Today we’re talking about projection — gaslighting’s ugly second cousin. You know, when someone accuses you of doing the very thing they’re guilty of. Fun, unhealed stuff, right? 00:42 – “How are you, really?” (aka, are you dehydrated?) 02:32 – Projection vs. Gaslighting: 03:32 – Lazy boss calling you lazy? 04:18 – “You’re lying!” …says the liar. 05:05 – Why childhood trauma makes projection feel weirdly familiar 06:13 – Micromanaging boss 09:07 – Gossiping coworker accusing you of go...
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Today we’re talking about projection — gaslighting’s ugly second cousin. You know, when someone accuses you of doing the very thing they’re guilty of. Fun, unhealed stuff, right? 00:42 – “How are you, really?” (aka, are you dehydrated?) 02:32 – Projection vs. Gaslighting: 03:32 – Lazy boss calling you lazy? 04:18 – “You’re lying!” …says the liar. 05:05 – Why childhood trauma makes projection feel weirdly familiar 06:13 – Micromanaging boss 09:07 – Gossiping coworker accusing you of go...
#50 – DARVO Explained: How to Stop Letting People Walk All Over You
Corporate Christie
20 minutes
5 months ago
#50 – DARVO Explained: How to Stop Letting People Walk All Over You
If you’ve ever tried to tell someone they hurt your feelings, but they made you feel like you were the bad guy—you're not Crazy. You were DARVO'd. This episode is part education, part memoir, and part spiritual boundary bootcamp. I made it because I don’t want you to waste another year trying to get toxic people to understand you. I break down: What DARVO is (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender)How emotionally immature people use it to flip the scriptWhy you, the empathetic, conflict-av...
Corporate Christie
Today we’re talking about projection — gaslighting’s ugly second cousin. You know, when someone accuses you of doing the very thing they’re guilty of. Fun, unhealed stuff, right? 00:42 – “How are you, really?” (aka, are you dehydrated?) 02:32 – Projection vs. Gaslighting: 03:32 – Lazy boss calling you lazy? 04:18 – “You’re lying!” …says the liar. 05:05 – Why childhood trauma makes projection feel weirdly familiar 06:13 – Micromanaging boss 09:07 – Gossiping coworker accusing you of go...