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Dateless in Delray
Susan Shoer
45 episodes
16 hours ago
This week on Dateless in Delray, we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker, Human Potential Coach and founder of Circle of Courage.Louise joined Susan from Australia to talk about the deeper side of dating: how curiosity opens doors, courage builds intimacy, and self-awareness transforms every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.And now, Louise is traveling to Florida to lead a live, in-person experience sponsored by Dateless in Delray:💛 Love By Design: A Courageous Dating & Real Connection ExperienceSaturday, November 15th | 1–5 PM | Space of Mind, Delray BeachThis four-hour immersive Enneagram Experience is for singles, couples, the happily solo, and anyone interested in self-discovery and authentic connection. Come learn your type, uncover your patterns, and design love by intention — not accident. A post-event happy hour at Dada keeps the connection flowing. Hope to see you there!🎟️ Get your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/love-by-design-courageous-dating-real-connection-tickets-1814632818609Then listen in as Susan and Louise explore what it really means to date — and live — by design.
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This week on Dateless in Delray, we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker, Human Potential Coach and founder of Circle of Courage.Louise joined Susan from Australia to talk about the deeper side of dating: how curiosity opens doors, courage builds intimacy, and self-awareness transforms every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.And now, Louise is traveling to Florida to lead a live, in-person experience sponsored by Dateless in Delray:💛 Love By Design: A Courageous Dating & Real Connection ExperienceSaturday, November 15th | 1–5 PM | Space of Mind, Delray BeachThis four-hour immersive Enneagram Experience is for singles, couples, the happily solo, and anyone interested in self-discovery and authentic connection. Come learn your type, uncover your patterns, and design love by intention — not accident. A post-event happy hour at Dada keeps the connection flowing. Hope to see you there!🎟️ Get your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/love-by-design-courageous-dating-real-connection-tickets-1814632818609Then listen in as Susan and Louise explore what it really means to date — and live — by design.
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Dateless in Delray
Encore Episode: Curiosity, Courage & Connection: Louise Walker on Redefining the Dating Mindset
This week on Dateless in Delray, we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker, Human Potential Coach and founder of Circle of Courage.Louise joined Susan from Australia to talk about the deeper side of dating: how curiosity opens doors, courage builds intimacy, and self-awareness transforms every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.And now, Louise is traveling to Florida to lead a live, in-person experience sponsored by Dateless in Delray:💛 Love By Design: A Courageous Dating & Real Connection ExperienceSaturday, November 15th | 1–5 PM | Space of Mind, Delray BeachThis four-hour immersive Enneagram Experience is for singles, couples, the happily solo, and anyone interested in self-discovery and authentic connection. Come learn your type, uncover your patterns, and design love by intention — not accident. A post-event happy hour at Dada keeps the connection flowing. Hope to see you there!🎟️ Get your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/love-by-design-courageous-dating-real-connection-tickets-1814632818609Then listen in as Susan and Louise explore what it really means to date — and live — by design.
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3 days ago
44 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 43 - Healing Hearts, Opening Bodies: Love, Somatic Healing & Ayahuasca with Olivia Sage
What if the secret to finding love isn’t about looking out there—but coming home to yourself?In this transformative episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Olivia Sage, a somatic therapist, healer, and host of Becoming Your Own Soulmate, for a deep dive into how the body, trauma, and nervous system shape the way we love.From ayahuasca journeys to embodiment practices, Olivia shares how true healing begins when we reconnect to our physical and emotional selves. Together, she and Susan explore how unhealed wounds drive our relationship patterns, why somatic work changes how we date, and how becoming your own soulmate is the first step to attracting the right partner.Whether you’re curious about plant medicine, tired of repeating the same dating cycles, or simply ready to feel more grounded and open in love—this conversation will meet you where you are and gently guide you inward.
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1 week ago
40 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 42 - From First Dates to Great Debates: Brian Howie on Love, Dating & What’s Next
In this special full-circle episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Brian Howie—host of The Great Love Debate podcast, owner of PodPopuli, and her very first guest 42 episodes ago. Together, they riff on the realities of modern dating: from the highs and lows of dating apps to the revival of matchmaking, the dream of meeting “organically,” and what the future of love might look like. With his signature candor and sharp insights, Brian unpacks why singles are more connected—and more confused—than ever, while Susan shares how his coaching and support helped her grow as a podcast host. This lively conversation is equal parts funny, frank, and forward-looking, reminding listeners that love is always evolving, and so should we. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should swipe, hire a matchmaker, or just hang out by the avocados at Publix—this episode is for you.
