Life doesn’t just happen...it happens because of you. In this episode, Amber guides you through a 10-year audit so you can stop living reactively and start building legacy on purpose. From generational inheritance (spiritual, emotional, financial) to reverse-engineering your vision into daily routines, you’ll learn how to design the next decade with discipline, faith, and emotional endurance.
You’ll hear Amber share her own journey. Raising Kaiden, moving to Atlanta, choosing boundaries and truth. And why “vision doesn’t fail… people quit.” If you’re ready to trade numb survival for intentional strategy, this is your blueprint.
You’ll learn:
• Reactive vs proactive living: design or default
• The legacy lens: inheritance beyond money (wisdom, wholeness, stewardship)
• The 10-Year Audit: lessons, patterns, people, and non-negotiables
• Reverse-engineering: decade → year → quarter → month → daily habits
• Character over circumstance: bending without breaking
• Emotional endurance: why transformation hurts and how to keep going
Letting go isn’t about not caring anymore. It’s about choosing peace over patterns.
In this powerful episode of Girl & Her Bible, Amber digs deep into what it really means to release someone you still love. When your heart still remembers, but your spirit knows it’s time to move on.
You’ll learn:
• Why love and obedience sometimes can’t coexist
• How to recognize when familiarity is disguised as safety
• The truth about emotional attachments and childhood wounds
• How to rebuild self-trust after toxic or inconsistent relationships
• Why real healing requires structure, not just emotion
This is your permission to stop performing strength and start practicing surrender.
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Avoiding pain keeps you stuck in cycles. Pain isn’t punishment. It's preparation. In this episode, Amber breaks down the difference between motion and movement, revealing how emotional numbing, busyness, and distraction keep you looping in resistance instead of growing through transformation. She walks you through the three stages of breakthrough: Separation, Stillness, and Surrender. This episode teaches you how to find peace, purpose, and endurance inside your own cocoon season.
📝If you’ve been scrolling through survival, this one will set you free.
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In today’s episode, Pastor Amber gets real about what it means to stay faithful in your pit season...that tight, uncomfortable middle between promise and promotion. Whether you’re balancing single motherhood, building something from scratch, or just trying not to fold under pressure, this word is for you.
Through the story of Joseph in Genesis, Amber breaks down how God uses waiting, pressure, and isolation to prepare you for elevation. She shares raw moments from her recent speaking engagement, the emotional crash that followed, and what it looks like to keep going when you feel forgotten, even after God has used you to bless others.
You’ll Learn:
✅How to find grace for yourself in seasons that feel like delay
✅Why “the pit” is actually preparation for your next level
✅How to process spiritual exhaustion without guilt
✅What to do when your gift works for everyone else but you
✅How to recognize when God is strengthening your roots
Scripture Reference:
Genesis 40–41 —Joseph’s pit to palace journey
Proverbs 13:12 — “Hope deferred makes the heart sick.”
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Transformation isn’t cute, it’s costly. In this raw episode, Pastor Amber unpacks the stages of true transformation and why God allows heartbreak, betrayal, and disruption to protect your destiny. If you’ve been wondering why cycles keep repeating, this message will open your eyes.
You’ll learn:
• The stages of transformation: revelation, sorrow, surrender, pressure, breakthrough
• How trauma patterns keep you shrinking back and sabotaging progress
• Why God allows heartbreak to break you free from settling
• How to discern manipulation, conditional love, and false humility
• Why irritation/envy often reveal your hidden longings, not other people’s flaws
• What it really means to surrender to God..not performance, but covenant loyalty
If you’re tired of cycles and ready for breakthrough, this episode is your wake-up call.
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God is disrupting your patterns, not to punish you, but to position you. In this episode, discover why you can’t numb, run, or hide when you’ve been marked by Him.
