Have you ever asked your child to do a simple task, only to be met with an explosive reaction? In this episode, we interview Lydia Rex, Connected Families Certified Parent Coach, about Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA), also known as Pervasive Drive for Autonomy. Lydia will help you step into your child’s shoes and understand how you may accidentally trigger your child’s nervous system. She also shares insights from her experience as a mom and parent coach on how you can adjust your communication style if your child struggles with demands and the loss of autonomy.



Key points:




* What is PDA (Pathological Demand Avoidance/Pervasive Drive for Autonomy), and how it affects children’s nervous systems



* How the Connected Families Framework supports children with demand avoidance



* Practical tools for parenting children who struggle with demands



* The importance of focusing on long-term heart change rather than immediate compliance




Mentioned in this podcast:




* Sensitive & Intense Kids online course



* Power of Questions online course



* Hebrews 4:15




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Guest Bio:



Lydia Rex is a registered nurse turned Trust-Based Relational Intervention (TBRI) practitioner and parent coach to families with young kids, especially those who have sensory needs or developmental trauma. No stranger to challenges in the parenting journey, Lydia offers empathy, encouragement, and a deep commitment to walking alongside parents with the Connected Families Framework. It’s her joy to see God’s grace healing the hearts of parents and children. Lydia, her husband Kyle, and their two kids live in Iowa, where they enjoy homeschooling, outdoor activities, and reading lots of books.



Laura Way felt like she was drowning as a young mom overseas. She really feels that God provided Connected Families for her when she needed it most. She’s thrilled to be on the team to help offer hope & help to others! Laura and her husband live in Florida with their two elementary-aged daughters. In her free time, Laura loves to read in her hammock or have coffee with friends.







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In this episode of the Connected Families podcast, we explore how to calm a dysregulated child with insights from Certified Connected Families Parent Coaches Alan and Corrie Thetford. Together they share how they evolved from demanding immediate calm to modeling self-regulation, creating playful learning opportunities, and viewing emotional outbursts as chances to experience God’s grace.



NOTE: This content is for every parent. Even if your kids don’t seem to fall into the category of sensitive and intense, the concepts that we teach are helpful for all families because everyone encounters big emotions, sensitivities and challenging behavior at some point.



Key points:




* Shifting from control to connection



* Biblical foundation for parenting



* Four-step approach to teaching self-regulation



* Reframing conflict as opportunity




Mentioned in this podcast:




* Join The Table Monthly Donor Community



* Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course



* Connected Families Website



* Parent Coaching Services



* Zones of Regulation



* Philippians 1:6



* Philippians 2:13



* Psalm 103




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Guest Bio:



Alan and Corrie have four children and are Certified Connected Families Parent Coaches as well as instructors for CF coaches-in-training. They are passionate about multiplying the gospel by helping families transform power struggles and conflicts into opportunities for gospel messages.



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In this bonus episode of the Connected Families podcast, host Stacy Bellward and Executive Director Anna Braasch announce the launch of The Table, a new monthly donor community aimed at providing sustaining support for Connected Families resources.



Together they highlight the growing global reach of Connected Families, with more parents engaging with their Christ-centered resources and an increasing number of Certified Parent Coaches worldwide. The episode emphasizes how Connected Families’ tools foster deeper connections with God and within families.



This is your invitation to join The Table. Will you pull up a seat and join us?



Mentioned in this podcast:




* Join The Table Monthly Donor Community



* Contact Us




Guest bio:



Anna Braasch has been with the Connected Families team since 2013 and has served as Executive Director since 2015. She is passionate about expanding the Connected Families’ vision of “turning the hearts of parents to their children and the hearts of the disobedient to the wisdom of the righteous” (Luke 1:17). You can read more about Anna and the rest of the Connected Families team on our Ministry Team page.



