In this episode we dive into the sacred art of choosing yourself.
Learn how to honor your boundaries without guilt, protect your energy, and stop offering your "pearls"- your love, wisdom, peace and time to those who cannot see their value.
Through spiritual insights, scripture and practicla guidance, we explore how self-respect is not selfishness, it's the foundation of your light, your power, and your peace.
Discover how to:
This episode is for anyone ready to reclaim their power, honor their worth, and shine unapologetically.
In this deeply reflective episode of Empowerment Junction, we explore the quiet truth behind overgiving—the moments when kindness, without boundaries, turns into self-betrayal.
We’ve all been there: saying yes when our hearts whispered no, pouring out until we’re empty, believing love and loyalty mean never walking away. But true growth often means releasing what once served us—and learning that peace is not found in people-pleasing, but in self-honouring.
Through honest reflection, powerful quotes, and soulful insight, I unpack how to balance compassion with self-respect, why letting go is not rejection but redirection, and how to live with integrity, intention, and grace.
✨ In this episode, we’ll explore:
How kindness becomes unhealthy when it lacks boundaries
Why overgiving leads to burnout, resentment, and loss of self
Practical steps to protect your peace without losing your empathy
How to grow and let go without guilt
Reflections inspired by Maya Angelou, Brianna Wiest, and other voices of wisdom
🎧 Because sometimes the hardest act of kindness is the one you show yourself.
📚 Episode Resources & Reflections:
Books & Articles:
“The Mountain Is You” by Brianna Wiest — understanding self-sabotage and emotional growth
“Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life” by Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
“The Gifts of Imperfection” by Brené Brown — embracing self-worth over perfection
“I Thought It Was Just Me (But It Isn’t)” by Brené Brown — understanding shame, empathy, and self-compassion
“The Language of Letting Go” by Melody Beattie — daily meditations on setting emotional boundaries
Quotes to Reflect On:
“Your new life is going to cost you your old one.” – Brianna Wiest
“You alone are enough. You have nothing to prove to anybody.” – Maya Angelou
“Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.” – Prentis Hemphill
Journaling Prompts:
Where in my life am I giving from a place of fear rather than love?
What does “protecting my peace” look like in this season?
What am I afraid will happen if I start saying no more often?
How can I redefine kindness to include myself?
In this episode of Empowerment Junction, we explore what it means to create safety after betrayal and how the power of boundaries can restore peace, dignity, and healing. Drawing on faith, psychology, and personal empowerment, this episode unpacks why boundaries matter, how to set them effectively, and how renewing the mind helps rebuild trust within yourself.
📚 Episode Resources
Books & Academic Reads
Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend – Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No to Take Control of Your Life
A foundational book on setting healthy boundaries in relationships.
Dr. Bessel van der Kolk – The Body Keeps the Score
Explores how trauma affects the body and mind, and practical steps for healing.
Dr. Jennifer Freyd – Betrayal Trauma: The Logic of Forgetting Childhood Abuse
Introduces the concept of betrayal trauma and why broken trust deeply impacts safety.
Brené Brown – The Gifts of Imperfection
Offers insight into courage, vulnerability, and boundary-setting as acts of self-compassion.
Faith-Based Resources
Romans 12:2 – “Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.”
Philippians 4:8 – Meditate on what is true, noble, right, pure, and lovely.
Boundaries: A Biblical View (Christian Counseling resources, many articles available online).
Practical Support
National Domestic Violence Helpline (UK: 0808 2000 247 | US: 800-799-7233) for anyone experiencing unsafe environments.
Faithful Counseling – online counseling integrating professional therapy with Christian values.
betrayaltraumarecovery.org – resources, podcasts, and support groups for betrayal trauma healing.
Are you holding on so tightly to the past—whether it’s a job, a relationship, or even a self-limiting belief—that you’ve left no space for growth?
