We’re back for Part 2 of my powerful conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, LDS relationship and sexuality coach, author of That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love, and host of the Room for Two podcast. In this episode, we go deeper into the themes of desire, faith, and emotional honesty — exploring how to find peace and purpose after divorce while deepening your relationship with God and yourself. You’ll learn how to: 🌿 Heal the relationship you have with yourself and with God 🌿 Reclaim desire as a divine and sacred force for growth 🌿 Move from guilt and shame into peace and self-compassion 🌿 Discover how joy is born in truth, not perfection Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s insights are both faith-affirming and deeply liberating — a reminder that God’s plan for you is never on pause, even after heartbreak. If you haven’t listened to Part 1 yet, be sure to start there first — it sets the foundation for this incredible, hope-filled discussion. ✨ Listen now to Episode 197: “Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce (Part 2)” ✨ Order Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s new book: That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love HERE: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/book •Connect with Dr. Finlayson-Fife using the following links: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Desire, Divinity, and Finding Joy After Divorce (Part 1) – with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife In this first half of my powerful two-part conversation with Dr. Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, we dive into the connection between desire, divinity, and emotional honesty—and how these principles can help you heal and grow after divorce. Dr. Finlayson-Fife is an LDS relationship and sexuality coach with a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology, author of That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love, and host of the Room for Two podcast. Her wisdom and clarity are life-changing for anyone navigating heartbreak, faith, or rebuilding self-worth. You’ll learn how to: 💛 Reconnect with your true self after divorce 💛 Understand the divine purpose of desire 💛 Release shame around love, intimacy, and spirituality 💛 Begin finding joy through truth, courage, and growth This conversation is honest, faith-filled, and full of light. Be sure to tune in next week for Part Two, where we’ll go even deeper into desire, healing, and finding joy in the refining process. ✨ Order Dr. Finlayson-Fife’s new book: That We Might Have Joy: Desire, Divinity & Intimate Love HERE:https://www.finlayson-fife.com/book •Connect with Dr. Finlayson-Fife using the following links: https://www.finlayson-fife.com/ ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey Joy Seekers — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here with me today. Every week, I get to sit down with you and talk about how to find joy, peace, and healing — especially in life’s hardest moments. Have you ever felt completely brought low — like life stripped away everything familiar? In this episode, Jenn shares what she learned from Doctrine and Covenants 112:3 about being abased, and how the Lord uses those humbling seasons to refine and rebuild us. If you’re walking through divorce or heartbreak, this episode will remind you: being abased isn’t punishment — it’s preparation for something greater. 🎧 Listen to hear: The true meaning of “abased” in scripture What the refining process looks like after divorce How God’s grace lifts us when we feel broken Keywords: LDS divorce, healing after divorce, Doctrine and Covenants 112, refining process, faith after heartbreak, Christian divorce healing, humility and grace ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, it’s Jenn—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. 💛 In today’s episode, I’m sharing a special replay from my very first Divorce Hotline Live Q&A. This is where I answer real questions from men and women walking through the challenges of divorce—questions about healing, co-parenting, faith, dating, confidence, and everything in between. If you’re new here, the Divorce Hotline is my way of giving you a little Jenn Juice—that dose of hope, encouragement, and direction you need to keep moving forward. My goal is to help you partner with God in your healing and find joy again, no matter where you are in the process. Let’s jump into a few of the powerful questions we discussed live… ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey Joy Seekers — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here with me today. Every week, I get to sit down with you and talk about how to find joy, peace, and healing — especially in life’s hardest moments. Today’s episode is one that has been on my heart for a while, and honestly, I think it’s one of the most important topics we can talk about when we’re going through divorce, heartbreak, or any major life challenge. We’re going to talk about the difference between learned helplessness and learned hopefulness. Here’s the big idea: if we can “learn” helplessness — which many of us have without even realizing it — then we can also learn hopefulness. And when we’re facing something as difficult as divorce, that’s not just a good idea… It’s survival. So stick with me, because by the end of this episode, I want you to walk away with three practical ways you can start retraining your mind for hope instead of helplessness. ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey Joy Seekers — welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re unpacking something that will shape every relationship you have — not just in your marriage or divorce, but in parenting, friendships, work, and any relationship you’ll ever build in the future. It’s the energy you bring: are you showing up to serve or to strive to get? This is part of your healing journey through divorce — learning how to grow better, not bitter. Because how you show up now will echo into every relationship you build later. And before we dive in, let me say this: if you recognize yourself in the “get” side of things, you will have absolutely no judgment from me. I want you to hear that. There is no shame in noticing where you are. The natural human tendency is to ask, “What do I get out of this?” That’s normal. We all start there. But I’m here to show you how to take that natural instinct and grow beyond it — how to step into the best version of yourself through service. If you’re walking through divorce — whether you’re still deciding, in the middle of the legal and emotional process, or already living life after — this message will help you grow better, not bitter. Because how you show up in relationships during this season shapes the kind of relationships you will build in the future. ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey Joy Seekers! Welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I am so glad you’re here today. Today, we’re exploring three words that can completely change the way you experience divorce: awareness, acceptance, and agency. Divorce can feel like a hurricane ripping through your life. One day you think you know where your future is headed, and the next, you’re staring at pieces scattered everywhere—legal battles, emotional pain, financial uncertainty, and the big question: What now? If you’re in the middle of it, you know how overwhelming it feels. But these three principles—awareness, acceptance, and agency—can serve as anchors in the storm. They can help you slow down, find clarity, and step forward with confidence and faith. So let’s walk through them together. ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

If you’ve been through divorce, you may have moments where you wonder if you’re still lovable, or if love will ever find you again. Today, I want to remind you of a profound truth: you are already worthy of love—not because of your relationship status or how someone else treats you, but because of who you are. Hey Joy Seekers—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re going to dive into a topic that sits at the heart of so many divorce journeys: feeling worthy of love after divorce. I don’t know about you, but when I walked through my own divorce, one of the deepest wounds wasn’t just the loss of the relationship. It was the way I started to question myself. Am I lovable? Was I not enough? What’s wrong with me that this marriage didn’t work? If you’ve ever asked yourself those kinds of questions, I want you to lean in today. Because here’s the truth: your worthiness of love is not up for debate. It was settled the day you were created by a loving God. Divorce doesn’t erase it, rejection doesn’t diminish it, and someone else’s opinion of you can’t redefine it. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

If you’ve been waiting for permission to start healing after a hard marriage or divorce… this is it. No one is coming to do it for you—and that’s not bad news. It’s the doorway to your freedom. Stick around to the end for a 7-day “No One Is Coming” challenge you can start today. Hey Joy Seekers—welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re discussing a message that may feel a little jarring at first: No one is coming to save you. It’s an idea popularized by Mel Robbins—basically, stop waiting for the perfect moment or for someone to rescue you, and start taking small, courageous steps yourself. She teaches that motivation rarely appears first; action does. When you act, motivation follows. Here’s my faith-filled twist: No one is coming to live your life for you… And God is already here to help you take inspired action today! Scripture says, “For God gave us not a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind.” (2 Timothy 1:7) Power + love + a sound mind—that’s your toolkit for today. If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. •Get your The 7-Day Challenge: Stop Waiting: Take Back Your Life After Divorce” here: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/take-back-your-life-after-divorce • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here. Today, we’re diving into a really important topic—one that I know touches so many of you listening. We’re talking about protecting and empowering children in divorce. This is a tender subject, because divorce doesn’t just affect the couple—it ripples out to our children. And as parents, grandparents, or even leaders in the Church, one of our greatest responsibilities is to safeguard their hearts, their trust, and their ability to thrive, even in hard circumstances. Much of what I’ll share today is inspired by a beautiful Ensign article from April 2019, called “Protecting Children” by Marissa Widdison, but I’ve adapted it specifically to address the unique challenges children face during divorce. So if you’re going through a divorce, or you love someone who is, this episode is for you. If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn •Check out the talk I referenced by Marissa Widdison here: https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/2019/04/protecting-children?lang=eng • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn! I’m so glad you’re here. If you’re in a season of transition—especially navigating life after divorce—today’s episode is going to speak right to your heart and your future. We're talking about something that so many of us wrestle with in this journey: money—how to manage it, how to feel confident with it, and how to rebuild your financial life when everything has changed. Joining me today is someone I deeply admire—Kathleen Judge. Kathleen knows what it’s like to have the rug pulled out from under her. After quitting her corporate career to stay home and raise her children, she found herself suddenly and unexpectedly divorced in her 40s. Overnight, she became a single parent, solely responsible for her children’s well-being and their financial future. Instead of staying stuck in fear, Kathleen took brave, practical steps to rebuild. She found a financial advisor she trusted, learned how to manage her own wealth, and eventually became a financial advisor herself. Now she helps others—especially those who are new to managing their own money—make smart, confident financial decisions, so they can build a future that feels secure and fulfilling. Whether you’ve always managed your money or you’re just now learning how, today’s conversation is packed with wisdom, encouragement, and real-life strategies to help you move forward with faith and clarity. •Connect with Kathleen using the following links: linkedin.com/in/kathleen-judge1 www.edwardjones.com/kathleen-judge IG: kathleenjudgestl Kathleen.judge@edwardjones.com • Check out my Faith Filled Course Library. ALL COURCES ARE ON SALE 50% OFF THROUGH LABOR DAY! If you've ever wondered what coaching with me is like—or you’re ready for a little more support on your journey—this is the perfect place to start. Find the course that speaks to you and enroll today at https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses. ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Today, I’m talking about what makes a Second Marriage Work After Divorce. The Hard Work Behind My Happy Ending. After I released episode #180, our 20th anniversary special, I heard from so many of you. You thanked me for being vulnerable and opening up about the journey my husband and I have been on. If you haven't listened to it yet, go check it out! You asked powerful questions—about rebuilding trust, parenting in a blended family, navigating differences, and choosing love after heartbreak. And to be honest… I almost didn’t share it. It’s easy to share the highlight reel. The anniversary photos. The blessings. But I knew that wasn’t the full story. I also knew I wouldn’t be doing you any favors if I skipped over the real parts. Because truthfully, what we have today is the result of deep personal work, trial and error, hard conversations, learning to accept and forgive each other, and keep trying…grace upon grace. If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. You thought the hardest part was leaving—but co-parenting with a narcissist might just be the real challenge. I promise God didn’t bring you this far to let a narcissist steal your joy through parenting conflict. If your ex is still trying to manipulate, gaslight, or provoke you through parenting decisions, schedules, or communication—you are not crazy. You’re just dealing with a narcissist, and today we’re going to talk about how you can stay grounded, protect your peace, and show up as the steady, safe parent your kids need. If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession •Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. Ever feel like you’re walking through life on edge—trying to avoid one emotional landmine after another? Triggers everywhere. A text message. A memory. Someone’s tone of voice. A glance. A comment. It’s exhausting. But what if I told you that triggers aren’t the enemy… and you don’t have to live at the mercy of them anymore? Stick around—because in this episode, I’m going to unpack what triggers really are, and how you can go beyond managing them… to actually eliminating them. If you’re new here, I'm Jenn Zingmark, your LDS life and divorce coach, here to help you navigate the challenges of divorce with faith, grace, and resilience. ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. If your heart feels heavy today… if your life hasn’t turned out the way you planned… if you’ve been praying, and waiting, and wondering where God is in the middle of it all—this message is for you. I want to offer you a message of hope —something sacred, something that I hope brings you comfort and clarity, no matter where you are in your life or on your faith journey right now. If you’re new here, I’m Jenn Zingmark—your LDS life and divorce coach, walking with you through faith, healing, and hope after heartbreak. And I believe God is still in the middle of your story, even if it doesn’t look like it. Description: ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce, HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey friends, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here today because I get to introduce you to someone truly special—DeAnn Sadleir. DeAnn is a longtime teacher, speaker, and author with over 30 years of experience in the Latter-day Saint Seminary and Institute programs. She’s currently teaching Institute at the Utah State Correctional Facility, where she shares Christ-centered hope with those who need it most. She’s also a BYU grad in Interior Design, a retired travel educator, and co-founder of TWO Utah-based art and architecture schools. And she’s the author of A Window into God’s Garden: Meditations Rooted in Christ—a beautiful book filled with spiritual reflections and healing insights. Today, she’s sharing her journey of faith and healing, including insights on navigating divorce with Christ at the center. Let’s dive in. •Get Deann’s book A Window into God’s Garden: Meditations Rooted in Christ on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Window-into-Gods-Garden-Meditations/dp/1964978181 • Check out the 2025 Marriage Bundle. Whether you’re currently married, engaged, or divorced and hoping to build a stronger future relationship, these resources will help you deepen trust, communicate more effectively, invite God into your connection, and rediscover joy and fun together. This is the most cost-effective way I know to get real, faith-centered tools to strengthen your relationship, without the huge price tag. For a limited time, you can get 26 fantastic marriage resources for JUST $35 if you use my special link HERE: https://shop.thedatingdivas.com/products/marriage-bundle-2025?mc_cid=a5e5637fd8&mc_eid=ef490313a1 ✨Not sure where to start? Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. Link HERE: https://calendly.com/jennzingmark/freesession • Check out my Faith Filled Course Library. If you've ever wondered what coaching with me is like—or you’re ready for a little more support on your journey—this is the perfect place to start. Find the course that speaks to you and enroll today at https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey there, Joy Seekers— Welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. Today, I want to talk about something that affects all of us more than we realize, something I see over and over again in my own life and in the lives of the people I coach: ✨ The power of the story we tell ourselves. This is true for all of us, but especially for those of us walking through divorce, betrayal, deep grief, or any kind of painful chapter. Because we all tell ourselves stories. About our marriage. About our divorce. About our pain. About who we are because of it. And those stories shape everything. At some point, your story also deserves to be reframed. Not because the past didn’t hurt, but because you don’t have to stay forever trapped in it. ✨ Want more personalized support on your healing journey? ✨ Sign up for a FREE Reclaim Your Joy Strategy Session — a private, faith-filled space to explore where you are, clarify where you want to go, and leave with a practical tool to help you move forward with confidence and joy. 