love when ppl talk shit and bring up my struggles because damn right I lost it all and I’ll never deny that LOL but let’s talk about the strength that I had to get the fuck up and get myself out of every situation I have endeared these past years alone! Quick to say it couldn’t be you , you’re right bitch God would never put such a heavy load on a weak Ass person like you📌

Pay attention to the environments where you become your favorite version of yourself.

It’s all gonna work out. This love shit, this healing shit,

Try not to think about tomorrow, just be present for today 🌻

Sometimes resting is the most productive thing you can do for your mind, body, and soul. Stop guilt-tripping yourself for doing what’s best for you. Take a break & sit the fuck down. Recharge yourself as much as you recharge your phone. Clear your head, you don’t have to go to every party, every kickback & every link-up. Get into some self-affirming activities. Embrace uncertainty... lay low but still stand out.~Unkown

A couple received a strange gift on their wedding day 🤔

This monologue is from Casting Africa ❤️but was too shy to submit it

You are allowed to change the price of what it costs to access your energy. Boundaries will feel “disrespectful" to people when you’ve spent your whole life over-giving, oversharing, & being the genuine friend in order to take care of others around you. 🏗Things I learned from this guest 🏗 **We are all born ignorant it's our duty to find knowledge **Money is the only defense for bullshit **Take your financial life seriously **Spending **saving **earning **Who get money nor dey beg **

If you plan on fixing things with a person, listen to me......🗣TALK ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED! Talk about why things needed to be fixed in the first place. Talk about what you feel went wrong and ....listen louder.... ALLOW THEM to tell you what they feel went wrong as well. Don’t be dismissive of their feelings. Apologize where it’s needed… because sometimes you can do things unintentionally… “LOVE WILL GIVE YOU EVERYTHING YOU WANT BUT ALSO TAKE AWAY WHAT YOU DON’T APPRECIATE “~giveon

Two lessons I learnt from this episode The best exercise to a healthy lifestyle is to swing your head left and right when you’re being handed junk (NO) Every time you eat a meal you're either treating a disease or feeding a disease

When you’ve really outgrown/ healed from certain things you do not want to be around or associate yourself with that anymore. You can give others grace and understanding but sometimes you’re literally disgusted with who you used to be. It’s not about thinking you’re better it’s about wanting better for yourself. Y’all should try it instead of victimizing yourselves when a person is elevating and you might not be a part of the elevation.~ Tash

Get you someone that understands life fr. Find someone who understands Priorities.

If you are serious about growth, be serious about accountability. If you are serious about abundance, be serious about gratitude. If you are serious about intimacy, be serious about vulnerability. If you are serious about discipline, be serious about delayed gratification.~

I stay away from people who avoid self reflection & accountability , cause if you can’t keep it real with yourself, ain’t no way in hell you gone keep it real with me.

I think the saddest thing is when you see a woman stay with a man that’s clearly not meant for her or doing right by her, and he starts sucking the life out of her… she stops dressing nice, stops wearing makeup and doing her hair, goes from lively and happy to timid and depressed, her whole aura fades from vibrant to meek... some of these people are killing beautiful women from the inside out and it’s so sad to see, I pray for everyone of my sisters in a toxic relationship and I hope one day you have the energy to leave.~

this monologue is from the THE BARBIE MOVIE

Stop dating ppl you aren't compatible with dating wise!!!!!!! •If you watch porn daily, don't date someone that considers watching porn cheating! •If you want an old fashion living style/ relationship, don't date someone that wants to go 50/50 on bills! •If you only want monogamy don't date someone that wants a poly relationship! •If you want to travel the world, don't date someone that wants to buy a house in their home town! •If you like to go MIA for hours for whatever reasons, don't date someone that wants to stay in contact for most of the day! My point is: Stop trying to date ppl JUST bc you think they're attractive.Pple will have nothing in common with their partners and wonder why the relationship isn't working...😄 🏆🏆do not forget to donate to the extra almond podcast:::

there’s nobody life that I look at with envy or feel as if I need it. not even if you have a partner to add value I still don’t. whatever you choose. it’s your choice and your decision. the life that I have is the only life that I have right now and i’ve been on one side for way too long. so, i’m going to morph, switch, rip out and or change whatever it is I need to change within my own life externally and internal to accomplish a life that I personally set out to achieve. that has complete fulfillment, happiness, peace, mayhem and many goals accomplished. I don’t care who can understand it. my grass is the only grass I’m watering. focus on your own roots. before you peek over my fence with curiosity.~

be so private they can't do nothing but assume

Im ending my season with a clean slate. Am removing myself from people’s perception of who they see me to be.