In this episode of Empowerment Junction, we explore the life-changing power of letting go. Drawing on research, scripture, and even a touching childhood story Trevor Noah shares in Born a Crime, you’ll discover that letting go isn’t about losing—it’s about creating space for new opportunities, deeper peace, and greater abundance.
You’ll walk away with practical steps to identify what you’re tolerating, release what no longer serves you, and step into renewal with clarity and purpose.
📚 Episode Resources: The Power of Letting Go and Renewal📖 Books
In this episode of Empowerment Junction, we explore the timeless truth that restoration is always possible—no matter the challenges, losses, or setbacks we face. Drawing from the lives of King David, the prophet Isaiah, and lessons in Deuteronomy, I share five biblical principles that guide us on the path to renewal, resilience, and hope.
In this episode we also reflects on September as a season of harvest, transition, and God’s appointed times. It’s an invitation to embrace your season of restoration and trust that God is always at work, preparing a harvest in your life.
Scripture References:
Galatians 6:9 – “At the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”
Psalm 51 – David’s prayer of restoration.
Isaiah 61:7 – God’s promise of double portion and everlasting joy.
Deuteronomy 30:3 – God restores His people.
Five Key Principles of Restoration (covered in the episode):
Acknowledge and surrender your brokenness to God.
Trust God’s timing and His seasons.
Allow renewal through God’s Word and Spirit.
Walk in obedience and faith, even when the path feels uncertain.
Celebrate the harvest—recognizing God’s faithfulness in restoration.
📝 Episode Notes📚 Resources & Further Reading
The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle (for mindful presence in seasons of change)
Bible Project video: Themes of Restoration in Scripture
Previous Empowerment Junction episode: Can Giving Thanks Make You Happier?
In this episode, we dive deep into the powerful journey of restoration—how to rebuild what life tried to break. Drawing inspiration from remarkable stories of resilience, including J.K. Rowling’s rise from rejection to global success, Maya Angelou’s unwavering spirit in the face of trauma, and the biblical story of Job’s profound restoration, we uncover timeless strategies to heal spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
You’ll learn practical steps to reclaim your strength, nurture your mental health, and prepare for a hopeful future, even when life’s hardest trials seem overwhelming. Discover how persistence, faith, and resilience can transform loss into opportunity and pain into purpose.
We also explore modern insights on resilience and restoration from recent research and expert thought leaders, offering you a toolkit of inspiration and actionable advice to help you rise stronger than ever.
Recent Articles and Resources to Add:
J.K. Rowling's Journey of Resilience — A 2025 motivational article highlighting her persistence through rejection and hardship, emphasizing the power of believing in yourself despite setbacks. (Source: Vocal Media, 2025)
Maya Angelou: A Testament to Resilience and Courage — A reflection on Angelou's life lessons of strength, refusal to be defeated by life's hardships, and transforming trauma into creativity and empowerment (New Age Islam, 2025)
Why Does God Restore Job? — An insightful exploration of Job’s story emphasizing divine sovereignty in restoration, with reflections on patience, faith, and acceptance amid suffering (The Gospel Coalition, 2023)
Lessons in Resilience from J.K. Rowling — Discusses Rowling’s mindset, overcoming depression, and dedication to her writing amid adversity, illustrating mental toughness and hope (Fran Clark, Author, 2024)
Rising Stronger with Maya Angelou’s Timeless Wisdom — Highlights Angelou’s journey from trauma to becoming a symbol of perseverance and grace, offering encouragement for listeners to harness inner strength (Fran Clark, Author, 2024)
Trauma and Belonging in the Book of Job — A modern take on Job’s story linking trauma, resilience, and the need for community support during recovery (Sanctuary Mental Health, 2023)
In this episode of Empowerment Junction, I dive into the wisdom of Slay In Your Lane by Yomi Adegoke and Elizabeth Uviebinené, a powerful guide for Black women navigating life, love, and career in a world full of unspoken rules and systemic biases.
We explore:
The art of owning your identity without apology.
Hair as liberation – inspired by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s Americanah.