You’ll learn:
⚪️Why God slows down your nervous system to detox false validation
⚪️How He exposes hidden control and manipulation to reveal true identity
⚪️The prophetic parallel of Jonah and what it means for your calling
⚪️A practical way to sit in silence and hear God clearly
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In this episode of Girl & Her Bible, Amber shares how working out, small daily habits, and spiritual sensitivity are all part of God’s training ground. Learn why your routines matter, how every choice is a deposit into your future self, and why guarding your gates: your eyes, ears, and time, is the key to walking in authority.
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In this episode of Girl & Her Bible Podcast, Pastor Amber unpacks the tension between Sarah’s voice and God’s word in Genesis 16. When God delays, we often manufacture our own “Ishmaels”, relationships, careers, or ministries built out of fear, impatience, or ambition. But what’s born of the flesh can never replace what’s born of covenant. Learn how to stop settling for temporary fixes, trust God’s timing, and hold fast to His promises, even when the details aren’t clear.
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They said they were called. Said they were with you and even transformed by the vision. But the moment you required more..the moment you set a standard, they walked.
In this raw, unfiltered episode of Girl & Her Bible, Pastor Amber opens up about the pain of building God’s vision when the people you once poured into become the very ones who disappear. She shares the emotional breakdown behind an 8-hour podcast recording, the loneliness of spiritual leadership, and how God stripped her from emotional dependencies to prepare her for global legacy.
If you’ve ever:
This episode will call you higher. God isn’t punishing you. He’s pruning you. And when you finally finish what He placed in your hands, it will make sense why the delay was necessary.
You’re not being delayed.
You’re being made into someone who can sustain what you prayed for.
Daughter, Your Faith Has Made You Whole
In this episode, Pastor Amber unpacks the story of the woman with the issue of blood. This woman spent 12 years trying everything the world had to offer and still came up empty. Through desperation and faith, she pressed through the crowd to touch the hem of Jesus’ garment, and one moment transformed her entire life. Pastor Amber reveals why your faith is more than words, how God restores broken identities, and why “Go in peace” wasn’t just a goodbye, it was a release into wholeness.
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You didn’t fall for him on accident.
What attracted you was never just chemistry, it was unhealed belief.
In this episode of Girl & Her Bible™, we expose the hidden patterns behind the people you keep choosing: romantically, emotionally, spiritually, and how trauma can twist attraction into a trap.
From romantic obsession to friendship codependency to performance-based family ties, this episode unpacks why attraction isn’t random, it’s reflective. And if you keep attracting brokenness, it’s time to ask what part of you still believes you need to earn healing.
What We Break Down in This Episode:
🎯 Key Quote:
“Healing never comes from being chosen by a mirror. It comes from looking in the mirror, and finally choosing yourself.”
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There comes a point where you can’t fake strength anymore, you’ve got to come out of what was holding you. In this episode of Girl & Her Bible, Pastor Amber declares a prophetic word for women stepping out of cycles of shame, silence, and survival. This is not about hype, it’s about deliverance, restoration, and freedom in Christ.
If you’ve been stuck in the same battles, feeling like God can’t use you because of your past, this episode is your call to rise. It’s time to come out of what broke you and step into who God called you to be.
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Last week, we discussed the mercy season, a necessary process of self-sacrifice involving the surrender of ego, attitude, impatience, and the need to control outcomes. This week, we transition into the phase of activation.
In Part 2 of our Esther series, we witness God’s unfolding of purpose. Instead of relying on performance or striving, God reveals purpose through surrender, hiddenness, and obedience. Esther didn’t actively pursue the throne; she didn’t attempt to use her beauty, charm, or emotional manipulation to shape her future. Instead, she was an untrained yet chosen individual who submitted to wise counsel, underwent silent processing, and was refined by trust.
During the four years of waiting, Esther couldn’t comprehend that God was preparing her for a pivotal moment that would alter her life forever. By the time her true assignment is revealed, she no longer seeks clarity; instead, she walks in divine boldness, declaring, “If I perish, I perish.”
