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Ex-it Strategy
New Direction Family Law Firm
79 episodes
5 days ago
Your no bullsh$t guide to divorce with experienced attorneys from New Direction Family Law and guests and professionals who have been there. Unfiltered discussions to help you move from victim to victorious and from bitter to better.
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Your no bullsh$t guide to divorce with experienced attorneys from New Direction Family Law and guests and professionals who have been there. Unfiltered discussions to help you move from victim to victorious and from bitter to better.
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Relationships
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Understanding Parentage: Establishing & Disestablishing

New Direction Family Law layers and staff discuss the complexities around parentage. They cover the process of establishing and disestablishing parentage, the legal implications, and the need for paternity actions. The team also explores issues related to legitimation actions, the legal challenges of changing a child's surname, and the complications that arise within same-sex parent families. Tune in for an informative discussion about the legal intricacies of parentage and the importance of having an attorney navigate these complicated matters.

00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction
00:36 Understanding Parentage: Establishing and Disestablishing
01:10 Affidavit of Parentage: Hospital Procedures
01:52 Paternity Tests and Legal Actions
02:43 Legitimation Actions: Replacing the Wrong Dad
03:36 Legal Implications of Birth Certificates
05:30 Disestablishment of Paternity: Legal Steps
07:41 Changing the Child's Surname
10:52 Complexities in Same-Sex Parentage
12:26 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

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1 week ago
14 minutes

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Alienation of Affection and Criminal Conversation in North Carolina

We unpack the complex and often controversial legal topics of Alienation of Affection and Criminal Conversation. They discuss the nuances, historical context, and practical implications of these laws, which are still recognized in a few states, including North Carolina. The conversation includes real-life cases, the pros and cons of pursuing such lawsuits, and the potential impacts on all parties involved.

00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction
01:01 Introducing the Topic: Alienation and Criminal Conversation
01:33 Matt's Experience with Alienation Cases
02:16 Legal Nuances and Publicity of Cases
04:43 Breaking Down Alienation and Criminal Conversation
05:50 Defenses and Legal Strategies
07:20 Damages and Case Examples
08:49 Challenges and Considerations in Pursuing Cases
12:53 Mother-in-Law Drama
13:34 Alienation of Affection Law
13:54 Constitutional Concerns
15:41 Jurisdiction Issues
18:18 Office Affairs
21:12 Connivance and Framing

------ To contact us visit https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

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3 weeks ago
23 minutes

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Preparing for Court: The Do's and Don'ts

Join lizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they delve into crucial insights for clients preparing to testify in family court. Alongside Cam, their coordinator, they discuss the intricacies of courtroom procedures, the importance of honest and concise testimony, and how to handle cross-examinations and character witnesses. From what to wear to how to manage your emotions, gain valuable advice on presenting yourself effectively in court. Whether it's a custody case, financial disputes, or spousal support, this episode covers everything you need to know to navigate your court appearance with confidence.

00:00 Introduction to New Direction Family Law
00:57 Preparing Clients for Testimony
01:46 Courtroom Basics and Client Preparation
03:36 Direct and Cross-Examination Tips
06:46 Character and Expert Witnesses
09:54 Handling Emotions and Courtroom Etiquette
11:08 The Importance of Genuine Emotions in Court
11:23 Challenges Judges Face in Determining Credibility
11:51 Handling Lies and Perjury in Court
13:56 Using Text Messages and Emails as Evidence
15:52 The Dangers of Faking Evidence
17:16 Respecting Court Protocol and Behavior
17:46 Financial Testimonies and Document Familiarity
18:51 The Waiting Game for Court Rulings
19:49 Preparing for Cross-Examination
21:43 Character Witness Preparation

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1 month ago
23 minutes

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Navigating Custody Issues Across State Lines

Our hosts discuss the complexities of handling custody issues when co-parents live in different states. They delve into the legalities, jurisdiction matters, and real-life scenarios including military families and interstate relocations. The conversation highlights the importance of understanding state laws, getting court permissions, and the potential emotional and financial impacts on the children and parents involved. They also provide practical advice on dealing with such situations, emphasizing the significance of consulting with an attorney before making any moves.

