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Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
That's Not Canon Productions
285 episodes
3 days ago
LET’S TALK ABOUT EX, BABY! AH CRAPPY RELATIONSHIPS, THE BANE OF OUR COLLECTIVE EXISTENCE. BUT WHAT DO WE LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES? Former relationship columnist Elizabeth Best and current all-round funny guy Tom Harris chat to guests about the couple fail stories we all like to recount over drinks (because let’s face it, sometimes we need booze to cope). Ghosts of Boyfriends past will take you on a journey through the funny, tragic, horrifying and sometimes just plain bonkers stories about that crazy little thing called love, and try to wind up wiser for it. It’s like a group therapy session... with two people completely unqualified to be leading it.

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LET’S TALK ABOUT EX, BABY! AH CRAPPY RELATIONSHIPS, THE BANE OF OUR COLLECTIVE EXISTENCE. BUT WHAT DO WE LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES? Former relationship columnist Elizabeth Best and current all-round funny guy Tom Harris chat to guests about the couple fail stories we all like to recount over drinks (because let’s face it, sometimes we need booze to cope). Ghosts of Boyfriends past will take you on a journey through the funny, tragic, horrifying and sometimes just plain bonkers stories about that crazy little thing called love, and try to wind up wiser for it. It’s like a group therapy session... with two people completely unqualified to be leading it.

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Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
ENCORE - Kym and the Dating Bumble

Kym has just jumped back into the dating game and it’s all digital now.


Kym is back after her Ghosts debut very early on in the series (Kym and the Long Distance Lover https://thatsnotcanon.com/gobppodcast/episode18). Now she’s in her 40s and back on the apps looking for love. And she’s got a few stories to tell.


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3 days ago
54 minutes 11 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 137 - The Dating Revue

It's another round of the Boys Club this week on Ghosts of Boyfriends Past. Lady Liz is absent so Tom and Zane C Weber put their heads together to pour over the world of dating and pick which ways of potentially meeting people they would potentially choose...


Send your dating stories through to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and head to patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast for extra content if you wanted to chip in to help the show along.


Thank you SO much for tuning into Ghosts of Boyfriends Past!


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2 weeks ago
23 minutes 34 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
ENCORE - Samantha and the Husband Hunt

As we always say, every bad date is a good story and no one knows that better than this week’s guest, Scottish Comedian Samantha Hannah.

Sammy decided she was going to try to to find a husband in a year and then write a comedy show about it: ‘How to Find a Husband in a Year’.


Samantha joins Liz and Tom to talk about her hunt, and the surprises she found along the way.


You can find Samantha and all the details on her latest comedy shows on her socials:

https://www.instagram.com/samanthahannahcomedy 

https://www.facebook.com/thesammyhannah


Sammy also has her own podcast: Are We Pals? all about adult friendship. Co-hosts Lesa and Sammy (Wellington comedians Lesa MacLeod-Whiting and Samantha Hannah) find out who their true friends are, and try to make some new ones along the way.

https://arewepals.alitu.com/ 

https://www.instagram.com/arewepals



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3 weeks ago
43 minutes 15 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Michelle and the Small Town Problem

Small towns have their own set of rules when it comes to dating, especially when your ex still lives in town.


Michelle missed a lot of red flags when she met Justin because when you live in a small town, there’s not as many fish in the sea to choose from. But as their relationship progressed, the issues mounted and suddenly Michelle couldn’t ignore them anymore.


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1 month ago
44 minutes 23 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 136 - Sociopath or Loser

Liz and Tom don their relationship counselor caps and do their best to help out friends of the show in their pursuit of love and happiness. With next to no qualifications.


Welcome back for another dive into our list of first date questions! Play along yourself. Picture a FIRST date and having these questions posed to you. We have a back-load of Quickies with more if you like this one, so off to do your homework.


Send in your dating stories and questions to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and look us up on Patreon for extra content.


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1 month ago
12 minutes 46 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Rob and the Workplace Drama

Friendships can be some of the most meaningful connections in our lives—but when work and personal life collide, things can get complicated fast. In this episode of our Ghosts of Friends Past series, TV veteran and media commentator Rob McKnight joins us to share the story of how he realised it was time to end a friendship with someone who worked in the same industry.

Rob opens up about the slippery slope of mixing professional relationships with personal bonds: the blurred boundaries, the quiet red flags, and the moment he knew calling it quits was the healthiest option for both of them. If you’ve ever wrestled with balancing career and camaraderie—or questioned whether a friendship was becoming toxic—this conversation is for you.


