In this episode of the Finding Love After 30 podcast, we dive deep into a topic that so many of you have been asking about: how to meet high-quality men in real life, without relying on dating apps. If you're tired of swiping and feeling frustrated with online dating, this episode is for you! I’ll be sharing my top strategies for meeting men offline, but before we dive into the “how,” we’ll focus on an essential mindset shift: who before how. This is all about getting your energy aligned so you can show up as your most magnetic self before putting yourself out there. Once you've got your mindset right, I'll give you actionable tips on where to go and how to meet men in the real world.
Key Topics Covered:
· Why it’s important to take a break from dating apps when you’re feeling burned out
· The importance of who before how—cleaning up your mindset and energy before taking action
· How to connect with your future self to boost your confidence and attract the right energy
· Practical, real-life strategies to meet men, including switching up your routine, trying new activities, and joining local events
· The role of being open, curious, and present in creating magnetic energy that draws people in
Resources Mentioned:
· Book a call with me here– Join my Find The One program for personalized support in your dating journey.
· Instagram – DM me with your questions or share your experiences with implementing these strategies!
· Take Action: Listen in, and don’t forget to DM me on Instagram @shondahowardlove to let me know which strategies you’re trying. I’m here to support you every step of the way!
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