Today, we’re diving into a topic that hits close to home for many – what really happens when divorced parents come together to celebrate their child’s wedding. Shari is joined by Sarah Burton, also known as the "wedding whisperer" and owner of Simply Love Studio. Together, they unpack the emotional highs and lows that can unfold when divorced parents and extended families are asked to share space on one of life’s biggest days. From heartwarming moments of unity and support to awkward standoffs, tears, and power plays, Shari and Sarah share real-life stories and expert advice on how to navigate these complex dynamics gracefully. You'll also hear practical tips on setting boundaries, managing expectations, and ensuring the spotlight shines where it belongs—on the happy couple. Whether you’re a parent, stepparent, or part of a blended family, this episode will help you show up as your best self for those milestone occasions and turn what could be a breeding ground for conflict into a beautiful demonstration of love and maturity. So if you have a family wedding on the horizon—or just want to reflect on healthier ways to move forward—this conversation is for you.

Debra Clem, counselor, speaker, and writer,  discusses the vital topic of forgiveness after divorce. Debra shares her personal journey through profound losses and a long-term marriage ending, illustrating the critical role forgiveness plays in personal healing. She emphasizes that forgiving an ex-spouse — or anyone who has caused harm — is not about excusing their actions, but about liberating oneself from the weight of resentment. Through heartfelt anecdotes, Debra uncovers how carrying unforgiveness can affect not only the individual but also their loved ones, and explains why it often requires both time and spiritual guidance to truly move forward. The conversation explores practical steps for reaching forgiveness, including prayer, support from trusted individuals, and honest self-reflection. Debra also touches on the complexities of repeated hurts and the necessity of setting boundaries when harmful behaviors persist. She and Shari address the misconception that forgiveness means staying in a damaging relationship, clarifying that it is possible — and sometimes necessary — to forgive and still walk away. Finally, Debra offers insights into re-entering the dating world later in life and stresses the importance of healing before forming new relationships. 

Today we’re diving into a question that’s deeply personal—and often fraught with confusion and emotion—for many people of faith: What does the Bible actually say about divorce? To help us unpack this sensitive topic with wisdom, compassion, and clarity, I’m joined by author, speaker, and Christian teacher Connie Prater. Together, we’ll explore not only the scriptural foundations around divorce, but also address the guilt, shame, and questions many face when religion and real-life experience collide. Whether you’re struggling with religious guilt, questioning your place in your faith community, or just searching for peace after your marriage ends, this episode promises insight, encouragement, and a reminder that there’s always hope—and grace—ahead.

In today’s episode, host Shari sits down with John Pearson—a man of faith, mentor, and the creator of the "Spirit, the Scribe, the Journal" book series and YouTube channel. John opens up about his unexpected experience with divorce later in life, navigating emotional upheaval, faith-based struggles, and the journey toward healing and self-discovery. Together, they dive into the unique challenges men face in the aftermath of divorce, exploring everything from grief and guilt to rebuilding identity and finding peace. John shares wisdom from his personal transformation, the power of intentional prayer, and practical advice for men who feel lost after a marriage ends. If you’ve ever wondered what divorce feels like for men over 50, or how faith and growth intertwine in the healing process, this is an episode you won’t want to miss.

Shari welcomes photographer Ashley Lowe to discuss the powerful, healing role of photography after a major life transition like divorce. Ashley shares how portrait sessions can help women, especially those over 40 and 50, reclaim their confidence and sense of identity following the end of a long-term marriage. She explains that for many women, professional photos are something they haven’t experienced for decades—usually not since high school or their wedding—and that the process of preparing for and participating in a session is transformative. With the support of a wardrobe stylist and professional hair and makeup, clients find themselves seen, valued, and able to express who they are becoming, rather than who they were. Ashley also opens up about her own post-divorce experience, describing how booking a photography session helped her reframe negative beliefs and rediscover her self-worth. The conversation highlights the importance of being visible and authentic, both personally and professionally, whether it’s for business headshots, dating profiles, or simply restoring family photos that reflect a new phase of life. Shari and Ashley underscore that empowerment sessions—like boudoir photography—play an important part in helping women feel confident and sexy again, regardless of age or body type. To top it off, Ashley shares how her studio provides a supportive, welcoming environment and how listeners can connect with her for a chance to win a complimentary photo shoot tailored to their own journey of self-renewal.  Connect with Ashley Lowe Ready for your own empowerment session or updated headshot? Check out Ashley’s work at hrtofgoldphoto.com or text/call 859-667-8104 with your questions.