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2 weeks ago
36 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 41 - Love, Lies & Libidos: Author Stephanie Todd on Desire, Betrayal, and Reclaiming the Self
In this  episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer sits down with debut author Stephanie Todd, whose novel Love. Lies. and Libidos blurs the line between fiction and lived experience. Todd takes us deep into the raw terrain of passion, betrayal, forgiveness, and the messy journey of reclaiming the self after heartbreak.Together, they explore the creation of her novel, the courage it took to reveal intimate details of her own life, and how her children reacted to seeing parts of their family story on the page. Stephanie opens up about why she calls her past “the wreckage,” how deficiencies like a hunger for affection can blind us, and the haunting question of whether true passion can ever be felt again after betrayal.Listeners will hear her insights on intuition versus anxiety, why we stay in relationships long after we know we should leave, and what advice she offers for those navigating the complexities of dating and love today.If you’ve ever wrestled with trust, yearned for a love that consumed you, or wondered how to rebuild after everything has fallen apart, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.
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3 weeks ago
50 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 40 - Swipe Less, Spark More: Video Dating That Connectswith Zach Schleien
Endless swiping leaving you burned out? Video dating might be the spark you’ve been missing. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Zach Schleien shares how Spark is changing the dating game—bringing back authenticity, laughter, and face-to-face chemistry without the awkward small talk.We’ll dive into why video-first dating helps people connect more meaningfully, how technology is shifting the way we meet, and what the future of online dating really looks like. If you’ve ever wished dating felt less like work and more like magic, this episode is for you.
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1 month ago
38 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 39 - Passport to Possibilities: Singles Travel Adventures with Shelby Frenette & Jeff Shoer
What happens when you mix wanderlust with the world of dating? You get adventure, laughter, and stories you definitely won’t find on a resort brochure.In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by solo travel expert Shelby Frenette, founder of TravelFun.Biz, and singles traveler and foodie Jeff Shoer to explore the magic of traveling single. From luxury escapes to unforgettable mishaps, Shelby and Jeff share how travel can expand your horizons—not just geographically, but emotionally too. Special Offer: Mention Dateless in Delray for a free travel consultation with Shelby Frenette!Contact Shelby: TravelFun.Biz | Call/Text 833-TRVL-FUN (833-872-8538)Connect with Jeff: https://linktr.ee/food.in.travelWhether you’re ready to book your next trip or just looking for inspiration, this episode is your passport to new possibilities.
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1 month ago
53 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 38 - From First Dates to Soulmates: Matchmaking with Fass Pass to Love
Is love really a three-course meal? Matchmakers Jessica Fass and Brian Bachow of Fass Pass to Love join Susan to share how patience, coaching, and confidence can transform dating from swipe culture into lasting partnerships. They reveal why investing in yourself first is key, what it means to be truly “match-ready,” and the surprising success stories (and hilarious misfires) that keep them inspired. Special Offer: Mention Dateless in Delray to receive an exclusive discount on a Matchmaking Strategy Session. Email Jessica@fasspasstolove.com to claim your offer.
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1 month ago
1 hour 1 minute

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 37 - Mindfulness Matters: Intimacy & Intention with Wendi Dumbroff
What if the key to deeper intimacy isn’t a new partner, a bigger spark, or even better communication—but mindfulness?In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with therapist and mindfulness teacher Wendi Dumbroff, MA, LPC to explore how presence, awareness, and intentional connection can transform dating, sex, and long-term relationships. From breaking destructive cycles to easing performance anxiety to setting intentions in love, Wendi brings decades of experience in couples and sex therapy to the conversation.Whether you’re navigating a new romance, rekindling passion, or simply curious about how mindfulness shapes intimacy, this episode blends humor, wisdom, and practical takeaways you can use today.Learn more about Wendi at wendidumbrofftherapy.com and follow her on Instagram at @wendidumbroff.
