Hello DT Fam and welcome to my Fantasy Series with Niki (FSWN), a play on the NSWF acronym if you will. Today, I am introducing the project I have been working on for close to two years now, titled the Book of Lovers. I plan to release this book as an e-book on Amazon, so stay tuned for the pre-sale link and more updates! Hope you all enjoy :)

Welcome back DT Fam! This episode is a bit of a walk down memory lane for the podcast. After celebrating four years of doing the pod in June, we discuss favorite guests, inspirational moments, things we wish we had done differently, and how our twin divorce is going. But most of all, we want to thank all of you for joining us on this journey. I know we've said it a million times, but it is true: your support and love for this podcast has been so fulfilling and this podcast is what it is because of all of you. So thank you :)

Welcome back DT Fam for another Throwback Thursday! This week we are bringing back our episode with Laura Ramadei, co-host of the Girls On Porn Podcast, which was a huge inspiration for us back when we started the pod. I remember meeting her at a play party and being so excited for the opportunity to record an episode together. She was such a great guest, super knowledgable and easy to talk to. We dive into the evolution of porn, favorite categories and guilty pleasures, as well as the creation of her show. Enjoy!

Welcome back DT Fam :) Cami is doing a solo episode from San Diego, giving us an update on living alone (apart from Niki), adjusting to a new city, and trying to find a new sense of security and routine. She also dives into co-sleeping with her boyfriend when they spend the night at each other's places. How do you feel about separate blankets? What about separate rooms altogether? Enjoy a deep, restful night's sleep with a new Birch mattress! Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off sitewide.

DT FAM for this week, let's throw it back to November 2023, when we recorded with Colette Pervette, a professional Domme and Educatrix. She had some *WILD* stories... one that even had our producer leaving the room to gather himself for 5 minutes. Listening back to this episode was so fun for me, and I hope you all enjoy it just as much all over again. We will be back with a new episode next week!

Welcome back DT Fam! Back in April, Niki asked our IG followers what they would do differently if they could restart their non-monogamous journey all over again. The responses definitely had a few themes, so we discuss those in today's episode: tune in to find out! If you're over 21, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM for savings on your order :)

Welcome back DT Fam :) Today, we are diving into a topic we briefly covered on Steff's pod (Broke Girl Therapy): high and low libidos! Chances are one of you in the relationship has a higher or lower libido than the other, and there are ways to work through this issue. We discuss some of the mindsets and methods we employ, such as communication tactics, conversation starters, and more. We also briefly touch on using non-monogamy as a tool for couples looking to bridge the gap with the help of others outside the relationship. Hope you enjoy! For those of you over 21, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings ! Order your vaginal microbiome test at Evvy with code DTFAM10 and take charge of your vaginal health today!

Welcome back DT Fam! Cami is here with a Vanilla Sunday all about her course, Empowering Caretakers:NAVIGATING SEX EDUCATION CONVERSATIONS WITH KIDS AND TEENS. She's discussed a bit of it on the podcast here and there, but this is a more in depth look, featuring some of the fascinating things she learned along the way and a look at her experience in creating this course. For current or future parents, this is a great listen and we hope you enjoy! Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off your course :)

Welcome back DT Fam! Just the two of us this week :) Given our long distance relationships, we dive into the topic of wanking together with your partner, especially over FaceTime. For LDR couples, this is a great episode going over some tips, finding the confidence, and using this as a way to continue building intimacy together. Enjoy! Enjoy a restful night's sleep with a new Birch mattress made of quality and luxurious materials from Birch Living! Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off your new Birch mattress. If you're 21 and over, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp Co and use code DTFAM at checkout.

Welcome back DT Fam! Today, we go over listener submissions of ways to surprise your partner. Niki asked our IG followers for some inspiration, and you guys delivered great recommendations :) From heartfelt gestures involving fire places to sexy stickers, tune in to find out! If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies and drops at VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings and free shipping.

Welcome back DT Fam! On today's episode, we've got a Vag Fact to share with you that had us both infuriated. We also talk about internalization and how not to take things personally if your partner is having a bad day (it's not your fault!). We also lay out the female cycle and how to best support your period having partner during each phase :) Get your vaginal microbiome tested with Evvy! Use code DTFAM10 at checkout for savings on your test. Enjoy a great night's sleep with a Birch Mattress! Go to birchliving.com/dtf and get 27% Off sitewide + 2 free Eco-Rest Pillows with your mattress purchase! If you're 21 and over, get our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp! Use code DTFAM at checkout!