00:00 Introduction and Greetings
00:41 Custody Issues Across State Lines
00:57 Jurisdiction and Legal Complexities
01:02 Case Study: California to North Carolina
02:01 Challenges of Interstate Custody
03:12 Real-Life Examples and Scenarios
05:06 Impact on Children and Families
06:27 Personal Experiences and Insights
09:22 Judicial Decisions and Fairness
09:50 Financial Implications of Custody Arrangements
10:41 Navigating Child Support and Extraordinary Expenses
11:04 Relocation and Its Legal Implications
12:50 Getting Permission to Move: Legal Steps
13:35 Factors Judges Consider in Relocation Cases
15:44 Emergency Custody and Relocation Challenges
17:30 Co-Parenting and Relocation: Practical Advice
19:57 Consulting Attorneys Before Relocating
20:38 Final Thoughts on Relocation and Custody

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2 months ago
21 minutes

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The Millennial Marriage Epidemic: A Default Parent Dilemma

In this insightful discussion, we talk about the growing phenomenon of 'default parent' divorces among millennial marriages. The episode explores the dynamics of household responsibilities, the emotional toll of being the default parent, and how this imbalance often leads to marital discord and eventually divorce. The hosts share personal anecdotes, client experiences, and offer practical advice on managing these challenges through better communication, therapy, and allowing mistakes to foster growth in co-parenting.

00:00 Introduction and Team Introduction
00:44 The Default Parent Epidemic
01:46 Impact on Relationships and Divorce
03:11 Gender Roles and Societal Expectations
04:40 Challenges in Co-Parenting Post-Divorce
12:39 Historical Context and Modern Dynamics
14:41 Advice and Solutions for Default Parents
17:06 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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2 months ago
18 minutes

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Estate Planning Meets Family Law: Generational Wealth & Trusts

In this insightful discussion, Cameron, the Marketing and Business Development Manager at New Direction Family Law, and Elizabeth Stevenson, a partner at the firm, dive deep into the intricate intersection of estate planning and family law with Hampton Crumpler, an attorney at NC Planning. They explore the complexities of generational wealth, trusts, wills, and how these elements play crucial roles in divorce, custody battles, and property division. Key topics include the impact of prenuptial and postnuptial agreements, protecting assets for children from previous marriages, the importance of regularly updating estate plans, and understanding the differences between revocable and irrevocable trusts. Tune in to gain valuable insights into how smart estate planning can save time, money, and stress for your family.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:57 Intersection of Estate Planning and Family Law

01:34 Prenups, Postnups, and Estate Planning

07:15 Trusts for Minor Children

10:15 Revocable vs. Irrevocable Trusts

12:26 Blended Families and Q-Tip Trusts

15:12 Importance of Having a Will

18:32 Inherited Property and Marital Assets

21:06 Tax Consequences of Inherited Money

21:30 Trusts and Taxation

22:22 Real Estate and Inheritance

23:47 Estate Planning and Separation Agreements

25:44 Gifts and Marital Property

27:09 Handling Property in Divorce

28:58 Importance of Estate Planning

31:53 Updating Estate Plans

33:02 Legal Representation in Divorce

34:49 Getting in Touch with an Estate Planning Attorney

37:17 Final Thoughts on Estate Planning


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4 months ago
37 minutes

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Tips for Choosing the Right Divorce Attorney

In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Ashley Oldham of New Direction Family Law discuss the crucial process of selecting the right divorce attorney. They cover essential steps such as the importance of initial consultations, building a trust-based relationship, understanding retainer fees, and ensuring transparent communication. They also emphasize the value of honesty and document organization in achieving the best legal outcomes. This episode provides valuable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of divorce.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:31 Choosing the Right Attorney

01:30 Initial Consultation Importance

01:51 Client Intake Process

04:33 Confidentiality and Trust

09:40 Financial Considerations

11:16 Document Organization

15:37 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

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5 months ago
20 minutes

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Military Divorces: Tips and Insights from Family Law Experts

