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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Ken Claytor and Tabatha Claytor

149 episodes

1 day ago

Send us a text What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in solving every problem, but in choosing which problems actually matter? Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, we reveal why "not sweating the small stuff" might be the relationship superpower you've been overlooking. Remember your wedding day? The birth of your children? The special celebrations? Of course you do. But do you remember every dirty dish, unmade bed, or forgotten errand that triggered an argument? Pro...

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Send us a text What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in solving every problem, but in choosing which problems actually matter? Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, we reveal why "not sweating the small stuff" might be the relationship superpower you've been overlooking. Remember your wedding day? The birth of your children? The special celebrations? Of course you do. But do you remember every dirty dish, unmade bed, or forgotten errand that triggered an argument? Pro...

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Religion & Spirituality,

Society & Culture,

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Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Why You Should Stop Arguing Over the Little Things with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text What if the secret to a thriving marriage isn't found in solving every problem, but in choosing which problems actually matter? Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, we reveal why "not sweating the small stuff" might be the relationship superpower you've been overlooking. Remember your wedding day? The birth of your children? The special celebrations? Of course you do. But do you remember every dirty dish, unmade bed, or forgotten errand that triggered an argument? Pro...

1 day ago

19 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

When to Hold On and When to Let Go: Navigating Life's Pivotal Moments

Send us a text Have you ever faced a moment when everything you were working toward seemed to hit a wall? That intersection of disappointment and decision is exactly what we're diving into today as we explore the powerful concepts of pivoting and rebounding. Life rarely follows a straight line. Dreams get derailed, plans fall apart, and sometimes what seemed like the perfect path suddenly becomes impassable. But what if these moments aren't failures but invitations to something better? Drawi...

1 week ago

36 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Five Keys to Save Your Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text Marriages don't break overnight, and they aren't restored in a day either. In this raw and revealing conversation, Ken and Tabatha share the five transformative keys that saved their once-broken relationship and built the foundation for their marriage journey. "Locate where you are" begins their practical framework—because you can't navigate to Macy's without first finding the "You Are Here" dot on the mall directory. This honest self-assessment creates the starting point for ...

2 weeks ago

28 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

How to study the Bible? With Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text The secret weapon sitting on your shelf might be collecting dust. When was the last time you actually opened your Bible and studied it with purpose? In this powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha tackle one of the most fundamental yet overlooked aspects of Christian life - how to develop a meaningful relationship with Scripture. Christians often struggle with Bible study, feeling intimidated by ancient text or unsure how to extract relevant meaning for today's challenges. Both...

3 weeks ago

35 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Grace to Self: Breaking Free from Self-Condemnation

Send us a text The way you talk to yourself matters more than you might realize. Have you ever caught yourself saying things to your own reflection that you'd never dream of saying to someone else? In this deeply personal episode, we explore the transformative power of extending "Grace to Self" and how this simple practice can revolutionize your mental, spiritual, and even physical wellbeing. Through vulnerable storytelling, we share the moment when a divine interruption challenged years of ...

4 weeks ago

24 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Waiting Until Marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text We explore God's design for intimacy within marriage and share eight essential principles for newlyweds navigating sexual expectations versus reality after the wedding day. • Understanding God's purpose for sex: procreation, enjoyment, and intimacy between husband and wife • Recognizing that great intimacy takes time, communication, and patience to develop • Being patient with the journey rather than expecting instant perfection • Communicating clearly and often about desires,...

1 month ago

35 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

The Art of Dating: Five Essential Do's and Don'ts

Send us a text Struggling with dating in today's confusing landscape? Ken and Tabatha draw from their marriage to deliver straight-talking wisdom about what actually works in relationships. "You got to be friends first," Ken emphasizes, highlighting how many couples rush into relationships without genuinely liking each other. This foundation of friendship—actually enjoying each other's company—creates the energy that sustains love through challenging seasons. The hosts don't shy away ...

1 month ago

28 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Protecting Your Marriage from Infidelity

Send us a text What happens when the unthinkable creeps into your relationship? The answers might surprise you. After counseling countless couples through the aftermath of infidelity, we've discovered that affairs rarely "just happen" – they're the result of small compromises that accumulate over time. Drawing from both personal and professional experience, we reveal how good people can make devastating choices when they fail to establish proper boundaries. Our own marriage has weathered sig...

1 month ago

47 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Beyond Infatuation: Three Critical Questions for Lasting Marriage

Send us a text What critical questions should you ask before saying "I do"? With half of all marriages ending in divorce despite everyone believing theirs will last forever, these three game-changing questions could save your relationship from becoming another statistic. The marriage journey transforms us in ways we never anticipate. The first essential question recognizes this reality: "Can you handle me changing?" That vibrant 23-year-old you fell in love with will inevitably become a diff...

1 month ago

21 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

How to Avoid Lies, Cover Ups, and Living a Double Life

Send us a text Authenticity is becoming increasingly rare in our carefully curated world. While many struggle to present perfect images of themselves online and offline, Ken and Tabatha tackle the transformative power of radical honesty. They introduce the HOT principle—Honest, Open, Transparent—as the foundation for truly meaningful relationships, whether in marriage, friendship, business, or ministry. "I don't understand why people portray themselves as something they're not," Ken reflects...

