Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
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Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Wedding refund after a death
Melisa: Rapture rant
But Are You Wrong:
Out of his league
Talking to his ex again
But Are They Wrong:
Meghan: The MAGA Dentist
Melisa: Arrowhead Union High School
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This week, we dive into a brief but thought-provoking discussion on the rapture before we into talking about TikTok beefs we created ourselves. We hear all about Meghan's niece's fun birthday bash and Melisa's experience of being eaten up at an adult birthday celebration. Plus, Melisa gives us the details from Edwina's book signing. Finally, we break down all the latest news and performances from Dancing with the Stars.
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This week, Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Being an entrepreneur that's not making money
Dropping the news that you're going to be a mother
Staying entertained when you have a newborn
Don't Blame Them: Therapist in your friend group
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Splitting the Grocery Bill.
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But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: All football players should be wearing the Guardian cap
Meghan: It’s crazy to admit to crimes in a published novel
But Are You Wrong:
Mom is urging you to date an older man
Considering a friendship with your ex
But Are They Wrong:
Melisa: Michael Scaletta Teates
Meghan: Kansas City Chiefs
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In this week’s episode, Melisa is triggered by a sfx from a song that Meghan brought up. Meghan surprises Melisa with a new podcast from Ned of The Try Guys. The chaos continues as Melisa recounts her personal hell while getting her hair done, and Meghan shares some of her go-to YouTube lore. Melisa also riles Meghan up by watching a lot of shows that weren't recommended.
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On this episode, Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
Hooking up with a man who sees you as a womb
Wasting time on a guy that doesn’t want to see you in person
How to build sexual confidence
Don’t Blame Me/Update - When to Have the Talk (March 20, 2025)
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Like Kissing Crypto-Obsessed Cousin.
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But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Justice for raisins
Melisa: Have decorum at sporting events
But Are You Wrong:
Roommates expecting you to pay for groceries
Friend's toxic boyfriend
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Meghan: Oura Ring
Melisa: Tori Branum
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This week, Meghan and Melisa dive into the chaos of Citizen app notifications, sharing some of the wild alerts they’ve received. The discussion then shifts to the latest in television with a look at The Studio and Hacks, exploring how both series offer a satirical, behind-the-scenes look at the entertainment industry from different perspectives. The hosts also take a deep dive into the filmography of director Spike Lee, examining his unique visual style and consistent focus on social and political issues. Finally, the episode concludes with a segment on KJ Apa's new musical alter ego, Mr. Fantasy, examining this enigmatic online persona that has been making waves on TikTok.
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This week, Meghan and Melisa share advice on:
What not to do when you meet your partner's mom
Being jealous of others' relationship with their parents
When to introduce a man to your child
Meeting the right person at the wrong time
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Media Literacy.
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But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: Letter to Southern Racists
Meghan: Burning Man Attendants
But Are You Wrong:
Boyfriend is following his ex
Too many green flags
But Are They Wrong:
Melisa: Matthew Mastronardi
Meghan: Sansum Health
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This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on:
Getting used to doing things alone
Finding out your therapist is in your friend group
Update: When to Have the Talk (March 20, 2025)
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Hooking Up In God's Time.
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But Am I Wrong:
Meghan: Benson Boone has an op
Melisa: We need more career politicians
But Are You Wrong:
People need more
But Are They Wrong:
Meghan: Betty Who
Melisa: Jelena Ostapenko
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Meghan's redecorating her bedroom and got a great deal on a new grill. Meanwhile, Melisa is navigating the chaos of moving and channeling her excitement into decorating her new space. She also shares a recent visit to an art show. Plus, Meghan gives her take on the new show Zero Day.
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On this episode of Don't Blame Me, Meghan and Melisa give advice on:
- Judging partners
- Wanting your friend who was your ex back
- Figuring out your bisexuality
- Relearning to trust
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Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Vape Smoke to the Face
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But Am I Wrong:
Melisa: Roblox
Meghan: Scary Reality TV
But Are You Wrong:
Living with your ex
Update: SZA as Catwoman
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Meghan: Madison Prewett and Grant Trout
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Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while.
It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.
On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.”
Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.
On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.
Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions.
They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