Today's guest is Michelle Kelly, a Mary Kay entrepreneur with a passion for empowering women, especially those finding themselves at a crossroads after divorce. The conversation centers on the profound impact that rebuilding confidence can have after a long-term relationship ends. Michelle shares insights into how refreshing your appearance—not out of vanity, but as an act of self-rediscovery—can be a powerful first step towards reclaiming your sense of self. She emphasizes the importance of small changes, like trying a new lipstick shade or adopting a new skincare routine, as gentle reminders that beauty and vibrancy are still within reach. Beyond beauty, Michelle talks about the transformative opportunities that come from meaningful work, specifically through Mary Kay's supportive community and flexible business model. She shares inspiring stories of women, some over 50 and newly divorced, who found renewed purpose and confidence by starting their own Mary Kay businesses. With encouragement and practical advice, Michelle assures listeners that it's never too late for a fresh start—whether that's updating your look, embarking on a new career, or simply believing in your own worth again. Listeners are given clear ways to connect with Michelle for both makeovers and career opportunities, and the episode closes with a reminder that thriving after divorce is not only possible, but absolutely within reach.Contact Michelle at 859-707-65387 or through her website, click here

Shari explores how property is divided during a divorce in Kentucky, focusing on the unique challenges that come with untangling assets later in life. Shari explains the difference between community property and equitable distribution states, noting that Kentucky follows equitable distribution—meaning property is divided fairly, but not always equally. She clarifies important terms, distinguishing marital from separate property, and warns about the complications that can arise when separate assets are mixed with marital ones. She stresses the importance of documentation and highlights the key factors Kentucky courts consider, such as the length of the marriage, each spouse’s contributions, and the economic situations of both parties. Additionally, Shari speaks to the realities facing people divorcing after 50, acknowledging that accumulated assets, debts, and future financial security are all on the line. She points out that couples can negotiate their own agreement instead of leaving everything to the court, which can save time, money, and stress. As always, Shari reminds listeners to seek professional legal advice for their specific circumstances and shares that a range of experts—financial planners, insurance professionals, and real estate agents—can all be valuable resources during the process.

Shari tackles the challenging decision of what to do with the marital home after a divorce. She begins by addressing the emotional significance of the home, acknowledging that it's more than just a building—it's a place filled with cherished memories and milestones. However, she emphasizes the importance of considering whether staying in the home aligns with one's future goals or if it's just a means of avoiding change. Letting go of the home doesn't have to mean losing those memories; instead, it can be a step toward embracing new opportunities. She also covers the financial implications of keeping the marital home, emphasizing the need to evaluate whether one can afford it on a single income, including all associated costs like taxes and repairs. She outlines three primary options: selling the home and splitting the proceeds, one party buying out the other, or temporarily co-owning the home. Additionally, she advises listeners to be aware of legal and tax considerations, such as understanding the difference between the mortgage and the title and exploring tax benefits like capital gains exclusions. Shari concludes with encouragement, reminding listeners that a new chapter can bring joy and freedom, urging them to make decisions that support their future selves.Contact Shari at shari@realestatebyshari.comJoin the Divorce After 50 Podcast Facebook Group here

Host Shari Frasure welcomes Pat Fenner, author and podcaster, who shares her insights on navigating life after a gray divorce. Pat discusses her personal journey through divorce after decades of marriage and the inspiration behind her book, "Rebuilding Your Life After a Gray Divorce: A Path to Healing, Significance, and Joy." She highlights the unique challenges faced by individuals over 50 going through divorce, emphasizing the emotional and financial hurdles that often accompany the process. Pat also touches on the importance of self-reflection, counseling, and community support as vital steps toward healing and rebuilding a fulfilling post-divorce life. Throughout the conversation, Shari and Pat explore the significant shifts in social and family dynamics after a divorce, including the impact on adult children and social circles. They stress the necessity of forming a reliable team of advisors to tackle financial aspects and encourage listeners to seek out resources, such as podcasts and support groups, to help them through the transition. Pat shares her motivation for starting the Silver Women Bright Future podcast and her future plans to become a certified financial planner. The episode offers hope and actionable advice for those experiencing a gray divorce, reinforcing the message that life can be fulfilling and purposeful after the end of a long-term marriage. Connect with Pat at patfenner.me

Samantha Tishner is a coach specializing in helping women heal and move forward following divorce. Samantha shares her personal journey, explaining how her own experiences with divorce inspired her to assist other women in navigating the emotional landscape post-marriage. She emphasizes the importance of reconnecting with oneself, letting go of past burdens, and forgiving oneself to create space for new and fulfilling relationships. Samantha highlights the significance of understanding one's unique qualities and trusting oneself to build confidence and self-worth. Shari and Samantha discuss the challenges women face after divorce, such as guilt, self-blame, and the fear of the unknown. They touch on societal pressures that discourage divorce, reminding listeners that healing comes from within and that God offers forgiveness. Samantha encourages women to seek support from friends, faith, or therapy and to engage in self-reflection and growth before entering new relationships. The episode stresses the importance of doing the inner work necessary to recognize and release limiting beliefs, allowing women to approach future relationships with open hearts and trust.https://www.healfirstcoaching.com/New Beginnings Life Journal ~ 48 WEEK JOURNAL

