"Why Am I Still Single?" The Radical Power of Dating Yourself (Day 23)

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Create Your Happy: Conscious Relationships with Others and Yourself

Christy Holt - The Happiness Hussy

146 episodes

17 hours ago

Welcome to the Create Your Happy podcast with your host, Christy Holt, AKA The Happiness Hussy! My mission is to inspire and empower women to embrace their humanness, find their unique voice, and create a world of joy and authenticity. Join us for your weekly dose of real, unfiltered conversations about life and love. We explore a wide range of topics related to creating conscious, healthy and loving relationships, both with others, and — even more importantly — with ourself. Alright, gorgeous — let’s get curious, become inspired, and Create Your Happy!

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"Why Am I Still Single?" The Radical Power of Dating Yourself (Day 23) | UNSTUCK: Rewrite Your Love Story

Create Your Happy: Conscious Relationships with Others and Yourself

6 minutes 58 seconds

5 months ago

"Why Am I Still Single?" The Radical Power of Dating Yourself (Day 23) | UNSTUCK: Rewrite Your Love Story

🎧 DAY 23: "Why Am I Still Single?" The Radical Power of Dating Yourself | UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story

🔥 EPISODE DESCRIPTION

Instagram's flooded with couples holding hands, while you're home with a half-finished book, wondering: "Will I ever find someone? What's wrong with me?" Here's the truth they don't tell you:

Dating yourself isn't a consolation prize—it's where real love begins.

In this paradigm-shifting episode of UNSTUCK: 30 Days to Rewrite Your Love Story, host Christy Holt (AKA The Happiness Hussy) shares why solo adventures (from coffee dates to living room dance parties) are the ultimate rebellion against society's "relationship = worth" narrative.

Learn how to transform loneliness into luxurious self-connection—and why your happiest relationships start with falling in love with your own company.

⏱️ WATCH/LISTEN ALONG

00:00:00 – The Instagram Comparison Spiral ("Why am I still single?")

00:01:26 – The Solo Date Epiphany ("My movie theater breakthrough")

00:03:22 – How do I fall in love with my own company? (dating yourself for dummies)

00:04:12 – Ho'oponopono Healing (*The 4-phrase mantra for self-forgiveness*)

00:05:45 – Add to Your Fck It List: "Waiting for someone else to make me feel loved."

💬 KEY QUOTES (SHAREABLE AF)

"Dating yourself isn't about waiting for someone else to show up. It's about showing up for yourself."

"Your life isn't a waiting room for 'the one'—it's the main event."

"That flutter in your chest when you think about being alone? That's your nervous system detoxing from its addiction to external validation."

(Tag @CoachChristyHolt with your solo adventure photos! 📸)

🔥 YOUR DAY 23 REBELLION: BECOME YOUR OWN SOULMATE

1. THE SOLO LOVE TRIO

☕ Adventure: Take yourself out (coffee, museum, or fancy dinner—no "saving" experiences!)

🖐️ Ho'oponopono Practice: Hand on heart, repeat: "I'm sorry. Please forgive me. Thank you. I love you."

💃 Dance Break: Me, Myself & I by G-Eazy & Bebe Rexha on the Rebellious AF Playlist: https://bit.ly/loverebel

2. ADD TO YOUR F*CK IT LIST

✈️ "Waiting for someone else to make me feel loved."

➡️ Fold into a paper airplane and launch it out a window.

3. INSTANT SELF-WORTH BOOST

✨ DM @CoachChristyHolt your solo date win (📚 emoji for book lovers, 🎨 for creatives).

SHARE YOUR POWER 📸 Tag @CoachChristyHolt with your solo adventures + #PlotTwistEnergy.

RESOURCES & LINKS

📖 LOVE, UNSTUCK BOOK: Your no-BS guide to wholeness and conscious relationship creation: www.loveunstuck.com

🔜 NEXT EPISODE: "Why Can't I Slow Down?" How Your Busyness Might Be Avoidance

STAY CONNECTED

💌 SUBSCRIBE so you never miss an episode!

💌 RATE & REVIEW if this helped you cherish solo time.

💌 COMMENT BELOW: "What's ONE solo adventure you're planning?" (Let's normalize self-dating! 🚀)

💌 TAG @CoachChristyHolt—your solo journeys inspire others.

#RewriteYourLoveStory #CreateYourHappy #LoveRebel #SelfLoveJourney #MeTime #DateYourself