Join Elizabeth Stevenson from New Direction Family Law and her colleague Ashley Oldham as they discuss the unique challenges of military divorces. In this episode, they delve into the nuances of divorce for military families, covering topics such as pension division, custody arrangements, and the Uniform Deployed Parents Custody and Visitation Act. Ashley, a board-certified family law specialist with extensive experience in military divorces, provides valuable insights on jurisdiction, survivor benefits, and child support. Whether you're a service member or a spouse, this episode is packed with essential information to help navigate the complexities of military divorces.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:38 Military Divorce Overview

02:33 Jurisdiction in Military Divorces

03:54 Custody Issues in Military Divorces

09:49 Division of Military Pensions

15:55 Domestic Violence and Military Personnel

17:25 Military Support Programs and Conclusion

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5 months ago
19 minutes

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Protecting Your Business in Marriage with Matthew McGonagle

Join Sarah Hink and Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they chat with guest attorney Matt McGonagle about crucial aspects of business creation, estate planning, and protecting your business in the event of divorce or death. They discuss the importance of having proper legal agreements like operating agreements and shareholders' agreements, and dive into the complexities of trusts, estate planning, and marital protections. Learn how to safeguard your business and assets against unforeseen life events in this insightful podcast episode.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

00:54 Matt McGonigal's Legal Expertise

01:15 Business Creation and Protection

03:43 Divorce and Business Ownership

06:27 Trusts and Estate Planning

15:22 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

Learn more about Matt McGonagle, a board certified specialist with the North Carolina State Bar – Estate Planning and Probate Law


Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/


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6 months ago
17 minutes

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How to get a Domestic Violence Protective Order

In this episode, Sarah J. Hink and Ava K. Jennette from New Direction Family Law discuss the procedural steps involved in obtaining a domestic violence protective order (DVPO) in North Carolina. They offer advice on resources such as local domestic violence resource centers and highlight the essential details needed in the complaint form, including specific allegations and dates. The discussion includes what to expect during the ex parte hearing, service of the abuser, and the return hearing. They also cover the potential consequences of violating a DVPO, the importance of including all relevant incidents in the complaint, and the role of Legal Aid in assisting victims. The episode provides comprehensive guidance for those looking to pursue or defend against a DVPO, emphasizing the importance of legal representation.

00:00 Introduction to the Episode

00:30 Understanding Domestic Violence Protective Orders

01:39 Filing for a Protective Order

02:25 Details and Allegations in the Complaint

06:30 The Ex Parte Order Process

08:47 Preparing for the Return Hearing

09:57 Defending Against False Allegations

13:17 Consequences of Violating a Protective Order

17:56 Renewing a Protective Order

19:56 Final Advice and Resources

Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

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7 months ago
22 minutes

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Navigating Absolute Divorce in North Carolina - Absolutely

Join Sarah Hink and attorney Ava Jeanette from New Direction Family Law as they delve into the intricate process of filing for absolute divorce in North Carolina. Learn about the requirements such as the mandatory one year and one day physical separation, the importance of resolving property and alimony issues beforehand, and the nuances related to service and court filings. They also discuss unique scenarios involving military service and incompetency. Whether you're doing it yourself or seeking professional help, this episode provides essential insights to guide you through the divorce proceedings.

00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction

00:39 Understanding Absolute Divorce

01:33 Filing for Divorce in North Carolina

04:06 Checklist Before Filing for Divorce

05:17 The Divorce Filing Process

06:18 Service Issues in Divorce

07:53 Court Procedures and Attorney Involvement

14:02 Special Cases and Unique Scenarios

16:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/


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7 months ago
17 minutes

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Rings, Romance, and Real Talk... Prenups!