The reality of racial fetishisation – past and present – including the tragic history of Sarah Baartman.
Career visibility: the "Now you see me, now you don’t" challenge Black women often face.
How to stop performing for others’ comfort and start living for your own truth.
A spiritual reminder that prayer is the place of empowerment where you go from pain to power.
This is an unfiltered, truth-telling conversation for Black women ready to slay their lane, set boundaries, and step into God-given purpose.
🎯 Listen if you want to:
Gain practical tips for navigating the workplace, relationships, and social spaces as a Black woman.
Understand the link between racial fetishisation and historic oppression.
Learn how to protect your peace while thriving in your lane.
💬 Join the conversation: Share your thoughts on our SM platforms @EmpowermentJunctionPodcast
📚 Resources & References
Book: Slay In Your Lane – Yomi Adegoke & Elizabeth Uviebinené
Book: Americanah – Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Essay: We Should All Be Feminists – Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
Historical Account: Sarah Baartman, “Hottentot Venus” – South African History Archive
Article: “The Fetishisation of Black Women” – The Guardian
TED Talk: The Danger of a Single Story – Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie
In this powerful episode, I reflect on a personal story shared by a listener — one that captures the suffocating silence many professionals of colour face in the workplace. From subtle power dynamics to outright racialised control, we unpack how racism is often embedded structurally, not just personally. This episode explores how to navigate such environments with dignity, awareness, and self-preservation.
Key Themes:
Honoring Dr. Antoinette Candia-Bailey: A Legacy Cut Short by Workplace Racism
Dr. Antoinette “Bonnie” Candia-Bailey (March 12, 1974 – January 8, 2024) was a trailblazing academic administrator and passionate advocate for diversity, equity, and justice in higher education. A native of Chicago, she devoted over 23 years to serving students and championing marginalized voices in roles across multiple universities, including Lincoln University of Missouri, where she became Vice President for Student Affairs.
Dr. Candia-Bailey’s groundbreaking dissertation explored the barriers faced by Black women in academic leadership—a struggle she would experience firsthand. Despite her impressive credentials and dedication, she encountered workplace bullying, gaslighting, and exclusion at Lincoln University, culminating in her tragic suicide in January 2024. Her story sparked a national reckoning about the urgent need for systemic change, the toll of racial trauma, and the importance of safe, mentally healthy working environments for Black women and other minoritized groups.
Her legacy lives on as a powerful reminder: addressing racism at work is not just about policy—it is about dignity, safety, and saving lives.
The tragedy of workplace bullying (opinion)
Referenced Works:
Wellbeing Resources:
Listener Shout-Out:
Thanks to everyone who tuned in to our last episode on “How to Bounce Back from a Personal Crisis”, requested by Sade. The episode reached new wavelengths! I’ve had so many thoughtful questions come through, and I’m working through them slowly — keep them coming!
🎧 If you haven’t already, check it out!
Have you ever felt like life knocked the wind out of you? You’re not alone—and this episode of Empowerment Junction is here to remind you that bouncing back is possible.
Inspired by one of our listeners, we take a deep dive into how to rebuild after personal crises. Drawing from the insights of renowned crisis manager Judy Smith, author of Good Self, Bad Self and the real-life inspiration behind the hit show Scandal, we explore how to regain control, rebuild confidence, and move forward with strength and clarity.
This conversation is packed with practical strategies, expert perspectives, and words of encouragement to support your recovery and growth. Whether you're navigating loss, burnout, or a major life shift, this episode will help you find your footing again.
🎧 Listen now and don’t forget to subscribe—we’re now on YouTube, Spotify, Goodpods, and all major platforms.
Episode Resources:
Book: Good Self, Bad Self: Transforming Your Worst Qualities into Your Biggest Assets by Judy Smith
Available on Amazon
Article: Psychology Today – 10 Ways to Bounce Back from a Crisis
Podcast Recommendation: The Resilience Podcast – Real Stories of Overcoming Adversity
Free Worksheet: Personal Crisis Recovery Map – download from our show notes or website
In this powerful series finale of debunking the lies we confront one of the most deliberately erased tragedies in American history — The 1921 Tulsa Race Massacre.
