What does it really take to open your heart after heartbreak or divorce? Why do we attract certain types of partners, and how can we break free from guardedness to find authentic connection? How much should we share about our past traumas, and when is the right time to get real about what we truly want in a relationship?

This episode explores the heightened emotions and drama of the "Golden Bachelor," but quickly goes beyond TV to extract powerful lessons for anyone dating in their second act. Kimmy leads a lively discussion about body language, pressure in dating, and the pitfalls of prematurely seeking commitment—connecting reality show moments to what actually happens in the world of dating after divorce. The group tackles the differences (and surprising similarities) between men and women when it comes to vulnerability, attraction, and the pain of love lost. Plus, Doug and Mark reveal what it feels like to date post-divorce, how trauma and guardedness affect their desire for openness, and the lively banter around authentic connection versus superficial “fun.” 

 You’ll hear:

• The real-life male perspective on dating after divorce (what’s different, what’s hard, and what’s hopeful)

• Insights from watching and dissecting “The Golden Bachelor”—and what applies to your own dating life

• How to recognize body language cues that reveal true feelings (and the risks of ignoring them)

• Candid discussion on when (and how) to share your past traumas with a new partner

• The power of authenticity, self-love, and real energy in attracting the right relationship

Come for the dating drama, stay for the laughs, and leave with a fresh perspective on what real connection actually looks like.
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