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If you’ve got a child who complains about the volume of the microwave or who won’t venture into the living room without turning off the overhead lights, this conversation on sensory sensitivities is for you! Listen in as Stacy Bellward interviews Lynne Jackson (Occupational Therapist and Connected Families Co-Founder) Together they dig into parenting sensitive and intense children, focusing on sensory processing challenges. Lynn emphasizes trusting parental intuition and explains how sensory issues can be potential gifts when managed well.



Mentioned in this podcast:




* Sensitive & Intense Kids Online Course



* Link to the Sensory Questionnaire (Free PDF)



* Link to Join the Table Community



* Blog post: Solve That After-School Crabbiness



* Connected Families Parent Coaching



* Galatians 6:2




Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!



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Guest Bio:



Lynne Jackson, OTR is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents to encourage and bring hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into the brain science and research to better equip parents and caregivers. Most importantly, as a follower of Christ, she brings biblical wisdom, abundant grace, and a “no shame” policy.



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If you feel like you’ve “tried empathy” and you’re not a fan of the results, tune into this conversation about what empathy is and why you need more of it in your life. In this episode of the Connected Families podcast, where host Stacy Bellward and Heidi Eaton (Podcast Manager) have a transparent conversation about the role of empathy in parenting. Together they explore the challenges parents face in nurturing empathy, acknowledging that it might not always come naturally.



Key points:




* Empathy is a skill we can learn, not a talent we’re born with.



* A calm brain is essential for true empathy.



* Caring about feelings doesn’t mean agreeing with behavior.




Mentioned in this podcast:




* Blog post: Why Little (and Not-So-Little) Kids with Big Emotions Benefit From Big Empathy



* Podcast: Ep. 193: Agape Love: The Surprising Time Your Child Needs It Most



* Video: “Feeling Understood Was All He Needed”



* Sensitive & Intense Kids online course



* Connected Families Parent Coaching



* Romans 12:15



* Hebrews 4:15



* Raising An Emotionally Intelligent Child by Dr. John Gottman




Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!



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Guest Bio:



Heidi Eaton and her family have experienced the transformational power of the Connected Families messages for many years. She loves being on this team and spreading hope and intention to other parents. Heidi and her husband Tim have 3 children and have been married for over 20 years. When Heidi is not managing the podcast, she loves spending time in nature and baking.



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For followers of Jesus, soul care isn’t optional. For burned-out or overwhelmed parents, it offers a rare lifeline. In this podcast, Stacy Bellward chats with Connected Families certified parent coaches Taylor Irby and Amy Nyval about the vital importance of spiritual self-care while parenting. Through both challenging “valley” seasons and smoother periods, they emphasize that nurturing one’s relationship with God isn’t about fixing problems but creating space to receive His presence. Whether through simple practices like prayer during shower time or scripture reading, maintaining spiritual groundedness is essential – especially when parenting sensitive and intense children.



Key takeaways:




* Connecting with Jesus first is key to effective parenting.



* Developing practical soul-care habits brings peace amid chaos.



* Reframing challenges as growth opportunities deepens reliance on God.




Mentioned in this podcast:




* Sensitive & Intense Kids course



* Connected Families Parent Coaching



* Book reference: Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer




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Guest Bio:



Amy Nyvall and her husband, Andrew, have been married for 16 years and live among the fir trees outside Portland, Oregon. They enjoy outdoor adventures as much as possible and have a blast homeschooling their three intensely creative, adventurous, and active children. In her spare time, you’ll find Amy encouraging moms and homeschoolers, learning alongside the kids, or slipping away to read from a stack of her own books. Amy is passionate about creating a family culture that equips our children to be prepared to serve the Lord in the days ahead. She is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and has personal experience and knowledge in the sensitive and intense space. You can connect with her for parent coaching at: amynyvall@gmail.com.



Taylor Irby is a mother to 5 kids, and she understands the struggles parents face. Every day she faces ADHD, autism, anxiety, developmental delays, and adoption trauma. She too has sat in the trenches and searched the world for answers. Taylor read book after book and got excited over methods that were short-lived. That is when she hit the wall of desperation and sought parent coaching through Connected Families. Taylor ultimately became a coach through their training program to help others like her. She has seen a transformation in her home through working with a framework that has changed not only her children’s behavior but their hearts as well. You are not alone on this parenting journey. There is hope, and you can enjoy your children, build that relationship you have wanted, and see behavior change. You can learn more about Taylor at taylorirbycoaching.com and on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/taylor.