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2 months ago
41 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 36 - ADHD and Dating: Late, Loud, and Looking for Love with Leah Carroll
Dating is complicated enough—but what happens when ADHD enters the mix? In this eye-opening and refreshingly honest episode, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with ADHD Life & Mindset Coach Leah Carroll to unpack how neurodivergence shapes love, attraction, and connection.From love-bombing to ghosting, forgetting to text back to over-functioning in relationships, ADHD shows up in ways most people don’t expect—but can absolutely relate to. Leah and Susan explore rejection sensitivity, emotional intensity, and why dating with ADHD can feel like a rollercoaster one minute and a breakthrough the next.Whether you’re neurodivergent yourself, dating someone who is, or just curious about how our wiring impacts intimacy, this episode offers humor, insight, and strategies for building healthier, more authentic connections—without abandoning yourself in the process. Tune in for a conversation that’s equal parts validating, funny, and transformative.
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2 months ago
53 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 35 - What Women Want – Inside the World of a Male Escort with George Goulburn
What happens when a corporate professional leaves behind the boardroom and reinvents himself as a male escort? In this unfiltered conversation, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with George Goulburn—Australia-based escort, writer, and media personality—to explore what women truly seek when they hire him, and what his journey reveals about intimacy, confidence, and connection.From younger women craving companionship without commitment to an 80-year-old with more energy than men half her age, George shares real, often surprising stories from his career. Together, we unpack the history and stigma around sex work in Australia, why women turn to professional escorts, and the lessons everyday men can learn from his approach to listening, presence, and emotional connection.With humor, honesty, and a dose of humanity, this episode sheds light on what dating and relationships can look like when we strip away the labels—and focus on what people actually want.
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2 months ago
45 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 34 - Dateless, Not Speechless: 34 Episodes, 1 Microphone, and No Guest in Sight
After 33 conversations with daters, coaches, therapists, and experts, I’m flying solo for Episode 34—and pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to host a dating podcast while living the dating life myself. In this candid, funny, and occasionally too-honest episode, I share what I’ve learned about love, self-worth, and swiping after 50, the most surprising lessons from my guests, and what listeners have taught me along the way.Plus, a peek at what’s next for Dateless in Delray—including matchmaking and maybe even my very own “Dating Game” reboot.
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2 months ago
16 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 33 - Beyond the Swipe: Dating Skills, Deeper Bonds & the Road to Real Love with Ken Blackman
What if your best relationship is still ahead of you? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Ken Blackman—former Silicon Valley engineer turned sought-after relationship coach—to unpack how we evolve from casual dating to true connection. Ken shares his journey from feeling insecure and disconnected to helping couples deepen intimacy and grow lasting love. They discuss the difference between dating skills and relationship skills, navigating mismatched commitment levels, and why friendship might just be the foundation of forever. If you’ve ever dated someone who checked almost all the boxes—this episode is for you.
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3 months ago
53 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 32 - Weighty Issues: Fasting, Fitness & First Dates
What does intermittent fasting have to do with flirting? More than you think. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Steve Feingold returns to share his personal transformation—physically and romantically—after committing to a fasting lifestyle. Joining the conversation is communication coach Laurie Schloff, who reveals how the language we use about our bodies can shape our confidence and our connections. Together, we explore how getting in shape isn't just about weight—it's about mindset, self-worth, and dating with intention. If you're ready to glow up from the inside out, this episode serves real talk—and real results.
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3 months ago
35 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 31 - Open House, Open Heart: Ken O'Brien on Looking for Love After 50
Ken O’Brien knows how to close a deal—and he’s still searching for the one that truly moves him. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with Ken, a former Las Vegas bartender turned Florida real estate agent, mentor, and investor, who’s also a fitness enthusiast with a couple of bodybuilding wins under his belt. They talk about navigating dating over 50, starting over with strength, and why your heart—like your home—might just need the right buyer to see its potential. Funny, real, and full of wisdom, this one’s got curb appeal.
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3 months ago
34 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 30 - First Impressions & Fashion Confessions: Dating Style with Kim Bolufé
What does your outfit say before you even open your mouth? In this stylishly honest episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by celebrity stylist, Delray Beach boutique owner, and host of the Do You Have It? podcast Kim Bolufé, to talk all things fashion, dating, and confidence. From first-date faux pas to post-divorce closet reinventions, we explore how clothes can reflect your confidence—or sabotage it. Kim shares real talk, real tips, and a few wild fashion confessions along the way. Whether you’re dating in Delray or just looking to level up your look, this episode is your permission slip to dress—and date—with intention.