Understanding Prenuptial Agreements: Protecting Your Future and Assets


In this episode of New Direction Family Law, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink discuss the importance of prenuptial agreements, especially for individuals entering second marriages or who have children from previous relationships. They explain how prenups can protect personal assets, manage debts, and anticipate changes in circumstances, such as starting a business. The conversation also touches on the misconceptions about prenups, the emotional and financial implications, and the necessity of discussing finances openly before marriage. Tune in for real talk on romance, prenups, and safeguarding your future.

00:00 Introduction and Importance of Prenups

01:01 Meet the Team

01:37 Discussing Prenups and Common Misconceptions

03:05 Debt and Financial Transparency in Marriage

06:16 Prenups and Business Ownership

10:31 Changing Prenups: Legal Advice

10:41 Prenups and Children: Legal Limitations

11:11 Prenups and Infidelity Clauses

11:25 Public Policy and Prenups

12:22 Prenups and Coercion

12:55 Timing and Prenups

13:29 Prenups for Second Marriages

14:10 Strange Prenup Clauses

15:11 Postnups: Similarities and Differences

15:58 Prenups and Business Ownership

17:03 Prenups: Personal Decisions and Legal Advice

Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

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8 months ago
21 minutes

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Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation

In this episode, Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the complexities and emotional challenges of separation and divorce. They share practical advice on handling separation, especially in cases of domestic violence, financial complications, and child custody. They also introduce Cam Heinsohn, their new marketing and business development manager. The conversation touches on real-life scenarios, legal strategies, and the emotional toll of ending a marriage, aiming to provide guidance and support for those going through such a difficult time.

00:00 The Hardest Part of Separation

00:58 Introducing the New Podcast Member

02:04 Suddenly Single: Coping with Unexpected Separation

05:43 Handling Separation Conversations

11:39 Navigating Separation: Initial Steps

12:08 Living Arrangements and Legal Implications

13:27 Financial Responsibilities During Separation

15:44 Court Orders and Legal Actions

18:39 Consulting an Attorney: When and Why

20:48 Emotional and Practical Support

21:28 Finding Strength and Moving Forward

Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

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8 months ago
23 minutes

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High-Conflict Divorce: The Role of Parenting Coordinators

In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullshit Guide to Divorce,' experienced attorneys Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law discuss the vital role of parenting coordinators in high-conflict divorce situations. Learn how parenting coordinators, either attorneys or mental health professionals, are appointed to assist co-parents in making decisions and improving communication. 

Discover how this essential service can help avoid prolonged court battles, reduce legal fees, and ensure the best interests of the children are prioritized. Tune in for expert insights on how to navigate co-parenting challenges effectively.

00:00 Introduction to the Exit Strategy

00:18 Meet the Attorneys

00:42 Understanding Parenting Coordinators

01:05 Role and Appointment of Parenting Coordinators

01:51 Challenges in Co-Parenting

03:53 Legal Implications and Court Involvement

05:03 Benefits of Parenting Coordinators

07:22 Practical Advice for Co-Parents

17:16 Final Thoughts and Contact Information

Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/

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9 months ago
18 minutes

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Navigating Taxes During Divorce: Expert Tips from Jason Deshayes

In this episode of 'The Exit Strategy: Your No Bullsh$t Guide to Divorce,' hosts Elizabeth Stevenson and Sarah Hink from New Direction Family Law are joined by Jason Deshayes, CEO of Cook Wealth. They discuss the crucial role of financial planning and tax preparation in the context of divorce. Topics include tax liabilities, the importance of transparency in joint tax filings, handling separate and joint accounts, and the significance of consulting with CPAs and financial advisors. The episode aims to educate listeners on making informed financial decisions during and after a divorce, ensuring a smoother transition from victim to victorious and from bitter to better.