We live in a world that rushes everything :success, healing, purpose. But God doesn’t take shortcuts. In this episode, I break down Esther 2:12 and show you why your hidden season is not punishment, it’s preparation. Just like Esther spent 12 months being purified before seeing the king, God is stripping, healing, and rebuilding you for kingdom influence. Don’t rush it....what He’s doing in you is too holy to be hurried!
In this episode, Pastor Amber gets raw. She unpacks five gut-check questions that will push you out of auto-pilot and into real transformation. For the first time, she shares personal truths she’s never said out loud, because too many of us are calling survival “strength.” But until you get honest about who you really are, you’ll keep living numb and calling it noble. It’s time to snap out of it.
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Why do we keep choosing the wrong people, even when we know better? In this episode of Girl & Her Bible, Pastor Amber exposes the soul wounds that secretly shape your relationships. These hidden injuries of the heart are what keep pulling you back to toxic cycles, trauma bonds, and the wrong men. You’ll learn what a soul wound really is, how it gets formed, and the first steps to healing so you can finally choose from wholeness instead of hurt.
If you’ve ever asked, “Why do I keep ending up in the same kind of relationship?” , this is the episode you can’t skip!
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Who told you you weren’t worthy, ready, or enough? In this episode, Pastor Amber calls out every lie you’ve believed about your identity and challenges you to take spiritual authority. Learn to guard your gates, confront childhood trauma, and reject comparison so you can step into who God says you are. It’s time to break the cycles and rise.
In Episode 2 of the Before the Ring series, Pastor Amber breaks down the real reason many women stay stuck: you’re believing lies God never spoke over you.
If you’ve been trapped in comparison, insecurity, or fear, this message is a wake-up call. You’ll learn how to:
• Guard your gates (eyes, ears, thoughts)
• Take accountability and stop blaming people or circumstances
• Identify the real root of your fear
• Break generational mindsets and emotional triggers
• Ask God to reveal your true identity
• Declare your next level and take it by force
You’re not stuck. You’ve just been living under an identity God never gave you. Let’s break it!
Everyone wants the ring, but what about the identity God wants to form before you get there? In this episode of Girl & Her Bible, Pastor Amber speaks directly to singles, especially women walking out celibacy and waiting on God. Learn why your season of singleness is not punishment, but preparation, and why you must know who you are as a daughter of God before you can ever step into covenant as a wife.
If you’ve ever asked, “Why am I still single?” or struggled with waiting, this episode will shift how you see your journey. Married listeners, this will remind you of what God built before your own covenant began.
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How do you keep trusting God when life makes absolutely no sense? In this episode of Girl & Her Bible, Pastor Amber exposes the shallow faith many of us settle for and reveals the deeper trust God requires when nothing seems to line up. You’ll learn the three things God is requiring of you in this season, not just to survive, but to mature, to stand, and to keep moving forward when you can’t see the outcome.
If you’ve ever felt like God was silent, distant, or late, this message will give you the clarity to hold on.
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🔹 Are you ready to carry your cross and step into true transformation? 🔹
In this powerful episode, Pastor Amber dives deep into the spiritual cost of following Jesus. She challenges listeners to die to self daily, let go of past identities, and fully embrace God’s plan—even when it feels like you’re walking through a season of “nothingness.”
🔥 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
✅ What it really means to carry your cross—it’s not a burden, but a training ground.
✅ How to break free from past cycles that keep you looking back (Lot’s wife is a warning!).
✅ Why the temptation of instant gratification is blocking your spiritual growth.
✅ How to trust God’s process when the journey feels long, lonely, or discouraging.
✅ The difference between worldly validation and true Kingdom identity—are you running for people or for God?
📢 Action Steps:
• Declare: “I’m going to the other side!”
• Leave behind anything that triggers longing for the past.
• Encourage yourself—this walk with God can feel lonely, but He is with you.
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