2 months ago

33 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

10 ways to a stronger marriage with Ken and Tabatha Claytor

Send us a text GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com) Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional: 90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site) DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️ https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888 Support Our Ministry: https://myalivechurch.org/give Connect with us: - Website: https://www.kenclaytor.com https://www.tabathaclaytor.com https://www.myalivechurch.org - Socials: Instagram - https...

2 months ago

19 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

A Compelling Future | Your Best Days Are Ahead Of You

Send us a text GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com) Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional: 90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site) DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️ https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888 Support Our Ministry: https://myalivechurch.org/give Connect with us: - Website: https://www.kenclaytor.com https://www.tabathaclaytor.com https://www.myalivechurch.org - Socials: Instagram - https...

2 months ago

41 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Marriage Without Intimacy: Is It Too Late?

Send us a text "How often should married couples have sex?" It's the question many ask but few discuss openly. In this refreshingly candid conversation, Ken and Tabatha break through the awkwardness to address what happens when physical intimacy fades in marriage. Drawing from 24 years of marriage experience, they challenge conventional wisdom about bedroom dynamics with their revolutionary principle: "Only one person needs to be in the mood for sex to happen." This perspective shift alone h...

2 months ago

24 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Burnout: Letting go of the fear of burnout

Send us a text The phrase "burnout" has become a buzzword, almost a badge of honor in some circles, but what if our fear of burnout is actually preventing us from discovering our true potential? In this eye-opening conversation, we challenge the prevailing narrative around burnout and offer a fresh perspective on stress, capacity, and growth. Drawing from personal experiences, we distinguish between genuine burnout—characterized by emotional, mental, and physical exhaustion—and the increasin...

3 months ago

42 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Sexless Marriage? Why Intimacy Fades & How to Reignite It

Send us a text Feeling the chill in your marriage bedroom? You're not alone. In this raw and honest episode, Ken and Tabatha break down the walls of silence surrounding sexless marriages, offering hope and practical wisdom from their 25-year journey together. Marriage isn't always sexy – especially when life throws curveballs like career stress, parenting demands, health challenges, and aging bodies into the mix. After navigating breast cancer, menopause, and the everyday complexities of lon...

3 months ago

34 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

How to help your depressed spouse? Practical tips for tough times

Send us a text The crushing weight of depression doesn't just affect the person diagnosed—it transforms marriages, reshaping how partners interact and survive together. Having walked this path ourselves, we're pulling back the curtain on what it truly takes to support a spouse battling the darkness of depression. Tabatha shares her 12-year journey through severe depression that began in childhood following her father's death and experiences with abuse. The physical manifestations—debilitatin...

3 months ago

42 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

5 Godly Traits to Look for in a Wife

Send us a text Have you ever wondered why so many marriages fall apart even though they started off great? A lot of it comes down to what people focus on when choosing who to marry. In this honest and real conversation, we talk about 5 important qualities every man should look for in a wife—things that go deeper than just looks or money. We even share real stories from men (like barbers!) who said they just wanted someone who wouldn’t tear them down emotionally. We also talk about how both me...

3 months ago

28 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Believers in Business: 4 Biblical Principles for Godly Success

Send us a text What happens when faith meets entrepreneurship? For many believers, there's an unnecessary tension between pursuing business success and honoring God. But what if prosperity with purpose is exactly what God intended? Ken and Tabatha Claytor bring a refreshing perspective to the intersection of faith and business, drawing from their experiences as successful entrepreneurs before their 18-year journey in pastoral ministry. Having built multiple businesses from scratch, they shar...

4 months ago

40 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Single, Saved & Over It - Believing God for Spouse Without Settling

Send us a text GET THE BETTER MARRIAGE BOOTCAMP HERE: Better Marriage Bootcamp (kenandtabatha.com) Better Marriage 90-Day Devotional: 90 Day Better Marriage Devotional - Ken and Tabatha (square.site) DOWNLOAD THE FAMILY MEETING OUTLINE HERE ⬇️ https://www.kenandtabatha.com/pl/2148103888 Support Our Ministry: https://myalivechurch.org/give Connect with us: - Website: https://www.kenclaytor.com https://www.tabathaclaytor.com https://www.myalivechurch.org - Socials: Instagram - https...

4 months ago

24 minutes

Doing Life with Ken and Tabatha

Recognizing and Overcoming Emotional Hurt: Steps to Healing

Send us a text What do you do when someone wounds you deeply? The reality is that emotional hurt is part of the human experience, but far too many people remain trapped in cycles of pain, resentment, and withdrawal long after the initial injury. In this candid and powerful conversation, Ken and Tabatha expose what they call a "hurt epidemic" sweeping through communities and churches worldwide. Drawing from personal experience with trauma, rejection, and betrayal, they offer a refreshingly pr...

4 months ago

34 minutes