From the brilliance of Black Wall Street to the ashes of Greenwood, this episode explores the truths that textbooks left out, connecting the silence of the past to the inequalities we still face today. We draw parallels between the massacre, systemic erasure, and the resilience rooted in faith, spirit, and identity.
We explore:
As we close this series on debunking the lies — from education and healthcare to media narratives and historical whitewashing — this episode calls us not only to remember but to rise.
✨ Because the truth is sacred. And so is your resilience.
🎙️ Tap play to listen. Then reflect, rise, and reclaim.
📚 Resources for Further Exploration🔥 Documentaries & Films:
📖 Articles & Archives:📚 Books:🎧 Related Podcast Episodes & Talks:🙏🏾 Faith & Reflection:
Throughout the episode, we reflect on the Israelites’ liberation as a spiritual metaphor for Black resilience. Here are a few anchoring scriptures to hold:
🙏 Reflect & Reclaim
Journal prompts for listeners and readers:
Share your thoughts, responses, or questions:📩 Email Olivia at : busseyolivia@outlook.com
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In this deeply personal and eye-opening episode, I share the story of my late mother, whose delayed diagnosis and treatment reveal the devastating consequences of being invisible in a healthcare system that too often fails Black women.
Drawing inspiration from Invisible Women by Caroline Criado Perez, we confront the dangerous myth that Black women feel less pain—a lie rooted in historical racism and perpetuated in modern medicine. I share my own lived experience of becoming a mother and navigating a system where being seen, heard, and believed isn’t always a given.
This episode is both a tribute and a call to action. We unpack the statistics, expose the biases, and arm you with tools to advocate for yourself and those you love. Because your pain is real. Your health matters. And your voice must be heard.
Episode Notes Uterine Cancer and Ethnicity (UK)
Recent UK data shows that Black women in England are more than twice as likely to die from womb (uterine) cancer as white women. According to the Office for National Statistics and featured in a 2024 UK cancer care summary, between 2017 and 2019, mortality rates for Black women were over two times higher than their white counterparts—a gap directly tied to late diagnosis and barriers in healthcare access. For the latest uterine cancer facts, visit the Cancer Research UK mortality statistics page Black women at greater risk of dying from uterine cancer | News | University ofLeicester
Uterine cancer statistics | Cancer Research UK
Uterine cancer mortality and Black women: time to act - The Lancet Oncology
Black women have a higher risk of advanced stage uterine cancer - GatewayC
A recent commentary with data from the ONS highlights that 78% of Black women in the UK do not believe their health is as equally protected by the NHS as white women’s. This significant lack of trust is widely cited as a barrier to timely health-seeking behavior and equitable care. Campaigns such as Five X More continue to raise awareness and advocate for better outcomes.
The MBRRACE-UK Report 2023 confirms that Black women are 3.7 times more likely to die during or shortly after childbirth compared to white women. These persistent disparities are a significant focus of recent public health campaigns and UK government action [MBRRACE-UK Report, 2023].
Studies routinely show up to 80% of Black women develop uterine fibroids by age 50, often with more severe symptoms and earlier onset compared to women of other ethnicities. Fibroid prevalence and impact is a leading reproductive health concern for Black British women, regularly documented in resources from Cancer Research UK and partner organizations
Black Women’s Confidence in the NHSMaternal Mortality in the UKUterine Fibroids in Black Women
Invisible Women: Exposing Data Bias in a World Designed for Men – Caroline Criado Perez
Medical Apartheid – Harriet A. Washington
The Pain Gap: How Sexism and Racism in Healthcare Kill Women – Anushay Hossain
Birthrights Report: Systemic Racism, Not Broken Bodies (2022) – birthrights.org.uk
PALS (Patient Advice and Liaison Service)
Offers support and advice if you’re not being heard by NHS providers.