Have you thought of leading a small group through one of the Connected Families video courses? This episode will answer your questions.



Small groups help combat parental isolation and create supportive communities for lasting family transformation. Host Stacy Bellward discusses the opportunity to lead Connected Families small groups with guests Pam Thompson (Certified Parent Coach) and Jacquie Danz (Small Group Coordinator). Together they discuss the benefits of small groups and answer frequently asked questions.



Key Points:




* Leading a group is simplified to facilitating discussion and playing videos



* No expertise required – content is provided by Connected Families experts



* Cost savings: Individual course is $140 vs. $55 per household in groups



* Groups provide accountability and deeper learning through community



* Full support provided to leaders through Connected Families resources




Mentioned in this podcast:




* Sensitive & Intense Kids online course



* Union Gospel Mission (Seattle)



* Ministry Partnerships page



* Contact Us



* Pam Thompson coaching info




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Guest Bio:



Pam Thompson is a licensed Family and Early Childhood Educator and a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach. She is a mom of two young adult children and “like a mom” to two young adults who have experienced extensive trauma. Because of her education and experiences, she especially enjoys encouraging and supporting parents of young children, parents of young adult children, parents of kids from hard places, and teachers.



Jacquie Danz is the Marketing & Small Group Coordinator at Connected Families. She first discovered Connected Families over a decade ago and now enjoys being part of the team sharing Connected Families with everyone. In her spare time, she enjoys exploring coffee shops with her husband, reading anything she can get her hands on, and spending time with her lovely teenage daughters.







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Take the course that was made for your family.



Got a child with extra big emotions? We get it. And we want to support and equip you. Raising an intense and sensitive child isn’t easy, but it can be filled with hope.




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Dr. Nicole Wilke is back in this episode to explore another layer of building resilience in kids–affirming character development. Dr. Wilke shares practical wisdom on speaking healing words to our children and fostering resilience through appropriate levels of challenge and support. In addition, Stacy highlights how you can use the ABC’s of Affirmation tool to practice what the Bible and brain science teach us about resilience.



Key Takeaways:




* Creating margin and proper rhythms can help you speak more wisely



* Challenges build resilience when paired with appropriate support



* Focus on one character trait at a time as a family



* Model the character you want to see, including confession when you fall short



* Affirm success and help your children understand the “why” behind character development




Mentioned in this podcast:




* ABC’s of Affirmation PDF download



* Dr. Wilke’s book: Overcoming: What Scripture and Science Say About Resilience



* Ep 201 | Overcoming: How Adversity, Challenges & Childhood Trauma Can Shape Our Children in Positive Ways



* Proverbs 12:18



* James 1:12



* Galatians 6:9



* Galatians 5:22



* 1 Thessalonians 5:18




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Guest Bio:



Nicole Wilke, Ph.D., is a researcher, missionary, author, and marriage and family therapist dedicated to improving care for vulnerable children and families globally. She currently serves as Director of the Christian Alliance for Orphans’ Center on Applied Research for Vulnerable Children and Families, bridging research and practice to improve care for vulnerable children and families around the globe. Her passion for this work stems from her family’s experience with adoption and fostering. Having lived on four continents, Nicole currently resides with her family in Peru, where they work to improve the system for children in alternative care.



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Got questions about marriage? Feeling like, “My marriage is broken”? Join Jim and Lynne Jackson as they candidly answer real questions about marriage from parents like you. They touch on everything from balancing time for one another with parenting to avoiding “parenting” your spouse and navigating your differences. Jim and Lynne share share their journey of learning to drop judgments, connect intentionally, and maintain hope through difficult seasons. Listen in for some laughs, encouragement, and wisdom for doing life together.



