationships.
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In this episode, Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer delve into the complexities of bisexuality in different-gender relationships. They tackle the challenges of societal perceptions, biphobia, and "straight-passing privilege." Through personal anecdotes and insights from the bi+ community, the hosts explore the need for visibility, validation, and joy in bisexual identities. Together, they confront myths, celebrate positive representations, and offer practical resources for bisexual individuals and their allies.
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In this World AIDS Day special, Chad and Steve deliver an open, heartfelt, and deeply informative conversation about HIV and AIDS. Steve shares his personal journey as a person living with HIV, exploring the importance of testing, treatment, and education. We dive into groundbreaking medical advancements, including the U=U (Undetectable Equals Untransmittable) campaign and PrEP, while also tackling stigma and the historical impact of the HIV/AIDS crisis on the LGBTQ+ community. This episode is packed with life-changing insights, resources, and a message of hope for ending the HIV epidemic.
Enjoyed this episode? Share your thoughts! Leave a comment on Spotify, write a review on Apple Podcasts, or join the conversation in our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook group.
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In this episode, 10 Surprising Truths About Bisexuality and Bi Clapbacks, we're unpacking the realities of being bi—the unexpected, the challenging, and the joyful. We’re taking a deep dive into the truths of bisexuality, from the misconceptions to the moments of pride that make it all worthwhile.
But we’re not stopping there. We’re also equipping you with the ultimate clapbacks for those tired stereotypes that bi folks hear all too often. Whether it’s the classic "Isn’t bisexuality transphobic?" or "Why do you have to tell everybody?", we've got the perfect responses to help you handle them with confidence and humour.
We’re exploring topics like:
Whether you’re bi, questioning, or just want to learn more, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and the tools you need to navigate bisexuality with pride.
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In this special follow-up to our AMA episode, we're diving into your questions about bisexuality. We had so many fantastic questions from our community that we decided to split our AMA into two parts—this one is all about bisexuality, identity, and everything in between.
We’re tackling questions like:
Whether you're questioning, out and proud, or just curious, this episode covers a wide range of topics, from personal insights to practical advice. Plus, we explore how bisexuality intersects with masculinity, relationships, and the different ways people can experience attraction.
If you’ve ever felt caught between labels or struggled with how to stay true to your identity, this episode is for you.
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In Episode 10, we take on a question that’s been floating around for ages: “Where are all the bi men?”
We dive deep into the unique challenges that bi men face, from societal expectations to internalised fears. We’re talking about everything—how masculinity and patriarchal norms have shaped our understanding of bisexuality, the stigma within both queer and straight communities, and the mental health impacts of staying closeted.
You’ll hear personal stories, the ups and downs of being out, and some heartfelt advice for anyone struggling to accept their own bi identity. We also celebrate our recent partnership with Star Observer! This episode has something for everyone, whether you're out, questioning, or just curious.
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The Elixir Effect: Book Launch
Chad will be MC’ing the launch of The Elixir Effect, a story about identity, masculinity, and family. Join us for this exclusive event to meet the author, Peter Matthews, hear excerpts, and get a signed copy.
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How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual
We know coming out is a big deal, so we’ve put together this guide for allies who want to offer meaningful support.
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Chad and Steve dive headfirst into all of your burning questions and nothing’s off-limits!! From heartfelt insights into coming out, to the complexities of bi+ relationships–we’ve got stories about personal growth, awkward moments, and how we make sense of being bi+ in today’s world.
You’ll hear candid reflections on identity, practical advice for navigating relationships, and maybe a few confessions from our younger years. Whether you’re figuring it all out or feeling comfortable in your identity, there’s something here for everyone.
Plus, we couldn't resist sharing some music recommendations—tunes that have been our vibe lately (check out the playlists below!).
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Curious about pegging but unsure where to start? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on everything you’ve ever wanted to know about pegging—from the practical, to the taboo, to the emotional. Whether you're new to the concept or an experienced enthusiast, our experts break down the myths, provide useful tips for first-timers, and dive into the personal and social dynamics that make pegging a unique and powerful experience.
You’ll hear from Steve and Britt as they share insights from their pegging workshops, discuss how to introduce pegging into your relationship, and why it has nothing to do with gender or sexuality. Plus, we tackle the often-avoided subject of douching, discuss consent, and offer some expert advice on how to make your experience safe, fun, and shame-free.
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Hey everyone! In this episode, we (Chad and Steve) dive into the topic of coming out as bisexual. We talk about the different ways people experience coming out, how it's evolving into more of an "inviting in" process for some, and the unique challenges that bi people face compared to our gay and lesbian siblings.
We share stories of personal growth, community support, and the cultural shifts happening around bisexuality. Plus, we give you the inside scoop on the Buy Rainbow event we're co-hosting and discuss how visibility for the bi community is changing, both online and offline. Hope you enjoy!
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Join us in this enlightening episode as we chat with Professor Christy Newman, a leading researcher from UNSW. We delve into the groundbreaking Bisexual+ Sexual Health and HIV (BISHH Study) that's opening new avenues for understanding. Christy shares insights on how research can shape real-world change and dives deep into the dynamics of bi+ relationships. From dating tips to partner support, and exploring bisexuality in monogamous relationships, we cover it all.
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In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we’re tackling one of the biggest challenges bisexual folks face—those pesky myths and stereotypes. Whether it’s the tired accusation of “confusion,” the hypersexualisation, or the constant assumptions about monogamy, we’re here to break it all down.
We’ve both faced these myths in our own lives, and we know how damaging they can be. So, we’re sharing personal stories, using a bit of humour, and offering practical, empowering ways to respond when these stereotypes come up.
If you’ve ever struggled with how to answer someone who just doesn’t get it—or if you’ve heard one too many myths yourself—this episode is for you. Let’s dive in, debunk these myths together, and show the world what it really means to be bi.
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