Annemarie Neisz from Trifecta Title in Lexington, KY joins Shari to talk about the crucial role of title companies during a divorce. They explore how these experts manage the legalities of property ownership, uncover hidden liens, and ensure smooth transactions. Whether you're selling your home or buying out your ex-spouse, early involvement of a title company can prevent surprises and delays. Understanding the intricacies of title deeds, mortgage obligations, and equity division is essential. This episode is packed with valuable advice to help you navigate real estate decisions confidently during your divorce. Listen now and empower yourself with the knowledge to make informed property choices. Contact Annemarie at (859) 402-1986

Morgan Murray, a certified divorce financial analyst (CDFA), talks with host Shari Frasure about the complexities of managing finances during a divorce later in life. Morgan shares invaluable insights on key financial considerations such as retirement, healthcare, and the division of marital property. She emphasizes the importance of getting organized, assessing future financial needs, and understanding the long-term impacts of financial decisions made during a divorce. Morgan also highlights the significance of seeking professional financial advice and remaining proactive without making impulsive decisions driven by fear or urgency. Shari and Morgan discuss the empowering process of taking control of one’s financial future post-divorce, stressing that it's never too late to build a secure and fulfilling life. Tune in to learn more about navigating these challenging financial waters and setting yourself up for a strong future.

Today on "Divorce After 50," we explored how comprehensive wellness services can support your journey after divorce. DG Linton Gridley shared incredible insights on tailored health plans and nurturing both body and mind. Aging gracefully is possible! Reach DG Linton Gridley directly at 859-539-2147 or visit the website at agingwithgraceinfo.org to learn more about the services offered by Aging with Grace.

Divorce after 50 can be a challenging experience, especially when it comes to understanding what happens to your home, mortgage, and credit rating. Our latest podcast episode of Divorce After 50 touches on these critical concerns and provides valuable insights to help you make informed decisions. Here are three key takeaways from our discussion: Options for Your Home: Learn about the main routes you can take: selling the home and splitting the proceeds or refinancing the mortgage so one party can buy out the other. Impact on Your Credit Score: Discover how to manage your mortgage payments to avoid a negative impact on your credit score and explore options such as refinancing or selling. Buying a New Home: Get advice on purchasing a new home while still listed on a previous mortgage and how child support/alimony payments can affect your qualifying income. At Real Estate by Shari, our team of collaboration specialists is here to guide you through this process. We prioritize your emotional and financial well-being by providing expert advice and support during this transitional period. 📞 For a free consultation, call Shari at 859-229-5945 or email us at shari@realestatebyshari.com.

We're taking a look at the legal intricacies of family law with our expert guest, Lauren Brooke. With 19 years of experience and a broad practice across 15-20 counties in Kentucky, Lauren sheds light on critical issues from child custody and mediation to real estate and financial disclosures. We also explore the importance of choosing the right attorney, understanding various fee structures, and leveraging resources like mediation to resolve disputes amicably. Whether it's safeguarding your children’s emotional well-being during custody battles or understanding the true value of your property, this episode will provide invaluable insights. Lauren also discusses the vital role of empathy and professionalism in legal and real estate fields, stressing the importance of open communication and collaboration with experts. Grab a seat and join us as we unpack the essential advice and best practices to navigate your way through divorce after 50. This episode is packed with knowledge, empathy, and the expert guidance you need to move forward confidently.Contact Lauren at 859-967-4191Contact Shari at 859-229-5945

Host Shari Frasure, at the age of 50, separated from her husband, entering a deeply stressful period in her life. This major life transition significantly impacted her mental, emotional, and physical health. Around the same time, she began experiencing menopause, which compounded her challenges. Shari has navigated these tumultuous waters, dealing with significant weight loss and other health issues. Through her journey of recovery and self-care, she has gathered valuable insights and coping strategies that she now shares to support other women facing similar struggles. Shari's story is one of resilience and empowerment, offering hope and guidance to those dealing with the complexities of life after divorce.

Shari had the pleasure of speaking with Stacy Starkey, an experienced insurance agent from Assured Partners. They discuss how divorce affects your insurance needs and what you should consider to ensure you're protected during this transition.

We delve into the complex intersection of divorce and financial matters, particularly focusing on lending and mortgages. We're joined by Dana Back-Pack, a seasoned mortgage expert with extensive experience in navigating the lending landscape during divorce proceedings. We'll explore the common challenges individuals face when handling mortgages amidst a divorce, such as determining what to do with the family home, refinancing, and managing debt.  

In this episode, we're diving deep into the complex intersection of real estate and divorce, especially for those navigating this journey after the age of 50. From understanding what happens to your shared home to the legal and financial implications involved, we've got a wealth of crucial information to help you through these challenging times. 

In today's premier episode, Shari Frasure and Melissa Bingaman will share their personal journeys through divorce and discussing why they launched this podcast. From the trials and tribulations of post-divorce transitions to building a supportive network of professionals, they'll shed light on essential steps and considerations for those over 50 facing a divorce.