Hello and welcome back to one of our best episodes yet, where we discuss menstrual equity with our incredible guest Rosie Glaser (she/they)!
Rosie Glaser is a Master of Public Health Candidate at the Colorado School of Public Health. They currently work in the Center for Women’s and Gender Equity at UNC where they work within a collective to continue developing the menstrual equity program that they created as an undergraduate student Project M.E.
They are also a NASPA certified sexual health peer educator, a Survivor’s Advocate with the Assault Survivor’s Advcocacy Program, and the Wellbeing Research Intern at the Center for Peer Education, and coincidentally- a huge fan of Genderf*ck! Rosie is passionate about understanding health disparities, and informing systemic care for all menstruating bodies.
(editors notes from Dan: 1. sorry about my voice, I was started to get sick when we recorded this and it shows 2. sorry for ANOTHER intro song change, I'll stop now)
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Rosie's Instagram
Resources:
2021 State of the Period
https://period.org/uploads/State-of-the-Period-2021.pdf
2019 State of the Period
Helpful glossary of terms for the menstrual equity movement
1 in 10 menstruating youth have missed school due to inadequate menstrual management resources
https://policylab.chop.edu/blog/period-poverty-public-health-crisis-we-dont-talk-about
Period Poverty & College Student Mental Health
https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-020-01149-5
Toolkit that Rosie developed around addressing menstrual equity & student activism:
https://acrobat.adobe.com/link/track?uri=urn:aaid:scds:US:d8eebbb8-5f7f-3d8c-9121-c1c1b83c0138
Degendering Menstruation: Making Trans Menstruators Matter
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK565621/
ACLU menstrual equity toolkit resource:
https://www.aclu.org/sites/default/files/field_document/121119-sj-periodequitytoolkit.pdf
Music from Uppbeat (free for Creators!):
https://uppbeat.io/t/tatami/mellow-skies
License code: C5SFR7HGK5PGVS5L
Put on your goggles because we're talkin science today! In today's episode, we go over the cognitive, emotional, motivational, and physiological processes that occur in your brain during sexual activity. (We also go into a lil mini off-topic conversation about some science hot takes and miscellaneous junk at the end of the episode!)
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In today's episode, we were joined by Artie Carden (they/them) to discuss their experiences and the intersections between transness, asexuality, and disability. Thanks for joining us Artie!
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Welcome back! In today's episode, we talk STIs (Sexually Transmitted Infections) - symptoms, diagnosis, treatment, stigma, and a lil bit of history. We also discuss different modes of testing between in-person clinics and online testing, as well as our own experiences with STIs! There's lots of stigma and misinformation about STIs, but most can be easily treated/managed, and they are nothing to be ashamed of :)
Thanks for listening!
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References:
https://www.brook.org.uk/topics/stis/
https://s-x.scot/sexual-health/stis-prevention/testing/
https://www.nfid.org/infectious-diseases/facts-about-human-papillomavirus-hpv-for-adults/
https://maximumfun.org/episodes/sawbones/the-hpv-vaccine/
https://maximumfun.org/episodes/sawbones/sawbones-herpes-centric-thanksgiving-special/
Love dating apps? Hate them? Constantly deleting and redownloading them? Whatever your experiences, we hope you enjoy this episode! We spoke all about dating apps. The pros, cons, research, our own experiences as trans people on dating apps, and more!
Please rate this podcast on Spotify and Apple Podcasts if you're enjoying it! All of your engagement helps :)
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References:
Aizura, A. Z., Bey, M., Beauchamp, T., Ellison, T., Gill-Peterson, J., & Steinbock, E. (2020). Thinking with Trans Now. Social Text, 38(4), 125-147.
Batiste, D. P. (2013). '0 Feet Away': The Queer Cartography of French Gay Men's Geo-social Media Use. Anthropological Journal of European Cultures, 22(2), 112-132.
Beauman, F. (2020). Matrimony, Inc. Pegasus Books.
