Ah desire. It’s the current that creates art, moves lovers, and wakes the world back up.
When you understand desire’s rhythm, you stop chasing it and start conducting it.
You realize it’s not something that just strikes — it’s something you can summon. A pulse you can build through breath, tension, and awareness until the air between you hums.
Desire lives in the space between holding and letting go.
Between stillness and surrender.
Between the mind that wants and the body that already knows.
In this class, we explore:
How tension and release create erotic charge
How to evoke desire consciously instead of performing it
How passion becomes art when infused with presence
Why desire isn’t meant to consume you, but to wake you up
Desire is a spell cast through awareness.
Stay with the pulse, not the fantasy—
that’s where real fire lives.
Let’s talk about what Tantra really is—beyond the buzzwords, beyond the clichés.
Tantra is the art of coming home to your body, your breath, and the electric pulse of connection itself.
In this episode, I share the story of how I stumbled (and surrendered) into this path—and why I’m endlessly obsessed with helping others experience it. We’ll explore how to move from surface-level connection into true intimacy, and how to create simple tantric rituals that turn the ordinary into the sacred.
Key points inside this episode:
✨ How I discovered Tantra and why it changed everything💋 The difference between ego-driven connection and embodied intimacy🔥 How to create and invoke tantric ritual spaces💨 The power of breath, sound, and movement to awaken trance states💫 Why safety in the body unlocks deeper pleasure and presence
Tantra isn’t about performance—it’s about aliveness.
You can’t be in your mind and your body at the same time.
When the body feels safe to be seen, love stops being something you chase—
and becomes something you radiate.
Most of us spend our lives reacting—snapping back, defending, exploding, or shrinking in ways that leave cracks in our relationships and shame in our bodies.
But what if the very energy behind those reactions is the fuel you’ve been waiting for?
In this episode, I break down the thin line between reactivity and creativity—and how to flip one into the other.
I share stories from my own life of fiery reactions and heartbreak, and how I learned to channel those raw, overwhelming emotions into art, embodiment, and power.
We’ll explore:
Why reactivity keeps you bound to the past while creativity births new worlds
The nervous system’s role in safety, expression, and power
Archetypes of the Reactor vs. the Creator
How to alchemize rage, heartbreak, and shadow into something beautiful and liberating
This isn’t about being perfect, calm, or endlessly “healed.” It’s about learning how to take the fire in your body and give it a place to burn clean.
Because when you stop waiting to be less reactive and start creating from your rawest edges—you stop being a victim of your circumstances and start becoming the artist of your own life.
Press play, and let your triggers become your art.
What happens when two erotic provocateurs strip down—literally and metaphorically—to talk shame, sex, and sovereignty?
In this unfiltered backyard episode, Hales sits down with her dear friend Saint—a somatic sëxologist and creator of Fifth Element Somatox and The Good Girl Paradox—to explore the body-based roots of sexual shame, the cultural legacy of nudity repression, and how reclaiming your likes and dislikes is the doorway to erotic power.
Together, they dive into:
• Nudity as a permission field
• The link between perfectionism and the “good girl” complex
• How somatic practices (not mindset work) rewire shame
• Why safety—not pressure—is the key to real submission
• K*nk as conscious shadow play (and a healthier way to be “bad”)
This is a sensual, sacred, wildly fun conversation on reclaiming your body, your boundaries, and your unapologetic turn-on. Whether you’re dancing with your shadows or craving a deeper connection to your erotic truth—this one will light something up in you.
Press play. Then take your top off.
To find more of this drip worthy woman:
https://fifthelementsomatics.com/
Instagram: @Saintxsavant
| SHADOW AS MUSE |
A one-month Telegram cohort filled with prompts, dares, and themes to turn the parts of yourself you usually hide into fuel for art. And when those parts are expressed—and lovingly witnessed by others in a safe container—something rewires inside you.
Shame dissolves. Power rises. Your magnetism and creative fire return, potent and alive.
If you’re ready to turn shadow into inspiration, join us now. We start October 15 😜🤩🙏🔥
You’re Not Underqualified. You’re Under-Expressed.
WARNING - do not listen to this if you are happy where you are at and do not enjoy facing the edge
Welcome to the edge where your fear meets your future.
This episode is a ritual of initiation for those who are done waiting for permission.
Inside: stories, truth bombs, nervous system wisdom, and a firestarter invocation to choose yourself—messy, trembling, and fully alive.
I dare you to choose boldness, move with your fear, and let your desire be bigger than your doubt.
This one’s not for the timid.
What if your wildness wasn’t a problem to tame… but a medicine to unleash?
In this solo episode, I speak from the fire about the unfiltered, expressive, sometimes chaotic way I move through life—and why it works.
