How does confidence play a role in dating, reality TV, and the way we present ourselves to the world? What really separates genuine connection from fleeting chemistry, especially in the sometimes surreal world of reality dating shows? In this episode, Kimmy Seltzer, Allison Melody, and guest Ryan Bailey peel back the layers of pop culture, personal stories, and hard-hitting dating advice with our expert guests, taking you from bad first impressions to moments of true transformation.
This episode dives deep into the intersection of entertainment and life as Kimmy, Allison, and Ryan Bailey discuss everything from the psychology of reality TV contestants, the allure and pitfalls of influencer culture, to what "sexy confidence" really means—especially for later-life daters. With honest, often hilarious storytelling, you’ll hear candid confessions about personal struggles with confidence, lessons learned from coaching both real-world singles and reality stars, and the true magic that comes from leaning into your quirks, mistakes, and vulnerabilities. Plus, the Golden Bachelor gets dissected, from its friendships to its controversies, and we even get the inside scoop on Ryan Bailey’s own romantic journey—including the baby news and his take on dating apps.
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Come for the dating drama, stay for the laughs, and leave with a fresh perspective on what real connection actually looks like.
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