About Rob McKnight

Rob McKnight is the outspoken voice behind McKnight Tonight, the nightly YouTube news-talk show where headlines meet hard truths. With a career spanning over 30 years in Australian television—mainly behind the scenes—he was the original executive producer of Studio 10, has worked on Sunrise and The Morning Show, and is credited with creating the iconic “FIRST ON 9” news branding. Rob is also co-owner of the industry blog TV Blackbox and is known for his sharp commentary, fearless questioning, and innovative approach to media.


Links:

https://youtube.com/@mcknighttonight

(https://youtube.com/@mcknighttonight?si=IP-KjzLHgLIuhR2e)

Insta & TikTok: @robert_mcknight

X: @rob_mcknight


Cheers


Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Early episodes, bonus content, and even the option for Liz to actually break up with someone for you!

https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


AFFILIATE CODES:

OODIE: To receive 15% off Oodie products, use our link: https://www.theoodie.com/GHOSTIES or use the code GHOSTIES at checkout.


Linea: Take the quiz on linea's website (https://www.lineaofficial.com.au/aligners/quiz/) and key in "GHOSTIES" in the "influencer" drop box to enjoy $100 off any Linea treatment.


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1 month ago
32 minutes 46 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 135 - The Secretary Bird

Liz and Tom don their relationship counselor caps and do their best to help out friends of the show in their pursuit of love and happiness. With next to no qualifications.



Today we cover more questions from our massive list of potential questions to ask on a first date. We run our thoughts over each one, and we'd love to hear yours!

Send your thoughts, stories and questions through to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and check out our new Patreon pages if you wanted to help us out!


Thanks for tuning in!


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1 month ago
11 minutes 52 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Anonymous and the Lonely Togetherness

In this episode, we dive into a heartfelt listener submission: an article by a woman who bravely shares her experience of feeling deeply alone within her marriage. We explore the nuances of emotional disconnection, the silent struggles that can exist behind closed doors, and what her words reveal about the complexity of long-term relationships.


Here’s the original article: https://www.mamamia.com.au/husband-feels-like-roommate/


💔 Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Early episodes, bonus content, and even the option for Liz to actually break up with someone for you!

https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


AFFILIATE CODES:

OODIE: To receive 15% off Oodie products, use our link: https://www.theoodie.com/GHOSTIES or use the code GHOSTIES at checkout.


Linea: Take the quiz on linea's website (https://www.lineaofficial.com.au/aligners/quiz/) and key in "GHOSTIES" in the "influencer" drop box to enjoy $100 off any Linea treatment.


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2 months ago
32 minutes 25 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 134 - First Date Ammunition

Welcome back for another Quickie!


We return with more questions from our massive list of potential first date questions. Prior reading may be essential but not required. 


What do YOU think of these questions? Send us your thoughts and dating stories of your own to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com we really love hearing from you. 


Rate and review the show while you are here, and pop over to Patreon to check out our new site if you fancied helping us out and getting access to more content. Ex oh ex oh.



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2 months ago
11 minutes 55 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Tanya and the Investigation

Tanya was just settling into her relationship with James when she noticed him mentioning a coworker a few too many times.


Then the red flags started to stack up.

💔 Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Early episodes, bonus content, and even the option for add your voice to the Dump Them button!

https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


AFFILIATE CODES:

OODIE: To receive 15% off Oodie products, use our link: https://www.theoodie.com/GHOSTIES or use the code GHOSTIES at checkout.


Linea: Take the quiz on linea's website (https://www.lineaofficial.com.au/aligners/quiz/) and key in "GHOSTIES" in the "influencer" drop box to enjoy $100 off any Linea treatment.



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2 months ago
36 minutes 26 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 133 - Circle of Shame

Time to have your insanity read back to you Readers. It's Quickie time and we've found the best/most horrific dating stories from you the listeners and online to make you feel better about your own dating lives.


This week; the title of this episode will swiftly come into understanding. Plus, Liz brings a really sweet story and we hear some awkward dating stories written by men. Send your dating stories to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and pop on over to Patreon at patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast to check out our extra content and chip in financially should you be interested.


Thank you for tuning in to Ghosts of Boyfriends Past!