Feder, S. (Director). (2020). Disclosure [Film]. Field of Vision; Disclosure Films; Bow and Arrow Entertainment.
Fernandez, J. R., & Birnholtz, J. (2019). "I Don't Want Them to Not Know": Investigating Decisions to Disclose Transgender Identity on Dating Platforms. Proceedings of the ACM on Human-Computer Interaction, 3(CSCW), 1 – 21.
Fetters, A. (2018). THE FIVE YEARS THAT CHANGED DATING. https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2018/12/tinder-changed-dating/578698/
Fredrickson, B. L., & Roberts, T.-A. (1997). Objectification Theory: Toward Understanding Women’s Lived Experiences and Mental Health Risks. Psychology of Women Quarterly, 21(2), 173–206.
Iglikowski-Broad, V. (2019). ‘Bohemian, broad-minded, unconventional.’ What was it like to be queer in the 1920s? https://blog.nationalarchives.gov.uk/bohemian-broad-minded-unconventional-what-was-it-like-to-be-queer-in-the-1920s/
Kane, M. (2012). GLAAD Examines Ten Years of Transgender Images on Television; More than Half Were Negative or Defamatory. https://www.glaad.org/blog/glaad-examines-ten-years-transgender-images-television-more-half-were-negative-or-defamatory
Lauckner, C., Truszczynski, N., Lambert, D., Kottamasu, V., Meherally, S., Schipani-McLaughlin, A. M., Taylor, E., & Hansen, N. (2019). “Catfishing,” cyberbullying, and coercion: An exploration of the risks associated with dating app use among rural sexual minority males. Journal of Gay & Lesbian Mental Health, 23(3), 289-306.
Pelham, B. W., Carvallo, M., & Jones, J. T. (2005). Implicit Egotism. Current Directions in Psychological Science, 14(2), 106–110.
Reimann, M. (2016). The chatty, charming history of personal ads. https://timeline.com/tinder-personal-ads-history-4c34c7d6dbcb
Wetzel, C. G., & Insko, C. A. (1982). The similarity-attraction relationship: Is there an ideal one? Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 18(3), 253-276.
( Also, here's that trans sport group Oliver mentioned: https://leapsports.org/activities/TransActive )
! TW: mentions of sexual abuse, rape !
[Dan] - Sorry my audio is a bit bad this week! Totally my bad, I hope you enjoy it anyway!
In today's episode, we're joined by special guest Lam Captan, a good friend of Dan from uni, to talk about her experiences and knowledge about religious trauma. We discuss what it is, how it may impact people, the effects on queer people specifically, and how some people reclaim their religion while embracing their sexual orientation or gender identity. We hope you enjoyed today's episode, we thought it was super interesting!
Twitter: @GenderFckPod
Insta: @GenderFckPod
Resources:
https://www.restorationcounselingseattle.com/religious-trauma-transitions
https://rebelliousmagazine.com/navigating-sex-relationships-with-religious-trauma-syndrome/
https://www.hrc.org/resources/the-lies-and-dangers-of-reparative-therapy
Green, A.E., Price-Feeney M., Dorison, S.H., and Pick, C. J. (2020). Self-Reported Conversion Efforts and Suicidality Among US LGBTQ Youths and Young Adults, 2018. American Journal of Public Health 110, 1221_1227, https://doi.org/10.2105/AJPH.2020.305701
Etengoff, C., & Rodriguez, E. M. (2021). Incorporating Transformative Intersectional Psychology (TIP) into Our Understanding of LGBTQ Muslims’ Lived Experiences, Challenges, and Growth. Journal of Homosexuality, 68(7), 1075-1082. https://doi.org/10.1080/00918369.2021.1888582
Sachdej R. (2021) LGBTQ Global Mental Health: Ethical Challenges and Clinical Considerations. In: Dyer A.R., Kohrt B.A., Candilis P.J. (eds) Global Mental Health Ethics. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-030-66296-7_18
Robinson, B.A. (2005-03-20). "Virginity/sexual abstinence pledges". Ontario Consultants on Religious Tolerance.