Find your local PALS
Five X More – Black maternal health awareness and advocacy
https://fivexmore.com
Tommy’s Charity – Support and research for pregnancy loss and maternal health disparities
https://www.tommys.org
Birthrights – Legal support and advocacy for respectful maternity care
https://www.birthrights.org.uk
📚 Relevant Resources & NHS Data🔍 Key Statistics & Reports📘 Recommended Reading🛠️ Health Advocacy Tools.
We're often told that education is the great equaliser, the key to unlocking opportunity for all. But what if that very system is instead a mirror, starkly reflecting the deep-seated inequalities of our society? Join me as we delve into the UK education system, armed with ONS data, to expose the uncomfortable truth: the profound disparities rooted in wealth and class.
From the chasm in resources between private and state schools to the undeniable overrepresentation of the privileged in coveted high-status careers, we're dismantling the myth of a level playing field. And in doing so, we'll confront a difficult question: is it time we had a more honest conversation with our children and young adults, acknowledging that sometimes, no matter how diligently they strive, some doors may remain stubbornly closed?
Episode Resources:
1. Equality trust link -
https://equalitytrust.org.uk/scale-economic-inequality-uk/
The UK has very high inequality of income compared to other developed countries; the 9th most unequal incomes of 38 OECD countries (OECD, 2022).
The UK’s wealth inequality is much more severe than income inequality, with the top fifth taking 36% of the country’s income and 63% of the country’s wealth, while the bottom fifth have only 8% of the income and only 0.5% of the wealthaccording to the Office for National Statistics.
Inequality of wealth and income fell during the 20th century, but began rising again in the 1980s.
UK INCOME INEQUALITYUK WEALTH INEQUALITYGLOBAL WEALTH & INCOME INEQUALITY
3. Private schools and inequality
Private schools and inequality
2025 and the graduate labour market | Luminate
New survey shows the extent of class privilege in UK journalism
UK journalists are getting older, more left-wing and increasingly work freelance - Press Gazette
New survey shows the extent of class privilege in UK journalism
Changes to tuition fees: 2025 to 2026 academic year - GOV.UK
UK tuition fees for international students
International student tuition fees
The Fiscal Impact of Immigration in the UK - Migration Observatory
Net migration report (accessible) - GOV.UK
The impact of migration on the fiscal forecast - Office for Budget Responsibility
Immigrants’ Economic Contributions to the UK | DavidsonMorris
Further Resources:
Universities UK: Represents UK universities and publishes data and reports on higher education, including the contribution of international students.
Welcome to Series 1 of Debunking the Lies That Bind. In this opening episode, we take a bold step into the deeply rooted narratives that have shaped women's lives — the ones passed down through education, culture, and even the silence of history.
We’ll challenge the myth that a woman’s value lies in how she conforms, not in how she contributes. We’ll revisit powerful moments like Charles Moore’s lens on injustice and Katherine Switzer’s defiant marathon, asking: What else have we inherited without question?
This is the beginning of unlearning — and of finding truth in our voices.
Episode Resources:
1. The Lies That Bind (Rethinking Identity) Kwame Anthony Appiah) Creed, Country, Colour, Class Culture..
A personal and powerful essay from Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, the bestselling author of Americanah and Half of a Yellow Sun.
‘I would like to ask that we begin to dream about and plan for a different world. A fairer world. A world of happier men and happier women who are truer to themselves. And this is how to start: we must raise our daughters differently.
3. Charles Lee Moore (March 9, 1931 – March 11, 2010) was an American photographerknown for his photographs documenting the Civil Rights Movement. Probably his most famous photo is of Martin Luther King Jr.'s arrest for loitering on September 3, 1958. It is this photo that sparked Moore's involvement in the Civil Rights Movement.
