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Dad Smarter Not Harder
Jun Loayza
34 episodes
7 months ago
Jun Loayza becomes a human guinea pig, putting his parenting life in full display with the goal of helping others learn from his parenting mistakes. Let's grow together and become the best fathers that we can be.
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Jun Loayza becomes a human guinea pig, putting his parenting life in full display with the goal of helping others learn from his parenting mistakes. Let's grow together and become the best fathers that we can be.
Show more...
Parenting
Education,
Kids & Family,
How To,
Self-Improvement
Episodes (20/34)
Dad Smarter Not Harder
Turn a spousal fight into a positive
When household challenges arise, like a child's accident, tensions can flare. In this video, I recount a time my wife was overwhelmed with frustration. Instead of escalating, I cleaned up and involved our daughter in the process. This taught responsibility and showed her she's part of the solution. Learn how to transform conflicts into growth moments. It's about how we respond, not the mistakes made. Watch now!
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2 years ago
8 minutes 37 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
The GrACE Framework for Parenting
Parenting in the digital age requires the right tools and mindset to nurture resilient, empathetic, and confident children. The GrACE Framework emphasizes: G - Growth Mindset: Encourage continuous learning and seeing challenges as growth opportunities. r - Responsibility: Teach the value of hard work through household involvement. A - Autonomy: Promote independence and self-reliance. C - Confidence: Instill self-worth, teaching kids to find internal validation. E - Empathy: Foster understanding and respect for others' feelings. Explore the GrACE Framework to raise well-rounded children.
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2 years ago
11 minutes

Dad Smarter Not Harder
How to improve intimacy with your wife
Diving into improving intimacy for men, today's video highlights more than just the physical. Discover the TWO PILLARS of intimacy: 1️⃣ Self-care: discussing porn's impact, fitness, sleep, diet, and supplements. 2️⃣ Catering to her needs: understanding love languages, boundaries, and appreciation. Reignite the connection with your wife! 💑🌹
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2 years ago
7 minutes 3 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
How to insult your kids
Discussing a recent incident with Cardi B, we explore handling haters & criticism. Learn a technique I've taught my kids: responding to negativity with a calm "Ok thanks", showing maturity & not giving haters satisfaction. Rise above & show words don't define you. Watch on! 🙌👉
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2 years ago
4 minutes 45 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Boredom is essential for your kids
In a world where kids are always entertained, we explore the value of boredom in child development. Learn why boredom sparks creativity 🎨, the pitfalls of constant entertainment, and how to promote independent thinking. Equip kids to let their imaginations fly! 🚀 Join us!
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2 years ago
4 minutes 14 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
An unhappy wife is an indictment on the man
Explore the dynamics of marital happiness and a man's role in setting the family tone. If a wife is unhappy, it may reflect the husband's leadership. Discuss the importance of leading with purpose, setting expectations, and mutual responsibility in relationships. Join us! 🤝🏠
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2 years ago
7 minutes 22 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Don't tell your children what to do
Explore storytelling as a powerful parenting tool, inspired by "Hunt, Gather, Parent." Learn why direct instructions may fail, the allure of stories, and how to use tales for teaching. Transform homes where stories bridge understanding & growth. Join us! 🌉📚
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2 years ago
3 minutes 35 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Don't help your children get back up
Dive into the art of letting kids face life's challenges, inspired by "How to Raise an Adult." Over-parenting can hinder growth & self-confidence. Key points: empower kids, avoid coddling, & trust their capabilities. Learn to raise resilient adults by sometimes stepping back. Join us! 💪
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2 years ago
3 minutes 23 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Don't love your children the same way
Each child is unique, and one parenting blueprint doesn't fit all. Dive into real-world strategies to love each child in their special way. Challenge norms and discover how to nurture individuality. Ready to adapt and thrive in parenting? Tune in!
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2 years ago
3 minutes 56 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Prepare the child for the road
Explore the importance of teaching kids self-control, using video games as an example. Instead of strict bans, promote self-regulation. This guide offers tips to foster resilience & responsible decision-making in children. Equip them for life's challenges & nurture independent growth. Tune in!
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2 years ago
5 minutes 15 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Beautiful oops
Kimbal messes up Juniper's drawing. I respond in the worst way possible and Juniper starts to cry. But, even though I failed miserably, Kim comes to my rescue.
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2 years ago
7 minutes 15 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Give your children a smartphone
Is it better to prevent phone use in your household or teach your children how to control the phone use?
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2 years ago
9 minutes 52 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Give children the benefit of the doubt - Michaeleen Doucleff
Michaeleen Doucleff, Author of Hunt, Gather, Parent, tells us the story of the time her 6yo grabbed the fine champagne glasses and Michaeleen wanted to respond in anger, "Hey, put those back! You're going to break them." But instead, she gave her child the benefit of the doubt.
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4 years ago
10 minutes 43 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
How to teach kids to stay true to their word
4yo was playing on her iPad and said she would work on it until Chapter 10. Chapter 10 hits, and of course, she asks, "Can I go to Chapter 11?" Today, we explore how to turn this into an opportunity to teach about the importance of staying true to your word.
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4 years ago
11 minutes 23 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Parenting is madness -- here's how to calm it down
Parenting is hard. Often times our emotions take over and we resort to punishment right there in the moment because that's what we've been conditioned to do. But there is another way -- it starts with the objective. Today, we align on the objectives for raising children.
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4 years ago
10 minutes 56 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Intro to the Minimum Effective Dose (MED) to raising children
What is the absolute minimum that we need to do in order to raise capable, confident, mentally strong children?
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4 years ago
4 minutes 51 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Connect: How to stop a meltdown before it happens
I saw it as it was happening -- our 4yo was going to meltdown. But before it happened, I swooped in, connected with her, and then worked it out.
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4 years ago
8 minutes 30 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Stop telling your children what to do. Instead, do this.
A challenge presented itself today. I could easily tell my children what to do and drag them through it kicking and screaming. But there must be a better way. Today we explore how we can help a child identify a challenge and walk them through solving it.
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4 years ago
8 minutes 35 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Parenting fail: My anger got the better of me and how to overcome it next time
4yo didn't want to go to school today. Because we practice the first principle mindset at home, 4yo can make her own decision about going to school, we just need to do a good job at guiding and teaching her. But ultimately, challenges arise and I let my anger get the better of me. Here's what you and I can do better next time.
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4 years ago
13 minutes 13 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
How to get your kids to happily eat their broccoli
How do you get your kids to eat healthy? Do you use rewards, "Eat your broccoli and you'll get dessert."? Do you use punishment, "Eat your zucchini or no tv tonight."? On today's episode, I teach you a method that actually works and that builds intrinsic motivation so that they'll eat their broccoli even when you're not there.
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4 years ago
8 minutes 51 seconds

Dad Smarter Not Harder
Jun Loayza becomes a human guinea pig, putting his parenting life in full display with the goal of helping others learn from his parenting mistakes. Let's grow together and become the best fathers that we can be.