Because behind the bluntness is attunement. Behind the wild is care. And behind the unhinged… is heart.
We explore:
• How to express boldly and hold space for how it impacted others
• The difference between self-abandonment and self-love
• What happens when we censor our truth to caretake others
• Why shame spirals keep us caged—and how to break out
• How I’ve built relationships that can hold fire, honesty, and repair
This one is for the expressive souls who’ve been told they’re “too much”—and are done shrinking.
It’s a deep dive into emotional integrity, power dynamics, and learning how to wield your truth without domination or collapse.
If you are feeling ready to embody more of yourself and give A LOT LESS F*CKS... this one is for you babe.
In this raw solo drop, I reflect on what it means to stay anchored in a world that’s constantly bombarding us with fear, tragedy, and overstimulation.
From the myth of Persephone to the realities of our modern nervous systems, I explore how technology has hijacked our sense of safety—and how we can reclaim it. This episode is a love letter to duality: to holding horror and beauty at once. To trusting chaos as part of the design. To remembering that you are your anchor, even in the darkest moments.
This isn’t about bypassing pain or pretending everything is okay. It’s about choosing to believe in something deeper, and building a connection to source that is yours alone.
Come meet me in the garden beyond right and wrong, and let’s talk about what it means to live anchored in faith in a world of overwhelm and hardship
What if the pleasure you’re chasing is actually pulling you further from what your soul craves?
In this solo episode, I crack open the difference between true embodied pleasure and the seductive trap of surface-level hedonism. We explore how overstimulation, shallow breath, and future-fixation rob us of the deeper, slower, more satisfying experiences that actually bring us alive.
This isn’t about denying desire—but about refining it.
Because real pleasure takes discipline. Devotion. Presence.And sometimes, the most erotic thing you can do is… let go.
Main points included in this episode:
You know what’s hotter than a perfectly planned date? A trench coat, a little improv, and a whole lot of imagination. In this episode, we’re diving headfirst into the world of roleplay
—not just as a tool for intimacy, but as a way to unlock your wildest archetypes, amplify connection, and turn up the volume on your erotic creativity.
Here’s the thing: roleplay isn’t about being “good” at it; it’s about having the audacity to let go of perfection and play. When you dare to embody the stranger, the seductress, or the bold adventurer, you’re not just spicing things up—you’re liberating the parts of you that crave expression and igniting deeper intimacy.
What’s inside this episode:
If you’re ready to drop the mundane, embrace a little mischief, and bring playful power into your intimacy, this episode will show you how.
The stars are calling, and 2025 is here to shake, shape, and inspire us into something entirely new. This episode dives deep into the astrological blueprint of the year ahead, offering insight into how to align with the cosmic currents of evolution and embody visionary leadership.
Together with my soul sister & astrology powerhouse Zoe Wind, we explore how to meet the chaos of change with grounded trust, dream bigger than ever, and reclaim our sovereign genius.
What to expect in this episode:
Get ready to dream, root, and revolutionize how you show up in the world.
In this deeply raw and transformative episode, we dive headfirst into the sacred realms of death, grief, and Eros—the untamed forces that shape our humanity.
We explore:
This episode invites you to rethink how you meet endings—not as moments of despair, but as sacred thresholds into deeper love, purpose, and aliveness.
What if the answers we seek have been rooted in the earth (and our bodies) all along?
In this soulful conversation, I sit down with Tyler, a shamanic bodyworker and medicine man, to explore plant medicine as allies, teachers, and guides in our journey back to our original essence.
Tyler shares his profound connection to Wachuma, the “book that can’t be burned,” and how this sacred medicine helps us return to the natural ways of being we’ve forgotten.
We dive deep into sexuality, ecstatic states, and the raw, untamed joy of reconnecting to the primal pulse of life.
Together, we uncover how plant medicine strips away the noise of conditioning, guiding us back to the pleasure, freedom, and truth of who we really are.
This episode is an invitation to remember, to feel, and to dance with the sacred in all of life.
I do so hope you enjoy
Xx
Hales
In this POTENT episode, I dive headfirst into dismantling the societal shackles that have been keeping your sexuality in a cage.
It’s time to reconnect with that wild, primal erotic energy that’s been waiting for you all along.
Ready to break some rules?
Here’s the juice of what we get into:
In this follow-up episode, we step deeper into the world of kink, unraveling misconceptions and inviting you to explore your desires without shame.
Joined again by my previous lover, we break down what it means to play with power and sensation in the bedroom, offering practical tips for beginners and seasoned lovers alike.
We debunk the myth that kink has to be aggressive or tied to pain, a narrative many have absorbed from porn.
