When her sister was diagnosed with a rare disease 7 yrs ago, she left her newly awarded tech startup, left her family and her son and run to save her. Three months later her sister had a team of doctors and she was left miserable at home. For the first time in my life I asked for help outside of friends and family. Through that she discovered that we all have roles, fulfilling her role when she put my sister top on her priority list, discovering to follow specific roles and fulfilling other people's expectations. She took this opportunity at the age of 40 to find who she truly was, what she wanted, who she wanted to become. Takeaways: 1. It is OK to ask for help. We are not here on this Earth to deal with life on our own. I asked for help in my 40s and I have never stopped since. 2. Putting ourselves top on our list, is our responsibility, it is not selfish! 3. You can make your wildest dream, your reality. Dare to dream your life as you want it and never stop. Success is certain. With a PhD, 25 years of experience, having travelled around the world, She had to lose everything in life so I can find her true self. Since then I she is helping leaders live their dream lives with increased self-awareness by getting rid of all beliefs and roles others imposed on them for years.