In today's episode, we tackle the slightly controversial topic: Pornography. We talk about what it is, why people consume it, and why people have such hangups about it! We don't have all the answers, but we do know that there's no need to feel ashamed for watching porn. It has pros and cons just like all other media you consume!
Resources:
The Second Circle: Bad Sex Series
Sources:
What's The Safeword: How Billie Eilish Got it Wrong
Peter, J., & Valkenburg, P. M. (2007). Adolescents’ Exposure to a Sexualized Media Environment and Their Notions of Women as Sex Objects. Sex Roles, 56(5–6), 381–395. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11199-006-9176-y
Gangon, J, H. & Simon, W. (1973). Sexual Conduct: The Social Sources of Human Sexuality. Piscataway, NJ: A Division Transaction Publishers.
Lim, M., Agius, P., Carrotte, E., Vella, A., & Hellard, M. (2017). Young Australians' use of pornography and associations with sexual risk behaviours. Australian And New Zealand Journal Of Public Health, 41(4), 438-443. doi: 10.1111/1753-6405.12678
Relationships and Sex Education (RSE) | Terrence Higgins Trust. (2019). https://www.tht.org.uk/our-work/our-campaigns/relationships-and-sex-education-rse
Bőthe, B., Vaillancourt-Morel, M., Bergeron, S., & Demetrovics, Z. (2019). Problematic and Non-Problematic Pornography Use Among LGBTQ Adolescents: a Systematic Literature Review. Current Addiction Reports. DOI: 10.1007/s40429-019-00289-5
Arrington-Sanders, R., Harper, G., Morgan, A., Ogunbajo, A., Trent, M., & Fortenberry, J. (2015). The Role of Sexually Explicit Material in the Sexual Development of Same-Sex-Attracted Black Adolescent Males. Archives Of Sexual Behavior, 44(3), 597—608. DOI: 10.1007/s10508-014-0416-x
Albury, K. (2014). Porn and Sex Education, Porn as Sex Education. Porn Studies, 1, (1-2), 172—181. DOI: 10.1080/23268743.2013.863654)
Stein, D., Silvera, R., Hagerty, R. et al. Viewing Pornography Depicting Unprotected Anal Intercourse: Are There Implications for HIV Prevention Among Men Who Have Sex with Men?. Arch Sex Behav 41, 411–419 (2012). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10508-011-9789-2
Morrison, T. G., Bearden, A., Harriman, R., Morrison, M. A., & Ellis, S. R. (2004). Correlates of exposure to sexually explicit material among Canadian post-secondary students. The Canadian Journal of Human Sexuality, 13(3–4), 143–156.
Ashton, A., McDonald, K., Kirkman, M. (2019). Pornography and Women’s Sexual Pleasure: Accounts From Young Women in Australia. Feminism & Psychology, 29(3), 409—432. DOI: 10.1177/0959353519833410
Kvalem, I. L., Træen, B., Lewin, B., Štulhofer, A. (2014). Self-Perceived Effects of Internet Pornography Use, Genital Appearance Satisfaction, and Sexual Self-Esteem Among Young Scandinavian Adults. Journal of Psychosocial Research on Cyberspace, 8(4) (doi: 10.5817/CP2014-4-4)
Anndddd we're back! In today's episode, we talk libido, sexual response models, and some common things that may be dampening your sex drive.
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Q4Q episode (give it a listen, the host is really so great!)
Resources:
Come as You Are - Dr. Emily Nagoski
Sexual temperament questionnaire
Some other really helpful worksheets from come as you are can also be found: here
“Sexual Desire Changes in Transgender Individuals Upon Initiation of Hormone Treatment: Results From the Longitudinal European Network for the Investigation of Gender Incongruence.” (Defreyne, Justine et al.)