Mentioned in this podcast:




* Blog post: How I Avoided a Full-blown Affair



* Blog post: Family Meetings



* The On-Purpose Person by Kevin McCarthy



* Power of Questions online course



* Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart book



* Sensitive & Intense Kids online course



* Romans 15:13




Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!



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Guest bio:



Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002.



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**Content warning: this podcast discusses mental health issues, including suicide.**



Whether you’re dealing with tantrums or teen anxiety, you won’t want to miss this honest, down-to-earth conversation with Josh and Rachel Keller (Connected Families Certified Parent Coaches) as they dive deep into the topic of building resilience in children. As therapists and educators, they share practical wisdom on why kids aren’t naturally resilient and need to learn this essential life skill.







Key takeaways:




* Why the common phrase “kids are resilient” can be misleading



* How to help children process difficult emotions in healthy ways



* Practical strategies for building resilience while maintaining connection



* The spiritual component of developing resilience



* Why protecting kids from all hardship can backfire




Mentioned in this podcast:




* Free PDF – ABC’s of Affirmation



* Galatians 5:19-26




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Guest Bio:



Josh and Rachel are a married duo from Central Minnesota. They believe that teenagers are a wonder to behold, not a problem to be fixed. They have been married for 15 years, with three kids, one dog, a bunny, and a bird. After becoming CF Certified Parent Coaches, they launched The Freedom Center MN, a mental health practice in Willmar, MN.







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You won’t want to miss parent coaches Chad Hayenga and Katie Johnson exploring the meaningful practice of blessing your kids. They unpack what “blessing” meant throughout the Bible and what your heart needs to receive so that you can bless your children. And, of course, they offer plenty of ideas about when and how you can start practicing blessing your kids today.







Mentioned in this podcast:




* Blog post: How to Speak Blessings Over Your Child



* FREE PDF: The ABC’s of Affirmation



* Ephesians 1:3



* Mark 10



* Hebrews 11:20-21



* Psalm 103



* 1 Thessalonians 5:15



* Numbers 6:24-26



* Philippians 2



* Luke 2:52




Check out our website for more resources to support your parenting!



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Guest Bio:



Katie Johnson is a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach living in Madison, WI, with her family. After receiving her M.Ed. from Valparaiso University, she worked for many years in education and is now on the homeschool journey with her three young children. Find out more about Katie and parent coaching here.







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Does your child get discouraged? Does it feel like your child’s misbehavior seems to drown out the positive things you might notice? There is science behind the power of affirmation. You can learn to shine a bright spot on the small things that go well and begin to unravel this cycle of discouragement in your child. And it will bring encouragement to you as a parent, too! In today’s podcast, Lynne Jackson (Co-Founder of Connected Families) shares a powerful and practical tool she created called the ABC’s of Affirmation.







Mentioned in this podcast:




* FREE PDF: Downloadable ABC’s of Affirmation



* I Was a Critical Parent: 7 Steps I Took to Find a More Loving Way



* Is There “Miracle Grow” for Good Behavior? (The ABC’s of Affirmation)



* Learn more about “The Table” community at Connected Families



* Grace and Truth For Moms (online course)



* Connected Families Framework



* How Your Thoughts Change Your Brain, Cells, and Genes



* What Your Brain Needs to Know About Neuroplasticity



* Corrie Thetford, Lydia Rex (Certified Connected Families Parent Coaches)



* Dr. Alan Kazdin



* Philippians 4:8



* Romans 12:2



* 2 Corinthians 10:5



* 1 Thessalonians 4:9



* 1 Thessalonians 5:11




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Guest Bio:



Lynne Jackson is one of the Co-Founders of Connected Families. As a parent coach and mom of three intense kids herself, Lynne has walked alongside hundreds of parents to encourage and bring hope. She is also a research enthusiast and loves leaning into the brain science and research to better equip parents...