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2 months ago
10 minutes 48 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
ENCORE Deborah and the Guilty Feminist

YES, THAT DEBORAH. Liz and Tom were thrilled to chat with comedian, writer, actress and all-round podcasting legend Deborah Frances-White about how she went from cult to surprise marriage and answer some questions on what it means to be a feminist in 2024.


Deborah Frances-White is a comedian, podcaster and writer whose award-winning podcast The Guilty Feminist had 100 million downloads in seven years becoming something of a cultural phenomenon.


Also see: www.the-spontaneity-shop.com

www.deborahfrances-white.com



💔 Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Early episodes, bonus content, and even the option for Liz to actually break up with someone for you!

https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


AFFILIATE CODES:

OODIE: To receive 15% off Oodie products, use our link: https://www.theoodie.com/GHOSTIES or use the code GHOSTIES at checkout.


Linea: Take the quiz on linea's website (https://www.lineaofficial.com.au/aligners/quiz/) and key in "GHOSTIES" in the "influencer" drop box to enjoy $100 off any Linea treatment.


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3 months ago
53 minutes 7 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Felicity and the Final Straw

What begins as a fun, ride-or-die bond for Felicity and Tracey slowly turns into a cautionary tale of blurred boundaries, emotional exhaustion, and the quiet devastation of being let down by someone you loved like a sister.


This ep in our Ghosts of Friends Past series is about the moments we brush off, the red flags we downplay, and the heartbreak of realizing that not every friendship is meant to last forever.


If you’ve ever questioned whether you did the right thing by stepping back from a friendship that no longer felt safe—this one is for you.


💔 Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Early episodes, bonus content, and even the option for Liz to actually break up with someone for you!

https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


AFFILIATE CODES:

OODIE: To receive 15% off Oodie products, use our link: https://www.theoodie.com/GHOSTIES or use the code GHOSTIES at checkout.


Linea: Take the quiz on linea's website (https://www.lineaofficial.com.au/aligners/quiz/) and key in "GHOSTIES" in the "influencer" drop box to enjoy $100 off any Linea treatment.


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3 months ago
25 minutes 32 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 132 - Everyone Gets to Hate This Guy

Time to have your insanity read back to you Readers. It's Quickie time and we've found the best/most horrific dating stories from you the listeners and online to make you feel better about your own dating lives.


Welcome back to Ghosts of Boyfriends Past! Check out our new Patreon at patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast as we continue to develop. On the show this week, Liz shares a story about possibly the worst guy in the world... Get ready for an angry-making one!


Send your stories, questions and thoughts to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and enjoy your Quickie!


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3 months ago
10 minutes 4 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Nadia and the House Two Doors Down

They were best friends—the kind who text all day, laugh until they cry, and show up for each other in every chapter of life. Miranda was a bridesmaid at Nadia’s wedding. She stood up in front of the crowd and called Nadia her sister. So when Nadia moved two doors down from Miranda’s house, it felt like the natural next step. Why wouldn’t you want to live near your soul friend? But then… something shifted.


Invitations stopped coming. Texts went unanswered. Nadia couldn’t name what had changed—but she could feel it. And then came the moment that confirmed everything: they saw each other at a mutual event, and when Miranda locked eyes with Nadia, her face didn’t light up. It fell.


In this episode, Nadia shares the slow, confusing heartbreak of losing a friend who once felt like family.


NADIA MAHJOURI is a Moroccan Australian writer, counsellor, and group facilitator specialising in maternal mental health. Her professional background is in health policy, governance and academia, where her research focused on ethics and feminist philosophy.


Nadia and her husband live in Hobart/nipaluna with varying combinations of their family which includes three young adults, two school-aged children and a black labrador puppy called Russell Sprout.


She is the host of The Whole Truth: Motherhood and the Writing Life. In this podcast, Nadia interviews authors about how they manage to keep writing while living in the messy middle of family life, work and creativity.


Half Truth is her debut novel. You can find her at nadiamahjouri.com or @nadiamahjouriauthor


Nadia’s podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3Ipw8cEKyFz12236V7SNLg?si=SHDuVqSmT_-n1qE7WFisuw


Nadia’s book: https://www.penguin.com.au/books/half-truth-9781761344558


💔 Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Early episodes, bonus content, and even the option for Liz to actually break up with someone for you!

https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


AFFILIATE CODES:

OODIE: To receive 15% off Oodie products, use our link: https://www.theoodie.com/GHOSTIES or use the code GHOSTIES at checkout.


