What does it really take to move from “I’ve got an idea for a book” to becoming an author?
In this inspiring conversation, I reconnect with intuitive writing coach, editor, and publisher Ruth Fae to explore what it means to find your voice and courageously put your words into the world.
Ruth unpacks what “being an author” truly means, and why so many of the excuses we cling to (“I’m not a writer,” “my message isn’t worthy”) are simply myths.
She explains how writing is a creative muscle that grows stronger with use, why collaboration makes the process more powerful, and how writing circles give women the confidence, structure, and safe space to write.
I also share my own vulnerable journey of handing Ruth my first manuscript, facing fears of imperfection and discovering that authorship begins long before a book is published.
If you’ve ever dreamed of writing a book, or doubted whether you had it in you, this episode will shift your perspective, release the pressure, and remind you that your words matter.
By tuning in, you’ll discover:
o Why you’re already an author even if your book isn’t published yet.
o How intuitive editing helps your real voice and message shine through.
o The difference between planners and “pantsers” in writing (and how to find your flow).
o Why collaboration and safe creative spaces make writing easier and more fun.
o How to move past perfectionism and start with what you’ve got (even messy brain dumps).
o The importance of structure in shaping stories without stifling creativity.
o Ways to overcome resistance when the words don’t come.
o Why courage, community, and consistency matter more than rules when it comes to writing.
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Learn about Ruth’s Writing Circles.
Find out more or get in touch with Ruth:
Website: Fae Blood Publications
Facebook: Ruth Fae-Writer
Instagram: @ruth_fae_writer
LinkedIn: Ruth Fae
Tiktok: @ruthfaewriter
Listen to Ruths first appearance on the podcast, episode 13 Rediscovering your identity through hope, healing, and storytelling.
Where to find me:
Website: Kim Payne
LinkedIn: Kim Payne
Instagram: @iamkimpayne
Facebook: KimPayne9Biz
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