Narcissists LOVE to ruin a holiday. We dig deeper on some of the more dramatic moments in Deb’s past relationship. Hear how her ex managed to turn the Most Wonderful Time of the Year into the First Annual Asshole Competition (he won).
The letter ain’t done yet. In the season finale, Deb’s narcissistic ex attempts to twist the truth and call her selfish—which, on one point, he might be right. Find out how Deb exerted her power over a terrible man using Amazon’s amazing audible credit program. Come back for Season 2 - we talk about threesomes!
BONUS episode! Ah, the gift of a narcissist. It always comes back to them. Find out what Deb’s ex had to say on Valentine’s day as we read out some of his love notes to her. Surprise—he’s hilariously self-centered.
The sisters continue reading the narcissist’s letter. Deb tells the story of how her ex held her personal belongings hostage and escalated to stalking and harassment. But he also finds time to throw shade at Ariana Grande. Find out more in this unhinged episode.
BONUS episode! Deb gives the deets on her twisted therapist situation with her narcissistic ex—and how the wrong therapist can often miss the biggest red flags of all. Hear how Deb recounts a therapy session and the eye-opening ways her toxic ex weaponized therapy.
The narcissist letter reading continues. This episode we focus on all the things Deb’s narcissist ex says she stole from him. Shocker, none of them make sense. Listen as we read out his arguments and tear them apart, with Deb delving into more intimate stories of their scandalous relationship history.
The narcissist’s final plea. Now that the break up is sinking in, Deb’s narcissistic ex writes a 17 page (single spaced!) unhinged letter from HIS perspective, taking us on a twisted mental journey through the mind of an aggressive manipulator. Hear how he misremembers events, spins half-truths, and confesses to (even) more criminal acts.
BONUS episode! And she’s juicy. Listen as we read out one of Deb’s narcissistic ex’s most unhinged post-break up texts, where he admits to several wrong doings—but don't worry, it’s all his mommy’s fault. Also, we talk about boobs!
The post-break up dramz heats up. Deb recounts more of her narcissistic ex’s wild tactics to get her back, track her personal life, extort, and punish her for the act of leaving. This time, it’s not just Deb that he targets. Hear how he begins violating the privacy of people around her in an attempt to get closer.
Oh, you thought the break up was the end? Honey, we’re just getting started. Deb talks about the emotional roller-coaster of ending things with a narcissist, and the wild (and illegal!) steps he takes to manipulate her into coming back. His obsession grows as Deb starts fresh, culminating in a dramatic meeting at Starbucks.
The drama continues. Deb continues the relationship story—and what finally drove her to leave her narcissistic ex. Find out more about the insane gaslighting, manipulation, over-the-top proposal, and the incidents that finally led to the end of a toxic three year relationship. But not the end of the story.
Ex Narcs The Spot is a hilarious podcast hosted by three sisters: Deb, Laura, and Tara. Together they dissect the relationship and break-up letter from Deb’s narcissistic ex, and hash out the emotional realities of dating a manipulator and finally getting out. Follow along for straight up hot gossip, unfiltered opinions, unabashed narc-shaming, and shocking revelations. If that sounds like your cup of tea, you’ve come to the right spot.