Linea: Take the quiz on linea's website (https://www.lineaofficial.com.au/aligners/quiz/) and key in "GHOSTIES" in the "influencer" drop box to enjoy $100 off any Linea treatment.


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3 months ago
54 minutes 52 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 131 - Ten Dollar Kiss

Time to have your insanity read back to you Readers. It's Quickie time and we've found the best/most horrific dating stories from you the listeners and online to make you feel better about your own dating lives.


Welcome back to Ghosts of Boyfriends Past! Check out our new Patreon at patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast as we continue to develop. On the show this week, Tom has a little story about a first kiss. Plus we hear moments when people realised that their partner maybe wasn't the brightest bulb...


Send your stories, questions and thoughts to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and enjoy your Quickie!


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4 months ago
13 minutes 43 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Kylie and the Wait, What?

When Kylie packed up her life and moved cities, she wasn’t just chasing new dreams — she was also on the hunt for a new girl gang. Enter: a friendly, bubbly meet-up group and one instant connection that seemed like it was friendship at first sight.


But then... cue dramatic reality TV music... after years of being the type of friends that text daily, something happened. Something that left Kylie (and us) sitting there going, “Wait. WHAT?”


Kylie is the host of the Totally Lit podcast: https://podfollow.com/1485705068

Instagram: @kygarvey_authorandpodcaster


💔 Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Early episodes, bonus content, and even the option for Liz to actually break up with someone for you!

https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


Affiliate codes:


OODIE: To receive 15% off Oodie products, use our link: https://www.theoodie.com/GHOSTIES or use the code GHOSTIES at checkout.


LINEA: Take the quiz on Linea’s website (https://www.lineaofficial.com.au/aligners/quiz/) and key in GHOSTIES in the Influencer drop box to enjoy $100 off any Linea treatment.


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4 months ago
25 minutes 32 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Quickie 130 - Play or Quit

Liz and Tom don their relationship counselor caps and do their best to help out friends of the show in their pursuit of love and happiness. With next to no qualifications.


For this week's Quickie Liz, Tom and Zane listen to and unpack one solitary question. The gang are all in alignment with their thoughts on this one - but if you have a response, or a dating question or story of your own then send it through to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and why don't you check out or new Patreon at patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


Thanks for tuning in!


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4 months ago
12 minutes 28 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Jackson and all the J Names

This week, our inbox serves up a story that had us shaking our heads more than nodding. Someone writes in to tell us about the time their friend pulled what they called a “genius” revenge stunt on his cheating girlfriend. But when the dust settles, our hosts aren’t buying the mastermind narrative—and in fact, they think this so-called genius move might’ve crossed a line (or three).


Was it clever? Was it cathartic? Or was it just plain messed up? Tune in as we unpack what actually makes for satisfying revenge, why getting even isn’t always as sweet as it seems, and the very fine line between justice and petty chaos.


💔 Join the Ghosts of Boyfriends Past Patreon now! Extra episodes, bonus content, and even the chance for Liz to actually break up with someone for you!


https://www.patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast

Because love might be free, but podcasting isn’t.


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4 months ago
22 minutes 41 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
Patreon Sneak Peek - Ali and the Bad Bouncer AFTERSHOW

A little glimpse into some of the fun we'll get up to over at our Patreon.


Ghosts of Boyfriends Past After Dark, where we bring the microphones back up after the closing music and keep on talking. Further discussion from anything broached in the main episode, or various rambling and ravings from Liz, Tom and Zane.


Send your dating stories and questions to ghostsofboyfriendspast@gmail.com and check out our brand new Patreon at patreon.com/GhostsofBoyfriendsPast


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5 months ago
8 minutes 55 seconds

Ghosts of Boyfriends Past
LET’S TALK ABOUT EX, BABY! AH CRAPPY RELATIONSHIPS, THE BANE OF OUR COLLECTIVE EXISTENCE. BUT WHAT DO WE LEARN FROM OUR MISTAKES? Former relationship columnist Elizabeth Best and current all-round funny guy Tom Harris chat to guests about the couple fail stories we all like to recount over drinks (because let’s face it, sometimes we need booze to cope). Ghosts of Boyfriends past will take you on a journey through the funny, tragic, horrifying and sometimes just plain bonkers stories about that crazy little thing called love, and try to wind up wiser for it. It’s like a group therapy session... with two people completely unqualified to be leading it.

Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.