Instead, we explore how to navigate force and dominance with care, intention, and devotion to your partner's pleasure.
This is for those curious souls who want to lean into their kinks, but don’t know where to start, and for the men who want to embody their dominant energy without mistaking it for aggression.
We guide you through conversations about desires, clear the shame, and show how embracing these taboo elements can bring you closer to your own erotic power.
Let’s dismantle the myths, play in the unknown, and uncover what truly sets you free.
This one feels super exciting and close to my heart
In this episode, we dive into the raw edges of desire and what it means to truly own your sexual truth.
Joined by a previous lover of mine who introduced me to polyamory and k*nk, we strip away the shame and conditioning that binds us.
We explore how curiosity about your desires can lead to deeper, more integrated relationships and how to talk about those desires with lovers or new connections.
He shares his journey from being caught in society’s narrative of polyamory being 'wrong' to using it as a path for growth, discernment, and a deeper connection to his purpose.
This is about more than sex—it's about stepping into your authentic self, shedding instant gratifications, and learning how to hold space for your partner’s emotional depths.
Ready to unlock the taboo and walk into the truth?
i just have to say it ....
THIS IS ONE OF MY FAVORITE EPISODES YET
this human, his words, his teachings, comes from a depth within him that stems lineages.
Channeling ancient messaging into relatable shares that makes it so easy for almost anyone to metabolize
Im obsessed. Will be going back to this one time & time again
Topics explored
-opening a monogomous love into a poly - explorative container
-what triggers are and how to claim new stories and responses in the body
-channeling & the akash
-clearing karmic memory from the body & lineage
-practical tips for nervous system balancing when triggered
-a deep & vulnerable share of what it was like for him to witness his whole life on fire when his house burned down
- &&& so much more
SO - get some organic popcorn with seaweed & spurlina (a personal fave of mine) and buckle up because this one is about to BLOW your MIND.
introducing my new course:
a course for the passionate man to rewrite & uplevel the way he relates to his séxuality .... and therefore his LIFE
I had the pleasure of sitting down with the incredible Devah for a deep dive on all things -
- connecting the genitals & the heart
- what the absence of that looks like, looking for validation outside of the self
- calling your power back
- circulating the turn on for enhancing the experience
- pleasuring your woman, touching her in a way she has never been touched
- what the experience of being worshipped does to a woman
- embracing the inner primal dominance as a man
- sacred intimate work; what it is and how it is changing the WORLD
Ooooh this one is so juicy. I brought on one of my favorite women to have a super fun talk on all things like: moving emotions through the body, somatic release, helpful insight for men to know on how to support her when she is experiencing a lot of emotions and how to spice up the passion in the bedroom.
We explore topics around:
If you have ever struggled to understand how to support your woman, this will provide SO much insight
About Anjelica
Anjelica is an Attune Coach & Ancient Ritual Guide specializing in helping individuals clear through shame to experience deeper liberation. Using breath, sound, and movement, she awakens people to their authentic expression and guides them to tap into their divine source energy. Anjelica supports personal transformations, especially for women who have lost their identity, and draws from her own profound life experiences and spiritual journey.
The best place to find her is @attuneanjelica on instagram
AND If you are curious about my new course EROTIC ACTIVATION, 4 week journey for the passionate man to harness his sexual force ... you can find more info HERE
Until next time sweet love!
my new course for men on harnessing the power of their sexual force is finally HERE. see more at
Exploring your turn on....
It’s actually so simple to live turned on
Turned on by life, romancing yourself in each moment
Not in hedonistic pleasures, that reaching for more (at some point it just plateaus)
Intentionally charging up our erotic current
Arousing our system
Tantra quite literally means to liberate and expand
Best way to get in body - through the five senses
Slowing down “what do i hear? see? smell? feel?" etc
Cultivating pleasure in every moment
In each moment we have a choice / feed the turn on and satisfaction or the suffering
GoddeX Elektra is a Professional Therapeutic Dominatrix working out of Boulder, CO.
She holds a master’s degree in mental health counseling and integrated these skills into her dominatrix work.
A few years ago, when we lived together, I would listen to her struggle and then flog her, quite intensely, with affirmative statements to pattern interrupt where she was stuck. And vice versa. All the time. It This was at the beginning of our individual journeys in the kink & BDSM world.
Kink can be a bridge between somatic therapy and sexuality.
In this episode we dive right into
- The stigma behind this industry
- How she got involved
- What a typical therapeutic dominatrix session looks like
- Examples of client breakthroughs
And of course, why this work is so deeply healing for people.
Can’t wait to hear your thoughts ~
To connect with Goddex Elektra -
Send an email to goddexelektra@gmail.com