00:00 Spotting Financial Red Flags in Relationships

00:21 Introduction to the Exit Strategy Podcast

00:53 Meet the Expert: Jason Dehe from Cook Wealth

01:34 The Role of Spouses in Tax Preparation

02:38 Understanding Joint Tax Returns and Liabilities

03:37 The Importance of Financial Transparency in Marriage

04:08 Navigating Financial Conflicts During Divorce

05:22 The Benefits of Filing Taxes Separately

07:31 Managing Separate and Joint Bank Accounts

10:08 Handling CPA Conflicts During Divorce

13:59 Dividing Assets: Brokerage vs. Retirement Accounts

16:08 Navigating Financial Confusion

17:21 The Role of Financial Advisors

17:58 Tax and Wealth Management

18:30 Cash vs. Retirement Funds

19:26 Alimony and Tax Implications

21:16 Pre-Planning for Divorce

23:52 Financial Planning for Smaller Budgets

29:10 Services Offered by Wealth Management Firms

31:43 Conclusion and Contact Information


Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/


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9 months ago
32 minutes

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All I want for Christmas is... An Annulment?

Join Elizabeth A. Stephenson and Sarah J. Hink from New Direction Family Law as they explore the often misunderstood topic of annulments and how they differ from divorces. They discuss various grounds for annulments in North Carolina, including bigamy, mental incapacity, and underage marriage with parental consent. Elizabeth and Sarah also touch on some complex cases they’ve encountered and provide insights into legal protections and agreements that can safeguard your future. Whether you're considering an annulment or a divorce after the holidays, this informative discussion will help you understand your options.

00:00 Holiday Wishes and Legal Choices

00:04 Understanding Annulments

01:09 Legal Grounds for Annulments in North Carolina

01:48 Bigamy Cases and Legal Implications

04:00 Age and Mental Capacity in Marriage

06:49 Impotence and Annulment

09:51 Consent and Manipulation in Marriage

11:14 Hallmark Movies and Mistaken Beliefs

11:40 Fraud in Marriage: Proving the Case

14:14 Annulment vs. Divorce: Legal Differences

15:23 Cohabitation Agreements and Property Rights

17:12 Prenups and Postnups: Protecting Your Assets

19:36 Final Thoughts and Holiday Wishes


Learn more about New Direction Family Law: https://newdirectionfamilylaw.com/contact-us-today/


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10 months ago
20 minutes

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Top 10 Things to Know When Going Through a Divorce

Summary: In this episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law share the top ten essential tips and advice for navigating through a divorce. They cover both legal and personal aspects, offering practical insights and supportive guidance to help listeners manage this challenging period in their lives. From financial independence to emotional support, these tips aim to provide a comprehensive understanding of what to expect and how to handle various situations during a divorce.

Key Points:

  1. Your Kids Will Be Okay
    • Emphasize the importance of shielding children from conflict.
    • Tips on co-parenting and maintaining a healthy relationship with your children.
  2. Love Your Kids More Than You Hate Your Ex
    • Avoid speaking negatively about your ex in front of your children.
    • Focus on your children's well-being rather than on past grievances.
  3. There's Always a Way to Make It Work Financially
    • Discuss strategies for financial independence.
    • Importance of understanding your financial situation and planning accordingly.
  4. Don't Use Your Attorney for Emotional Support
    • Seek professional counseling for emotional needs.
    • Focus on using your attorney for legal advice and strategy.
  5. Things Might Get Worse Before They Get Better
    • Prepare for potential escalation of conflict during the process.
    • Stay focused on long-term outcomes and personal growth.
  6. Focus on Yourself and Set Boundaries
    • Prioritize self-care and establish clear boundaries with your ex.
    • Use tools like Our Family Wizard for communication.
  7. Unfriend or Block Your Ex on Social Media
    • Avoid the temptation to stalk or engage with your ex online.
    • Protect your mental health by limiting exposure to potentially upsetting content.
  8. Treat Communications as Though They Will Be Read in Court
    • Always maintain a respectful and factual tone in written communications.
    • Understand that any communication could be used as evidence.
  9. Surround Yourself with Supportive People
    • Lean on friends, family, or support groups for emotional support.
    • Avoid people who encourage negative or aggressive behavior.
  10. Don't Rush into Dating After Divorce
    • Take time to heal and reflect on your past relationship.
    • Ensure you are emotionally ready before starting a new relationship.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Our Family Wizard and other co-parenting tools.
  • Professional counselors and therapists.
  • Support groups and online communities for divorced individuals.