In this episode, Connected Families staff discuss the scriptures and spiritual practices that have helped them stay connected to God in the past year. They also share their vision for the coming year and their commitment to providing “bite-sized” encouragement to overwhelmed parents. Listen in for a few simple ideas on staying centered on your Good Shepherd as you lead your family with grace.







Mentioned in this podcast:




* Tell me more about The Table



* Personal Retreat Guide



* Hosea 11:4



* 1 Peter 1:22



* 1 Peter 4:10



* 1 Peter 4:8



* Isaiah 30:21



* Psalm 91



* Silence and Solitude by Ruth Haley Barton




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In this episode on calming for kids, Lynne Jackson (Connected Families Co-Founder) and Lydia Rex (Connected Families Certified Parent Coach) talk with Stacy about what role parents play in helping their kids calm down. This conversation especially has sensitive or intense kids in mind, and the principles shared are paired with practical examples and stories from parents who’ve tested the ideas. Plus, we’ve got a free PDF for you: 50 Calming Activities (with ideas for engaging each of the senses).







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* 50 Calming Activities PDF




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In this podcast we chat with Danika Delello, who shares how desperate she was for help when dealing with her strong-willed child’s frequent, lengthy tantrums. She talks about switching her parenting mindset from an obedience-focused approach to one based on connection and grace through the Connected Families Framework. Danika relates how this shift allowed her to be present in a loving, affectionate way during her child’s difficult meltdowns and gave her insight into her own relation to God. We know you’ll relate to and feel encouraged by this mom’s journey to joy and connection.







Mentioned in this podcast:




* Give the gift of connection to other families through a year-end financial gift to Connected Families



* Discipline That Connects With Your Child’s Heart book



* Consequences That Actually Work – free ebook



* Sensitive & Intense Kids online course



* Ep. 197 | The Flourishing Family: Don’t Settle for Merely Surviving




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Guest Bio:



Danika Delello and her husband Jared live in central Virginia, where she homeschools their three children. They love hiking in the Blue Ridge Mountains, playing board games, and reading copious amounts of books. They always seek to become more like Jesus and be a family that exemplifies him to others.







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If you imagine your most recent parenting fail, do you cringe or just laugh? Do you wallow in shame or regret? Today, we’re talking with Dijea Young about moving beyond regret into hope. She shares experiences as a mom to 8, grandmother, and Certified Connected Families Parent Coach and explains helpful strategies for transforming regrets into opportunities, particularly during the holidays.







Mentioned in this podcast:




* Episode 91 | How Can I Better Parent My Adult Children?



* Episode 119 | Grandparenting Through a New Lens



* Episode 184 | How to Be a Great Grandparent to Your Grandkids and Their Parents



* Episode 205: Holidays Boundaries & Expectations with Family



* Dan Pink: The Power of Regret




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Guest Bio:



Dijea Young is a teacher, mother of eight, and grandma. For over 35 years, she has served children and families in a variety of roles. Now as a Certified Parent Coach, she combines her professional training and personal experience to help parents and grandparents nurture relationships across generations. For more information about Dijea or her services, visit www.Room4HopeCoaching.com or email Room4HopeCoaching@gmail.com







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In today’s episode, Connected Families Co-Founder Jim Jackson interviews Stephen Freeman, a father of five, who shares how Connected Families impacted his parenting approach. Through coaching and practical tools, Stephen learned to see challenging behaviors differently and developed a deeper understanding of both parenting and God as Father.







Mentioned in this podcast:




* Parent Coaching



* Give the gift of connection this Christmas! Give to Connected Families today.




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Guest Bio:



Stephen Freeman has been married to his wife Caroline for 13 years, and they have 3 biological kids and 2 bonus kids spanning from 15 to 1. They live in Jacksonville, Florida, and have been helped by the Connected Families framework for the last 5 years. Stephen is the founder of Kairos Digital, a marketing agency that helps good organizations do great things, and is a deacon and teacher at Awaken Church.