👉🏻👉🏻Link HERE: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/reclaim-your-joy-strategy-session • Check out my Faith Filled Course Library. If you've ever wondered what coaching with me is like—or you’re ready for a little more support on your journey—this is the perfect place to start. Find the course that speaks to you and enroll today at https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn •Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored and excited to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. If you enjoyed the podcast, I’d love to ask you to take 2 minutes to leave me a 5-star review on your podcast app; that way, we can help even more men and women find joy in their divorce journeys. You can win a $100 AMAZON GIFT when you do! Just send a screenshot of your review to jenn@jennzingmark.com. Make sure you put "Podcast Review" in the subject line. XO- Jenn

Hey Joy Seekers, and welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn.Today’s episode is deeply personal and very special to me because I’m celebrating my 20th wedding anniversary with Eric. Yes—20 years! I want to share a little of our journey, not just as a tribute to him, but as a message of hope for each of you. If you’ve gone through a divorce and you’re wondering if a joyful, lasting marriage is still possible… I’m here to tell you that it absolutely is. And if you’re in a marriage right now that feels hard, maybe even hanging on by a thread, I want you to know it is so worth it to keep fighting for it, to keep choosing each other, and to keep inviting God into your relationship every single day. Our story hasn’t been perfect—no marriage is—but it’s been beautifully worth it. I hope that as I share some of the lessons we’ve learned, the struggles we’ve worked through, and the joys we’ve celebrated, you’ll feel inspired to believe in the possibility of a love that lasts and grows deeper with time. • Check out my Faith Filled Course Library. If you've ever wondered what coaching with me is like—or you’re ready for a little more support on your journey—this is the perfect place to start. Find the course that speaks to you and enroll today at https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. XO- Jenn

Hey there, Joy Seekers— Welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. I’m so glad you’re here. I created this space for you—a place where we talk honestly about the messiness of divorce while holding tight to our faith. If you’re walking through the heartache of divorce right now, I want you to know you’re not alone—and you’re not powerless. There is still hope. There is still healing. And yes… there is still joy ahead. Today I want to share three empowering truths—not just thoughts or affirmations—but deep truths you can begin to practice and lean into, especially in those moments when life feels the heaviest. I don’t believe there’s any magical phrase that makes the pain of divorce disappear. But I do believe in truth. And these three thoughts are grounded in truth—truth about who you are, whose you are, and what’s still possible for you. We’ll walk through each truth, what it means, how to practice it, and real-life examples to bring them to life. So grab a notebook, or just let these words wash over you. You don’t need to master them—you just need to remember that truth is always available to you. • Check out my Faith Filled Course Library. If you've ever wondered what coaching with me is like—or you’re ready for a little more support on your journey—this is the perfect place to start. Find the course that speaks to you and enroll today at https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. XO- Jenn

Hey, Joy Seekers, welcome back to Find the Joy with Jenn. Today, we’re diving into a topic I know hits close to home for so many of us: TRUST. If you’ve been through a divorce, especially one where trust was shattered by betrayal, emotional abuse, or neglect, or just someone’s choice to end the marriage, then you know how hard it is to trust again. When a marriage ends—especially one rooted in faith—the damage often goes deeper than the relationship itself. It can shatter your trust in your ex, in yourself, in your ability to make good decisions, and even in God. But here’s the good news: trust isn’t lost forever. It can be rebuilt. And that rebuilding starts with you. Today, I want to discuss some powerful truths from the book "The Speed of Trust" by Stephen M. R. Covey — specifically, his 13 Behaviors of High-Trust Leaders. These aren’t just leadership tools—they’re LIFE tools. And they are incredibly relevant for anyone healing from divorce, and you don’t need to have read the book—I’ve got you. • Check out my Faith Filled Course Library. If you've ever wondered what coaching with me is like—or you’re ready for a little more support on your journey—this is the perfect place to start. Find the course that speaks to you and enroll today at https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/courses. • Join my exclusive Life Coaching and Divorce Mentoring Program, Faith Filled Divorce HERE: httpshttps:https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/program-details • Get your FREE Podcast Atlas at: https://www.findthejoywithjenn.com/joy-in-the-journey-podcast • Make sure you are part of the Find the Joy With Jenn Fam! Follow me on Instagram: www.instagram.com/findthejoywithjenn/ • Join my FREE Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/findthejoywithjenn • Thank you so much for listening to this episode! I’m honored to be on this journey to healing and personal growth with you. XO- Jenn