Welcome back DT Fam! Today we welcome back Brittany Brave, a comedian who we met thru the pod years ago! For anyone that has been here since day one, she was one of the first guests we had on the show. This conversation takes many turns, we dive into: how your 20s are for mistakes and your 30s are for maturity, learning to leave (a bad relationship) and trusting yourself to do so, updating your beneficiary on your life insurance policy, and how to support single friends. Trigger warning: we do touch on some topics of domestic violence and abortion. Hope you all enjoy- Brittany is always hilarious!

Welcome back DT Fam! If you remember Dr. Joli Hamilton from our last episode with her, she is back and we are talking about jealousy again. This time... all about retroactive jealousy and how our imagination shapes those jealous feelings. We also dive into a lot of the studies done around jealousy, including findings, what they measured, how they defined jealousy, and more. How do you define jealousy? What were you taught about jealousy as a child? If you struggle with jealousy, this episode is for you. If it's time for a new mattress, you need to check out Birch where comfort and quality combine to give you a great night's sleep. Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off your order! If you're 21 and over, head on over to VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings on your gummies!

Welcome back DT Fam :) Pete joins us yet again, and this time we are talking about girls night vs. guys night? Based on a viral Tiktok where the girl asks the group if her bf can come, we explore the question - is it okay to bring your significant other to girls/guys night? What if they're having a crappy day, do you stay home with them or continue on with your plans? Find new friends or lovers with FEELD! Download on Google Play or the App Store today. If you're 21 and over, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp, use code DTFAM at checkout for savings!

Welcome back DT Fam! Molly Tullis joins us on the pod today, she is a romantic fiction author that we have been following for years. If you're into spicy books, this episode is for you. From the books that featured the first sex scenes we read about, to the ones that healed our parental wounds, it is pretty amazing what reading (and writing!) can do for us. Hope you enjoy :) Spring is here and it is time to get out and meet people! Check out Feeld to make some connections, download on Google Play or the App Store today!

Welcome back DT Fam! We are moving from Los Angeles, and we take a walk down memory lane. This is the city where we became creators and started the pod! Also where we had so many firsts and explored every play party we could find, thanks to the people who welcomed us into the world of play parties. Join us as we dive into some fun memories and recommendations. Check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings :) Find new connections on Feeld! Download on Google Play or the App Store today. Test your microbiome with Evvy and use code DTFAM10 at checkout!

Welcome back DT Fam! Today, Frank Arthur Smith is back on the show - he is the creator of Open To It, a series about a polyamorous gay couple exploring the ins and outs of their non-monogamous relationship. Our first episode with him was all about season 1, and this episode is about season 2, where they explore themes of intentional ENM exploration, deepening meaningful connections, and reflecting on fulfillment and satisfaction in one's journey. This season also features bisexual representation, parental discoveries, and inter-abled relationships. We LOVED this season, and we hope you do too, so go check it out! If you're looking for new ways to connect with people, check out Feeld on the App Store and Google Play today! Try our fav personal lubricants from Personal Fav! Use code FAVDT at checkout for 20% off :)

Welcome back DT Fam! Niki read an article about how 41% of Gen Z is interested in exploring open relationships... which is a lot! SO, as two people who have had their fair share of non-monogamous exploration, here are six tips to help anyone who is interested in diving into the world of non-traditional relationship structures. The book Niki mentioned was, More: A Memoir of Open Marriage by Molly Roden Winter. If you're 21 and over, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp & save money with code DTFAM! Use better lube, try Whet and Pique from Personal Fav! Use code FAVDT at checkout. Parents and caretakers, give your child the s*x talk they deserve with Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers, use code EMPOWER for 10$ off

Welcome back DT Fam! Madelyn Moon joins us today, she is a somatic facilitator and author of Artist of Love. She loves championing self expression through creative acting methods, and we dive into those. So if you're struggling to say something and you want to approach it in a different way so you can say what you want to say, give this episode a listen and see if maybe it helps you out. If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp, and use code DTFAM for 15% off your order! Meet new people with Feeld! Download it at the Apple Store and Google Play. Try Whet or Pique from Personal Fav and use code FAVDT at checkout :) It is our absolute favorite!! Check out Cami's course, Empowered Caretakers, to learn how to give your children an informed talk about their s*xual health. Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off!

Welcome back DT Fam! Two friends of ours told us to listen to a podcast about a (married) woman who had a ChatGPT boyfriend. Niki listened to the podcast and recounts it all to Cami, bringing us to ask ourselves.. how do we feel about AI/ChatGPT relationship? If you'd like to listen to the original podcast episode, it is linked here. Curious to hear your thoughts!! DM us on Instagram or comment on YouTube, or write into our website. If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp, and use code DTFAM for 15% off your order! Meet new people with Feeld! Download it at the Apple Store and Google Play. Check out Cami's course, Empowered Caretakers, to learn how to give your children an informed talk about their s*xual health. Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off!