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If you’re not satisfied with what your parenting looks like today, maybe becoming a better mom or dad is more about reframing what you already do than finding new tips and tricks that “work” with your kids. In this episode, Connected Families Co-founders Jim and Lynne Jackson discuss the powerful practice of transforming discouraging mental “tapes” into grace-filled, constructive thoughts aligned with biblical truth. The Jacksons share practical examples of common negative thoughts like “This is just too much!” or “I shouldn’t have to deal with this!” and offer redemptive reframes that lead to greater connection with your kids and make room for God’s transforming work in your family.







Mentioned in this podcast:




* The Blessing by John Trent, Gary Smalley, and Kari Trent Stageberg



* John 10:10



* 2 Corinthians 10:5



* Romans 15:13



* Isaiah 62:2



* Ephesians 1 & 2




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Guest bio:



Jim and Lynne Jackson are the Co-Founders of Connected Families in Plymouth, MN. With over 50 combined years of professionally helping families and a love for working in the church, Jim and Lynne have been dedicated to bringing reliable, God-centered, research-based parenting resources to all families since 2002.







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Wondering how you can set holiday boundaries and expectations for family gatherings? Are you looking forward to celebrating Christmas with family but dreading unsolicited advice from well-meaning relatives? You are not alone. Changes in your daily routines, travel, lack of sleep, and large gatherings set the stage for parenting challenges. Sometimes, other adults in your family may scrutinize these difficult situations. This may lead to comments or questions that don’t feel supportive.







On today’s podcast, Chad Hayenga (Director of Education & Equipping) and Jenna Williams (Connected Families Certified Parent Coach) join Stacy Bellward (podcast host) for a conversation about navigating the holidays with relatives. They specifically address how you can respond when grandparents or other family members criticize you (or your children). Role-playing possible scenarios, Jenna and Chad bring humor and practical wisdom to you just in time for holiday gatherings.



In this podcast, you’ll discover:




* proactive strategies to intentionally prepare your family for upcoming gatherings, including evaluating your own expectations, having conversations with your children, and even having conversations with grandparents about their expectations



* roleplays to help you navigate criticism, unhelpful comments, or harsh discipline by grandparents or other relatives



* that you can model humility and the value of connection to your parents and kids during holiday gatherings and difficult situations




We hope you have been encouraged by today’s podcast, and we look forward to getting to know you. Please check out our website, and don’t forget to reach out if you need help. It is a joy to walk with you as you parent your kids in God’s grace and truth!



Mentioned in this podcast:




* Connected Christmas Bundle with your gift of $35



* Discipline That Connects in the Classroom Live Webinar – Register Today



* Connected Families Parent Coaching



* Connected Families Certified Parent Coach Program



* Connected Families Framework



* Unsolicited Advice? 4 Ways to Respond (Connected Families FREE PDF)




Guest Bio:



Jenna Williams and her husband, Sam, have been married for ten years. They live in Colorado Springs, CO, and have three amazing children ages 3-7. Jenna is a registered nurse by trade and works in a postpartum unit. She is also a Connected Families Certified Parent Coach and loves caring for and supporting families! Connected Families has been a true blessing for her and her family, and she is excited to share that blessing with others. You can find her on Instagram @jennawilliams0411.







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Today we chat with Leah Sutterlin, an adoptee, adoptive mom, and adoption advocate, about being an adoptee. Leah shares how early separation affected her later relationships and attachment style and discusses the identity struggles she experienced growing up. She also explains how her parents’ supportive approach allowed her to openly process grief and embrace her adoption story. Listen in to gain insight to support adoptees in your life!







Mentioned in this podcast:




* An Adoptee’s Perspective: What’s It’s Like to Be Adopted & How to Help



* Connected Christmas Bundle – New Resource available with your gift of $35 to Connected Families




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Leah Sutterlin has worked for several organizations in the adoption and foster care space, including the National Council For Adoption and the Christian Alliance for Orphans (CAFO). She is an adult adoptee currently residing in Sunnyvale, California, who tries to raise awareness about the value adoption can bring to families.







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