
Do you ever wonder why dating feels so much harder once you're past your twenties? Do you question where all the eligible singles are—or if there’s still a way to have fun while meeting them? Have you noticed that certain fears or self-doubts creep in right when you’re about to put yourself out there? If these questions sound familiar, then this Real Talk Tuesday episode is made just for you.
In this episode, Kimmy goes beyond the basics by exploring one of the most frequently asked questions: how to meet eligible people in real life, especially after 40. Kimmy dives into the nitty-gritty of why dating can feel daunting as we age, including how shifting life stages, the rise of digital dating, and internal “love shields” can unintentionally make us less approachable. Through relatable stories, actionable advice, and lively audience Q&A, she uncovers the little-known truth that how you show up (your energy, confidence, and body language) is just as important, if not more so, than where you go to meet someone.
You’ll hear:
Why approachability and body language matter more than ever in dating, especially after 40.
The top challenges singles face when trying to meet people offline—and how to overcome them.
Strategies to break out of negative self-talk and “love shields” that block your chances.
Proven places and times to meet eligible people, from coffee shops to business conferences.
How to create a custom dating “strategy plan” that fits your personality, lifestyle, and stage of life.
Come for the dating drama, stay for the laughs, and leave with a fresh perspective on what real connection actually looks like.
Make sure to subscribe and catch Kimmy LIVE every Tuesday and Thursday at 4pmPST/7pmEST on Instagram and YouTube @kimmyseltzer or go to datingrealtalk.com