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3 months ago
37 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 29 - Second Acts & Dating Comebacks: Live from Pod-A-Palooza with Andrea McGinty
Recorded live at Pod-A-Palooza in Boca Raton, in this abbreviated episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer takes her show on the road, with matchmaking expert Andrea McGinty. She's the founder of It’s Just Lunch and the author of Second Acts.: Winning Strategies for Dating Over 50. Andrea shares tips and advice for dating over 50, from picking the best dating apps to shifting your midnset. With 33,000 dates arranged and countless success stories, Andrea proves that love is a strategy, not a swipe. This is your invitation to date smarter—and live bolder.
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4 months ago
18 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 28 - Still Got It: Situationships and Sex Toys with Suzanne Noble
Think your best sex is behind you? Think again. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer gets cheeky and candid with Suzanne Noble, author, media maven, and host of Sex Advice for Seniors. Together, they dive deep into the modern realities of aging, intimacy, and why “situationships” might be exactly what we need—especially after 60. Suzanne shares her journey from traditional relationships to swinging, ethical non-monogamy, and Sunday-only lovers. They cover sex toys, supplements, mismatched socks, and dating across the pond (British blokes are different). With plenty of stats, sass, and a profile that’ll make you say, “You can’t make this sh*t up,” this episode proves you’re never too old to explore your pleasure potential.
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4 months ago
39 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 27 - Dating from Your Worth: Magic, Miracles & the Sexual Awakening with Lauren Elise Rogers
What happens when you stop settling—and start dating from self-worth? In this powerful episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by intimacy educator and dating mentor Lauren Elise Rogers, creator of the Magnetic Woman Method™. Together, they explore how to shift old patterns, ignite your feminine energy, and attract aligned love—at any age.Lauren shares her story of getting divorced at 34, rediscovering her sexual power, and finding a partner who matched her on every level. You’ll learn:• How to break the cycle of unavailable partners• Why healing your nervous system is the sexiest move you can make• What dating from wholeness (not hunger) really looks like• And why it’s never too late to call in love that honors your full selfWhether you’re newly divorced, dating over 50, or ready to heal from heartbreak, this episode is full of real talk, practical tools, and magic-level insight. 🔗 Learn more about Lauren: laureneliserogers.com
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4 months ago
39 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 26 - It’s Complicated: Love, Estrangement & Blending Families with Dr. Jeff Segal
In this unflinching episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Dr. Jeff Segal to explore what really happens when long-term marriages end—especially for the children left to make sense of it all. Whether they’re still at home or grown with families of their own, kids often carry the emotional ripple effects of their parents’ separation. Susan’s son, Alex Shoer, joins the conversation to share his experience from the other side of the split. Together, they unpack the guilt, the grief, and the healing that comes when love changes shape—but family ties remain.
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5 months ago
52 minutes

Dateless in Delray
Ep. 25 - Uncover to Discover: Emotional Truths, Connection & Dating with Liv Kammerman
What if your most painful emotions were actually the key to deeper connection and lasting love? In this soul-stirring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes speaker, singer, and emotional connection coach Liv Kammerman. Together, they explore how embracing vulnerability, healing old wounds, and “uncovering to discover” can transform your dating life—and your relationship with yourself. Liv shares her personal journey from emotional shutdown to soulful awakening, along with tools to reconnect with your true desires. If you’ve ever felt “too much” or “not enough,” this episode will leave you feeling seen, heard, and ready to love.
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5 months ago
37 minutes

Dateless in Delray
This week on Dateless in Delray, we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker, Human Potential Coach and founder of Circle of Courage.Louise joined Susan from Australia to talk about the deeper side of dating: how curiosity opens doors, courage builds intimacy, and self-awareness transforms every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.And now, Louise is traveling to Florida to lead a live, in-person experience sponsored by Dateless in Delray:💛 Love By Design: A Courageous Dating & Real Connection ExperienceSaturday, November 15th | 1–5 PM | Space of Mind, Delray BeachThis four-hour immersive Enneagram Experience is for singles, couples, the happily solo, and anyone interested in self-discovery and authentic connection. Come learn your type, uncover your patterns, and design love by intention — not accident. A post-event happy hour at Dada keeps the connection flowing. Hope to see you there!🎟️ Get your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/love-by-design-courageous-dating-real-connection-tickets-1814632818609Then listen in as Susan and Louise explore what it really means to date — and live — by design.