Today we talked about the joys of self-pleasure! Masturbation can be great for your solo and partnered sex life, and there are endless ways to do it. We discussed the benefits of masturbation, harmful myths, and tips on how to really ~get into it~!
Also, this will be our last episode before we take a break for the holidays. We’ll be back in January with more episodes! In the meantime, follow our social media to find out what we’re up to :)
Instagram: @genderfckpod
Twitter: @GenderFckPod
Curiouscat: curiouscat.qa/GenderfkPod
Dan's art instagram: @Beau_Garcon_Art
Resources:
https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sex-pleasure-and-sexual-dysfunction/masturbation
Come As You Are by Dr. Emily Nagoski https://www.emilynagoski.com/home
https://www.vice.com/en/article/59dxw3/a-guide-to-muffing-the-hidden-way-to-finger-trans-women
Today is World AIDS Day, where we remember all those who have died due to AIDS-related illnesses. For this episode, we wanted to talk about HIV and AIDS- the history, the transmission, the treatment, and the stigma.
Sources:
https://www.history.com/topics/1980s/hiv-aids-crisis-timeline
https://time.com/4705809/first-aids-drug-azt/
https://www.spin.com/2015/10/aids-and-the-azt-scandal-spin-1989-feature-sins-of-omission/
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Check out our Curiouscat and ask us some questions and leave us feedback! https://curiouscat.qa/GenderfkPod
In this weeks episode, we talk all things sex toy - our favourites, different materials and how to clean and care for them. We hope you enjoyed this episode as much as we enjoyed making it.
* [Dan] sorry about my audio this week! I'm going to be getting a new microphone, so hopefully, this fixes some of my issues! Thank you for the patience while we're learning >_< *
Resources:
Buzz by Hallie Leiberman
https://medium.com/brownsugar28/the-ultimate-guide-to-the-best-and-worst-sex-toy-materials-d34e7594d216
https://coffeeandkink.me/2017/10/13/pervertables/
We're joined by our special guest and friend Piper Huxley (she/her) this week to talk about how our experiences of sex and relationships have changed throughout our transitions! In this more chatty episode, we talk the good, bad, and the ugly of dating as a trans person. Thanks for listening, we really appreciate it!
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In this episode, we talk all about kink! Kink is a stigmatised subject, but it has an important place in LGBTQ+ history. We chat about some important kink terminology, kink stigma, and how to stay safe during kinky activities. As we mention in the episode, we'll link a bunch of resources below if you want to learn more about kink.
*Sorry about the audio quality on this one, we had some trouble recording, thanks for being patient while we figure out how to get the best sounding audio!*
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Twitter @GenderFckPod
Resources:
https://s-x.scot/sex-relationships/sex-drugs/
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCokRyLsHxh-NykvT4uA6n2g
http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/
https://www.bishuk.com/sex/kink/
Waldura, J. F., Arora, I., Randall, A. M., Farala, J. P., & Sprott, R. A. (2016). Fifty Shades of Stigma: Exploring the Health Care Experiences of Kink-Oriented Patients. The journal of sexual medicine, 13(12), 1918–1929. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jsxm.2016.09.019
https://www.everydayhealth.com/sexual-health/speaking-bdsm-glossary-terms-used-describe-bdsm/
We hope you enjoyed our sexual mythbusting! Turns out a lot of stereotypes portrayed by our media and culture... aren't true! Who knew! Thanks for listening as always, we really appreciate it!
p.s. sorry for a couple audio issues throughout, hopefully they're not too distracting. We're still figuring out this whole podcasting thing :)
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Transcript (it's a work in progress at the moment, will finalise it ASAP)
Welcome to our first episode! This week we're talking about consent. We chat about what consent means, some helpful tools to practice consent, the lack of consent portrayed in the media, and much more! We also mentioned a TED talk about using pizza as a metaphor for sex, which you can find here. We hope you enjoyed the episode!
Transcript available here.
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