4. Kathrine Virginia Switzer (born January 5, 1947)[1] is an American marathon runner, author, and television commentator.[2]
In 1967, she became the first woman to run the Boston Marathon as an officially registered competitor.[3] During her run, the race manager Jock Semple assaulted Switzer, trying to grab her bib number and thereby remove her from official competition. After knocking down Switzer's trainer and fellow runner, Arnie Briggs, when he tried to protect her, Semple was shoved to the ground by Switzer's boyfriend, Thomas Miller, who was running with her, and she completed the race.[3]
As a result of her run, the AAU banned women from competing in races against men.[4] It was not until 1972 that the Boston Marathon established an official women's race.[5]
Read about the mental and spiritual health benefits of boundaries:
Internal Boundaries The Key to Spiritual Integration and Emotional Balance |HealthyPlace
Expert perspective: What sort of spiritual boundaries should we set in our lives? | GotQuestions.org
Have you ever felt the sting of rejection and wondered how to rise above it? In this deeply personal episode of Empowerment Junction we honor the legacy of Dr. Maya Angelou, born on April 4th, and revisit her powerful memoirs. Join us as we explore her early experiences with racism, trauma, and societal barriers, and draw profound parallels to the challenges faced by many people today. Through Maya's story and her iconic poem "Still I Rise," we uncover practical, modern strategies for overcoming the spirit of rejection. Learn how to forgive, recognize negative patterns, cultivate inner strength, and embrace your true identity. This episode is a powerful reminder that, like Maya, you too can turn pain into purpose and rejection into resilience.
Resource Ideas for Further Reading :
Books by Maya Angelou:
Other Recommended Reads:
Online Resources:
Verses Emphasizing God's Love, Acceptance, and Value:
Jeremiah 1:5 (Knowing You in the Womb): "Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, and before you were born I consecrated you; I appointed you a prophet to the nations."
Psalm 139:13-16 (Fearfully and Wonderfully Made): "You saw me before I was born. Every day of my life was recorded in your book. Every moment was laid out before a single day had passed."
Romans 8:38-39 (Nothing Can Separate Us from God's Love): "For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord."
1 Peter 2:9 (Chosen and Precious): "But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light."
Ephesians 1:4-6 (Chosen Before Creation): "For he chose us in him before the creation of the world to be holy and blameless in his sight. In love he predestined us for adoption to sonship through Jesus Christ, in accordance with his pleasure and will—to the praise of his glorious grace, which he has freely given us in the One he loves."
Verses Offering Comfort and Strength in Times of Difficulty:
Psalm 34:18 (God is Near the Brokenhearted): "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."
Isaiah 41:10 (Do Not Fear, For I Am With You): "So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand."
2 Corinthians 12:9 (God's Grace is Sufficient): "But he said to me, 'My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.'
Jesus and the Rich Man:
There are a few encounters Jesus has with wealthy individuals, but the most prominent one related to letting go of earthly possessions for spiritual gain is the story of the Rich Young Ruler found in:
Isaiah 64:8: "But now, O LORD, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand."
In this episode 5 season 2 of Empowerment Junction Podcast, we explore the importance of guarding your spiritual, mental, and emotional gates. Just as airport security is designed to prevent dangerous items from getting on board, our spiritual lives require vigilance to protect against destructive influences.
We’ll reflect on the 9/11 attacks and the lessons learned about security, discipline, and preparedness. We’ll also discuss the spirit of Jezebel, how it operates through deception and manipulation, and why spiritual discernment is crucial in today’s world.
🔍 Are you monitoring what enters through your eye and ear gates?
🔍 Could weak spiritual defenses be leaving you vulnerable to dark influences?
🔍 What steps can you take to strengthen your spiritual security system?
Join me as we uncover the hidden battles around us and learn how to stand firm in faith, wisdom, and truth.
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This episode of Empowerment Junction explores the vital connection between trusting your intuition and setting strong personal boundaries. We delve into real-life scenarios and psychological concepts that highlight how crucial these skills are for navigating life's challenges.