Call to Action:

  • Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more tips and insights.
  • Reach out to a professional counselor for emotional support.
  • Consult with an attorney to understand your legal rights and options.

Conclusion: Divorce can be a challenging and emotional journey, but by following these ten tips, you can navigate it more effectively. Focus on your well-being, seek appropriate support, and take one step at a time to ensure a better future for yourself and your children.

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1 year ago
28 minutes

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Courtroom Drama: How to Avoid Being a Hot Mess

Summary: In this insightful episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux from New Direction Family Law discuss essential tips and advice for anyone preparing to go to court. Drawing from their extensive experience, they provide practical do’s and don’ts to help listeners present themselves effectively and navigate the courtroom with confidence. The episode covers everything from appropriate attire and punctuality to emotional control and the importance of honesty.

Key Points:

  1. Introduction and Overview (00:00:00)
    • Hosts introduce themselves and the topic of the episode.
    • Elizabeth and Sarah share their extensive courtroom experiences.
  2. Courtroom Etiquette: Do's and Don'ts (00:01:18)
    • Importance of dressing appropriately for court.
    • Avoiding casual attire such as running shorts, flip-flops, and tank tops.
  3. Respect and Behavior in Court (00:02:12)
    • Respecting the judge and courtroom officials.
    • Do not interrupt the judge or make inappropriate gestures.
  4. Punctuality is Key (00:06:00)
    • Always arrive on time for court hearings.
    • Plan your route and parking in advance to ensure timely arrival.
  5. Emotional Control (00:05:19)
    • Importance of maintaining composure and controlling emotions in court.
    • Avoid eye-rolling, sighing, and other negative expressions.
  6. Preparation and Honesty (00:12:12)
    • Being prepared with all necessary documents well in advance.
    • Always be honest with your attorney and in court to avoid damaging your case.
  7. Courtroom Procedures and Expectations (00:14:53)
    • Understanding the flow of a court case and what to expect.
    • The significance of hearing prep meetings and following your attorney’s guidance.
  8. Children in Court (00:10:41)
    • Avoid bringing children to court unless absolutely necessary.
    • Impact of childcare challenges for low-income families attending court.
  9. Community and Judicial Support (00:16:14)
    • Appreciation for the judicial community and legal professionals.
    • The importance of respecting the legal process and the roles of everyone involved.
  10. Conclusion and Final Thoughts (00:17:08)
    • Encouragement to follow the discussed tips for a smoother court experience.
    • Mention of New Direction Family Law's TikTok account for more insights.

Resources Mentioned:

  • New Direction Family Law TikTok account for additional tips and insights.

Call to Action:

  • Follow New Direction Family Law on TikTok for more helpful content.
  • Reach out to your attorney with any questions or for further guidance on preparing for court.
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1 year ago
18 minutes

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Pride Month Special: Navigating Family Law for LGBTQ+ Couples

Summary: In this special Pride Month episode, Elizabeth Stephenson, Sarah Hink, and Jen Bordeaux discuss the intricacies of family law as it pertains to same-sex relationships. The episode delves into the legal challenges and considerations for LGBTQ+ couples, particularly in North Carolina. Topics include custody issues, child support, surrogacy, adoption, and the recent Court of Appeals case affecting same-sex couples. The hosts emphasize the importance of legal guidance and community support for LGBTQ+ families.


00:00 Introduction and Greetings

00:49 Busy Times in Family Law

01:16 Pride Month and Family Law

01:56 Legal Nuances of Same-Sex Marriage

03:22 Common Law Marriage Explained

04:34 Recent Court Case on Same-Sex Custody

11:55 Surrogacy and Adoption Considerations

13:33 Community Support and Resources

15:39 Conclusion and Call to Action

Key Points:

