Are you feeling stuck on the dating "struggle bus"? Have fears or past relationship baggage kept you from putting yourself out there? What does it actually mean to date in your "second act," and how do you gain clarity when everything seems to have changed since your twenties? On this special episode of Dating Real Talk we’re calling Real Talk Tuesday, Kimmy dives into the complex—and sometimes hilarious—world of dating later in life, opening with real questions about how to break out of old patterns, build confidence, and approach love with fresh curiosity.
Kimmy addresses the impact of reality TV on dating mindsets, breaks down the concept of "quantum dating," and offers practical advice for escaping the cycle of fear, frustration, and going nowhere fast. From embracing discomfort and intentionality in meeting people IRL to changing up your environment—and even confronting the realities of rejection—she challenges listeners to stop spinning their wheels and start creating meaningful connections.
You’ll hear:
How the dating mindset has to shift for your second act—and why clarity is everything
What "quantum dating" is and how it can transform your experience
Kimmy's practical formula for meeting people IRL (and why you need diversity in your dating life)
Why so many singles get stuck in the "loop de loo" of fear, comfort, and indecision
Actionable strategies for building confidence, overcoming negative patterns, and reclaiming your spark
Come for the dating drama, stay for the laughs, and leave with a fresh perspective on what real connection actually looks like.
Make sure to subscribe and catch Kimmy LIVE every Tuesday and Thursday at 4pmPST/7pmEST on Instagram and YouTube @kimmyseltzer or go to datingrealtalk.com