We examine a chilling true story from 1974 that demonstrates the power of intuition in life-threatening situations and explore the science behind these gut feelings, referencing research into the 'sixth sense.'
We also discuss a well-known psychological thriller that serves as a cautionary tale about boundary violations and the concept of 'destiny swapping.' This idea is further examined through the lens of Robert Greene’s The Laws of Human Nature, which provides a framework for understanding manipulative behaviour and the stages of envy.
I also share my personal experience with spiritual manipulation in the workplace, emphasising the importance of recognising red flags and reclaiming personal power. This episode is about empowering you to trust your inner voice and build a life on your own terms.
Detailed Episode Resources
:Intuition & Scientific Research
Department of Defence Research on Intuition:
https://youtu.be/Ohld4Aaun10?si=IiVRf0FaPbNGnFa5
Scepticism on the Sixth Sense:
https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/jan/14/researchers-dismiss-sixth-sense
Robert Greene, The Laws of Human Nature-
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=So7X2huT1hohttps://www.amazon.co.uk/Laws-Human-Nature-Robert-Greene/dp/1788161556
My Personal Story of Spiritual Manipulation in the Workplace:
https://youtu.be/Dnes70Ra7YAsi=vD84BoZj_uAB5Gr
Exposing Workplace Witchcraft and Dark Magic:Protect Yourself from Spiritual Attacks:
https://youtube.com/watch?v=Dnes70Ra7YA&si=lHgMT3QaauzA6_1_
Are you constantly feeling drained, even after a full night's sleep? Do apathy, hopelessness, or fear creep into your daily life? You might be dealing with energy vampires.
In this episode, we delve into the world of toxic relationships and situations that steal your joy and vitality. Learn how to recognize these energy drainers, set powerful boundaries, and reclaim your peace. It's time to protect your energy and thrive.
Resources Mentioned in this Episode:
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3. James Kawalya testimony Ex Satanist & High Ranking African Warlock | James Kawalya Interview
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Is that nagging voice in your head holding you back? In this episode, we're diving deep into how to silence your inner critic and unleash your true potential.
Learn practical strategies to challenge negative thoughts, cultivate self-compassion, and build unshakeable confidence. Stop letting self-doubt control your life – it's time to take charge! . #InnerCritic #SelfCompassion #Confidence #Podcast"
Book and Resource Recommendations :
Resources mentioned in this episode:
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Do you ever feel like some people dislike you for no reason? Maybe your energy, achievements, or simply your presence triggers something in them.
But remember: someone else’s opinion of you does not define your worth.
In this episode, we’ll explore why people hate without cause, how to rise above negativity, and how to maintain unwavering self-worth despite external judgment. I’ll share practical strategies, empowering insights, and powerful reminders that you are enough—just as you are.
Tune in to learn how to:
Break free from letting others’ opinions affect your inner peace. Use hate as fuel to propel you toward greater success. Reaffirm your self-worth even in the face of criticism.Resources to Share
Books:
“The Four Agreements” by Don Miguel Ruiz – Especially the second agreement: "Don’t take anything personally." “Rising Strong” by Brené Brown – On embracing resilience and staying strong when faced with criticism or judgment. “Unstoppable: How to Be a Rock Star, Survive Your Haters, and Build Your Brand” by Danielle LaPorte – A motivational guide for dealing with critics.Articles/Studies:
"Why Do People Hate Others Who Succeed?" – Research explains envy and insecurity as reasons behind unwarranted hate. Psychology Today: "Dealing With Haters" – Tips on why hate happens and how to respond effectively. Medium.com: "Owning Your Confidence Even When They Doubt You" – A reflective read on rising above external negativity.Podcasts (to cross-reference):
Jay Shetty’s "On Purpose" podcast episode on dealing with negativity. Oprah’s SuperSoul Conversations: “Knowing Your Worth.”Bible Verses
"If the world hates you, know that it hated me first." - John 15:18 "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." - Romans 12:21