  1. Introduction to Pride Month 
    • Overview of the significance of Pride Month.
    • Brief discussion on the recent uptick in divorce and separation cases.
  2. Legal Landscape for Same-Sex Couples 
    • Examination of the laws applying to same-sex marriages in North Carolina.
    • Challenges faced by same-sex couples regarding asset division, spousal support, and custody.
  3. Recent Court of Appeals Case 
    • Analysis of a recent case involving custody and child support for a non-biological parent in a same-sex relationship.
    • Discussion on the legal interpretation of “mother” and “father” in child support statutes.
  4. Common Law Marriage and Custody 
    • Explanation of common law marriage and its non-recognition in North Carolina.
    • Legal nuances in custody and child support for same-sex couples.
  5. Adoption and Surrogacy Considerations (00:12:30)
    • Importance of legal contracts in adoption and surrogacy.
    • Steps involved in ensuring parental rights and responsibilities are protected.
  6. Community Support and Resources 
    • Highlighting local resources and support systems for LGBTQ+ families.
    • Encouragement to engage with local community centers and legal professionals.
  7. Advocacy and Legal Reform 
    • Call to action for legal reforms to ensure equality and fairness for all families.
    • Importance of voting and reaching out to legislative representatives.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Local LGBTQIA+ community centers and support groups.
  • Legal professionals specializing in family law for same-sex couples.
  • Mental health professionals with a focus on LGBTQ+ issues.

Call to Action:

  • Get involved in local advocacy for legal reforms.
  • Reach out to community resources for support and guidance.
  • Contact legal professionals for advice on family law matters.
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1 year ago
16 minutes

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Terminal Trials: Custody Concerns


Episode Summary:

In this episode, Sarah Hink, a seasoned family law attorney, explores a significant North Carolina Court of Appeals case that sheds light on custody disputes, particularly focusing on the implications of a parent's terminal illness and the subsequent legal maneuvers to ensure the well-being of the child involved. With Elizabeth Stevenson absent due to other legal obligations, Jen Bordeaux steps in to co-host, ensuring the conversation remains insightful, informative, and engaging. The episode delves into the complexities of custody appeals, the importance of timing in legal filings, and the rights of biological and non-biological family members in custody cases.


Key Topics Discussed:

  • The role of the Court of Appeals and its function in the legal hierarchy.
  • A deep dive into a recent Court of Appeals case from Guilford County, highlighting the challenges and strategic legal actions taken amidst a parent's terminal illness.
  • The legal nuances and implications of filing motions to modify custody and intervene in ongoing custody cases.
  • The significance of a parent's death on custody disputes and the intervention rights of grandparents and other relatives.
  • Insights into proving a parent unfit and the legal hurdles involved in non-biological family members seeking custody.
  • Discussion on the legal strategies and emotional considerations necessary when planning for custody amidst life-changing events like terminal illness.
  • The limitations of wills in dictating custody outcomes post a parent's demise.


Episode Highlights:

  • Learn about the critical importance of timely and strategic legal filings in custody disputes, especially in light of terminal illness.
  • Discover the legal complexities surrounding custody modifications, interventions, and the unique challenges faced by non-biological relatives in securing custody rights.
  • Gain insights into the real-life impact of family law issues on the well-being of children and the importance of experienced legal counsel in navigating these challenges.


Recommended Resources:

  • Previous episodes on topics such as parental alienation and the legal challenges faced by same-sex couples in custody disputes.
  • Consultation with a specialized family law attorney for personal guidance and support in custody and family law matters.


Closing Thoughts:

The intersection of family law with deeply personal life events such as terminal illness presents both emotional and legal challenges. This episode highlights the crucial role of informed legal action in safeguarding the future of children caught in the midst of custody disputes. Through a discussion on a poignant Court of Appeals case, listeners are reminded of the complexities of the legal system and the vital need for expert legal advice in these sensitive situations.


Reminder:
For those navigating similar challenges or seeking legal counsel, it's essential to consult with a knowledgeable family law attorney to understand the best course of action for your unique circumstances.

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1 year ago
22 minutes

Ex-it Strategy
Your no bullsh$t guide to divorce with experienced attorneys from New Direction Family Law and guests and professionals who have been there. Unfiltered discussions to help you move from victim to victorious and from bitter to better.